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| Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by SylviaCozy(f): 5:13pm On Aug 14, 2007 |
help i think i have a problem. my friends tell me i'm leading my self to a ditch. i'm 21 without a boyfriend. most single guys i meet want to sleep with me immediately they meet me and the others are always married. i'm truly against (real) sex before marriage and b'cos of that i've decided to abstain, the truth is that i'm still a virgin. i'm really confused. is there hope for virgins in the marital world? i really want to get married a virgin.  |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by Yemming(m): 5:37pm On Aug 14, 2007 |
HI BABY, NICE POST AND I FULLY SUPPORT YOU. I BELIEVE YOU HAVE A PLACE IN THIS WORLD IF YOU CAN JUST STICK TO YOUR WORD AND BE YOURSELF. OK MY NAME IS YEMMY, AM SINGLE NEVER MARRIED, UNDERGRADUATE AT THE UNIVERSITY OF LAGOS AND I WOULD LOVE TO MEET YOU. YOU CAN REACH ME ON MY DIRECT LINE 08038606604 OR 08027963094 OR BETTER STILL YOU CAN SEND ME AN EMAIL ON SWEETNUBIALOVE@YAHOO.COM AND PLEASE INCLUDE TO YOUR PHONE NUMBER WOULD LOVE TO MEET YOU PERSONAL, THANKS FOR THE POST YEMMY  |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by iice(f): 6:39pm On Aug 14, 2007 |
Stick to your gunz! No be by force o! |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by azpunpin: 7:25pm On Aug 14, 2007 |
@Yemming Nice suggestion, Sharp Man, U run drop ur contact,Nah good move ooo,Shey u no 4get ur angel sha, LOL.just kidding @iice You can exchange ur contact with Yemmy, Coool guy but, |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by sammy6(m): 7:30pm On Aug 14, 2007 |
There's still plenty of time for you to find the right guy |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by iice(f): 7:35pm On Aug 14, 2007 |
azpunpin:  Like whatever gave you that idea? *rolls eyes* |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by Janeesa: 4:11am On Aug 15, 2007 |
stick to your morals and beliefs! your young--u got time.I'm a virgin too and I will stay that way until I get married, besides if u dont have sex now think of it as a favor to yourself b/c AIDS/HIV,STDS are real and they are goin around, |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by olanajim(m): 6:20am On Aug 15, 2007 |
Why not? Real men appreciate virgins. But I would contribute to this by my new Theory. You may call them Olanajim virgins' hypothesis. LAW 1 : "A virgin who want to wait till marriage before sex must realize that she would not find peace among men (and women) whose goals are lust and lewdness. Therefore, it is strongly recommended for a strong believer in 'virgin creeds' to find others (who share similar ideology) and flow with them. Anything else, is hypocrisis, a gradual journey to the other side" LAW 2: " if you are sincerely relishing joy of marriage as a virgin, then stay away from people, places, materials including books, whose content and intent is about sex. You shoukd know that side effect of your resolution isn't as grave as people might make it appear." LAW 3: " don't expect virgin MALES to announce their virginity by words. They do it through their actions. LAW 4: " virgins must realize they are endangered species whose creed is being overtaken by the hypocrites. The real virgin must therefore take note that s/he cannot sustain his/her virginity by going into intimate affair that warrant excessive contact with another wo/man. Allowing few touches harmless as it may, leads eventually to the other side. Most virgins (including this writer) lost their virginity in that circumstance." LAW 5 : " virginity does not necessariy implies high moral standard. Some virgins are in fact a time bomb waiting to explode. After all, every prostitute on the street was once a virgin" finally, sex alone present or absent isn't determinant for measuring compatiblity and workability of a relationship. While I comment virgins male and females, I must warn them to be wary of the hypocrites, and other dangers associatf with choosing a puritanical. Let God guide you. |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by olanajim(m): 6:21am On Aug 15, 2007 |
Why not? Real men appreciate virgins. But I would contribute to this by my new Theory. You may call them Olanajim virgins' hypothesis. LAW 1 : "A virgin who want to wait till marriage before sex must realize that she would not find peace among men (and women) whose goals are lust and lewdness. Therefore, it is strongly recommended for a strong believer in 'virgin creeds' to find others (who share similar ideology) and flow with them. Anything else, is hypocrisis, a gradual journey to the other side" LAW 2: " if you are sincerely relishing joy of marriage as a virgin, then stay away from people, places, materials including books, whose content and intent is about sex. You shoukd know that side effect of your resolution isn't as grave as people might make it appear." LAW 3: " don't expect virgin MALES to announce their virginity by words. They do it through their actions. LAW 4: " virgins must realize they are endangered species whose creed is being overtaken by the hypocrites. The real virgin must therefore take note that s/he cannot sustain his/her virginity by going into intimate affair that warrant excessive contact with another wo/man. Allowing few touches harmless as it may, leads eventually to the other side. Most virgins (including this writer) lost their virginity in that circumstance." LAW 5 : " virginity does not necessariy implies high moral standard. Some virgins are in fact a time bomb waiting to explode. After all, every prostitute on the street was once a virgin" finally, sex alone present or absent isn't determinant for measuring compatiblity and workability of a relationship. While I comment virgins male and females, I must warn them to be wary of the hypocrites, and other dangers associatf with choosing a puritanical. Let God guide you. |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by olanajim(m): 6:22am On Aug 15, 2007 |
