petphunt:

Your statement is nebulous. If I do not believe what you believe, it obvious that I would not have the same opinion as you do of me. What is logical to you would be illogical me. I am a Deist and do believe in God but my belief is that God created the world and abandoned it. Consequently, God does not care about what goes on in our world. This is why God does not intervene as you believe in the affairs of humans. Why do you think  we have so much hate, diseases, natural disasters etc. If God is a perfect God, there cannot be imperfection under his watch. The claims of religious people to the atheist is therefore balderdash. Apparently we see with different lenses but I am not an iconoclast so I do not condemn other people's beliefs. I hope all religionists would accept the fact that there are other beliefs at variance with theirs. After all we are all believers. The atheist believes there is no God and the theist believes there is God.

wow, thats very interesting, i am holding my dictionary and checking oh, enlightening views though,

vivaladiva:

final remark----i pray u---do get a tatoo that says---i cant bliv it, white gal speaking yoruba on youtube ohhhhh my gosh

Ouchh, that hurt!!!

where is Fstranger come and comment ohhh, 

I am missing you, 

love

its nubian, your Animashaun number 1,  the only person u desire, 

Dummy lol

tensor777:

And what exactly did you say that was new or original. That the Nigerian government or system owes you anything? Just die these self-indulgent left wing arguments as they are not relevant to a  developing country like Nigeria.
But seriously must you twist every thread you participate in into a conspiracy -they are all out to get us - rant??
Is that not a symptom of incipient paranoia??

@Tensor777

To  be honest ignoring the problem with the country wont solve it. like Nigerians, other nationals have issues with their countries too, the problem with Nigeria is that we fail to see that we need to improve. yes we are developing but alot of people are being left behind,

you dont have to go into image bashing, honestly,

you have to disgree on some things but i agree with Cap28,  i am his biggest fan SHOOT ME lol

Rag Dollz and Viva, its ok, Please STOP!!!


u have differences in opinions, now shake hands,

I have met a few Atheists in my life time and i find them very interesting to listen to.

I am not the best christian in the world, i am more of a christian who is curious about everything from the practice of varierty of religions to non-religious people.

I once read a book on other religions, cults and alternative living and it changed the way i thought about people and the world in general

The decison to be religious is down to to an individual.

vivaladiva:

yeah its absolute nonsense---so some white person speaks yoruba---so bleep wat----i mean there are people that can speak more than three languages---is yoruba not a language that can be learnt, by any body from any race, if they want to---i beg make una waka----na silly things dey alway impress ignorant fools-----so if u see a nigerian that can speak mandarin---it means they have had a brain transplant from a chineese---i beg fu-ck off
another excuse to say---eh all those people that live abroad that their children cant speak their parents native language---r just trying to showoff or look down on their culture-----aproko people----my child will def not be able to speak the two nigerian languages that i can speak

because i cant even speak my parents language very well---so the less i use it----the less proficient i become

the small yoruba that i learnt in lagos and cld speak better than my parents language---even that has detiriorated cos i dont speak it that often

so wats the big--f-u-cking deal----that dont mean she wont learn to speak french or spanish because it wld be more relevant in her life, not one dead language that only 15 people speak

I Like that, sooo what, she can speak yoruba, good for her but its not a big deal!

@Viva i got ya back mate

ragdollz:


Gosh, you're back with your drivel?!?
It's obvious someone is high on some skank, lol.
Ol' girl, it's a shame but you sound like you hold no VALUE for things of worth and importance. It's no big deal to see a Nigerian speaking French, English, Spanish or even Mandarin . But allow us to be impressed when a WHITE person manages to speak an AFRICAN LANGUAGE with such dedication, interest and skill. We all know that African languages and esp Yoruba have very strong, difficult dialects that would be harder for a white tongue than it would be for a black person to learn a foreign language. In fact, I'm sure a Mandarin guy would be shocked and impressed if he heard a Nigerian speak his language with such dexterity.

