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aniffy4eva:You're welcome. We all have to be open to learning. At the end of the day, a sincere heart counts higher in the eyes of God than the right actions. |
debosky:Your position makes sense and I believe that's where many christians are heading unless pastors can credibly show that tithing is required of christians today, from every income. And the bolded effectively and correctly dismisses, in my view, the claim that any christian giving is a giving of a percentage. It is a stretch that makes the word ‘percentage’ useless. Perhaps it is a serious and sincere attempt to find New Testament support, which is non-existent, for tithing. I think it is unnecessary and unwise to defend tithing - voluntary or not – on that basis. Tithers are on better ground defending their belief on the basis of Genesis and ‘universal ‘ practice than trying to torture a NT verse. |
^ Are you kidding? Botswana is about the only country in Africa that has maintained a consistent record of good governance. If Nigerians have even a tenth of that, hardly anybody will be complaining. You're in an environment where it's easier to make it legitimately and you're acting like it's tougher to make it there? Doesn't make sense to me unless you have not been to Nigeria. |
^ Agree completely. |
debosky:Yes, you captured my sentiments accurately. Thanks! |
Bintus2much:I don't see th distinction. No christian I know claims to be following the OT anointing oil. They anchor their practice on James and the disciples. If ordinary oil is acceptable to James, why is olive oil not acceptable? |
I don't think you're wrong and I'm not trying to correct you. I'm just drawing a different conclusion from the points you raised. That is, if anything can be anointed, if Jesus did not condemn the use of anointing oil to heal the sick, if James recommended it, then I see no reason to fuss about it. If we applied such rigid standards to other practices in the Church, many of them will not stand. |
I'm really amazed at the extent of your opposition to this anointing oil stuff. Jesus did not condemn it even when it was brought to His attention. James mentioned and recommended it. You dismiss all that. But you're willing to endorse other things that do not have nearly as much support in the Scriptures. I think your concern is that the anointing oil is abused. But that's not sufficient ground to be cool towards it. After all, the same can be said of a number of other practices in the Church that we approve or practice. |
Joagbaje:Yes, even if we shorten the argument and concede that tithing was instituted by God, even among heathen nations, and that God in the same way also instituted prayers, worship and firstfruits, it still doesn’t meet the burden on why tithing is mandatory. My point is that prayer and fasting are good for us, but nobody tells us that we need to pray or fast everyday to reap the benefits of prayer or avoid the dangers of prayerlessness. The emphasis is on regular praying. Ditto when we use the example of first yams brought to the village priest in pagan cultures. It doesn’t mean that the first cocoyams, oranges or chicken are also brought. But when it comes to tithing, there is little preaching that you can fulfill the need for tithing by doing it regularly and with some of the income but not all the time and on all the income. So, even if God prompted Abram to tithe, it doesn’t mean that he prompted him to tithe on everything he gets, all the time. Just as God can prompt somebody to give thanksgiving offering, because it is a good thing, but we don’t establish a practice of thanksgiving every time something good happens. Or if God prompted Jesus to fast for 40 days and 40 nights, we now teach that every christian needs to do that once a year. Or if God told somebody to pray at night, and the person sees the benefits, we now establish a principle that God wants us to pray every night. My point is that God can prompt us to do something without it being interpreted to mean that He wants us to do it all the time. That being the case, voluntary tithing, in the sense of tithing when you are led or on certain occasions is the only thing we can establish with the universal practice of tithing. So, can somebody then show me the basis for saying that the principle is paying tithes out of every income, instead of occasionally, since that deviates from what we do with such other things as prayer, fasting that we admit are good for us? |
Well, not much will change unless churches start attacking poverty instead of fighting it with words - hear the message and you'll be rich. It doesn't take a seer to see that that's not working very well for such reasons as the fact that not everything catches revelation at the same speed. Building massive structures to compete with the world has not helped much either. |
Joagbaje:The Babylonians, for example, who tithed well before Abram was born. See : http://www.keithhunt.com/Tithe2.html. Certainly, they did not know the true God and their tithes were to their gods. |
Joagbaje:It's true that even before the Jews, others tithed. But is that really relevant to us, i.e., can we really say it was instituted by God? Since these people did not know God - God revealed Himself to Abraham and the Jewsih people - aren't their practices simple guides at best that should not be taken with the level of seriousness we see with the tithe? |