Why not? Real men appreciate virgins. But I would contribute to this by my new Theory. You may call them Olanajim virgins' hypothesis. LAW 1 : "A virgin who want to wait till marriage before sex must realize that she would not find peace among men (and women) whose goals are lust and lewdness. Therefore, it is strongly recommended for a strong believer in 'virgin creeds' to find others (who share similar ideology) and flow with them. Anything else, is hypocrisis, a gradual journey to the other side" LAW 2: " if you are sincerely relishing joy of marriage as a virgin, then stay away from people, places, materials including books, whose content and intent is about sex. You shoukd know that side effect of your resolution isn't as grave as people might make it appear." LAW 3: " don't expect virgin MALES to announce their virginity by words. They do it through their actions. LAW 4: " virgins must realize they are endangered species whose creed is being overtaken by the hypocrites. The real virgin must therefore take note that s/he cannot sustain his/her virginity by going into intimate affair that warrant excessive contact with another wo/man. Allowing few touches harmless as it may, leads eventually to the other side. Most virgins (including this writer) lost their virginity in that circumstance." LAW 5 : " virginity does not necessariy implies high moral standard. Some virgins are in fact a time bomb waiting to explode. After all, every prostitute on the street was once a virgin" finally, sex alone present or absent isn't determinant for measuring compatiblity and workability of a relationship. While I comment virgins male and females, I must warn them to be wary of the hypocrites, and other dangers associatf with choosing a puritanical. Let God guide you. |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by bullet05: 9:46am On Aug 15, 2007 |
first l would say are u a true christian who strongly believes in the word of God, you`ll survive and big too.cause l am a virgin too and am 27 this year, am happy with myself and l believe in God too that my staying a virgin till my wedding nite will never be in vain, stick to it truthfully and God too and he will give u a man that will appreciate you above all things, but let me just tell you that your man might not be a virgin, he might not be faithful to u but just keep it at the back of ur mind that you`re faithful to God and not man, and when u do that God will take care of everything else. |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by sparta(f): 10:06am On Aug 15, 2007 |
hi princess Am a v too and am 26. I have been going thru d same thing with men. They only want your body. u see many of them bolt as soon as they find out u r a v and want to stay so till mariage. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Just hold on as u r a princess and you wil find your own prince soon and bliv me, he will adore you for it. Stay cool  |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by SylviaCozy(f): 10:46am On Aug 15, 2007 |
Gee thanks. I feel a bit better. |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by SylviaCozy(f): 10:50am On Aug 15, 2007 |
I'm glad I joined this family. I'm just a week old here. |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by yimiton(f): 12:29pm On Aug 15, 2007 |
At 21, you're still pretty young. Don't let anyone deceive you or take from you what you got. Stay that way and have a decent relationship when you find the right person. When you finish school and he proposes, say yes and get married as early as 24, otherwise, you might start having double minds. |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by damkollins(m): 12:50pm On Aug 15, 2007 |
SylviaCozy:Please do keep it up and don't be deceived you have a problem,It's a virtue!It's easier to do without sex when you are still a virgin but almost impossible to do without sex when you are not. |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by degubi(m): 1:09pm On Aug 15, 2007 |
my dear u do not need help at all, all u need is reassurance that the path u have followed is the right one. do not think that because we live in a sex deluded world that everybody u meet male or female is into sex and must be enjoying it, there are still people who hold onto morals, principles and values. if those u meet want sex from u kindly walk away from them, the men in this world have not finished, keep searching for the right one. do not delude urself that if u give in he will stay with u,this is a fat lie. u are 21, marriage is not something u rush into, u have to be ready. take the time now and mould ur life into the woman u ought to be. when u are married if u desire to have sex 365 days of the year u have that opportuinity. be assured that there is nothing wrong in being a virgin, be true to urself. |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by Bolarge(m): 2:04pm On Aug 15, 2007 |