In short, you are an empty barrel, with no sense of self-worth, so piss off this thread bc we only celebrate achievers here, not losers like you. Haba! Na by force to comment?! You could have made your opinion without insulting anyone, but you obviously don't have the home training for that!

"because i cant even speak my parents language very well---so the less i use it----the less proficient i become"



Aaah, no wonder!!! Lol, that's why you are so jealous and bitter to see a white girl speak our local language so well. Eeyah, pele, you can still catch up. Ode.

cool temper, To be honest i dont see it as a massive deal. i think you and viva should both agree on something instead of arguing,

@Cap28,

I am very impressed, i know i said that before, i admire people like you,

cap28:

You see the problem i have with people like you is that you have a warped sense of reasoning, i presented a situation of a vulnerable person in a country like nigeria and your response was to attack and denigrate this person.  It did not occur to you that this person was a mere victim of a brutal and callous society.  You did not attack the system that creates such suffering, instead you chose to attack the victim.

This is a system  in which 1% of the  population have appropriated 95% of the wealth of the country leaving over 70% to languish in grim poverty.  

You did not  think of attacking a system that condemns its youth to illiteracy, poverty, crime and prostitution instead you chose to attack and BLAME a defenceless victim of one of the harshest and most repressive systems of govt on the planet.  This is why i say people like you deserve the govt you have.  Until you educate yourself and understand that your leaders are under an obligation to provide for its citizenry, particularly the most vulnerable members of that society, you will continue wallowing in a sea of ignorance.

Do i care whether you were born on lagos island? have i not been to lagos island isnt it an overcrowded slum teeming with refuse and garbage.  As  a matter of fact the villages are a hundred times cleaner and more sanitary than your lagos island so please dont think that lagos island is a place to be proud of okay.

You say you dont come from a village - fine, why havent you relocated back to Ikare akoko to make a living from making carvings and pottery?

You say that i have refused to take responsibility for my actions but prefer to shift responsiblity on to the govt, you see this is where again i have to highlight your ignorance - your govt has a duty and a responsibility to provide for its citizens, you have been conditioned to accept your grim poverty stricken state, the mobile police, JTF and all other arms of the nigerian gangster state have beaten you into submission and now like a victim of an abusive relationship you actually think they do not owe you anything.  Does it make sense to you that a country like nigeria which is the 8th largest exporter of oil IN THE WORLD can not provide constant electricity, running water, a functioning health care system, standard educational institutions, employment, food for its citizens!!!!!!!!!!

Cuba is a socialist country with no natural resources and it has a98% literacy level due to its ongoing policy of free education for all of its citizens up to university level, it also provides  free health care for all of its citizens.  

You should be ashamed of yourself for defending the gangster run contraption known as nigeria, you havent even got the guts to hold your leaders to account - instead you take out your frustration on a defenceless destitute woman who was nothing but a victim.  

Nigeria is a govt serving the interest of a bunch of bandits and that is the truth, it doesnt care about people like you, it never has and it never will okay.  

You say nigeria is still pretty young - according to whose calculations ? is 50 years not more than enough time for a country to get its economy on track, when do you think nigeria will be old enough to understand that it needs to get its act together, when the oil runs out or when it is recolonised by the west - by the way the plan of recolonisation of nigeria is now underway - you might want to google africom.

Oh and it was Kennedy who made that quote and not Lincoln and he had every right to ask that of americans as previous govts before him had made many compromises and granted many concessions to the american people - post second world war former american president roosevelt had introduced affordable housing, employment and overall  improved standards of living for its citizens.  Contrast that with the nigerian govts treatment of its own citizens and you will see that you are just refusing to face up to reality.

what is it that the nigerian govt has  done for you - is it SAP, devalued currency, mass unemployment, substandard educational instititutions, non existent health care facilities, sub standard housing provision, mobile police who maim and kill people - please tell me because im scratching around and nothing positive comes to mind.