I have no problem with pastors living a comfortable life. I simply think they should also consider the circumstances and environment in which they operate. I know Nigerian pastors like to cite or emulate the Copelands, Hinns of this world. But do they consider the environment in which those pastors live? These pastors drive nice vehicles but the vast majority of their congregation also have their own cars, homes and are able to afford three square meals. The general society is even much wealthier. Does anyone realize that if you complie a list of the richest 100 Texans, Copeland's name is unlikely to show up? If you compile a list of the richest 1000 or even 10,000 Americans, his name is likely to be missing? Can we say the same of the Nigerian pastors using them as examples? My other point is that pastors should be mindful of the role corruption is playing in undermining Nigeria's development. In my view, it's not good enough to quote the Book of Hebrews all the time, and go into the intricacies of the Greek, as though the society Nigerians live in is similar to the ones obtainable when the Bible was written. The Word should be made relevant to the needs of the people. And the greatest need today is to eradicate or drastically reduce corruption. Again, Martin Luther King Jr. could have preached all the Greek he wanted but he's honored today because he tapped into the need at that time - racism or the effects of slavery. The pastor that makes the gospel relevant in Nigeria - instead of trying to be wanna-bes - is the one that deserves my greatest respect. |
wordtalk:Correcto! The NT is founded on the OT. However, every christian realizes that the OT is a shadow of things to come and act accordingly. Take for example. The OT talks about honoring your parents, but people went about it in certain ways. In the NT, we follow the same principle of honoring our parents, but not with a literal application of the OT pattern. In every NT practice, that's what we do. It's only when it comes to tithes and tithing that people insist on following it the same OT way - same percentage, given to support your local church (not other churches or ministries) etc. Can somebody explain to me why tithing is so different? Why was it so difficult for Paul, writing to non-Jews, to ask them to give 10% instead of making a general reference to OT? Was he that general and unclear in other areas? BTW, I don't mind paying or giving tithes - like many I think 10% is too small. But I want to have a firm foundation for my beliefs. And if possible, I don't want to be under any kind of bondage, which makes it wrong for me to give 5% today and 40% tomorrow. |
What a complete waste of time, effort and space. Among christians, simple questions should be answered simply and directly. Long responses to simple requests only serve to obfuscate and derail. |
^ Sorry, you're one of a handful of people here trying to broaden it. The discussion is substantially about the narrow point I raised. If you have any contradictory information from this site, I'll like to see it. |
wordtalk:I was not necessarily seeking the information from you - I already know your position. Glad to see you've abandoned your position that I was concluding and generalizing about what people teach, when in reality I was limiting it to my personal experience. What is left now is that I concluded that your discussion is outside the context. Again, that conclusion is only in the sense of what I know about tithe preaching. That knowledge is sufficient basis to assert that what you're saying is different from what those people I've read on this site and elsewhere from Nigeria are saying. I don't see what's harmful in that. |
Joagbaje:We can certainly agree that sometimes people use the wrong words or adopt the wrong attitude. While it's no less sinful, I attribute it mainly to passion. Being passionate about things is a good thing. We need to make greater effort to avoid insults, hurtful words. I know I've not always lived up to that standard, contrary to my intention before I registered. But it makes me know I have a lot of room for improvement. Your explanations on anoiting oil, ministers, polygamy are sensible. But not satisfactory. That's what discussions are about. We can always disagree. Problem is that just as you disagree on anointing oil, etc., those that disagree on mandatory tithing are called names and their motives questioned at every turn. That, to me, is not right. |
wordtalk:You're really struggling to make a non-point. "Not one of them" is a generalization. "Not one of them I know of" is not. I'm speaking from personal experience and there's absolutely nothing generalizing about that. Words are there for a purpose. You can't pick some portions of my statement and leave the part that immediately qualifies it and nullifies your argument. I quoted something from the NAE's president that you referred to that has an approach to tithing that's different from the one I know from this site (apart from you) and Nigerian preachers. Why can't somebody contradict the point? Telling me that it's my fault that I don't know people that hold such views is unhelpful. How else would I know other than by seeking such information from anywhere I can find it, including a widely-read forum like this? Finally, it's not about reading another Bible. Words can be used in different ways and contexts. I'm sure you're familiar with the Alice in Wonderland example. Somebody can refer to 5% of income as tithe and another person believes that 10% of income is the tithe. That they're both using the same word does not mean they're saying the same thing. Nor has that anything to do with versions of the Bible. |
wordtalk:I think I did not make myself clear enough. I'm not focused on percentages the way you are. Setting aside money is what people do with their offerings. I doubt that anybody giving an offering thinks he's setting aside a percentage. But tithers know they're doing that. That's the big difference. |
