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South Africans have such funny sounding names. What kinda name is Masalanabo?

That's very interesting. This is why I love science.

Such a tragedy. May the souls of the deceased rest in peace.

Lmao, what a funny exchange

Interesting. Me reading the thread with my sweetheart.

Seafood Soup

Your lives are much more valuable than any property.

Yeye President. Of all the things he could have changed. The people who voted for him have themselves to blame. Peter Obi wouldn't have done this.

A girl you've known for some time. Smh. Some of you married Nigerian men are just so damn shameless. You'll be married yet you'll be chasing after single women like hungry dogs. I've so many of you in my dm on a daily on fb and keep blocking and blocking and blocking. One idiot said he would leave his wife and two daughters for me in his first message. I'll be here all day if I start recalling all the nonsense I've read. Good thing I'm not in Nigeria, but if not me, they will still cheat with ladies in Nigeria. Shame on that girl for getting involved with you knowing fully well that you're married. It's your wives I feel sorry for. Arrant nonsense.

If you pick up his calls or reply his messages, I go vex for you. In fact, block him. Someone who did that to you after you emptied all your savings to save him (somebody who was lying all along, unknown to you!) and then turned his back on you three years later when you needed help and he was in the position to help you hates your guts. Your savings that you used to help him out could be useful to you now but you spent it on the wicked ingrate. You better block his number and continue managing yourself as you've been doing. Let him go to his equally wicked mom to help him out. You're not responsible for him nor obligated to give him a dime again. Somebody like him would kick you under the bus in an instant if he gets another chance to, so don't entertain any form of communication with him again.

Omg. Is this for real?

I feel bad for him and hope he's not being abused. If she treats him like that with cameras watching, I wonder how she treats him behind closed doors.

In what ways have you changed? Why leave them out of your post? You've described her with good qualities but aren't honest about yours, which I'll assume aren't great for you to have withheld them from your post and for her to be thinking twice about marrying you. Perhaps she shared those things with her Dad and that's why he doesn't support you marrying her, so the question should be if YOU are worth marrying because her concerns seem to be legit. Work on her concerns and change for the better.

Dinner

A woman should never quit her job for a man and it's selfish of you to ask that of her. You didn't mention the nature of her job but perhaps she could do part-time, if that's possible, but completely quitting should be unacceptable.

Awwww, that's so kind of him.

No

She's so cute. HBD to her.

Very jovial man

Why was he even trying to do that? Some men are just very useless.

Yes, of course. I'm very good at making jollof rice!!! My jollof rice is da bomb!! Tonight I'll be making fried rice, though.

MikeofKd:
Y'all keep talking like it that easy , do ur due diligence yen yen yen.
And I'm very far from broke , very very far from it. When I say I'm burnt out I'm not even referring to the money aspect. Its an anonymous forum yes but I'm okay financially, I work very hard ,pay my bills , have few extra sources of income. I can invite you to come see for yourself.

You're the common denominator, so you're clearly not doing your due diligence. You're the one who needs to look in the mirror and figure out what you're doing wrong. If you're far from broke, then you should act accordingly and not use the excuse that you've taken women out to eat before and because it didn't work out, you're now inviting them to your place and you call that a date. A decent and classy woman herself won't follow you to your house for a first date. Like I said, you should take the time to find quality women to date, but you need to be a quality man yourself. Good luck!

MikeofKd:
Honestly I'm burnt out from taking women on dates , seems like all they really care about is the food hence why I invited over to my place.

That you've taken women out to eat and it didn't work out doesn't mean you stop trying, more so if a relationship is what you're looking for. There're lots of places and activities in public spaces that don't involve food. Your house is not an appropriate place for a first date or any date. Instead of rushing and dating just anybody, do your due diligence and find quality women to date and you won't get burnt out.

Why couldn't you take her out and get to know her in a public space, or is this how people date these days?

Awwww, so touching.

Worryingly:
In fairness, theres no physical abuse. Only verbal and emotional.

Verbal and emotional abuse are still abuse and could be worse than physical abuse. What if she ends up committing suicide? That would be no different from him killing her himself. You're enabling the man's abuse if you don't find a means to intervene and help her.

What do you mean by he keeps telling people that despite all ge did for you? Why aren't YOU telling people he's abusing your daughter? So because he helped you when you were in school, he should kill your daughter? You also helped him by allowing him to marry your daughter. You better speak up and get the law involved before he kills her.

Trump is such a disgrace. Why would he post this? What kinda man and yeye president is this?

Pete Hegseth should be next.

Green pasta with shrimps, broccoli, red peppers, and Baked Salmon.

Of course you should let her know you've been cheating and have gotten another girl pregnant. Tell her so she can decide what's best for herself. It would be wicked and deceitful of you to not tell her. If she were your sister, would you want her marrying a man who has done such? Come on now.