₦airaland Forum

Taal17:
They shared with you their experiences which are valid and true. Learn from it.

There many people here, came into the UK at different times to different cities and with different levels of supports both from Nigeria and in the UK.

Is it as difficult as those ppl told you? YES . It's the truth do not ignore.
Could it be easier for you ? YES and NO.

You need to sit down and think about
time you want to migrate
the cost to you personally to migrate
the living costs in the UK at the time you want to migrate
and your own personal reasons for migrating.

If you are looking to others to tell you what to do then you are avoiding being responsible for your actions.

Thank you for the insight
I appreciate

Japa

Viruses:
This is why they are discouraging you, so that you won't make it where they didn't make it.

Hmmmmmmm
Are you saying it's much better than people let out ?
Um selling my entire life to move so na one way

hustla:
Interesting

Well, that might be their own POV

Out of curiosity, were they gainfully employed in Nigeria before leaving?

Yes sir
2 of them were employed with a pretty decent salary

NezzyMike:
Better pay 6 months rent upfront, pay half of your school fees because to get job here na war...most are really depressed cus the labour market is saturated! Can you pay fees, rent and food with 16 hours job? Think well cus who no know no go know!!

Thanks for the heads up sir.
This one na another fear you don plant so

hustla:
Those discouraging you, where are they?

3 of them came back after school

Abeg I dey plan japa to UK next year but, people just dey discourage me say e dey super hard. Say you go dey work for life and you no go fit save anything.
I want to go through study then just hang for there after.
How far abeg any info make una epp person

Mbataku96:
If she dies I take everything abi

You wan kill am?

leTrizzle:
I feel you bro, most firms either don't want a QS or want to pay peanuts as salary, had same issue many years ago, las las I bone practice. I hope to get back sha especially if Japa works out. All the best man.

Thanks brother
Wish ya the best too

Martinsmine:
What if the billionaire daughter no later send the guy

Ehen... then back to square 0

Sucre6:
Yes i will abandon two of them

Please where is the money, my bag are packed

Lol

Stomoney:
What a mumu question. Who go wan marry poverty and liability

Who said she is a liability?

Highman56:
Yes

Lol simple

talented321:
Manchi I don't think i can leave my wife for anybody, i love peace of mind.

Good point sha... peace of mind trumps money

moshuur:
boss do u mean bolt and Uber is not really profitable again?
omoh...that's d hustle lots of people dey use sustain themselves na...will this country ever gets better?

Boss... I wish it wasn't true
It's really a pity. People are just doing it now for daily bread not for any additional expenses. When your moto spoil na there the real wahala come because you won't be able to make enough to fix it.

Imagine 9k fuel now is 25k and the fares didn't increase much.
If you make 25k with 10k fuel
Just imagine now thesame fuel costs 25k

VTJN:
he's far better than you and millions of Nigerians living in abject poverty with multiple children. He's doing the right thing not to bring a child into this miserable world. He was born poor, he will not follow his forefathers route. He is educated. He must make amends legally. It's not a crime having a child at 50 provided the child has good foundation that most poor kids lack. You're looking for people to recruit into poverty

Thank you sir

I say make I ask
You divorce her you lose everything. So na forever contract

AskNgige2:
In Abuja wey the fare cheap self, u buy fuel 12k and make 14k

You don talk am finish

davidadenrele:
Hello,

This is my honest advise for you aside been a lawyer one of the best selling profession is quantity surveyors with the 4 million in your account its best you register your self a company and link up with properties household companies and agents personnel that could link you up for business, there's lot prospect being a Quantity Surveyor don't Japa look at the bright side of life what you need is connection find a way to register yourself in a social club like Lion's Club, Ikoyi Club, Polo club joined this club and make sure you an active member also make sure you have a complimentary card with you that will show your profession just one or two sales of property or lands worth billions my brother God don answer your call the rest is referral by clients my brother be hopeful there's opportunity for you here stay don't run.

As far your profession is concern going abroad now not will help you look around there are lot opportunities. Properties business is a Big Business just be hopeful and be honest you always see client remember when God pick your calls.