Joagbaje:I like how you claim your position is based on the word but another person's is based on hypocrisy. And you expect me to adopt the same approach, otherwise I've joined a bandwagon you don't like? There is nothing wrong in your offering an explanation for the perceived inconsistencies. But one is free to disagree with you, without being your enemy, if your explanation does not seem satisfactory. For instance, Jesus may not have recommended the anointing oil for the church, but neither did he recommend tithing for the church. So, you're still in the same knot of stating a principle (what Jesus recommended or not) but selectively applying it. Sure, everybody in your church is a minister but Paul was careful to recommend against multiple wives to office holders. Again, you start with a position you cannot sustain. When somebody says that every christian is a man of God, you quote Paul's words to Timothy that he was referring to office holders. At that point, you don't think that every member of your church is a minister and therefore a Man of God. You see, it's such inconsistencies that make it difficult for me to back you sometimes. It'll be a waste of my mental abilities not to question such glaring contradictions. It may be that at the end of the day I'm wrong, but I need to know why. Not just because some baba said so. To borrow your phrase the other time, that would be slavery mentality on my part. |
wordtalk:Hasty generalizations and conclusions? Inaccurate? Where is the conclusion or generalization? I said that IF such a preacher exists, I'll like to read from him. How's that a conclusion? A conclusion would be saying there's no such preacher. But I was very careful not to say that, since I do not know. On the site being used by non-Nigerians, of course that is common knowledge. It does not change the fact that a lot of the discussion is coming from a Nigerian Christian context. You need not use a 'belief' somewhere to explain a different belief in Nigeria that goes by the same name. Regarding your claim that evangelical leaders overwhelmingly tithe, you cannot get away from the conclusion by saying that you have other sources, unless those sources have data showing that. I'd like to see such. |
wordtalk:Wow! This response takes the cake. They're only the same in the sense that everything we have or do can be reduced to percentages. Otherwise, they're night and day. I can set aside 10% of time to browse the internet. I can also set aside 24 minutes to browse the internet sometimes and 30 minutes some other time. Of course, 24 minutes is 1% of my time, but percentage was not in the equation when I set aside the 24 minutes. Nor am I violating any rule of mine when I switch to 30 minutes. With tithe, it's a fixed percentage of 10%. Not any amount that can now be categorized as a percentage. In summary, if the government says your tax bracket is 28% of your income and afterwards come up with a different policy that says everybody should pay what they like, you'd still say the guy that pays random amounts of his income is paying taxes based on a percentage and is in the same boat that pays a FIXED percentage? |
Joagbaje: Joagbaje:I know we're all writing from a distance, so it makes it difficult for us to understand each person and their total belief system. I'm still the same person - i.e., my allegiance is to the truth and I'm not aligned to anybody. If you say something I agree with, I'd be on your side. If you say something that's not clear to me to me or that I disagree with, I'll ask for clarifications or voice my objection. It's really sad that we want everybody to toe the same line at all times; otherwise he's a 'bad' person - in this case, a mocker. All well and good. Your response on anointing oil makes the point I was raising. If the validity of a practice is based on (1) thousands of years of practice AND (2) lack of condemnation in the Bible, then your church should be embracing the anointing oil. And polygamy for members (not pastors and deacons). But you don't. So, when you select tithes among all the things that fit that criteria, it raises questions about your position. And if you think seeking answers to such inconsistency makes one a mocker, feel free to continue with the characterization. |
wordtalk:Setting aside something and setting aside a percentage are not coterminous. The New Testament talks of the former but not of the latter. Nor does it talk of setting aside the same thing or level every time, which is exactly what tithing of income says. |
wordtalk:I thought one basic reason for asking questions, instead of jumping to conclusions, is to find out what somebody means? I'm ready to get some clarity on that because it is fundamental to this discussion. |
wordtalk:According to the site you posted, Leigh Anderson gave this closing comment: “Let’s encourage tithing, and especially encourage generosity. But don’t steal from grandpa’s prescription fund in order to give 10 percent to the church. Sometimes there are emergencies and situations that take a priority like providing for your family. But stick with that guideline. Try to be generous, and 10 percent is a good guideline, but it is not a legal requirement in the New Testament.” If there’s any tithing preacher on this site or in Nigeria who believes in the above statement, I want to hear or read him say that. Not one of them I know or have heard makes any exceptions. The truth is that your discussion is out of context. When Nigerians are talking of tithes, they’re talking of something very different from what you’re saying. Using the word tithe, which you use in a different context from theirs, is not helpful. I also have serious doubts about your conclusion that an overwhelming majority of evangelical leaders tithe. What I read is that an overwhelming majority of those who responded tithe. Unless, you’re sure that the survey got a huge response, your conclusion is without basis. |
