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coogar:Is that your new line of tomfoolery - I'm technologically behind? Isn't that interesting that even with my low-tech skills, I was able to find and post information that debunked your nonsensical assertion. You don't have time to cross-check what I posted, but you've been posting virtually non-stop for the past 7 hours. I have provided an example of Americans complaining about tithes and pastors. Read the book. My offer still stands. Never claimed to be an intellectual. I need not make such claims to an idiot. I know who I am. |
coogar:Like I said, keep the entertainment coming! Would not have believed we still have such idiots around until today. Do you have DVDs or CDs of your antics? There's solid documentation of the number of countries in the world, currencies, flags, etc. Where is your documentation for the brainless assertion that people in other countries do not complain about tithing? Nobody said that the poor in America are not better than the poor in Nigeria generally. But that's only general. In particular cases, some poor in America are poorer than the poor in Nigeria. Your references to crowded buses, etc showyour below-zero level of reasoning. |
"you are a tool and i have my reasons for saying so. firstly, the word poor is relative - a poor man in america can still afford the basic necessities of life and he is almost equivalent to the middle-class in nigeria. i don't see how you think the word poor in america and nigeria means the same thing in terms of what they can both afford. i detest half-witted crooks but yours is more detestable because you should know better." What expression of illogic and incoherence! Shouldn't it be the other way round? If the poor in America are almost like the middle class in Nigeria, shouldn't they be in a better position to pay tithes than the poor in Nigeria? So, why claim that some christians in America are not paying tithes because they are poor, when by your baseless assertion they're not truly poor? Oh, btw, your claim is false again. There are many poor people in America that are poorer than the poor in Nigeria. Saying that the poor in America is almost equivalent to the middle class in Nigeria is complete rubbish. And persuades me that you cannot even find the US on a map, much less getting a visa to visit. And my earlier question remains: how many countries have you visited (to know that it's only in Nigeria that people complain about tithing . . . .)? |
"you cannot have it both ways. . . . .if you are correcting my assertion, then you are backing the touts on this thread who think paying tithes is evil, irresponsible and a waste of time. your moronic diligence to even go on the net to dig up a pitiful link that only 6% americans pay tithes show how spiritually-corrupt you are. it's not by force. . . .i don't think churches charge gate fees in nigeria. . . .if they bring the offering bag to you, just pass it on - you won't be arrested for it. what i will not have you do is to covet another man's fortunes. if you feel aggrieved, convert your father's living room into a church and collect tithes/offering." Hey, slow down! You may be hare-brained, but you need not make that so obvious. I can see you’re really stung by my debunking your baselessly false claim that it’s only in Nigeria that people complain about tithes. You’re the type that because they managed to visit Ethiopia a few years ago, bamboozle people in Nigeria with claims about what happens in foreign countries that they know next to nothing about. Sorry, wrong forum and timing! I know I’m basically wasting time instructing you, but I’m enjoying the amusement value. Your comments evidence a staggering ignorance and simplicity. Here’s a guy that professes interest in exclusive conversation with intellectuals when he’s so poorly educated and largely unexposed. Hardly anybody who has successfully gone through a thorough graduate program in a real university will make such an asinine claim that ‘only Nigerians complain about tithes (on the ground that the pastors misuse the money). Because such graduate or even student would know that (1) he cannot prove the assertion, having not been to all the countries in the world nor in possession of any decent study that says the same, and (2) the claim can easily be disproven, even by pointing to just one country that shows the contrary. To disprove it, here it is – this time read s-l-o-w-l-y: 1) In the US, vast majority of Christians do not pay tithes. 2) One can assume that they do not pay because they have one complaint or another about tithing. But we need not rely on assumption. We have the evidence published on the internet, at least. 3) Some of these complaints relate to how pastors use (or misuse) the money. For a sample, see a book published recently on that: “What Your Pastor Didn’t Tell You About The Prosperity Message” by Leah L. Davis, available here - http://leahldavis.com/main/ If you cannot afford one or have no accessible credit card, let me know and I can send you a copy at my expense. That’s worth it for the free entertainment you’ve provided. Even your insults are hilariously unimaginative. Keep the amusement going. You're an answer to prayer! |
garyarnold:And some guy that clearly does not know his left from his right was here trying to make another false claim that American christians do not complain about tithing. Time is past when people can make foolish claims and think they'll stand. We're in the information age now. |
