emperorsversion:
My story continues, truth is completely eliminating masturbation doesn't come easy at all... your mind still goes there, you have those imageries in your mind and you still wish to play with your self... It takes determination to let go of it, but one of the major way to deal with masturbation is AVOID BEING IDLE, this is exactly what breeds the thought of trying it out...(just a little won't cause harm, you may say).. you compensate yourself with fake stories like it doesn't being STDs and doesn't lead to unwanted pregnancy but the truth is the long term effect of it can kill you and make you useless psychologically and health wise... truth is you can't masturbate moderately.. it's a real deal to stop it, but you first need to avoid being alone...

just as the law of thermodynamics states Energy can neither be created nor destroyed... habits cant be destroyed, instead they can be transferred, I had to come off with another new habit of gaming and public outing to let this dilemma go.... All I ensure was to make sure this new habit lasted for 3 weeks and zoom I had no interest in masturbation again.. This time I had to stay all clear of porn too... (if ain't tasting the soup, stay clear from the sweet aroma)

Now my game since then has improved, I'm not married tho but I have a serious fiancee and I feel much better, I feel more content added to me, more concentration and more results... The truth is abuse is always an issue... whether masturbation or usual sex but trust me masturbation isn't an option... it makes you socially akward, kills your manliness, concentration level drops... while I insist addiction to anything is worse, masturbation causes more harm... please be safe

It is always a good thing to stop a habit you don't like. Congrats if you will not do that again.

Can it pass through the eyes?

emperorsversion:
There is a popular saying that it takes 3 weeks to form a habit when you repeatedly keep doing something... Trust me for masturbation a week and you already in it... I started doing it frequently, I don't sleep at night.. I download porn clips and service myself all night.. it became a real addiction that I couldn't stay a night without engaging myself, something I do 5 times daily... This lasted all through my service years also when I passed out from service...

Now I've passed out from service, I am now open to the real world and I'm to return back to my sweet home in Benin City, Edo state... I've got babes I left waiting for me... Funny thing was I couldn't still stop it... Infact I had started preferring masturbation than the actual sex. My first sex after service was unlike me, I struggled to have an erection, couldn't last more than one round , I was having lasting pains all through out my body..

I was now having problems Concentrating, loss of weight, I became very light, my sperm was watery, had breathing problems, stubborn headache, i was generally now weak... Guys masturbation drains you comoletely... Completely... Do not be deceived when you hear people say masturbation makes you good... Haven't you heard about the popular saying by a boxer that sex weakens the leg, masturbation weakens more and drains all hour energy and stamina.... Me that use to last rounds before abs maiñtain erection even after sex for rounds was struggling in the first 2 minutes no to cum...

My life was really messed, still I couldn't stop...

This also affected my relationship with girls, There are two things masturbation does to guys;

1. Makes you see all girls as sex objects, you just can't think of anything but sex... "Wow she got a good ass, I shouldn't masturbate over that, she reminds me of my favourite porn stars"

2. It makes you have low self esteem with women, you are now at the mercy of sex alone and so you act and behave foolishly because of sex... It ruins everything

I had gone through all of these for years...

Came out for deliverance, pastors laid hands on me, stopped watching porn but a week time I go back, seen the devasted side effects of it, that it can affect ones fertility.. I get touched when reading this, vow never to return, still I did

How did I overcome



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Jashub:
[My good man. It seems you do not even know levity of what you are saying. You call yourself a christian yet you support masturbation. Now , before you go any further, please read your previous post and see how you chose masturbation as an alternative to fornication. Yes. You indirectly said so. Secondly, The Op has not even finished his narrative yet you drew myopic conclusions on his activities which shows you have judged by your own standards. Yes...you have judged because you are not sure whether he is still masturbating or fornicating(because he is yet to finish his tale) . And for the record, this is not about comprehension on my part ; it is about you. You have have talked without knowing the end of the matter; you have judged without even even knowing how he overcame.

Read the bolded and explain what he means there.

If you like crucify me. I still maintain that moderate masturbation is safer than fornication or other forms of sexual acts.

Everyone is prone to sexual act. Most people preach against sexual sins and yet fall to it. I don't blame them. It is nature. It is better to ease themselves through masturbation than exposing themselves to hiv, std, abortion, rape. I don't understand your point.

lahizak:

And what is wrong in all wat he said? Mastubation is a sin but it is way better than fornication or pre marital sex. And most often than not, mastubation is a phase that will stop at one point or the other. And as an adult i will always encourage people to mastubate than to expose themselves to many partners.

Well done bro.

