phintohlar:
i sincerely don't knw what to say to you ewu, for ur mind now you make sense bah

Why would you know why to say , when your brain is black like your dress , better bounce off my mentions like your rescinding hairline , na now day don break for you

sholajigga:
Nairaland Vaseline Association (NVA)

Am a proud member , registration is free

LesbianBoy:
If I catch this girl in bed eh.

Intense fvcking!!!

Unfortunately, you can only catch her in your dreams, more Vaseline for your hustle

dayo2me:
make banana fall on you.

No be only banana , na yam go fall on am

He should send his children there, animal

LancelLogan:
I have chronic OCD coupled with other mental issues like ADHD, chronic depression, extreme anxiety, bipolar, Low self-esteem, Perfectionism(OCPD similar to OCD) and the Fantasy Disorder (i waste hours fantasizing about a character rich fantasy world i have created in my head for almost a decade now) and (i don't know) i think i'm autistic... It kills me inside... I have contemplated suicide but i'm afraid it will be too painful or unsuccessful (since firearms are not sold in this country)...

My mental issues started when i was around 5 years (or maybe since child birth)... My depression heightened during my secondary education at a military secondary school (Nigerian Navy Port Harcourt).

I stay in Port Harcourt and school in the University of Port Harcourt (Uniport)... I'm repeating my final year because my mental issues did not allow me focus on my project and two difficult Maths courses.. i find it hard to focus (ADHD) and study... If i am not battling with that ever present inner OCD voice, I'm fantasizing about another world inside my head...

Everybody thinks i'm rude because i am never smiling and i don't know how to talk to or reply people (I'm always anxious even when i'm familiar with the person trying to talk to me)... no matter how i try i will always say something awkward or I wouldn't be able to say anything at all (my heart will always seem to be racing and my speech stuttering)... So i just detach myself from people generally to save myself from embarrassment...

What my OCD and OCPD has obsessed and compelled me to do over the years is just so much i can't write all about it here... It's more than the regular "wash your hand before and after you touch anything if not you will be infected or fall sick" or "if you press the wrong letter while typing a document, you must clear the whole page and start again if not the document file will be corrupted"]... If ever i try to resist the OCD voice, I'll feel so uncomfortable, anxious, disturbed and drowsy... i won't be able to concentrate on anything at all...

Also, it has made me abusive to my younger brother... If he does something I(or the OCD rather) don't(doesn't) like ... Example, if he doesn't wash his hand before touching things in our room or doesn't follow a couple of sequence i normally carry out while cleaning our room... i get so angry, i yell or sometimes(rarely though) physically abuse him... Any little thing he does irritates me even if he is just playing music, making a call or even laughing at a joke he read on his phone... This makes me hate myself but i can't stop this behavior...

Side note:[I have nothing against Christians or religious people... Please, don't be offended] I recently stop believing in religion (Christianity in my case)... I see it as a mechanism implemented to make people behave and make people be motivated to live and enjoy life... I also don't identify as an atheist because most atheist these days are just religious about their non-believe... They will undoubtedly support theories like The Big Bang Theory and yet criticizes Christians for believing in the Creation Story... I don't believe both of the aforementioned theories(stories)... I can say I'm agnostic because i do not know about the origin of existence.. Although, when i was still an ardent Christian, my OCD voice will compel me to give large portions of my personal savings to "God" so that i'll receive a specific blessing or answer to a prayer request... lol...

I have not talked to anyone about my issues because i know they will not understand... during my secondary school days, i told my parents i was contemplating suicide... they beat me up and took me to church for deliverance... lol... so there is no point talking about it to my family...


I will appreciate talking to someone who understands... Please reply or email me...

Thanks...

Guy , you are very interesting, don't hate you self , there are very few people like you , we have a lot of stuffs in common, I would like to meet you and discuss further, do you stay in Lagos ?

IamphilVitalis:
We all need something special on us and that thing is the grace of the ALMIGHTY GOD in heaven. I remember I once talked about grace of GOD on here and some people said some awkward things to me but I ignored them tho. I discovered that one thing missing is the grace of GOD. australia embassy will exceed 32-50 days in processing your visa which is likely not supposed to happen and not only that but the worst deny you visa only when you do not possess the grace of GOD. my brothers and my sisters, it is impossible for you to have the grace of GOD and australia embassy will exceed 32-50 days before granting you your visa, it is also impossible for you to have the grace of GOD and australia embassy will deny you visa. Tah!, for where that one wan happen when " the exceeding riches of the grace of GOD in His kindness towards us through CHRIST JESUS" is resting on us.it is impossible. The bible says "expectations of the righteous ones cannot be cut off/cut short". so i urge everyone of you to pray seriously for the grace of God on you and on your travel package so that you will receive good news of visa grant. I pray; my LORD JESUS it is written in the word of GOD that " for by grace are we saved through faith; and that not of ourselves: it is the gift of GOD" and so I pray on everyone of us planning to travel to australia that in JESUS name let the riches of the grace of GOD come upon us and speak for us, let everything concerning our dreams to travel to australia turn around for our good, let our visa be granted unto us before 50 days when we apply as it is the australia embassy's time and may we never be denied our visas again through CHRIST JESUS I pray.AMEN. please say amen with me and share your testimony.

amen and amen my brother , they must give us that grant this year, they now born dem well to do otherwise.