dare2think:Sure, it makes him sound and appear immature and foolish. The higher you get in life, the more sensitive and considerate you're likely to be to your perceived juniors or inferiors. With his attitude, I'm pretty sure he wouldn't pass a test to be hired as my admin assistant. |
coogar:Smart man, I understood your point perfectly. If Americans do not pay tithes, it does not occur to you one bit that some of them would be out of an unwillingness to do so – not because they’re poor. Isn’t it silly to assume that American Christians refuse to tithe because they are poor, when the vast majority of them are richer than Nigerian Christians including jokes like you that come here to make empty noises. Evidently, you know why American christians do not tithe, even though you probably have not met any. Have you ever visited or lived in the US or been to any US church? If you are not as idiotic as you sound, you’d check through the net and see Americans complain a lot about tithing. And if you step into some American churches, you’d hear the pastors addressing some of these complaints. But typical Nigerian that you are, you can claim to be an intellectual with nothing to back it up. Barely literate intellectual! And I never complained about tithing. I only corrected your inaccurate assertion. |
coogar:I think you’re the one writing out of ignorance. You have no basis for your claim that it is only in Nigeria that Christians complain about tithing. How many countries have you been to and how many materials have you read about Christians in other countries? In the US, for instance, only a small portion – roughly 6% - of American Christians pay their tithes. Everybody should feel free to pay their tithes. But basing tithing on false premises or inaccurate claims does nobody any good. For those interested in statistics on tithing in America, this link may help. http://library.generousgiving.org/page.asp?sec=28&page=223 |
Joagbaje:I'm a little confused. The question was about income and your response was about salary. Are you saying that salary is the only source or type of income? |
Joagbaje:Again, if you don'd mind, I'm asking once more: what is this spiritual principle that tithing is based on? |
Yeah, I missed the fact that Raji Fashola reads a devotional before he gets up from bed every morning. And Lagosians have the best character in Nigeria, making them deserving of a good governor. The extent Nigerians go to excuse poor leadership is startling. The greatness of Nigeria requires a number of factors including prayers, good citizens, but good leadership is at the top of the pole. I can’t readily think of any society that advanced in modern times without sound leadership. The other day I was listening to how Turkey has been transformed in the past few years by Recep Tayyip Erdogan. Yet in Nigeria, we expect God to come down from Heaven and help us. Pastors that have access to the leaders should tell them the truth, not just pray for them. They should critically evaluate their silly statements about how ministry materials are influencing them. For me, to paraphrase a wise saying, it’s a case of your actions are speaking so loudly I can hardly hear what your mouth is saying. |
Image123:I would think it's the other way round, i.e. emotion occasionally beats reason. Otherwise, reason generally dominates emotions. The only people whose emotion is stronger than their reason are people with some form of mental or emotional disorder, such as obsessive compulsive disorder, kleptomania, addictions. For normal people, reason rules everyday, most of the time. The few occasions when emotions rule over reason are usually when reason was suspended on its own, not because it was overpowered by emotion, taking the person to the point where emotion then dominates. E.g., people committing sexual sins. Young man knows he shouldn't be alone with that girl, in a dark room, with nobody around. He convinces himself that nothing would happen. One thing leads to another. He doesn't want to go too far. But he doesn't seem to be able to reason himself out of it. He commits a sin. Well, the problem was that he didn't use reason properly - at the initial stage, not when emotion has taken charge. Monumental accomplishments have taken place in life by people using their reason, subjecting their emotions to their reason or employing the emotions to serve the end of their reason-engineered endeavor. So, they ignore pain, taunts, etc or embrace joy, etc. Contrast with Nigeria. Where emotions tend to rule - crying (even in church), smiling while suffering, anger at no one in particular, etc. These things may not be bad in themselves, but they shouldn't rule over reason, or use of the brain, if real progress is to be expected. And if God had designed it that they'd dominate reason, and make man work extra hard to get reason on top of them, man's lot would have been far worse. But Glory be to our Loving God! |
^^^ The topic puzzled me too. But I guess he was trying to say we should not be ruled by our feelings. |