Jashub:
Hypocrisy and lies will not kill you(say amen). Why did you not tell her in detail your words. Okay let me do you the favor. Here are your words : Everything is bad when done in excess. Masturbation done moderately is better than fornication, adultery, rape and constant Lustful thoughts. If you want to condemn sin, condemn all sins. Don't speak against Masturbation while promoting fornication. Both you and the pastors casting away the spirit of Masturbation while leaving the spirit of fornication are all mad..

From the above quote it is obvious you support masturbation. So who is deceiving who? We are all sinners, but at least let us tell ourselves the truth at every point in time and stop misleading others.

Guy you are giving me head ache o.
Okay, let me assume that it is comprehension problem. I would make it very simple for everyone to understand.

The OP said he started masturbation because he was avoiding HIV. But now, he is addicted to it. He wants to stop because he is finding it difficult to last in sex (fornication) or maintain his sexual exploration with women.

So, I told him that if he can moderate his masturbation, it would be better than entering back to fornication.

Why? Because, masturbation is safer when it comes to contracting STDs and other problems associated with fornication.

I told him to stop Masturbation and all other sins if he wants to live a holy life. I am against stopping masturbation and replacing it with fornication.

I am not claiming to be holy or claiming that my advice must be taken. I repeat, when it comes to safe sex, masturbation is better.

When it comes to whether masturbation is a sin or not, it is complicated. All I know is that to live a holy life, one has to avoid masturbation and all sins.

I don't know if you understand me now.

raymis:


Don't mind those two idiots.

I tire o. One was asking me if masturbation was a sin or not even after telling him that one has to quit masturbation and all sins in order to be holy.

Jashub:
[/b] Oga take the correction and stop trying justifying yourself. Peace.

You told me to Repent as a sinner. That means you are holy. God knows that you are unholy. Peace.

Jashub:
The bible condemns us from returning to what we have just left. So you who claims to have left the shackles of masturbation, now encourages someone else to uphold it, all in the name of "big sin and small sin", is not only ungodly but smells of shear hypocrisy. Better repent before something worse befalls you

Holy man. I call you holy because you sound like our pastors that shout repent, repent but yet God knows they are still sinners. I admit I am a sinner. But you can go and deceive others not me that you are not a sinner.

Now I see that teaching and compression are 2 different things

Jashub:
You do not know me, yet you are vomiting trash. Brother, repent before you find yourself in the place worse than masturbation

Go and think deep in your mind and be ashamed of your sins. You can't tell me that you are without a sin or have not masturbated before. I have masturbated and fornicated before and I am not claiming to be holier than you. I am done with you.

Rabbitcartel:


The same symptoms found on ur father's corpse abi?? No wonder u dey fear woman, now it's beginning to add up.. small boy

I won't return your insults. I leave them to God.
However, I am happily married and with a girl child. I think I am done with you.

Rabbitcartel:


So u say any unmarried guy that doesn't masturbate is a rapist?? Now I understand I dey follow lost cause argue..

Go and show a more reasonable person my comments, he/she would explain to you what I mean.

Jashub:
Oga I can see you are one of those people loves to twist biblical righteousness just to suit a certain social acceptance. May God help you.

People like you masturbate and do all manner of sins while claiming to be born again.

Rabbitcartel:

Lolol, is there any need?? D guy pick masturbation over sex.. only Gays go see Pussy talk say na dem hand go relieve them.. obviously theres no need... Op ride on..

Continue with your whatever sexual act you like. The truth is that masturbation is safer than any other sexual act. The OP chose it instead of fornication because he don't want to come back from NYSC with HIV. That worked for him.

You that is a real man can keep deceiving yourself. When you develop white tongue and rashes with palpitations you can open your own tread in Nairaland to ask us the name of the disease you are suffering from.

Jashub:
Let us forget about the OP and focus on your statement. Now answer the question : is Masturbation a sin or not?

To be holy, you should quit masturbation and all sins. When you go for lab test and doctor tells you to go get your semen, tell him that it is a sin.

Jashub:
Please tell us where you are : is masturbation a sin or not a sin? This is a yes or no answer.

The OP is not trying to stop Masturbation because it was a sin or not. He want to go back to his fornication. So I adviced him to continue with masturbation in a moderate way instead of going back to fornication. But if he actually wants to be holy, he should quit both masturbation and all sins. QED.

Rabbitcartel:
If u bliv masturbation is a lesser sin than fornication or even rape, I wonder what u claim to be ur religion

Ok stop Masturbation. Begin to rape and fornicate. I think you are OK with this.

Jashub:
Sir masturbation is sin (even though it is not written in the scriptures). And to substitute one sin for another is ungodly

I am not saying that it is not a sin or that it is a sin. What I mean is that if you want to stop Masturbation, also stop fornication and all sins. If you want to be holy, avoid all sins. Not battling to replace masturbation with fornication. I don't know why people find it difficult to understand my simple explanations.