I am very impressed!!!! finally someone has spoken alot of sense on here!

invisible!:

Still same misinformed products painting Nigeria black. Go on, spew your ignorance. Have you ever been in Nigeria, when?

you are very lucky i am in a good mood this morning,

if not you would have had your brain splashed on the pages on Nairaland!

Calling me a product is a compliment,  you are nothing!  ur name proves it,

I think the situation in Nigeria for alot of people is bad. I do not understand why anyone would think that all Nigerians are living well. The Western Media may show us in some negative light sometimes but some of the things said are true.

I have met people that are having it really tough in Nigeria and for anyone to suggest that its all good for anyone is just completely off,

Anyway, for anyone who thinks everything in Nigeria is good,  well,  well ,  well,  its all in your head.

Its a great country but it needs change which i hope it eventually gets.

Poverty is not exclusive to Nigeria.

vivaladiva:

wats going on here, fstranger waddup up, y r u behaving like a tail following somebody where

wat has nubianq done-----r u the person we think u are----if u are your prescriptions r ready come n pick up

@Viva, forget am jo, i think i know who it is, anyway, i cant be bothered! if the person wants to hang on to that lurrve for me i cant help it, and to think words like prostitute will hit me is funny, lol, lol,

hey drinks m still up matey! see ya in a Jiffy,

Know what i have enough off ur childish nonsense, am off to deal with more imaginative stalkers,

u never changed did you? it has always been about me,

i am sooo significant!!!

fstranger:

Ladies and Gentlemen, I hereby present to you Exhibit 204: The behavior of a "Scorned lowlife Nigerian Pro*stitute."

Thank you. you are far too kind, last time i checked you mother was soo used up that no name could be used to describe her,

i AM SOOO PLEASED, WOHOOOOOO,

fstranger:


I am happy you are beginning to come to terms with your self. Carry go my sister, Nothing do you.

Dont call me ur sister, i dont mix with low lives and third grade scum! you can google that, STINKING MAGGOT!

U re getting sooo boring, i am tired of you,

you lack the whole stalker swagger, byeeeeee nob head!

fstranger:

Can't you do without stalking people? Why do you want to know if he lives in England? you bloody fa*got!

fstranger, when u are here busy stalking me, you are accusing another of stalking, come get your mum, ur neighbour just called to say she ran out naked barking like a DOG,

fstranger:

I guess it is the time of the month? or time of the year, going by your grandma status, because I can't really explain the underlying reason for your sudden craziness.

wow,  my grandma,  hmmm,  lol,  try harder baby,  keep trying, 

so u use my name as your signature,  yes ohhh,  i be free giver,  nothing do me!!! atleast i give,

u are just a PSYYCHOOO  that cannot leave me alone,

you stalk me soo teyyyy my name na your signature

make me famous,  my dear scum of the earth,  i wish i could help you and your family with the money you asked for but i am sorry, i cannot spend my money  on a  Low life douchebag,

you have my sympathy!  i understand that you are completely off in the brain department, my poor granda tried to help but she gave up knowing that you were a lost cause,

Does youR dad still bark like a dog? or your mum like an injured hyena?,  oops i forgot your brother,  the serial peodophile,  lets not forget your sister the free Vajayjay giver to all the prisoners in kiri kiri,  please send my regards,

No dont send my regards,  just tel them it gets worse,  when they get popped  in the head,

Fstranger,  keep it rolling,  meeen,  i like you!

Sorry excuse for an animal!!!

Fstranger,,

you re just the poster child for a cumdump commercial,

you want me to click on a link? you must be picking some ants in your rectum,

soo you want me to put a virus on my computer? you are sooo dumb for real,

anyway,  since you are a product of a gang doo doo on ur mama gone mad,  i will spare you the reasons why i cant be bothered clicking on anything,

GO AND SLEEP OR GO AND OVERDOSE ON ANDREWS LIVER SALT, PURGE OUT ALL THE DUMBNESS FROM YOUR HEAD.