Joagbaje:Are these the new criteria for determining acceptable christian doctrine and practice? If so, I'd like to see some messages here from your church on the use of anointing oil since it seems to satisfy the criteria. How about Yoga? |
I believe witchcraft is everywhere, since Satan's operations are not limited to one corner of the Earth. When you hear some Westerners discuss Satanic stuff, you'd think you're listening to some village priest's assistant in Nigeria. Major difference though is that such things exist on the margins abroad whereas in Nigeria they dominate personal thinking and actions as well as public reactions. I remember when flying in Nigeria was becoming very dangerous, with frequent air mishaps. People were quick to blame it on enemies, witches and wizards instead of using their brains. The moment it got unacceptable, with many "big men" dying, private and public responses changed and the incidence of air disasters died down. I think it was the year of the Sosoliso Crash that I was lightly stranded in Abuja because everybody realized that they should be flying the only 2 airlines that had serviceable aircraft then - Aero & Virgin - instead of flying the delapidated ones and praying away witches and wizards. Since then, things have stabilized. We need more of such responses (which is what they do in the West) rather than being mentally lazy and explaining everything away in spiritualese. Of course, such beliefs help the government thieves who know that instead of the people holding them accountable for poor healthcare delivery and bad roads that lead to untimely deaths, they'd rather focus on the oldest woman in the village. Government responsibility and accountability will reduce the 'wealth' of churches who benefit directly and indirectly from the thievery of government officials, but it will make for a better citizenry, better christians and better Nigeria. |
Excellent observations! I'm beginning to doubt that many of these pastors believe most of what they preach. If they do, they'd give church members enough space to practice what they're being taught. Instead, they keep piling on messages and programs with little room for members to demonstrate them. They appear to enjoy hearing themselves talk and watching people watch them perform on stage. If they want to be taken more seriously than is currently the case, they should minimize these endless programs and institute a process of measuring the effect of their teaching on members' lives. For instance, if you teach on prosperity, how many members prospered this year by measurable standards? And of those that claimed to have prospered, how much of that wealth is directly attributable to God, as opposed to stealing, drug-pushing, 419, public corruption, private connections, quality education, etc. Same with health and healing, godliness, etc. Yeah, it's no longer passion for souls. It's passion for growing a private empire! |
Joagbaje:Not surprised at the turn. First, it was accusation of rebellion. When you saw it had no basis, you shift to carnality. Such is the level of spiritual control or manipulation that goes unchecked in Nigerian churches. Nobody can ask questions. You have to accept everything a pastor says because he's all-knowing. If I wanted to belong to a cult, don't I know what to do? Funny enough, when these pastors realize their errors about certain things, it's the same people promoting this form of control that will turn round to talk about how the pastor hears from the Holy Spirit; has moved on to higher truth; then ridicule those still clinging to lesser truth. In essence, everything is right until pastor sees and says it is wrong. And if calling a **practice** silly is carnal, I wonder what it is when you quote scriptures about "foolish and unlearned questions" to dismiss people's posts here or call them clowns. I guess those people are not part of the church, since they don't belong to yours. |
Joagbaje:That I obey the instructions when given does not make it any less silly. When I've been to Nigerian churches - which are about the only places I've seen such silliness - and instructions were given, I've complied. And I'm not talking of the examples you gave, but referring to a situation the pastor is preaching and asking people to stand from time to time. Like somebody said, it looks like a way of showing how much power they have over the congregation. In your world, nothing from the pastor can ever be questioned or analyzed. And the other examples of Jesus (or Elisha) giving instructions that look silly do not cut it - their instructions were targeted to the speciic individuals that needed them, not instruct thousands to reach one or two people. Is it not the same Holy Spirit directing today's pastors and prophets? Wonder why Nigeria is so backward? People hardly use their mind. |
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. This is serious enough to have led to a recent survey by the National Evangelical Association (NAE) on whether church leaders feel that tithing is "required" from Christians. The result is that 58% do not teach that tithing is "required" while 42% actually do. The interesting thing is that the President of the NAE, Leith Anderson noted on the whole that "