Joagbaje:Agree on the bolded. But you also should realize that the government is negatively affecting the quality or character of the people. Nigerians were not always this way, as anybody that was sentient there 30 years ago, or earlier than that, would attest to. When government officials continue to steal the people dry, instead of providing jobs, wouldn't the number of criminals increase? After stealing, they'd come to churches to salve their consciences and give some silly testimonies about how a devotional influenced them, among other syrupy talk. And of course, they receive a loud applause from the people and give a fat donation to the church. The pastor receives it happily, saying that Jesus did not question the sourcces of His offering. Those are the kinds of nonsense that will keep the country in darkness, regardless of the endless number of night vigils, binding and loosing, confessions, etc. You mention China and Korea built by the Chinese and Koreans. Partly true in the case of Korea (since they had foreign help). But, did you think those countries were built because the citizens were patriotic alone? Do you discount the quality of leadership provided by Deng in China? With ridiculous leaders, such as those currently there, Nigeria is not going anywhere far. I must commend your mindset. That type of optimism is a necessary ingrediaent for personal, corporate and national success. But we must be careful of taking it to excess. It's the same attitude that has bred self-deception and suffering and smiling. As to the rest of your post, PH and a pocketful of places are improving all right. But only because Nigeria has been so terrible that even hardly noticeable changes look so monumental. So shameful not too long ago when I was at the PH Int'l Airport and there was even no conveyor belt to move luggage. And this is wonderful? If you want to do a fair comparison, compare PH with a Ghanaian city. That's where leadership is making a bit of progress. Oh I forgot, their leaders also read your devotional. Not sure where you get the idea that because the Bible says to pray for leaders, it also forbids criticisms and corrective action. The history of the world before the NT, during the NT and after the NT, has shown that people play an important role in holding their leaders accountable. Even the Israelites criticized God's government and asked for a king. If Martin Luther King Jr. had adopted the posture of the Nigerian pastors today, black people would still be eating at the back of the counter, including these Nigerian pastors whenever they were allowed to visit the US. The Pray-Harder Only Campaign, with the occasional "partnership" with the government is OK, but people deceive themselves if they think that's the pathway to Nigeria's greatness. |
I wouldn't be too quick to associate with Akunyili's misconceived and unsuccessful re-branding campaign. I also remember spending a little time with her predecessor, Frank Nweke Jr., when he came up with his own image-making campaign. Nigeria does not need all these wasteful efforts at re-branding. Just do what other countries have done - curtail corruption, spend money on infrastructure, speed up manufacturing, etc - and your brand will skyrocket. No church should be supporting government officials when they utter all this nonsense, while innocent Nigerians continue to die in ill-equipped hospitals and crappy roads due to the incompetence and corruption of these officials. It's good to know that they do read these devotionals, but I'll believe that it is immensely benefiting them when I see it in their conduct. So far their conduct is largely immoral and disgraceful. |
Joagbaje:Generally agree. For me, it's not even necessary to make reference to the source, unless asked. The point remains that what many Nigerian preachers share (again not necessarily "you" the poster on nairaland) is influenced by foreign sources. Nothing wrong with that. Just do not pretend it was not. And that the Holy Spirit revealed it to you at night. Such pretence makes the members rever the preacher the more and that may be the only motive behind hiding the influence and you even hear people "quoting" those pastors when they're actually quoting the foreign preacher or motivational speaker the pastor borrowed from). Which is the real carnality, not your fixation with the word copy. The private interpretation scripture is irrelevant to the discussion, as you already confirmed my main point - which is influence. BTW, it could also be the major reason you hardly hear preachers sharing their reading lists. |
Joagbaje:I’m not keen on laying the blame on pastors. It’s more of a congregation thing and that was my focus. The first time I heard it, it was by an Igbo man in a church pastored by another Igbo man. Perhaps, they were influenced by Yorubas around them? Or the two practices (white garment and Pentecostal versions) are independent but related. And I’m pretty sure I’ve heard justification for that practice with a reference to Phil. 4:19. |
MANCHUKWU:One moment you are against white flour and white sugar and all the bad food and the next moment you're getting a happy meal from MCD! interesting. As to the original post, I think the incident was an honest mistake. I don't see why anybody would want to do that. Regarding testimonies following medical examination, what kind of credible tests can a doctor run in a few minutes? I think churches are too eager to receive testimonies and validate their crusades. If people are healed, I don't think it hurts to wait for weeks and months to run all the relevant tests and re-confirm them before testimonies. I really do not understand why a trained physician would lend himself to these instant verifications. |
