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Tallesty1:
I'm good my dear.



And you??

am alright..thank u

GamaG:
I want to know whether it is the sole duty of men to say 'I love you' first before the women respond with 'I love you too'.

honestly speaking, this issue has been giving me cause for concern as when I refused to say it, my fiancee will not initiate it. your opinion is highly needed please.

hmm for me If am dating a guy and he dosnt say I love u to me then he won't get same frm me.he shuld be d one to initiate it first..then I can follow all d way..meanwhile..there r some guys dt won't always tel u dy love u buh inside of them they truly love u to tiny pieces.so I jst think d I love u thing is not even always necessary.a man dt loves u wil show it in some oda way mayb via his actions.

Tallesty1:
Continue studying men.



The sad news is that you won't graduate

tallesty1 lol hw r u naaa?

dunno o buh booking my space incase it mks front page

Jst commenting incase it mks fpage..umm ur quest abt worrying over our unborn children;left for me I dnt wory abt that..I jst think abt it most times..trust me dts not worry.and I dnt cease to pray for d fruit of my womb..dn abt marrying a handsome guy..he has to be presentable..meanwhile na ur luks I go chop?d most important thing is hs personality..who he is..

adepiero:
POOR DRESS SENSE, BOGUS MAKEUP, DIRTINESS

BOWL LEG, K LEG

SMALL BOOOBS, SAGGY BOOOBS, STRETCH MARKED BOOOBS, OVERSIZE BOOOBS

BODY ODOUR, COLOURED TEETH, BAD BREATHE

BIG TUMMY, FLAPPY ARMS, BLOCKED THIGH, STRETCH MARK, BLEACHED SKIN, HAIRY ( ARMPIT AND PRIVATES )

SMALL YANSH, FLAT YANSH

the perfect guy looking for the perfect lady.lol

evegran:
OP she simply has a sleeping disorder. Most folks with this kinda sleeping disorder, are people who mostly keep things to themselves. Rarely speak their minds. They usually have a lot to say but rather stay quiet. You should talk to her about what's on her mind or about what's bothering her. You can also listen to her talking whilst she's asleep, see if what she says makes any sense or if its gibberish. If this is the only problem in your relationship, you should help her work on it and not dump her. Its a disorder which can be corrected, if she's gonna be open about it and willing to accept help. . Oh and you can totally also try the African way, "take her for deliverance or some proper beating". You decide!

awwwh sooo. Swt

ogaprime:
Lol...you better go to old "ak" tread of previous batches to get more info...

hw do I find it pls

ogaprime:
Their food now...double up in size

gud to knw.dt means I wil rily enjoy my stay in camp..

NairaMode:
***Screams*** Whatsup!!!
I look at your pictures everyday though.
Painful you are in PH.
***Cries***

smiles wt teary eyes* now u re gona mk me join u too

NairaMode:
I hope they make more sales with this.
That's the essence.
I however think the millions given to this superstar should have been spent on making the milk more at par in quality with their competitors.

nairamode*screams* wia hv u bn?missed all doz ur comments lol

ogaprime:
Hmmmm....you want to double up in size abi

how?

ogaprime:
Ak "akansas"

lol akwaibom

factorial1:
and must you now quote the whole epistle Lol.

busy body..hw is dt ur business..

ogaprime:
Which state??

Ak

Giftedgreen:
As a student you probably would not believe us if we tell you that are absolutely naive and no, you are not on top of the world.

You will soon graduate from the university, service year is going to be awesome (at least according to the stories you’ve heard).

After service, you are going to get a job, have a family, build a home, become a millionaire and live happily ever after.

There is just one problem with your plan. The only problem with your plan is the real world.

This article is to lets students know things to look out for before they graduate so they don’t get railroaded.

1. A Degree Does Not Entitle You To A Job

We all know getting a degree means a lot of hard work and commitment but because you have a degree does not mean somebody is going to grant you an automatic job offer.

Gone are the days when all you needed to get a good job was a university degree.

We were all told the same lies in secondary school, get a university degree and a mouth watering job would fall on your lap.

The smart people are the ones who figured out this lie early in school and made sure the time they spent in school would separate from other students who were busy enjoying school life to the fullest.

It’s time to get your head out of the sand.

2. Start The Job Search Before You Graduate

Job hunting is a complicated thing and there is no almighty formula for you to acquire a job. Job seeking is not something you can “cram” for and pour out everything during an exam. There are no cheat notes for post-graduation experience.