@degubi God bless you tremendously for this post. All of a sudden I don't feel so alone in my convictions. @SylviaCozy My dear I'm proud of you. Take what degubi said with all seriousness. degubi: The major weapon of satan in this perverted world is making everyone believe that all hope is lost; that there are no virgins in the world anymore n' hence conjure a false sense of security in numbers; but dearie, it's all a ruse. It's demonic propaganda to make the elect of God who have chosen the path of purity to feel awkward, out of place, missing out. It's what the Bible aptly describes as "doctrines of devils." They give you the impression that those in sin are having the greatest time possible. Nothing cld be farther from the truth. I've been in the medical practice long enough to debunk this horrid load of crappy ideologies. Nothing is as edifying, refreshing, noble, rejuvenating, and beneficial to one's self esteem and destiny as knowing God and towing His laid down path of purity, chastity and self-denial. It's aptly described as the strait and narrow way that leads to eternal life. Please continue to shun the broad and easy way of fornication and sexual licentiousness that leads to destruction and that the teeming majority are following. There is nothing the devil is offering you now that God has not already prepared for you. The devil only wants you to have it prematurely so you can give him an in-road into your life to steal, kill and destroy all God pre-planned for you. Never forget this: God always has 7000 others who will not worship the Baal of sin. You are not alone as you may be tempted to think oftentimes. 1Ki 19:18 Yet I have left seven thousand in Israel, all the knees which have not bowed to Baal, and every mouth which has not kissed him. Mat 7:13 Go in through the narrow gate, for wide is the gate and broad is the way that leads to destruction, and many there are who go in through it. Mat 7:14 Because narrow is the gate and constricted is the way which leads to life, and there are few who find it. degubi:Abi oh! My brother. |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by SylviaCozy(f): 1:32pm On Aug 16, 2007 |
@ all who repliedMen thanks I'm really grateful to you all. Guess I'll keep my treasure and stick to the truth. THANKS @Bolarge and degubi Thanks. There is wisdom in your words |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by debeo: 1:43pm On Aug 16, 2007 |
We are in te same shoe here just that am a man u re a woman, any way just to let u no u r not alone, stick 2 ur virginity u ill never regret, i promise u that. |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by Muanya(f): 4:25pm On Aug 16, 2007 |
if u are a virgin female or male, u r the correct person, no matter how the public look at it cos majority of the people dont have theirs as in not married. is the best thing dat happened to me, my best frind jus`t got married and her husband treats her like an egg, he just couldnt belive it dat she is one, so those dat ve urs keep it as the magic gift 4 the lucky guy. keep it real y'all |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by Bolarge(m): 4:32pm On Aug 16, 2007 |
@Muanya Thanks for that post dearie. Pple like you need to come out more vocally n' stop receding into your shells anytime the perverts resort to unwarranted insults n' provocations as is typical of them. debeo: @debeo Thanks for that post my guy. Pls remember to always tell our young ones there's never regret doing things God's pre-ordained way. |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by CrazyMan(m): 6:11pm On Aug 16, 2007 |
HI BABY, NICE POST AND I FULLY SUPPORT YOU. I BELIEVE YOU HAVE A PLACE IN THIS WORLD IF YOU CAN JUST STICK TO YOUR WORD AND BE YOURSELF. OK MY NAME IS YEMMY, AM SINGLE NEVER MARRIED, UNDERGRADUATE AT THE UNIVERSITY OF LAGOS AND I WOULD LOVE TO MEET YOU. YOU CAN REACH ME ON MY DIRECT LINE 08038606604 OR 08027963094 OR BETTER STILL YOU CAN SEND ME AN EMAIL ON SWEETNUBIALOVE@YAHOO.COM AND PLEASE INCLUDE TO YOUR PHONE NUMBER WOULD LOVE TO MEET YOU PERSONAL, THANKS FOR THE POST YEMMYWhat's all that crap you put there? The poor girl is asking advice on how to maintain her virginity and all you do is to take advantage of her? @topic There’s nothing wrong in being a virgin. If all the guys that come across you have nothing good to say to you apart from sex, then let go. You’re only 21 so its better you concentrate on your studies and stop bothering yourself on this boyfriend issue, because there’s nothing but sorrow and pain in the end. When your time comes, the right guy would walk in so cheer up ok? |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by Bolarge(m): 9:44am On Aug 17, 2007 |
crazykid:@crazykid You r d man.  Your words are depictive of sterling intellect. |
| Re: Is There Hope For Virgins In The Marital World? by bstreet(f): 10:25am On Aug 17, 2007 |
I am a virgin too and i rock well.it all a matter of what u have in ur heart to do and not to do.Everyone is a sinner one way or the other.So baby girl, go out and run the guy down. |
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