ZorGBUooeh:
Fat Losser..If ojukwu was alive he would have cursed ad disown you for joining apc.

I hate the guy shape..See as im be like Bag of Beans

Don't mind the bastard , he is a traitor that sold out cheap , he doesn't deserve to bear that name ojukwu , he has completely destroyed his father's legacy and is an abysmal disgrace to Igbo land.

Rozaytee:
take it easy oo

Lol , why will I take it easy , priceless jewel like you , I would do all I can to meet you.

everything is food in this country, very soon when all the animals are extinct , na human person go dey reason to chop. See what buhari has caused.

Rozaytee:
very sexy keep feeding ur eye.... mtcheew

Baby I can't help it , I would love to meet you if you don't mind , my email is noscarn91@yahoo.com

Rozaytee:
including men... mtcheew

That cleavage of urs , 100% , I could stay all day in it.

NOC1:



God forbid, since I was born I have never patronised an olosho, but I have given many money but not for sex.

You girlfriend might be an olosho , nigga wake up , all girls are lairs

NOC1:
I want to vomit, those things a dirty.

Shut up , hypocrite, am very sure you are one of their customers

akinke:


God will sort it!

Amen my brother

skydon:


I applied on the 10th of June. Praying and hoping for the best.

Bless you brother , please double or triple your prayers that the only thing that can see us through this storm because I don't understand what going on in that visa office .

Asoasoaso:



Okay, GOD will help us, when did u applied? I applied since July 4th and nothing yet

I applied June 25th , did biometrics June 28th, no contact from them since then. I have been praying non stop since last week , you should the same.

noscarn91:

Not me , my friend

I have not gotten any notification from DIBP, it was my friend that was rejected

Asoasoaso:


Plz when did u applied??

Not me , my friend

chimax1:
Good morning guys, it's really saddening seeing all these grant denials after all the wait nd money invested. What is the advice for a feb 2018 hopeful yet to lodge visa?

Pray , pray and pray , a guy I met during my biometrics called me last night sobing that he had just been denied too becos of some GYE crap , this dude had 64m as SOA and has been to the UK several times , I am beginning to think there is a prejudice against Nigerians , they just justify their denials with stupid reasons , only the grace of God can give someone Visa grant this year , nothing else.

sarrki:


Do you know that biafra will never happen ?

Yeah but that doesn't stop Nigeria from being a zoo

Joyfree:
This bad news called rejection must stop , I pray nairaland family receives positive grants this week in Jesus name. Amen

Amen and amen , my brother , I reject any bad news from DIBP , we didn't wait this long to be cast off just like that.

Bad news everyday on this thread, what the meaning of this? Are we mourners? Father lord , i reject any bad news from DIBP, henceforth in jesus name. Amen

iykedpetes:
my advice is u should not lay ur eges on one basket ..I got my refusal on the 15th of Nov,i regretted going for Australia cos dey really wasted my time.I put everything in God's hands

Sorry my brother , when were you suppose to resume?

Abbey1987:

Yes I'm self sponsored.. Had incredible amount in my account though..

how incredible was the amount? 10, 15 or more ?

I don't want to sound like a hater but there is really nothing special about his 'achievement' , there are lots of unemployed and unemployable youths back home with Msc with distiction as well , the focus should be on value and profitable skills not paper qualification or you might just end up being a corporate slave for the rest of your life.

Abbey1987:
All glory and adoration belongs to almighty Allah, to me it might be depressing but Allah has a reason for everything at a particular time.. I just got my grant refusal email from my agent. Upon all the efforts it's still come out been negative. Anyway I need an advice on the next line of action. I'm thinking of applying to another university probably for July intake with a master course that's relatively close to my first degree geology to be precise. I'm thinking of any environmental course or hydrogeoology course.. Any advice will be welcome and please don't be too emotional with the advice...i know the God I served has a reason for this. I prayed for those still awaiting grant that positive mail will come soonest. Thanks famz

What was the reason for your refusal ?

phintohlar:
I just love this dude & i don't know why

You have poor taste in men, with your face like spongebob and pot belly like papa Ajasco, nonsense.

Nonsense track , mr P I want my data back !!!!

iamJ:
No child, no husband forming accomplished

This guy your are a beast

Ashawo kobo kobo , all these so called actresses are all whores , I have zero respect for them.