₦airaland Forum

ZIMDRILL:
Every woman wants her own kitchen, decoration etc

Every woman wants a house that accomodates relatives including her own

Every woman wants to built what is hers and the children not what drags family relatives


Living with in mother and father in law's house makes it difficult for woman to do that

In simple terms your growth and freedom is limited, when living under someone's roof. Have your own roof where you direct and call shoots

So how about a situation where the house has a separate one or two bedroom BQ with its own kitchen and everything where they don't have to share anything with the parents in the main family house. Is that also bad

Nice2023:
Then allow ur sister to marry into such a family. U will know why most ladies avoid such place.

Name the ladies u know and give us their contacts u think it's by lying.

I have no time to argue with a shallow mind. You can hold on to your believe, I never said you must believe whatever I say.

Nice2023:
No woman should ever stay in such a home.

It wouldn't be long before ur mother in law will tag u a witch,there must always be friction between them.

But in all,I don't wish any woman such a trap as home.

That's very wrong. I know many people married and staying in parents home with their wives and there is nothing like that tagging witch thing. I guess you just watch too much Nollywood movies. As a matter of fact most of the ladies I know are taken as eggs by their inlaws in the home.

These days we see a lot of people saying at a certain age they are suppose to move out of their parents house. We even see were people attack others for still staying with their parents and thinking of marriage.

If your parents have a big and comfortable home were you stay and then you have a good job or flowing business in that same city or town, what is wrong to remain in your parents home and get married there especially when they are very happy for you to always be around them with your own family.

correctyourself:
I will ask her to stop, i don't like heating somebody and it's better to talk with your mouth, she could cause her ear problems by slapping her, hence she must stop.

Hitting not heating

JASONjnr:
There's nothing like being JUST FRIENDS with a girl you knacked all round and shifted her pants everywhere you had privacies.

Some of you guys don't have discipline.

Always stay away from your exes. And let them move on. If I eventually settle with a girl and discover that she's still communicating with her ex.... Then I will end it. Or have her invite the dude to our wedding.

You can say it's insecurity, but I will ask you to trust your woman to that extent of giving her the freedom to mingle with her ex because they're better as friends than lovers!

Is it a must you sleep with a girl when dating her. What if you both never had sex while dating.

Wainey:
Why should I even go to the wedding?

What is wrong with going if you and your ex are not in bad terms. In some cases relationship may not work for two people because they are better off as just friends. Being an ex doesn't mean you both fell out in a very terrible way.

If your ex invites you to their wedding, what would be the perfect gift you will give to them as a wedding gift?

EreluRoz:
It's a very risky thing to do, it doesn't make any sense to visit someone you met online kos if anything happens to you, you'll be blamed. It's risky out there.

But op why are you inviting people's daughters to sleep with when you've not paid their bride price?

I'm a strong believer of sex before marriage and not the other way around. One needs to properly know who they will be getting married to in and out not based on assumption.

I really don't know where to classify ladies that do this. Could it be love, lust, carelessness or stupidity.

Sometime ago I met a girl on Facebook while she was in her final year in one private university in the South. After weeks of chatting and calls to know each other I invited her to Abuja and she actually came over. Then I was sharing a two bedroom house with a close friend so it's just both of us in the compound. When she came and spent almost two weeks with me I started thinking about it how bold this girl was. What if we were yahoo guys or ritualist (just saying).

These days we keep seeing lots of stories about girls being killed or something and parts being removed but I still don't understand why these girls still keep taking such risk of going to see a guy in a far place when they hardly know the person.

What is your take in this situation.

Dexy4yah:
Yes na

Wearing engagement ring for 6 years...is toomuch na shuuuu

I understand, the lord of the rings statement just cracked my head

Dexy4yah:
She's now lord of the ring

Let her throw away that ring and move on with her life....6years haba.

Lord of the rings?

PoliteActivist:
*Politeness*
OP, are you the "guy"?
Personally I'd have moved on with my life long ago. If we meet again and are both still single, we see what happens. But ME wait around for him? No sir!

No I'm not the guy.

A guy got an opportunity to travel oversea and decided to engage his long time girlfriend before traveling with a promise to return back at most after a year or two for them to get married.
Unfortunately for the guy things didn't work as planned and it's now six years the guy hasn't returned but keeps assuring the girl that he will come back to marry her once he finally gets his proper papers so that they can relocate together.
The issue is that it is uncertain how much longer it will take for the guy to get his papers and when he will return back for the marriage.

Ladies if you were in this situation would you wait patiently or just move on with your life?

Bmaster:
better stop the lie this new year oo

What is the lie?
Do you have a problem with reading, comprehending and just answering a simple question?

So as a young bachelor that just moved into a new apartment, a next door neighbor who happens to be a single female brought this bowl of afang soup as a show of warm welcome.

Would you accept it?

ATEAMS:
Which state are you currently in ?

Lagos

Please does anyone have contact of any money exchanger that buys Somalia shillings. A friend of mine who came into the country with Somalia shillings cash has been finding it very difficult to exchange it as most exchangers say they don't need it as it will be hard for them to resell. I will appreciate any help. Just send me a DM

A friend of mine came back to the country with about 10 million Somalia shillings in cash. One note is 50,000 somalia shillings which makes 5 million per bundle.
The problem is that he has been having difficulty finding exchangers that buy it because they say it's hard for them to resell as no one really goes to the country like that.
Please I know there must still be some exchangers somewhere that can buy it only that we probably haven't been able to meet the right exchanger.

If you have any contact or location please I will appreciate if you can connect us. Thank you

PlayMaker14:
Yeah, the Hausa man used his personal money to build it.


Akuya, you opened this account two days ago just to be a f00lish bigot.

Coming from a well known tribe of hate I didn't expect anything less from such reply. It will be well with Nigeria.

A bridge built by an hausa man that the same ibo people hate alot

The same bridge that want to scatter in order to create Biafra.

I don't understand.

If you can get accommodation in Sun City Estate around Galadimawa you will enjoy your stay in Abuja. It's well secured, has everything around and has almost constant light.
I guess you will enjoy your stay in Abuja because it's a very cool place to stay if you are cool headed.