Look down,  you brain is falling pick it up  quick!!!

fstranger:

NubianQ Animashaun,

I just visited your website below, you need to change you picture,ok?

http://www.newjersey.backpage.com/BodyRubs/new-girls-100-special-100-special-100-special-100-special-100-special-100-special-new-girls-24/5177509

FUNKYBABY, AKA FUNKY CHIHUAHUA,

You are acting a bit stupid and obsessive with me, first you come on a page that i comment on to stalk me, lol,

dont worry i will reply your email asking me for my address and phone number ok?

you want some action abi? not on your leprosy infested mothers life! lol,

go and continue plucking ur pubes or something, just leave me alone, m off to bed,

Fstranger,

The retard of Nairaland,

shei you wan stalk me,

i just visited your mothers website, wow, the picture she put of you makes an orangutang look like david beckham,

Animashaun of Nairaland!!!!

Smoking is a habit, not a character trait, it may not be the best habit in the world but hey things happen,

As an Ex Smoker (I hope   )

Nothing and no man stops me from taking a Puff,

A ciggy of two at the end of a hard day is worth it,

na the guy sabi,

@Fstranger,

The Famous RETARD of nairaland,

You must look for me anywhere i go,

Go and finish plucking your fathers PUBES, before you talk to me,

FSTRANGER, CHEI, YOU LIKE ME SHA,

YOUR STENCH IS KILLING EVERYONE ON CYBER SPACE

Ooops i forgot, you mum just put up a new page looking for you, pls click on www.ilostmystupidignorantdumpcuntofachild.com and tell her that you are ok,

yeah right, people that use stone nko? he even had bread to use as pillow, so is he saying he is rich by being a pastor, una don see wetin pastor dey carry people money do,

vivaladiva:

i started having sexxx evn b4 i cld run, i got pregnant outside wedlock, gave birth outside wed lock n am still having having sexxxxxxx outside wedlock----pls wat sld i do this sin is killing me ooooooo but it is so sweetoooo

LOL, Madam Viva, dem go sue u for nairaland oh!

To be honest, if they want to have sex before marriage, its not a big deal, besides whats the defination of a "Christian Sister" please,

Personally, as long as we are humans, we will err,

well, there goes the so called Christain Sister with a bump, i am sure she accidentally fell on a stiffy, like Viva,


Well, i hope the baby does not grow up to commit the so called "same Mistake"

These things happen, for the people that can abstain goodluck to them,

vivaladiva:

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trust me nubianq u have better internet connection in that detention center that some kings in nigeria, enjoy your fast broad band while it lasts~u know one nigerian shyte for plane because he didnt want to be deported

Thanks for the Tip ohhh my dear Viva! my dear i am having fun chopping burgers and fries , i will need to double on the chopping so i can shyyytee correct one on d plane,  so that they will not even deport me but give me a passport,

Hmmmm Good Question,

I DONT regret getting all the people in my village to contribute money to my ticket to come abroad, (While promising them that i will  invest their money on the latest cars for them)

I DONT regret crossing the Sahara Desert for months via morroco to get to spain,

I DONT regret getting on the stowaway to my next destination,

I Regret getting caught by immigration, (right now i am typing from the deportation centre),

Well i guess  i am going to regret my life when i go back to my village, i can imagine the angry villagers descending on me!!!!

I DONT REGRET MOVING, I REGRET BEING MOVED!!! :

The topic was long but a fantastic read,

well first of all i hope Olu sorts himself out, also as the saying goes, whatever causes you to sin, chop it off,

olu should hack off his head and chop his brain to pieces and while @ it chop off his Ding  Dong!

well, Nigerians, or any other nationality making a fool of themselves abroad is not news anymore,

If anyone decides to make a fool of him/herself, well its up to them,

m not a fan of the mormons but they make very good research, so many stories about the lot but hey its a free world,

For the first time i have to heard a fraud story relating to disgracing naija, well Goodluck to Olu! its a crazy world out there,

