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Hum! Truly ispiring.

saaedlee:
I get the message u're trying to pass across(not to expect something any time u go out) buh she's just a kid, u can pardon her this time and something for her, especially as she's crying. I can't stand my daugther shedding tears @ all, I might even develop HBP!! Last time it happend I ...*sobs*

Thanks, I usually brought things for them anytime I went out but today I didn't bring anything. Now after telling her nothing if I shd give her something don't u think it's wrong.

I can back home from work only to be @ d door by little baby @ d door. D conversation goes like dis:
Baby: welcome mom, what did u bring for me
Mom: I brought nothing
She waited for me to UnCloth then came back
Baby: Give me that nothing mum I can eat it
Mum: can't stop laughing, I said I brought nothing
Then she started crying. How do I explain d word nothing to her in another way?just a little above 2yrs n I don't want to buy something for her to pacify her

Lol where will u get money to pay for a lawyer's service bro

Op, It is well with u, dis is a trying time n u'll surely come out of it. I was once in ur shoe but today things r getting beta. In 2011 July to be precise my hubby lost his sys admin job @ Zenith bank.I was more or less an house wife cos my hubby job makes me to resign after ourwedding cos of distance (he was @ Akwaibom, I was @ kwara). I was selling fabrics without shop. We av a baby n I was 7month preggy when he went to work on dat mon mor n was sacked(though it was all d admin officer @ Zenith), we were devastated it was tough then. I deliver thru C S, house rent was due the same month I put to bed(sept), my boy's skool fees was there plus d new baby. 3months after delivery I can't do house core for an hour without been weak cos no gud food to eat n I was doing baby friendly. My hubby went into agriculture(someone dat av always been in AC), sold our car, bought smaller one n started using it for town services. Things r beta today.

To all,
It is gud to live below to our earnings. Try as much as possible not to acquire much home appliances when we can safe such to purchase land. If u r working with fed govt u can work your transfer to a less expensive state. So u can plan ur life well. I know a coulpe dat moved to their house in less than two years of their marriagen they're both working with state govt. Stop competing with ur friends, cut ur clothes accroding to u size. If ur family's size is small u can manage in a mini flat or two bedroom while u start developing urs. Wisdom is profitable.

Once again op, God will heal ur wife n all u're presently passing thur will come to pass n u'll surely be congragulated soon!

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Op, thanks but I don't think it is possible for a woman that av nursed two or three kids to prevent sagging breast except she didn't breast feed. Breastfeeding is one of d price a woman has to pay for her kids.

Evev b4 I open d thread I know say na Ogun State.

It's not a favourable dream but instead of coming to a public forum like dis I suggest u pray fervently and reverse/cancel d dream. There's power in d word even ur own word. Shalom

Beware of advanced fee fraud

It's possible, nothing to fear

fmalatiba:
please have you done ultrasound from a good hospital and they said you are having one baby and later turns out to be twins?

For where?

lalasticlala:
Umuahia should be there

Though I don't support divorce but dats a serious matter. Come to think of it, if dey av SS child, d fin stress and traumal d child will go thru

Islie:
......... Is that enough to make her quit the marriage the husband query

Hum dats serious oo

Richy4:
meeting them on my way out at the ground floor
ME: Hello!

Them: hi
me jump into my car, and off i go

four days or five days later. at ground floor

Me: hello
them: Hi
me jump into my car again and zoom off.
na so I see am. very peaceful way of living. I do not even know their names but have to pretend that i do. we have been living like that for two years

U b machine? Don't kill urself oo
Life is gud

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Noloss. u must believe ooo. because for me, I come after 2hrs of s*$[/quote]

I don't bilivit

Enegod:
Its has to do with being relaxed. The excited ones cum quickly because they are well, excited. The longer ones, take it slow, breath and keep their breath slow and it helps slow down the orgasm.
How long does it take me? About 1hr 12minutes 50secs

Op, lead us by showing example now... How hapi r u in ur relationship?

richol:
I CAN........SHE, YOU KNOW......DEEPER LIFE THINGS

Una no go kill person here oo. What if she is not a deeperlifer? May God forgive u

I concur. Apology to Niger men

pickabeau1:
Why do you think this is a naija phenomenon
Must we bash anything naija to feel better
This is an American debate which happened a few months and still generates tons of debate till today
See Fox Debate here http://mediamatters.org/blog/2014/05/04/fox-is-just-asking-are-female-breadwinners-a-pr/199162


Excerpts from a TIME article on this http://time.com/87890/fox-news-female-breadwinner/


Oh.. I forgot that whites don't cheat.. only naija men do

However as usual, bashing naija males is the favorite pastime of the females here

It's a pity d kind of environment we find our self. When a man was d breadwinner, he wokes up in mor, takes his bath, eat his already-made food on d dinning and goes to office. Wife do d laundry, kept d home, took care of d kids etc.Fastward to nite, man comes back from office wife met him @ d door with a kiss, help to UnCloth him, he gets to d sittingroom to relax n finally eats his dinner n dats how d circle goes because he is d breadwinner.

Unfortunately, man lost his job n wife secured a good job then

Wife is expected to do house chores before going to office in d mor, do d laundry, prepare d kids for skool while hubby drops them @ skool, hubby is @ home all day long but how can d wife expects him to help with d house chores! What a mark of disregard, simply because hubby is not working. D whole house is dirty but how on earth is dat a man's work. We've all forgotten dat a woman is also made of flesh and blood like man, she is face with strees in d office, traffic on d road plus house chores @ home, any attempt to make man see d need to help is tagged pride. NIGER MEN, do unto ur wives what u would want them to do unto u. Thanks

May God help us to accept those things we can not change in life. Weldone sir

Namzy:
You've said it all albeit without rudeness. Thats why some people tend not to be rational. Well I apologize to any sicklers reading and understand your struggle cos ve seen it and sometimes its not pretty. Its a challenge.

Hum, it's a hard decision to take but ponder on dis

1. What if u were d one in her shoes
2. What if she is ur sister?
3. We are not d determinat of so manything in life e.g where to be born, to whom to be born, when to die etc
4. She is d consequence of a decision made by her parents, which u must also learn from

I have seen a woman @ kabba in Kogi state that was married as ss, she has 3kids and she is till alive do she do have crisis but her husband stood by her.

Recently,(Dec 2014) a colleaque dat av been married since 2009 discovered dat their 2nd child was an SS. Ofcourse both parents did test b4 marriage hubby was AA and wife AS. Hubby did his own at UBTH but when d result of d baby came there was confusion and hubby had to go for another test and lo and behold it was AS. What will be d faith of dat child?

Finally, u'll bear d consequences of whatever decision u make so let God guide u and u'll not regret in Jesus name.

How?

2fine2fast:
One day I know say this boy go make us proud

Where r d doctors in d house?

Horllamideh:
Greece kor....Ghana ni

If Ghana catch u, OYO

@ op big congrats to u. God'll do more for u IJN. Thanks for educating us, I'm salivating already. Once again congrats.

Observe ur water therapy first thing in d mor.

Gallant soldiers. More greece to ur elbow.we appreciate u all.

I av a friend back then on campus dat did not know dat d person she anwer his name was not her biological father. She got to know outside @ say 30yrs n asked her mum, mum did not deny it. She was devastated n felt betrayed. It'll be bad for her to know from an outsider. Tell her now n show much love n care. Shalom.