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That is so awful. Capital punishment was abolished in South Africa several years ago. It needs a reintroduction for crimes like this. Send the monster to hell where he belongs.

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Awww. May his soul rest in peace. Amen.

Your legacy will live on through your son.

I am so glad she is not black. She should face the consequences of her actions. RIP to the patient.

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Your opinion is more based on emotions than mine. The problem with Nigerians and this forum especially is that you guys get offended at other people's OWN OPINIONS unnecessarily and will quote them to start talking nonsense because you think they don't have the right to their OWN OPINIONS, which is ludicrous. There's something called freedom of speech and I've exercised mine by replying to the thread. I saw other people's comments that I could've responded to as well to argue but I ain't interested in doing that on NL anymore and I believe people are allowed to have their opinions, as I am. Learn to reply to threads without mentioning people to talk rubbish, which's what you wrote below, and thinking your own opinion overrides theirs (in which universe?). My response to the thread stands, unfortunately, neither is it up for debate. You can argue with your keyboard, however.

Nazgul:
This your opinion is based on which law?

Also the 8 year healthy gap you posted is based on which law...Nigerian constitution, the Bible/Quran or your limited opinion?

Word of of advise... when advising someone try to do it devoid of emotions and more of logic.

The legal age for a girl to start engaging in sex in Nigeria is 18. Meaning a girl of 20 is legally qualified to get married provided both parents agree to it.

Celine dion was 26 years old and her husband was 52 when she got married. Would you say the man was a pervert as well, and Celine was from a poor home?

If both parents approve the union would you still call the man a pervert and the girl a victim of a poor home?

Like I said never give advice based on emotions or else you'd end up getting yourself into trouble. As long as the couple in question aren't breaking the laws of the land they're free to get married regardless of their age differences. Even the Bible and the Quran never placed age restrictions on marriage, so tone down your emotional rage and learn to see things from a logical point of view.

A 40-year old man is too old for a 20-year old girl. A healthy age gap is no more than 8-years. It definitely should not be 20-years. To call a spade a spade, he's a pervert and should find someone closer to his age. She, on the other hand, should date someone her own age and preferably no older than 25, someone she can go through life with and grow old together with. A 40-year old man is way too old for her. If she's considering it, then I'll assume she's poor or from a poor home and the man is rich, otherwise if her family is well-to-do, they themselves would reject such for their daughter. Nigerian politician's kids who get married, do you see them marrying people 20-years older than them? Of course not. They always go for their age mates or those close to their age, not someone old enough to be their father or mother.

"The thing you sent" 🤣. I guess it was too small. Nigerians and entitlement over other people's money. So he couldn't even say a simple thank you. He was expecting you to send him all the money in your account.

Ladies with Nigerian background who were born or raised abroad won't behave in that manner. It seems this one just arrived abroad and brought that attitude or behavior with her from Nigeria.

From those pictures, whatever she's into is demonic. If you're a Christian, don't try it. There must be girls at your church. It shouldn't be a satan-worshipping person that you're interested in. But it's for you to decide. It's you who has to live with your decision.

RIP, Ifeanyi. Continue to rest and play in heaven, little one.

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I just saw this on the News. How shocking and sad. Besides being amazing on the Cosby's, he was one of the voices and I think producer of The Magic School Bus, and was exemplary on The Resident! Great guy with a beautiful heart too. Rest in peace, Theo/Malcolm-Jamal Warner.

That's sad. Was he sick? May his soul rest in peace.

What does he mean by what should've been a private moment became public? Are you not at a public event? Or was the camera supposed to avoid you so you wouldn't get caught?

So she moved out because you were physically abusing her. There's no remorse whatsoever in your post and you're still here running your mouth that you're sending her money and not getting anything return. What are you supposed to gain in return for sending her money for your child? You're cooking, washing and hustling by yourself... pele o. Who else should be doing those things for you, if not you? It's obvious she was not only your punching bag when she was living with you but she was your maid. Someone you've not even married. Ladies like her have themselves to blame for laying with men like you and becoming their babymamas, smh. 6-years later and you still don't want to marry her. Based on all these, she would actually be making a grave mistake marrying you. You've not yet married her and all these.

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More than 5-years? Is seems you don't love yourself. Of all the ladies in Nigeria, it's someone who doesn't love you that you're stuck on. Do you want to spend another 5-years on this? Move on.

OP, since you're a male and since you say you can't go to your supervisors who are females because they're in cliques with the other females/women who have been harassing you and they themselves harass you, can you gather proof and take it to the superiors/people above your supervisors (e.g. manager, bank director, etc)? As you're a male, you need to have some evidence to make your claims more believable, plus it's your word against theirs. They can all deny it and say you're lying, but with some evidence then they wouldn't have any argument. You can record things they say to you, and if they ostracize you after rejecting their advances (e.g. they leave you out of activities) and you can proof that too, do so. No one should face any form of harassment at a workplace (be it bullying - yes, it's a form of harassment, sexual harassment, etc). Good luck.

This is why it's God to have your own money. One won't resort to marrying a grandpa.

Throw everything, including the pot away. Throw the whole house away join.

According to your post, she and her ex broke up because he wasn't ready for marriage, not because of his financial status. If he wanted to marry her, they could've done a simple wedding and lived their life. She did the right thing leaving him, but I guess she's embarrassed that he sees where she's living now with her family. Maybe she's the type who shows off on social media and was probably showing off where she was living when she got married but life has humbled her.

He seemed like a quiet, peaceful man. RIP to him.

Why do you have a (m) beside your name if you're supposed to be a female? Are you the husband or wife? Or this is a troll thread?

Why is there a (m) beside your moniker? Are you the husband, or this is a troll thread?

Oh no. Rest in peace, President Buhari.

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Way to go. I don't want criminals in my country. Thank you, Judge.

I like that we can now block people for up to three weeks. The previous one week was definitely too little. Thank you for listening, Seun. That nuisance and stalker that likes to follow me around Nairaland like an annoying bee that he is has finally gone away.

Didn't you open a previous thread on this already? What about the guys who contacted you from it?

https://www.nairaland.com/8399678/single-ready-marry