ogajim:The practice is based on their spin on this scripture: "But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus." Phil. 4:19. The point being that Paul said "MY" God, not just God or our God. So, Paul had such a special relationship with God that when people gave to his work, they were likely to receive unlike if they had just given to anybody else. The people making prayers in the name of these ministers believe that these ministers are unique, as evidenced by God's blessings upon their life, so one can acccess similar blessings by going through their God, the God that gave them all that stuff. Frankly, sometimes, you wonder whether many Nigerian christians are simply retarded. |
Joagbaje:It was a generic "you" - not you in particular. Yes, God's Word does not have any copyright. But not everybody comes up with the same interpretation. If a preacher uses another's interpretation, he doesn't necessarily owe him any acknowledgments or copyright respect, since the other preacher freely received it from God. But what the copying preacher should not do is deny that he received it from the other preacher or indicate that he got it some other way. Also, he should not see reference to the fact that somebody preached the message earlier as a claim that the message could only have originated in a certain country. The printing press was invented by a German. Pointing that out is not asserting German superiority or inferring that Africans couldn't have come up with that or some other invention. The facts do not change. |
ogoamaka99:Constantly calling people here sons of perdition because they disagree or demand better explanation, discredits everything you have to say. You can keep your foolishness to yourself. And if you dodn't know that Abraham was already blessed before he met Melchizedeck - and every christian is already blessed today - that's your cup of tea. And coming here to pretend that the thousands of people that give directly to the man of God in Nigeria have car testimonies suggests that your level of honesty needs some additional work. |
Joagbaje:But the widow's blessing here was physical. You can't say if you give to prophet like the widow did, you'll be blessed as she was, and then turn around to say but the blessings would not be in the form of physical things! No wonder many that give to prophets on the basis of the manipulation of that Scripture, instead of the leading of the Spirit and love, have little or nothing to show for it. No, I did not answer myself. It was sarcasm. Giving works. But the idea that every giving multiplies is false. It accords neither with scripture nor common sense. |
Joagbaje:1. Again, nothing you have said shows that people were "officially" addressed that way. People recognized that they were ministers, men of God, teachers, etc. Doesn't mean that's the way they were officially addressed. Possible exception is Jesus but that's outside the discussion. 2. Respect and titles are 2 different things. People respect their parents and siblings everyday without using titles. Even in Nigeria. Among non-Africans, people respect their bosses and pastors while addressing them by their names. If your argument is that it is a cultural thing, stick with that and don’t claim it’s Biblical. 3. So unless those you oppress complain, it is not oppression? It can be discussed on its own without anybody coming out to cry. 4.’ Slave mentality’ is another in your bag of marketing tricks. It’s only effective for people at certain levels. Not me. 5. Funny enough, nobody wants to copy America or foreign things more than some of you – from the way you look to the way you speak to the way you organize your things –even when you’ve never lived or worked there. Yet, you have the nerve to think it’s others that have the slave mentality. Harriet Tubman was right after all: that some slaves were unaware they were slaves and that’s why she could not free them. 6. Never said that any truth originated from America. But if you study the law of gravity or the law of relativity and do not acknowledge Newton or Einstein, after reading them and getting the ideas from them, you’ll be treated as an academic fraud. Claiming that the law of relativity is the truth regardless of who says it will not absolve you. Worse still, when you pretend that you discovered the truth by reading the bible when there is every indication you borrowed it from known authors. I’m completely surprised that you’re trying to claim that God actually revealed these truths to you when you clearly got them from others. Nothing wrong in learning from others – I do that all the time - but my quarrel is pretending this knowledge either originated from you or is peculiar to you when you *know* for sure that’s not true. I consider that dishonest. 7. Worse still, to use the so-called knowledge to put down others or claim 'specialness'. |
^^^ You've got some good points there! [But I still think I'm right!!] |
[ I would say nobody has received anything remotely resembling that result. Don't mind Jo jare, pastors use this verse to deceive the congregation ![]() [quote][/quote]It's a bit troubling that people quickly use the Elijah-Elisha widows' stories to get people to give, but never report back on testimnies of hose people getting a similar result in terms of speed and content. Yet, these people operated in the OT. We, outside the OT, should even be doing better. |
nuella2:Where do folks get all these fancy ideas from? When you give it must multiply and yet we have poor people in the church who have been giving for donkey years? Oh, I forget they do not have faith. How about those that have faith in the church? If their giving multiplied all the time, wouldn't they all be richer than Carlos Slim by now? livin:Excellent question. |