All the best

Thing is I never had the chance to practice. Immediately I graduated i looked for jobs at related fields. Even offered to work for free so i could get experience but, i no know wetin I do people. Whenever i talk about learning from them they Ghost me. SO in order not to just dey like dat, I started looking for other means of hustling... Bolt, Poultry, and some other small small things... So as Tinubu don scatter e-hailing for us. No profit at all with he current fuel prize. there's no point again... so i wanna sell my car add small thing and look elsewhere.

9jaRealist:
Japantitis!

Give Tinubu a chance na…
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Na him put the nail on the coffin, just less than 2 months in office

Chetas81:
Slave always leave their motherland to serve their colonial masters 😜✍️✍️

E better to be a slave there than slave in your own country

eepeepook:
What happened to your other account?

Nothing... I dont want stigma

Jman06:
One serious problem we have in this country is the issue of AGE DISCRIMINATION. Despite being a backward nation in dire need of increased productivity cum development, we still discriminate against people of certain age and hinder them from actively working and participating in nation building.

Imagine someone who's just 40 years asking this kind of question, clearly believing that at 40 he has grown too old to travel out. I don't blame op though, it is the kind of mentality people have here.

Whereas the whiteman would open up his labor market for different age groups (except of course, the very vold and frail), the black nations would come up with some unfounded theories to stop or discourage people from working and aspiring to achieve greater heights on the grounds of age. Tell me why we won't continue to be underdeveloped.

My point is, Nigerians should learn to jettison any cultural practices, believes or rules that discourage people from working and aspiring for greater heights at any ages! All these organizations that restrict people of certain ages from working for them (eg banks) should be seriously sanctioned. If we can have people in their 70s get elected as presidents of the country, then we should not discriminate against people of same age brackets that still want to work in any organizations. Let's learn to fire from all cylinders in our quest for development!

My broda... As every employee dey call 23 - 25 na wetin make me pack my kaya look the other way

Ogeeriga:
You can invest 500k online, like YouTube, Facebook and make good money instead of traveling

HOW?

AskNgige2:
Pls am 40 and not married..

Can I still travel out?

I don't even know my direction since I graduated.. this Uber hustle don tire me

That's what i do too but, Tinubu don scatter the hustle. e no dey pay again

I am single and a Quantity Surveying graduate.
My budget is 4m.
What are my options pls?
Any country apart from African and Asian
Thank you

Call ashawo make she dey baff make you dey peep am... e no suppose cost like dat

Uniquetani1:
Na three ways
She doesn't like you but want you around
She likes you but scared of commitment
She has someone she likes.

Five months is enough to decide on what she wants.
Advice yourself

Obviously not the second because I said I'd come and see her parents. And even send my parents over if she's doubting my own visit but, she said no

paulolee:
no sir...u are not impatient, the duration for friendzone is 5 years, me I even stayed 8 years before she allow me kiss..
with the kind of simpish post i do read here this days, I go jus de wonder if all these talk na cruise or such rubbish really exists..

Omo... e dey exist o. I be prime example
I no dey troll

satandeterrible:
I pity you bro.
Most importantly I pity your parents.
Its such a shameful thing to give birth to extremely foolish kids. Especially such foolishness that one is being manipulated without him even realising it.

It would have been better if you hadn't been born. At least one less stupid simp in the world.

You're just a bug Simp. A huge disgrace of a man.
Continue allowing the girl manipulate your empty, senseless head.

Lol... common dude
Dat one is a little too harsh na, damn! But I get the message sha. Thanks

Jennyclay:
Uhmm.. That's what you men are fond of saying. "I won't hug, I won't touch till after Marriage" and when the lady eventually agree.. You men would start disturbing her.

Mtchhheeewwww

Lol... not everybody is like your ex. I'm sorry for your terrible experiences

Jennyclay:
The essence of a relationship is marriage. The said girl is ready for marriage but you're not.

You're just looking for an avenue to be fornicating reason you're asking her for a fake relationship.

Well, I'm glad the girl could sense you're not a serious guy.

If you're not okay to be just a friend with her then get lost!!!

Lol... we're not even in the same state and I said I wouldn't even hug her until after marriage. You're just defending your gender for no reason. Thanks for ypur contribution anyways