Collegenews: I will answer for two reasons: 1, because I am quite inquisitive myself and 2) because the question about proposal may really be indeed too early for some people. About the proposal, firstly, it's a choice. There are no designed rules for courtship nor the number of years you have to court before taking things to the next level. What works for A may not work for B, you can court for years and your marriage won't last a season. It happens, this doesn't mean courting for long doesn't help a lot. It does, just saying it doesn't guarantee the success of a marriage. My brother or sister, I have dated quite a number of persons, why didn't I propose to them? It is because outside the superficial desires lies what I genuinely look out for and none had them. If after finding these qualities, what else then do I need to keep waiting for? Not old enough to readily spot what I desire in a lady or what will make a good wife ni? My dear I have been in this dating business for more than two decades. I have learnt and unlearned, seen, known and understood a lot of things about ladies in general and with no much ado I can readily spot what will work for me. By the way, in my very simple defense, did you read where I made it clear I have known her while I was pursuing a B.Sc degree back in the days? Not like I actually just saw her in September and I am already proposing November. Lmao! There is no justification to that foolishness, just had to include the first part to let you know you don't have to live in the box, you don't have to do it because CN did. Each folk with his stroke. Anyways, We were friends in school, she already proved her worthiness back in the days, got connected back and here we are. About my moniker, my then siggy and all, that is my choice. No need explaining to you or anyone. It doesn't affect you in anyway, does it ? P.S: Don't bother asking any more questions. I won't reply.
I get your point. Thanks for answering. I must have missed the last part . I won't ask why further question
Collegenews: nanlyst I was going to ignore your questions until I saw that you included Farida, let me answer on her behalf. If you judged from this thread , it's not surprising that you missed out on the main parts. Farida and I have been friends from diary section not from here, the money you read that she asked me to send to two persons was for redemption because I wronged her. When Farida was still hot, she had blasted a lot of persons and had so many haters, I was like the only person who was replying to her mentions and from there I asked to know her outside of here. In fact a lot of persons (EG inclusive) assumed I was her alternate for the fact that I was the only person always quoting her and replying her. One particular day, I assumed since she was hated by many then it was time I let her be. I publicly embarrassed her which was a very childish and unnecessary thing to do. Prince on seeing this didn't hesitate to drag me and loud my immaturity, I publicly apologized to her but it was late already. That was the beginning of our disconnection. What you read on here was when I asked for her forgiveness for the second time and she made those requests which I agreed to. And lest I forget, she made it known she didn't need my penny and she sure doesn't, the money wasn't for her after all. That should tell you she wasn't interested in the money. How much is 5k by the way? And the 50K you wrote about, Liru and his wife donated 200k, did they go about singing that Farida became their friends because of the donation? Farida is actually bigger than 50k and our friendship dated way back to diary section and not here at all.
Thank you so much Oga Cn, that is why I said I am not here to troll. I only needed a harmless clarification. Please try and answer those questions too, there are some of us looking up to you and learning a lot from your diary. I feel that may send the wrong message to us.
Mzrapper. Good after noon MA. Please I have a question for you too and I will be very glad if you can grace me with a reply. You said you and Oga CN were cool even before he revealed anything about himself and having followed this thread for a very long time, I once read where the friendship started. It was when he apologized to EG and decided to send him money as a token of apology, I think 2k or so. I can't remember. You added 10k to the money too and he increased his own to 5k or so. After a while you and Oga Cn were talking and I can't remember what happened but you said he should send money to some nairalanders. And I think a while after, they contributed money for you and you shared it with the nairalanders. It was after he donated 50k you people talked about chatting on whatsap(from what I read on here), can't we assume it is the donation he made that necessitated the friendship outside of here? Would you have given hm your number if he was unable to send the money you asked him to send? and if he was unable to contribute to your donation.
Congratulations to you Collegenews. Please I have a question I will like you to ask and please I am not asking as a troll, just a reader of your diary who wants answer(s). Please oga CN, don't you think the proposal came too early? I mean you started writing about this our wife late september and I think you said you met her early September. Please don't you think you are too rushy? Secondly, about your moniker and the misconceptions born by it and the siggy you chose in the past probably to disguise yourself, please what was the need? I mean it makes sense if you do that in reality all to test a woman but on nairaland? What difference would that have made? What exactly were you up to? Abi did you have someone you were trying to test? I will really appreciate if you could answer my questions and once again, I am not here to troll you.
Nlanalyst: I think you should create a curious cat account and put the link on your profile. Some may want to ask you questions, we won't have to use of new monikers. You feel me?
maynation: Let me gist you on something. Acinie twici aphina.
I think you should create a curious cat account and put the link on your profile. Some may want to ask you questions, we won't have to use of new monikers. You feel me?