Rabbitcartel:


Are u impotent ni?? Almost all sexually matured men struggle with maaturbation at one point in our lives, u have to be a woman or a man without a functioning joystick to make such a statement as u did.. I struggled with maaturbation for almost 4 years as well, it was a nairalander's experience that saved me n helped me regain my confidence as well,, u better keep quiet n let op save someone elses life.. Theres nothing good about maaturbation, forget science ideology, it's very easy to become an addict n its the worse to quit,

Even having sex for more than 2 rounds is not good to the body. The Op just have to be moderate in the act. I can not advice anyone to fornicate. Masturbate instead of fornication. Unless you are not afraid of the possible consequences. If you want to be religious then stop all sins and not condemn Masturbation while allowing fornication or other sexual sins.

Mind you, I am married and faithful to my wife and he is not complaining.

Jashub:
Are you supporting masturbation?

Yes instead of fornication, gay sex, adultery, child abuse and rape. If you want to stop Masturbation, don't use the 5 sins I mentioned earlier as replacement. The best thing is to marry and be faithful to your wife. But if are not married, masturbate if you can't control your sexual urge.

Masturbation can save you from Stds, HIV, abortion, heartbreaks, divorce, prison, harm and death.

emperorsversion:
can you really masturbate moderately.....?

Ofcourse. Everything is about self control.

Everything is bad when done in excess. Masturbation done moderately is better than fornication, adultery, rape and constant Lustful thoughts. If you want to condemn sin, condemn all sins. Don't speak against Masturbation while promoting fornication. Both you and the pastors casting away the spirit of Masturbation while leaving the spirit of fornication are all mad.

When are they discharging Buhari

minasota:
Lies

What is lie here. Have any Imo civil servant or pensioner been paid?

otipoju:
This Boko haram could be history within two months. In one major offensive.

First deploy surveillance drones to thoroughly map out their camp positions. Identifying vital infastructure.

Deploy 6 brigades in the dead of the night to encircle them and cordon off all major and small exits.

With your men in position

Then deploy several aircrafts to drop bombs on them non stop day and night for 2 weeks straight. Destroying their armory, food storage. Water storage, and immobilizing their trucks and other vehicles.

Then deploy your helicopter gunners to drive survivors away from the forest, with air fire. As they dey run comot for forest , they will run into the warm embrace of the men on ground..waiting for them

Final week, close in on them to mop up any remnant of the hunger stricken weakened terrorist relying on the visuals from your surveilance drones.

The next thing is to go and build a large military base in that forest as a symbol of victory .

With no arms and ammunition , no food and a real taste of their own medicine. It will be a very long time before the survivors think of regrouping.

But this one wey baba wan dey send terrorist go abroad go study on scholarship....na wa.

This one na total annihilation.

The cursing also goes to the bad leader that put us in this condition and those who would steal the donated funds.

Following the closure of markets by the Imo State government to help forestall the spread of coronavirus, Imolites have called for the immediate payment of March salary.
Some citizens of the state who expressed their feelings yesterday during a radio programme on Hot 99.5 FM (Peoples Assembly), allayed fear that the masses especially workers may not have enough fund to feed their families hence calling on the state governor, Sen Hope Uzodinma to quickly approve the payment of workers salary, particularly for the month of March.
It could be recalled that Governor Uzodinma through the commissioner for information, Hon Declan Emelumba in a press briefing shortly after the exco meeting ordered for a total shut down of all private schools sending students and staff home for fear of coronavirus.
The Governor who earlier gave the order through his state broadcast to Imolites, said the shutting down of schools, was in line with the preventive measures proposed by the world Health organization, which is expected to curb the spread of the dreaded COVID-19 virus.
Trumpeta also gathered that the weight mounted on the executive governor of the State, spurred him to order for the closure of all major markets in the State from the morning of Saturday, March 28.
Meanwhile, the date for the closure of markets have further been postpone till Sunday, March 29.
These latest development apparently did not go down well with some people who took to the media to make demands. A trader who pleaded anonymity told Trumpeta that salary have not been paid and there are no palliatives for the citizens to purchase basic needs, he equally expressed fear over the impact of the Governor’s order on non-salary earners, saying that scores of people may die from hunger amidst coronavirus pandemic.

http://www.imotrumpeta.com/?p=28007

paix:
Is he a terror or a terrorist?

He is both

Abba Kyari. The name alone can cause HBP.

At least it is better than naming then Buhari and Abba Kyari

helinues:
Nice one Gov Hope

It be like hope dey for Imolites oo.

I believe your state governor must have paid your state workers and pensioners salaries for the Month of March. But Uzodmma has made false announcement of paying all Imo salaries before the lock down. No one has been paid yet. Most of the talks he make on the news are lies and propaganda. You guys must not lick the ass of anyone just because he is in APC.