The job hunting business is an on-the-training experience and the best way to get ahead of your colleagues is to start your career exploration during your service year or better yet during your university days.

You can research branches of your field, do internships (industrial trainings), find out what size of company is for you, and practice job searching techniques.

Put these tips in play and by the time you’re done with service, you’ll be prepared for the next phase of your life and it will be quite tricky for reality to hit you with tons of bricks.

3. Facebook Is Forever

Not just facebook, but twitter, instagram, and every other social network that you decide to be a part of.

What does this mean to an average student? Well it means that every obscure joke you post on Facebook, every explicit picture you share, every inappropriate comment will be visible to the world when you become famous or when you go job hunting.

At the very least, know how to manipulate your social media privacy settings and restrain yourself from littering your social media accounts with unfitting content.

Being appropriate on the web is just as important for a political career as it is for finding employment. Your binge drinking photos might be funny now but they won’t be so hilarious in five years time.

4. Life Is Expensive

You are probably surviving on the allowance you receive from your parents right now and you’ve realized that life can be expensive, EXPENSIVE.

Just wait until you have to live on your own, probably during service year or when you get your first job.

By the time you pay for house rents, transportation fare, recharge cards, light bills, water bills, food, utilities, and every miscellaneous expense. It won’t take long before you realize that life is expensive.

Everything would suddenly become so expensive that you would sometimes feel like crying.

This is one of the most painful things to learn. EVERYTHING costs money.

Anytime from now, you should learn how to create a budget for yourself. Otherwise your rent will be due, your kitchen will be empty and you will be busy dodging from the people you owe money.

5. Never Be Scared To Take Chances

This is probably the most important lesson you have to learn before you graduate, never be scared to take chances. You’ll never get anywhere you want if you don’t take calculated risks every now and then.

No one is telling you to jump out of a plane or go swimming with crocodiles (which would be awesome if you survive), but nothing in life comes easy. Yes, it is cliché, but it the hard truth. After all, nothing can deputise experience.

When you become a graduate, the best option is not becoming a boring office robot whose life revolves around work.

Your twenties and thirties are the some of the best years of your life, we kid you not.

Do not be afraid to face the real world with open arms, explore opportunities, and take chances. You’ll be surprised at what fate has in stock for you.

6. Learn How To Interact With People

Learning how to interact is a very valuable skill you need to have in your belt. It is a “street smart” skill. You could read a million books on how to interact with people but the only way to develop your interaction skill is to put it into practice constantly until it becomes a part of you.

This skill will surely be tested each time you go for a job interview. Heck! You even need this job more if you are an entrepreneur.

Learn to greet people with a smile. Say “thank you, please and I appreciate” whenever the situation deems necessary. These small gestures go a long way to make a huge difference. Don’t be so quick to dismiss the power of appreciation and courtesy.

Make small talk, get to know anyone you have to spend more than thirty minutes with, help them if you can. Who knows? You might meet your own saviour.

Don’t know what to talk about? You could talk about the TV shows you watch, the cool blogs you visit on the net (don’t forget to mention giftedgreen.com), the weather – hint hint : ).

Learn to be always positive, make sure people smile after talking to you.

7. A Skill Will Get You Farther Than A Certificate

What we recommend is that you pick up as many skills as possible, as long as you have a passion for it. Do not say “I am studying English Language, why do I need to learn HTML?” If you are computer major, take a couple of management trainings. It will help you in the long run.

The skills you acquire do not necessarily have to be educational; you could learn tailoring, baking, programming, carpentry . . . anything. You never know when your minor skill will become your added advantage, or your primary source of income.

Not only that, you will be able to converse with a larger variety of different people, plus it shows your employer that you are a fast and versatile learner.

8. Save Something – Anything

Start saving now and you’ll be setting the foundation of your financial future.

There is always a need to save, even if it is the tiniest bit each month. Like we said earlier, life is expensive and the best way to be prepared is for you start saving right now.

Whether it’s for a big purchase, an emergency or for your future it’s important to have a little money for fall back to during rainy days. Trust us, those days will come.

9. You Are Going To Need Lots Of Hardwork

You are now a graduate, you no longer need to read through the night, attend boring lectures and write difficult examinations. Your life should be an easy pie from here. Right? Wrong.

In fact, this is the time that you need to work harder than you imagined, if you want to be successful.

Although you could relax; get a federal government appointment, and retire on your pension. This is perfect, if you want to be mediocre.

We are you are among those that want to be successful. In order to do that, you are going to need a lot of brain work, stay up late at nights and lots of reading if you are going to be among the 1%.