Joagbaje:Remember, my initial quibble was with your claim that people were addressed “officially” in a particular manner. You have no support for such an outlandish claim. Resorting to ‘you were not there in the Bible days to know what happened’ is a cheap ploy often employed when it’s convenient and quickly discarded when it is not. That is, you start demanding for chapter and verse when it is in your interest and when it’s not, you ask us to accept or be bound by a practice not in the Bible because it “must” have been so. Interesting. Paul emphasizing his apostleship does not mean people were addressing him, officially or not, as Apostle Paul. Even when he confronted Peter, he referred to him as Cephas, while reporting the incident. If it’s the church today, especially among black people, it would be “I confronted Bishop Peter”. Hagin’s official title was Rev. or Dr. and people also called him Bro. But I’m sure somebody could call him Kenneth and he wouldn’t jump off a window. Imagine that with any Nigerian pastor today. I’m not sure if their wives while mentioning them in church ever omit their title. Even in their absence, people can’t even refer to them without titles. If a high school friend stops by, he can’t call him by his first name as in school days without attracting attention or seeing members around roll their eyes. And you tell me that must have been the case in the Bible because Paul emphasized his apostleship? I agree with you about critics and “I’m better than you” attitude. But you need to look at the mirror more often because it applies readily to you. An example is your constant reference to “lesser truth” or that churches are operating at the level of their understanding, in a way that drips of “I’m better than you.” BTW, that’s part of why I point out when you’re copying the teachings of American pastors, not because I want to show America is competing with Nigeria. Point being that you can’t go about “oppressing” others with what you copied or establishing your “specialness “with something you know is available outside your circles. That may be good for marketing, but something about it is not right. |
Joagbaje: Joagbaje:The guy said rearview mirror and you're focusing on mirror! Big difference. I think what he meant is that you can't drive for long. It's just like saying if one is doing something wrong, one may not get immediate results, but that 'grace' may not last very long. More directly, I think the poster is making a very important spiritual point: nobody who wants to make progress in christianity and life generally should be focusing on the past. Paul said it in Phil. and Isiaiah also said the same thing - about forgetting the former things and pressing forward. It does not mean that the past is totally irrelevant. Au contraire, it may be a good guide sometimes to help us maintain the right perspective - e.g., to remember God's deliverance. I agree on the comparison part. It's one of the most foolish things we do as human beings. We need to realize that everybody is running his own race and not competing with us. |
The striking thing is that the woman got the right result. Today, many people that respond to that verse do not receive anything remotely resembling that result. Instead, after sowing, they have to spend years confessing and sowing some more. I guess the big difference is hearing God for yourself and obeying, doing or following His instructioons. |
Of course, I know that the expression "man of God" is used in the Bible. It's simply descriptive, not ta title. Moreover, I simply disagree that it is the "official" way of addressing ministers in the Bible. As I said, you can't find that as a way of addressing many leading servants of God like Peter, Paul or James. And btw, neither is pastor an official way of addressing anybody in the Bible. People today, especially among Nigerians, are obsessed with title, including "pastor." There's absolutely no reason why a christian cannot be addressed by his name. Yet, it's near-sacrilege to do so in many churches today. While it's more tolerable to accept in the case of senior ministers or resident pastors, I simply find it ridiculous that churches organize a few training sessions for committed members, graduate them after a couple of months, and from that moment everybody is obliged to address them as 'pastor'. Ditto, deacons, etc. Simply doesn't make sense to me. |
^^^ official way? Please don't introduce the Nigerian or black man's penchant for titles and recognition into the Bible. I've not seen anywhere Peter, Paul or James was addressed as Men of God, much less officially. It's really sad to see that today you can hardly walk into a church and address anybody by their names. That would be considered disrespectful, even though the young man that went through 6 months of classes in his church and is now a pastoral assistant, is way younger than the person addressing him by name. How ridiculous! And, I was expecting a response to my question about the spiritual principles upon which tithing is based. Some of us are eager to learn. Also, we expect those who make claims to back them up, just as you admonished the pastor here. |
And I'll make out time to watch the videos or at least some of them. I'm happy to hear that they contain some solutions. |
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And Which preacher I'm I copying?. 