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codedcliq:
Update:

Car picked up at Tincan today. Clearing agent called to inform that container is ready to be discharged. Less traffic today cos of the public holiday so went there to pick it up. Everything went smooth.

Car at home now.

Will I do business with amdman again? Definitely.

Thank you Amdman.
Thanks to your clearing agent too.

pansophist:
My young bro, take heart. The sad truth is, she has found someone better, and you should accept it even if you do not feature in the picture. It's about emotional maturity and letting this just be.

Your next step is to give yourself time, as time has a way of healing things. You'll pass through it, and you'll like yourself better after this. I experienced something you passed through when I was 18, and felt even worse than you, but I was naive, innocent, and didnt understood the timeless truth of female nature, keeping attraction, and stimulating the relationship sustainably. Looking back those times, I could see clearly the mistake I made, and I've refined myself to a point that such could not happen again. And in the unlikely scenario that it does, well, a replacement is around the corner. You should do the same.

It seems to me that your relationship with her is your job, you specialized in loving her and treating her as the best thing, while ignoring your own personal growth. Listen attentively, women DO NOT want to be your goal. They want to be part/beneficiary of it, not the goal. You treated her nice and gave her everything to the best of your ability and probably didn't focus on your growth, and compete with other men in the free world.

You were too available, making you appear as someone with female scarcity, with no option and not a real catch. Also, pursuing her even after her formal declaration for relationship withdrawal is something that men with no options do. You cannot beg a woman into a relationship with you, it's an instant attraction killer. You attract and keep her with the lifestyle you've built for yourself, and the man you've developed yourself to be.

Remember the biblical story of when God told Adam (after eating the forbidden fruit from Eve), that henceforth he would toil the ground for food and survival, and cursed Eve that she will suffer doing child birth? The true meaning of this story is that as a man, you have to be out there hustling, pursuing your goal and fulfilling your dreams, as no woman want to be for a man that is not out there toiling the ground.

She dont want to cry during child birth for man with no purpose, and be amother to his kids. Whether you believe in this story or not, you may comb any other religion, culture, science, and just observe the world around you, you would see that your value as a man is by being resourceful.

You're almost depressed (that's if you're not), because you are not pursuing things in the real world that would make her wonder why you do not call her always, that even if she breaks up with you, you're too busy achieving and breaking through to even feel an inch of her jilting you. She is at a stage of her life with male abundance, she wont do anything special and men will find her attracted and seek her commitment. All she has to do is sit back and choose, and if she left you for someone else, it means the other guys playing their game better. Loving her is not playing, buying her gift is not playing, but to play, you must develop yourself to be a good catch. That your presence is enough for her to find you attractive. Any man can save, spend and impress, but not every man is a top dog.

That even if she breaks up with you, in the back of mind, she knows there are younger and far beautiful women out there waiting to take her place, and will question herself if she can get a man in the same calibre as you. Do you think Davido will be worried if Chioma decides to leave him? Davido will laugh at her because he knows that she will be dead lucky to meet a man in his status, and she knows this as well. In every relationship, many young boys are clouded with feelings and love without understanding the power dynamics that is ever present and playing in the background.

I hope you get well, but remember this, you will never loose women chasing money (interpret it as goals, achievements, purpose etc), but you'll always loose money chasing women. Goodluck young man.

Flier:
what a joke! It took her just 2 weeks to make it?
I don’t know what is wrong with Nigerians jumping into conclusion when they don’t really know what the lady is talking about
The house debt she is going to be paying for the next 30 years

WildChild00:
Coming from Igberetv

Kkings11:
I dey beg una e don do oh abeg.
I no get money na.

SultanOfAbia:
I dedicate my first FTC to Ogechi.. The nurse that gave my abuna the best sucking ever while I was admitted.. Best night ever

amdman:
For those that want to see container on high sea ...Customs Inspection pics.

We are told Customs Server has been down this week so vehicles are not being released... another unforeseen challenge with doing business in Nigeria

psalmz:
not this car,I have never met you or gave you the vin num,stop trying to spoil other peoples biz

noble71:
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Jhayeahsam01:
I just need a favour of 3k
am needy
Pls help

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StUriah:
Please Nairalanders, how long does it take to receive Paypal money in my Nigerian account or Domiciliary Account? What are the procedure?

I need good advice, please. Thanks

noble71:
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Project: Detailed Structural Design for 6 block of flat (Two bedroom).
Client: Non-Nairalander
Designed By: J-Noble Consult.



Foundation Layout.

noble71:
We take care of Structural, Electrical and Mechanical design with COREN Stamp. We deliver Nationwide. Phone:070.3718.1471




Project: Detailed Structural Design for 6 block of flat (Two bedroom).
Client: Non-Nairalander
Designed By: J-Noble Consult.



Foundation Layout.

LoveJesus87:
I can't even open a Twitter account on my phone. Can anybody help. Keeps telling me can't create account now

noble71:
We take care of Structural, Electrical and Mechanical design with COREN Stamp. We deliver Nationwide. Phone:070.3718.1471




Project: Detailed Structural Design for 6 block of flat (Two bedroom).
Client: Non-Nairalander
Designed By: J-Noble Consult.



Foundation Layout.