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Iniobon:
MBA forex and trading company ltd, they are into forex. They give you 15% of your capital. minimum amount is 360k

After investment, how long does it take before you start cashing out the monthly 15%?

udebele:
Use ZEDVANCE. I think it's better

How fast do you receive the loan after application?

Please after depositing your investment, how long does it take to start receiving your monthly interest?

Please does anyone have the account details of stanbic ibtc, I want to make direct transfer into my mutual fund account. Also tell me the how to do it. Thanks

reservd:
Better make direct transfer

Please how do I make direct transfer with stanbic ibtc?

Lol

Is there N-TAX?

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fexyrich:
There is no perfect marriage my dear..same way you were very prayerful during courtship is same way u shld remain prayerful in ur marriage and continue praying for your husband..God would turn things around some day..The issue of changing religion is another very serious issue cos now you are unequally yoked with an unbeliever..That can also be handled through prayer..

Thanks my bro.

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Thanks guys. I appreciate all the advice given. I've learnt a lot from them. God will see me through this ordeal.

NosaHenry:
I'm sure that there is something fundamental that the man saw in you that he didn't notice before the marriage. All those talk about I'm impotent, I'm now a Muslim are met to push you out of his life. Divorce him so that you can still have some dignity.

Not true because he would have told me besides he knows everything about me even before the marriage. He knew my weaknesses and my strength before the marriage. I don't pretend for any reason in the world and he knows that. He's feeling insecure according to him because of his past experience. He's actually impotent. I'll keep the details. He's a muslim. Even yesterday when I invited him to service, he categorically told me he'll only attend if I register my name as a muslim first.

Why will he threaten that he will never let anyone separate us including me, that we are stuck for life, if he really wants me out of his life? I even begged him to divorce me, if he's lost interest, he told me he will never do that. Omoh God dey.

fexyrich:
This is what you get when you jump into marriage with a total stranger..You met a man today and in less than a year you got married to him.Did you seek Gods face before going into marriage with himDid you consult your pastor before taking that decisionAbi you just saw a handsome man and jumped into marriage with him like you ladies always do..So what do you want us to do now..Tell you to divorce himGod forbid..I won't be a party to that cos I don't want to go to hell for giving som1 a wrong advice..marriage is for better for worse..carry your cross and find a solution to your marital problems.Its time to run to God and seek his face for ur marriage.It is well with you

wrong. We dated for a year. During our courtship he was so good. Infact, sometimes I stage problems from nowhere just to see how he will react and he always pass my test. I have been very prayerful while courting. Just pray you don't fall in my shoes because I doubt if you will ever do anything different from me, if your intending spouse is perfect in the act of pretense.

permanentgrace:
Is that why ur moniker reads "nothinglikelove"?

As for religious aspect, pls don't ever convert to any other. This is your challenging moment and God implores us to be steadfast in a time like this. Hold unto God and the storm shall be over.

Amen. I just can't wait for it to be over. I have been living in sadness.

wailing:
This is a one sided Story.

Op,you have started seeing someone else already

I have never ever conceived the thought of cheating on my husband not to talk of doing it. Not like other men don't pressure me, even till date but I have fear of God.

asuustrike2009:
Divorce isnt the solution remember at the altar you said for better for worse till death do apart. So you have to gain his trust by applying wisdom. Try to please your husband by doing those things he likes but not at the detriment of your belief. With this you easily convince him for impotency test if at all it exist because there might be something he's hidding from you that is yet to be revealed. Perhaps he might be watching to see how you will react if he drops the bombshell so you have to win him over to get to the root. There's nothing prayers can't do in this kind of situation

thanks so much. It's even because of this 'for better for worse' thing that I've been holding on,until he started threatening my life, because of his insecurities.

irondome:
If your story is 100% true, you have to be careful with the next step you take. It's all about self preservation now, as your life may be in danger. Breaking up with an emotionally imbalanced person like that usually breed a level of violence, especially when he is financially dependent on you and is unable to father a child.

Physically removing yourself from that environment may be key, either separation or divorce (which ever rocks your boat). It's better you enjoy your life in peace and good health, single, than live in hell under the guise of one yeye marriage.

Finally, what ever you decide on doing, let it be your own decision, but personally, I would care about my life now than my marriage.

He is not completely financially dependent on me. He has a job tho the job is not stable, hence, I assist at such times. All the same, I have noted your point. Thanks.

FlawlesRebirth02:
Open family meeting for him head(mtesshhhh what a Rubbish )...if he dosnt changed after that.... threaten hem with a divorce

Yes, I told him more than once that I'll divorce him if he doesn't change, most times he'll promise to work on himself, but after one week, he'll go back to his former self. This last one, he threatened that no one can separate us, not even me. Somebody told me to stop telling him about the divorce thing because he might harm me.

Hello fam, I need advice please. I met this man two yrs ago and we got married last year January. During our courtship, he portrayed himself in a good light. A week after our marriage, his true colors started coming out. It's been one problem or the other. He nags a lot, he doesn't forgive even when I plead for forgiveness if I offend him. It was a month after our marriage, he started revealing shocking things about himself, how he was told by a doc that he can never father a child, tho it could be cured, and many others. I got tired of the marriage because of his ill attitude towards me plus these shocking revelation, but because my faith kicks against divorce except on the ground of adultery, I try all I can to save my marriage. He's very jealous to the extent that he suspects every call I receive. He feels I'm cheating on him because according to him, his previous experience made him not to trust any female.

There was a day he beat me because he was suspecting that the phone call I had was from a man, yet that day it was my mum who called, but because I was pissed by his distrust, I refused to tell him who I was talking with on phone. He even threatened to shoot me if he had a gun.

That apart, he refused to go for treatment to cure his impotency, despite the pressure I mount on him. He keeps blaming it on lack of fund, so I had to give him money, since I'm a salary earner, he used the money for something else instead.

To cut the story short, the last straw, was when he converted to a Muslim and has been pressuring me to do same. And this is highly against my religious belief and I will never do it. He's been threatening fire and brimstone since then. I reported all that has been going on to his people and then mine, so they can help us. He denied all. Even denied that he's impotent and that I never gave him money to go for cure.

I had to leave my matrimonial home because I was scared. Right now am considering filling for divorce, since his attitude is very bad, he cannot impregnate me and has refused to seek help, he cannot take care of my needs financially because of his poor status and worse off, has joined a faith I will never be part of no matter his pressure. I don't know if divorce is the right action to take or I should give him time to change. Am confused please.

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