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Generica:
Your protest is quite unclear please can you make yourseif clearer?

I was asking why you said it would have only been morally justified to be with him if i was engaged

Generica:
Nikky, oh dear Nikky!How come you allowed mere mortals to pull you away from God? Where you engaged to him? Because that's the only way to morally justify your being with him at the first instance.

At the point of being engaged and why would that only be the justification? I feel guilty I am not as close as I used to be but i want to have that feel, that God is seeing everything, that i got hurt and will be there for me.

~Sissy~:
better to have loved and lost. 'cause you learn from it at least for some.

is that so? maybe it is better not to have loved o.

Diva1:
That's right. There is pain in lost love but it would be worse if you don't learn from it.

real acute pain

oyinda.:
Take your bible, put your two thumbs between the covers, close your eyes and open a random page. read the chapter you first come across for the day. do this frequently

that's how I read my bible when I have no motivation. lol

Lol, thanks for another suggestion.

Generica:
Sorry please accept my sympathy, but how did it happen? You know we are just trying to be of great help.

He cheated, has not been treating me right, lying to me and broke up with me.

Why are armpits even so dark in the first place and solutions to lighten it. Suggestions pls

Generica:
What really broke your heart?

Boyfriend

I know some people are against pre marital sex so what can you do even after reading the Bible and still Hot, do you resort to masturbation or what even after praying and d feeling is still there?

Diva1, yes i have had a couple of incidents and i had my heart broken too, since then the drive declined.

tenry:
@poster,you are very stupid and shameless,if someone carefully trace your upbringing,your mum must have done same b/4 now.the consequence of this will surely be unbearable for you,be ready to pay for your negative actions in your next relationship.bastard!

Are u talking to me? Who the f$%@ is this Moderators step in here before i say or do something to this THING. How dare you mention my mother?? for what?? Never ever in your pathetic life mention my mother again. Are u mad or something, mental? What was wrong with my post? Lifeless thing

I am a prouud christian and i know we all believe in one God but the ways are different. Let us take christians and Islams, we christians believe in Jesus Christ as the son of God and the Bible says we can get to heaven through him, Islams, do not but they believe in God. I am a christian because I was born one and i believe the Bible but so are the Islams. So how do we really know, sometimes i used to think what if Islam is actually the right one since we have not heard from God directly ourselves?

Thanks all, I have devotionals, just maybe here's something causing the lack of drive but i will try and force myself. I used to read it so much and believe but of recent, the drive is down.

he likes my boobies

i like his buttocks

smooooooth:
nothing wrong, just tha at the end, u get picked.

I dont really understand your context here

@Obnoxious, but some men too are just the same. Did u get your heart broken?

Diva1:
I think it's possible in my opinion to love someone you can't trust but does not mean you would be or it's good to be in such relationship because it would be difficult to scale through and may not work out.

Sasha009:
yes you can love someone you don't trust

You know love is a very delicate thing! You cannot choose whom you fall in love with. A lot of people are hopelessly in love with people who they do not trust fully but they cant help themselves. They are always in denial, they will make excuses for them, they will forgive them, they will keep believing they will change, and deep down they will wish they can trust them more, and they will keep trying. This is love.

So yes, its very possible my friend!

luxoire:
you can love someone you don't trust - but you cant have a succesdsful relationship / union with them

be it family or bf / gf

very well agreed

C2H5OH:
protrudin belle nko

he he

umm i guess some things

I dont think it's easy, I have not been able to forget mine even till this minute

@poster, beautiful pic

In my own opinion, i guess not over being picky??

Because there are a lot of females and beautiful ones for that matter and knowing at a certain stage, women begin to get desperate to be hooked? so you guys know that it is always easy to find women who would do anything to be attractive while unlike we women, guys are very scarce.
Just my personal thought. Could this be why?

Thank you all, I will heed to your advice. Thanks.

@ebila, i have boyfriend(s), admirers and everything, that isnt the reason why i love being indoors.

Thank you all for your opinions and advice, I'll keep being me as long as nothing is done in excess.

I agree knowing when to draw the line is necessary.

is anything wrong in being picky with who you date?

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-280112.0.html by diva

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-282021.0.html by doyn1

I thought i have read this b4. let me check some1 has written this because i hav d handout.

I read my Bible but most times, i don't because of lack of motivation. At times, i dont even know what to read and sometimes what i read is just for reading sake and some with faith. I believe in the Bible but there is a lack of drive. What can i do?

Thanks hun and you all.

i know that truthfully i spend time alone so so much than im out with people but like i said it is personal choice and yes maybe there is a hidden reason, hurt or something, but i believe one life to live, do what makes you "you" and happy, my mum and brothers should stop making me feel uncomfortable or worse when they dont even kno my reasons.

i am the very hot type when i'm now into the relationship. it just happens naturally.