Even if your father is a billionaire, it’s a lot of hard work maintaining all that money.

10.Success Takes Time

After applying all these, do not expect to become a millionaire overnight, or in a week or in a month. Success takes time.

No matter the amount of hard work, Success takes time.

If you are in a hurry to be successful, you will either fall prey to money swindlers or get yourself entangled in something highly illegal. Neither of them sounds good.

That’s all for now!

You don’t have to wait until you graduate to gain these little nuggets of wisdom. Put them to use! Then start collecting some of your own

Already have something to add? Leave them in the comment section below.

- See more at: http://giftedgreen.com/2014/blog/2014/10/15/10-life-lessons-ever-nigerian-student-should-know-before-graduating-from-the-university/#sthash.WKALv3ww.dpuf

sooo swt,inspiring.am jst waking up and dz is wat I get for morning lectures lol op I love u to my soul*screams*dz is xactly wat I need as a prospective batch c coper

ogaprime:
Lol...I know. Talking from experience. If there is anything like stream II because of boko haram, relocating will be quite possible. But if there is nothing like stream and you are posted to far north...oparri ooo na dir you go serve ooo. That's why I said prepare for the worst thing to happen and pray for options

buh am working it to my. Choice of state

Kookny:
I'm in the same shoes with you swiry. Don't get scared. Oluwa is involved.

Cheers

soothing *smiles*

Chuks16:
just dey dance skelewu.











you still get some demerits oh.












hmmmmmm,why?













because you have some small oranges on your front.











don't worry,topic on that will soon surface.









hahahahaha.

gerraway..u see why I dnt lyk discusin wt u chuks..dnt quote me again.

Chuks16:
hmmmmm,because you are not a victim of fatty belly

lol yes naa and I wil neva be even afta hving my cute lovelies*dancing*

Pdizzle:
My biggest turnoff

I detest it too.finally flat tummy gurls rock..lol.even after childbirth,a woman should work on herself..hv regular exercises too and also curtail her rate of consumption.

ogaprime:
Pray to be in stream II, that's if there will be two streams...get ready for the worst and pray for options

bros u sound scary hiaa

Csami:
I've got ma call up number. It was posted in ma school this morning. The main problem now is where do I work the posting to.

akwaibom ,delta,riverstate..my opinion shaa..jst hasten up b4 it becomes late

Csami:
I've got ma call up number. It was posted in ma school this morning. The main problem now is where do I work the posting to.

akwaibom ,delta,riverstate..my opinion shaa..jst hasten up shaa b4 it becomes late

saints2:
I think we should call it fear of the unknown, its normal, its a phase especially when you dont control over whats gonna happen next, my own method is just to say a little prayer that 'GOD, LET ME BE CARRIER OF YOUR PRESENCE ANY WHERE I GO'. Its well my dear, see you Nov. 4th

thanks

Csami:
If u think u're scared, try me. I'm shaking, thinking and depressed all becos ma call up number is not out, coupled with the fact that I've never been far from my people ma entire life. I'm sweating and I can't sleep.

honey u dnt have to be depressed ok..about ur callup no not out yet is an error from nysc..my friend has d same issue..and her hod says the callup numbers wil be sent by nysc by nextweek.so cheeer up k

chukwuma101:
I wish you could lead me to it.

of cos I can ..am a lovebreeed.I bleed love lol*buh seriously I jst think dias nothing lyk true love..its tautology..love is love..that's why its called love..if its not love then its hate..

computerboy:
Girl it's not fear. you're just nervous. Believe me, it happens to even those muscular guys you see especially when you've never been too far away from home all your life.


The good news is it will disappear on your 2nd day at camp

really??re u done serving?

AdekunleIG:
Its normal!
Just remain focus, integrate and take a look at this: https://www.nairaland.com/1943348/best-advice-that-will-make-you-smile-after-NYSC

thanks Alot

chukwuma101:
Do you think the dynamics of the modern world can allow for a relationship/marriage built entirely on pure love and mutual affection? These days most guys/girls see relationships/marriage the way a capitalist sees a business opportunity- they go into it with the view that "what can I benefit?, how do I exploit this opportunity to enrich myself?" This is so contrary to the kind of affection that bound our parents together in the past! So with relationships becoming capitalist in nature, do you think true love stands a chance

true love is not dead..its lost but can be found..wt me leading the way lol

espn:
Where wer u posted to??

hvnt been posted yet..callup no jst came out..working it to akwaibom shaa