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Nice. Looking forward too.

Nice game. Looking forward.

Whoop whoop!!!...

Tiny office though but awesome upholstery.

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Never tried it so can't say but I know younger girls around 20/ 21/ 22 have very lovely bodies.

Firm, fresh and glowing.

One of the reasons is because they have lesser experience and thus doesn't carry the hate, disdain and suspicion they usually have around on their faces. This is a psychological thing. Your mind affects your body right?.

So basically, I think what people find attractive is in their innocence but it is being abused.

And yes! Maybe younger girls are tighter...

Honestly, it's not in anyone's place to advice you negatively except to encourage you.

I know how it feels. Frustrating, hopeless, unhappiness and confusion.

Fortunately for you, you are in a country where possibilities are limitless. Keep trying but remember life is short. Remember also that life is vain. If you are a Christian, remember your vows.

At the end of the day, kindly advice yourself and live with your resolve.

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Very dangerous and dicey situation.
You are a prey and like every hunter, the adrenaline and desires emanating not only from the man but from his "m-hood" whenever he sees you won't let him give up.

I can imagine the throbbing in his trousers every morning. Trying to hide it while smiling sheepishly. I can imagine all the styles he has drawn as a plan on a paper.

Very very intense feeling when you especially know this person works for you and the control is in your hands. The bruise on his ego etc

Take interview
Okay... Absolutely correct. I tried it out.
Follow the instructions as given by Op

omoISEYIN:
Hello nmreports,

If you intend to write PE 1 as your next examination, you will have to get your own study pack as it is part of the registration.
You can get the pack for preparation towards the examination but you will still have to get yours when you want to register for the examination.
Be good, enjoy the rest of your day.

Yes I am aware. Since I have all the time now, I was thinking I could just start reading prior when registration starts you get?
You want to help with the packs?.

Pweezy:
i do concur...Emotional Intelligence is Key to managing people

Yes. It is the last coin without which your purse would be entirely empty.

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Bosses... One of the things that can affect any employees personal life. Mentally, socially and morally.
Learning to deal with them will go a long way.
It becomes easier if you have emotional intelligence.

Who can help with PE1 study packs. Will be grateful for any help.

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Please friends, I need the PE1 study packs.
I need someone to assist with this please.
PE1 study packs for CIPM.

ruthieo:
thanks darling

Darling... *Blush*

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adegbiteboy85:
The Pension Reform Act have been reviewed and now it's 8% from Employee and 10% from Employer contributory..

Really? Great Info.

justmenoni:
Then you're right.

I know I was.

justmenoni:
Op, I quite disagree with some of the points you made in this post, do you mean the working environment in Nigeria or just a general overview that should apply in every sane working environment?

Correct. General overview.

Koolking:
It's 7.5% Contribution from Employee and 10% contribution from Employer

Correct.

Different for Military right?.

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Great tips.
Good for new graduate's.

Perhaps you are just starting out on a new job and you have just resumed or you have been serving your employer for months or years now and you don't know what the law compels them to do for their employees, this list would help you.

I was ignorant about some of these things as a young graduate but now I know better. If after your months salary has been paid you noticed some deductions then meet with your HR for clarifications. Judge the environment before engaging the HR. Be smart.

List of things your employer owes you:

1) Your employer owes you a contract letter. This is a letter containing the terms of service, remuneration and other conditions that you have to consider before signing.

2) Your employer owes you a hand book. This is very important for you to understand the vision, mission, values, culture, the dos and don'ts of your company. Usually, no action should be taken against you without the handbook. It's like the constitution.

3) Pensions contribution. A monthly payment which is deducted from your account and added too from your employer to be paid into your account. This you must receive alert every month. Usually, it's from 7.5% above depending on your industry.

4) Health insurance card. Your employer is required by law to get you a health insurance cover. The insurance is for basic health and in some cases pregnancy and surgery depending on your level. There is bronze, silver, gold etc. Usually, you should have a health card.

5) Tax card. Taxes are being deducted from your account monthly and credited into the tax commission of your state monthly. This is what shows you as a good citizen who pays his taxes. Usually, there is a tax card and it's very important if you want to transact with the government.

6) Mortgage contribution card. This is usually being deducted from your account monthly and paid into the FG account. You are entitled to a mortgage contribution card which serves as an evidence for when the opportunity for a housing scheme comes. It also helps to get you housing loans from government.

7) You are also entitled to a yearly 20 working days leave which could be used at the discretion of your line manager or company.

Your company owes you an ID card. Very important. This is what shows that you are associated with your organization.

9) Your employer by law has to provide you a conducive environment which is not only safe but good for your mental health void of abuse and harassment.

10) Lastly, your employer owes you your monthly salary.

This list is by no means exhaustive but for those who don't know, I hope I am able to help a little.

Source: https://humanresourceng..com.ng/2016/10/list-of-things-you-are-entitled-too-by.html?m=1

rose54321:
Mehn, that's a lot to respond to.
Firstly, re-read my message i don't recall linking intellect with classroom education. While i believe they are both closely related as the latter is the platform used to build, nurture and develop the former, they are in no way interchangeable.

You asked many questions above, most are relative and have no correct answer. For instance: what's your level of emotional intelligence? Are u disciplined, can you keep to your words? Are u time conscious? How do u handle criticism
Discipline is subjective, let me give an example: To most Nigerians Moral Discipline can be likened to religious discipline, however in other climes we have atheist that don't believe in any religion. Most definitely their definition of moral discipline will vary.

In the same way you asked how i handle criticism. This, and i repeat, this is entirely subjective. It depends on the type of criticism, if it constructive or directed to bring me down. For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. So my dear, if that criticism is geared at demoralizing me i will definitely fight back and block such negativity from my wall.

Again you asked about international politics. Dude i really do not see the correlation between my interest in international politics and my intellect. As an individual i love politics, keeping abreast of happening around, but not all ladies should. We all have our likes and dislikes, the goal should be developing your strengths. So if you love fashion; strive to be the best fashion designer, you don't need to know tad in politics as its not related to your field.

I really can go on and on, but it's getting long and the average attention span of man is like 8 secs. So to round up this statement: "90% nigerian girls are liabilities mentally, know little and very arrogant" is a flawed.
What population sample did you use for the analysis, or did you limit yourself to folks you have met in your life, and your location which does not make up 1% of Nigerian's land mass or 1% of our 170 million of which women account for 50%.

Submissions like this make you sound ignorant and unexposed (no insult intended).

Smart. Rose54321

Laveda:
Lol actually, pussies don't keep men.. For real.

Some do and trust me it's true.

Testimony time.
Like someone said above, the manner in which you testify would matter in this case.

Like thanking God for giving you a second chance. While also praying for the family who lost loved ones to have the fortitude to bear their loss.

This kinda testimony should be given amidst genuine tears for the lost lives if you have a heart.

It's a different story if your only son is amongst the dead. God forbid.

Let's avoid always generalizing. Situations can be peculiar most times.