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Hmmm, it is difficult to judge from your story only. Are u a full time house wife or working, are u supporting ur hubby in anyway or he is responsible for all the bills? How did u people got to the state u r staying presenlty I.e did he brought u or u did?

I have experienced what u are presently experiencing in the past but not as long as 6months (3people/ 2people for a month or 3wks every other month) It is not easy cos Africa in-laws take wife as slaves(no support in house chores). Even during pregnancy.
U need to endure and probably try ur best but not at the expense of ur family. U need to realise that even giving all ur earnings out so as to please them does not guarrantee that they will be satisfied.

Pray for wisdom to handle this situation cos it needs wisdom. Pray for strength as well to be able to endure and then since ur hubby did not see issues the way u see it(so was mine) u need to thread softly.

Two things restrained (they still come maybe once or twice a year for few days)them from our house.

1. During the pregnancy of our first child 2-3 people do come at a goal to stay for close to a month. I accomodated them, fed them single handedly did virtually all the house chores cos i was agile but our first child was born through CS.

There was enough food at home but I don't even come out of my room until maybe 10am(for a month). If u cannot cook, u will not eat ni ooo. When I was hungry and they don't cook I simply go out and get something for my self. I have beverages at my bedside with hot water. May be they felt slighted(they didn't say it cos we never fought) but when we had the second child they didnt come(who cares)

2. Hubby lost job(couldnt meet their demands anylonger).

May u receive wisdom from above to handle this situation.

NaoSlay:


I smell lies.



I led him to the reading room and zoomed off.



So you carried your dad and he slept in general reading room.

And the potters did not even talk to you.

Continue.

he should continue these lies he's sharing

Oruko lo nro omo... Your name says it all.

Hmmm, men and sex!!! I am happy that majority of men that have commented knew the prize of giving birth no be moinmoin.
It takes a lot of time before a woman's body return to normal after birth though it varies but whether normal delivery or through CS u should at least give her 6wks. We r not saying that she must be compulsorily ready by six wks.

She may start bleeding because the mouth of cervix is still tender and some other complication may set in if not giving enough time.

Congrats baba baby. We go wash am oo.

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How I wish I can help but I am financially incapacitated now.
However, just want u to know there is light at the end of tunnel. There is hope for a tree was cut down, it will sprout again.

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If only he could witness the demolition before his death...

Shout out to dayleke for the N1000 gift. It was timely.

Hmmmmm, there is a way that seemeth right unto a man but the end is death.
I received N1000 from dayleke yesternite. God will replenish ur pocket, may u never run out of favour in Jesus name.

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I received 1000 alert yesteenite from dayleke. It was God sent alert, so timely. Thanks so much. May u never run out of favour in ur life.

Pls can u assist me with the link of 2018 npower.

Well, it depends on the decision of both of you. It is good to embark on spiritual exercise. Amos 3:3 says it all.

Short of words.

Short of words

Inspired227:
I claim same for my mum this year.
Two Boys, Two Girls. Amen

U mean ur own mum

Hmmmn, what a world

Here I am sir

I show up oo

RoyalBlak007:
We're on the same page

[color=#F5A215]...It's not airtime you need.I'll just wait for someone who needs to show up [/color]

Hmmm.

MERRY CHRITMAS!!! TO YOU ALL

My God bless Twaci for this wonderful initiative.Glitterringstar and dayleke I really appreciate u for putting smile on my wards face this season. May God bless all the givers for their large heart and beneficiaries as well so that we'll be able to bless others come next year. Wishing all a prosperous new year and merry Xmas. Save journey to all travellers in Jesus name. Amen.

May the Lord bless Twaci for this wonderful initiative. Glitteringstar, dayleke for putting smile on my children's face may God replenish ur pocket and bless every givers this season. May God also bless all beneficiaries so we can extend love to the less privileged come next year.

Nobodys:
Interesting..
. Chiefpiiko I sight your works...don't stop the good work dear....
To all those that have given and the chairman that wants to open blog for people , May God bless you all...

. To those that ask ,May you be the one to give next year....


Don't stop doing good and together we will make ourselves great ..... .

Amen

Ayoolajumoke:
Thank you:

SacBag
Fhemmmy
kitaatita
Twaci
Santa

Jah bless y'all

Amen n amen. May God bless us too to be able to bless others.

Chefpiiko:
First 10 people to quote will get mtn recharge card

07037273711 I have never gotten airtime since the beginning of this tread.

fattbabakay:
Hello everyone,

Initially posted that I'll be giving 10k to 10people this xmas but I think I have to shift grounds. Cos I see that 95% of people on this thread just want to GH and some are even coming up with cooked stories, so it's hard to decide.

According to my thought, no matter the amount given to you, you'll finish spending it and if care is not taken, you'll still come back here next year to seek help.

So in that stead, I have decided to help some set of people (interested ones) with what I do. I will be creating blogs for 10 people (I'll help you with everything) and I'll also be creating Fiverr accounts for 10 people (You might have to google what that means).

These are opportunities worth more than money and are bound to give you financial freedom in later days so you can help others, instead of asking for help.

So, this is for extremely serious and not lazy people. If you are really ready to get out of being broke, this might be a good chance. As at this time last year, I couldn't give 10K to 10 people.

I will update on this later, just follow up.

Pls sir, even though am a bit late but I will appreciate if I can be considered.

bujebudanu1:
5 people should pls quote me for a token. Just 5 pls
Or if u stay in abuja and can come over for Christmas cooking and cruise .

see me pls. 2630921020 fcmb

fattbabakay:
Let's start from here:

The first 50 people to quote me with phone number and network will chop 200 airtime each.

UPDATED: 27 So far. 23 to go.

09053973839

GlitteringStar:
I've sent you a private message. Check your inbox.

Thanks so much. I have reply but the msg bounced back. Don't know what to do.

Twaci:
Thank you dear

I just understood the msg after sending the first msg. I don't know I was included, was trying to appreciate u on behalf of others. Thank u so much ur will not die untimely.

GlitteringStar:
Nice thread! @Twaci, thank you for starting this thread.

I would like to put a smile on some people's face too. The following people should send a private message to me. I chose them based on certain criteria.

@EverfaithfulGod-----Foodstuff and a cordless electric kettle (picture attached)

@Ogoman-----Cash gift

@Daniellababy-----Cash gift

@Spankyflex-----Recharge card

@Kelizosuy-----Cash gift

@EsteemedB-----Cash gift

@Noloss-----Cash gift

I chose @Daniellababy,@Kelizosuy and @EsteemedB because they are wonderful mothers for taking care of their babies all by themselves.


I wish everyone a Merry Christmas and Happy Prosperous 2018 in advance.


Note: I will not respond to any unsolicited private messages from anyone (apart from the above-named persons). Thanks.

Wao, I am so elated. But I don't know how to send private msg. can I drop my email address or bank details. Thanks