₦airaland Forum

Boleyndynasty2:
This government isn't a serious one, they keep acting like they care but they really don't give a Bleep. I bet y'all want to use low oil output as excuse for your incompetence this year again

Berbierklaus:
One thing I have come to realize in this life is that ONE rule does not work for ALL.

Anybody will agree with me that it is a hell of a task for a couple to be married and have kids coming in with little or no means of survival or even comfortability eg an apartment,steady allowance enough to cater for basic needs like feeding,schooling and health care.

I think this advice is flawed,because most young men at 24-26 are yet to find their feet,some are not even matured enough to cohabit with a woman,and all these factors could cause a strain in marriage which could lead to other things entirely.

The best thing to do when it comes to marriage as a man,is know what works for you and the woman you are planning to marry,because its not about getting married,its about sustaining the marriage.
I on my part will not settle down for manage manage,my kids must have what I couldn't have which is why I am hustling to compliment that lucky man that I end up with.

@ Dominique,if those potentials are not feasible most women won't go for it,I for example. A lot of people have potentials but I won't eat potentials,I will eat the result.

Berlynn:
nice one ....seems this is a new trend I will hv to caculate when I will hv sex so I can take in nd I'll give birth on the 1st of Jan 2023 by faya by force

Debra911:
I really love this topic, let's be factual. From Adam, a man s meant to provide for the wife, cos it not easy; the wife carries his baby for 9months, go through rigorous task in giving birth to the child, trains this child to make sure, he/she doesn't go astray cos wat this child becomes in future will be traced to the family background, thesame wife must take care of husband, do the house chores... All these are enough reasons for the hubby to take care of the wife, that's why sometimes, Islam don't support their girls to go through western education, according to them, they are meant for the home , all these are logically true but today, 21st century, everything has changed, the economy is no more favourable, wat if the breadwinner(hubby) dies along the line? what if the breadwinner lose his job due to the economy meltdown? it'll be more difficult for the wife to raise her poor kids, because of these reasons, women are forced to take up the challenge of being a mother and also a breadwinner at the same time. women are called to be independent, to be strong cos they've got to take up two challenges I.e being a mother & at the same time to be financially independent, inorder to become a helpmate to her spouse in d 'rainy days. Any lady who s not ready to take up these challenge can not survive in the real world.

Laveda:
I'm sure any right thinking lady knows this.

But a man should be able to provide for his woman.

AngelicBeing:
Nigeria is on a precipice of pocalyptic crepscule, the economy of Nigeria is in a precarious sentenza , What a deprecable descent from the sublime to the ridiculous!,We must halt this ludicrously lugubrious kakistism

Whytelyon:

Oga, its basically the same thing. They run the same practice, abi aboki no get BDC way day registered? They only come out to seek customers when they short of customers, I have several of them as friends mind you.

EgusiSoup:
you want to be screwing after 7 months?

I think you should respect yourself for a while.

vickyO:
I wish all corrupt politicians would be in these people's shoes because they are the number one criminals. They get fat by devouring the common man's benefit and the common man suffers as a result.

purem:
U guys are jus saying trash
U av no idea wu d tenant may be;
A TOURIST
A MILITARY MAN
A GOV in som order country
A SENATOR in order country

idupaul:
Is she sure the person is not the commissioner of police ? It's not easy to keep 6 MOPOL in your house day and night ooo

Kimjinkyu:
8k per day. kai

totowater:
who dem epp? Next!!

TINALETC3:
Congrats