Dora Akunyili is a smart woman but sometimes she talks like she loses the plot. there is nothing wrong with referring to Nigeria as Naija,  Instead of dealing with words people use, she should consider making changes to improve people's lives. whats in a name? sometimes i think someone stole the real dora and replaced her with someone that looks just like her. SHE NEEDS TO GET WITH THE PROGRAM

GL:

it seems guys have concluded that women who aren't married by 27 were playing around. what about those who dated one guy for up to 7 years, only to have the guy leave for another woman? besides, women in the past could marry in their teens cos they didn't need much training to be wives. nowadays women have to get educated and build careers also, and it takes more time for some than for others. funny thing is the guys talking now would probably insist that their daughters get masters' degrees before marriage.

on the other hand, why do guys assume that every girl who wants to get married is desperate? some guys ask you to marry them before you even agree to date them, then they act like they are offering you heaven. it seems many people marry cos of children or societal pressure. some others just think it's cool to be 'MRS' (like it's a prestigious degree).  

i don't really care what people think, so the pressure isn't a big deal for me. i think a marriage one enters for the sake of kids would feel useless once they fly the nest, so i can't imagine marrying a guy simply to beat menopause. honestly, i don't feel like i need a man to validate my womanhood. this is in no way putting men down, i simply don't allow my appreciation and perception of myself to be influenced by external factors. i would actually like to get married before i'm 27, but i don't believe in setting deadlines cos that could encourage desperation. it's so much more important to me that the relationship has a good foundation (love, trust, respect etc) than the age it happens at.

i don't find the prospect of being single disastrous. that's probably due to my personality; i enjoy solitude, very much. what i wouldn't be able to live with is living an unhappy life whether single or married.

Thats really good, I am impressed with your views

YoAdek333:

Some of the comments made by men on this topic is further evidence of wickedness in our society.

I hope some of these men consider that they have a mother, perhaps a sister(s) and female family members - what goes around comes around, the way you treat others and the seeds of selfishness and inconsiderate conduct will surely come home to roost sometime.

Word! I must say i am impressed, you got that right,

Well, Well, Ladies and Gentlemen, i present very Educated and Enlightened People,

so people that live in the west should have better english? FSTRANGER!!!! YOU ARE THE FACE OF IGNORANCE AND STUPIDITY, I TOT BY NOW YOUR ILLNESS WOULD HAVE KILLED YOU,  LAST TIME I CHECKED YOU WERE ABOUT TO KILL YOURSELF , why did u stop?,  anyway, as for that person you were stalking,  errmmmm ,  well the person says hi , i do not intend to bring u out on here on NL just keep on trying for my attention,  i will answer you later, right now more better things on, to think our mutual friend said you were sane, LOL, 

I AM IGNORING YOU NOW,  BECAUSE I DO NOT NEED A SUICIDAL DISEASED HALF BRAINED INGORANT SCUM OF THE EARTH TRYING TO STALK ME! MADAM CUM DUMPSTER LEAVE ME THE TOSS ALONE! abi the guy you almost stabbed from here has gone?, go n look for him oooo and leave me and my grammer ooo

fstranger:

Ms Ebonics, sup? Despite living in the west, you still write at third-grade level. oma sheooooooooooooooo

s]Hiding what[/s][color=#990000][/color]informal question? hey,  mate,  did i declare born again on top of your head? yes i believe in God but i am not a fanatic. i am not perfect and i only strive to be. ,  save your breath,  its[/color] [color=#006600]Although it is not a misspelling, it does not concur with the context choking my PC,

To be honest i must say i am impressed with some of you here with your comments. i do not argue about ages to get married, my arguement[/color] [color=#006600]argument my dear is based on the fact that some people think that following some man made cultural schedule is the key to life. well in the end, i do not judge people that marry, or do not marry. i [/color]am a free thinker and i find that people in Nairaland find that hard to believe. In the End its not about getting married [color=#990000]our not being married, i think its about your level of intelligence.

We are in a world today where women like me who are in the west have been exposed to the alot of facts about life. when i was in Naija i [/color]always thought differently, i [color=#990000]never took most of what people regard to as culture as something i had to live my life in line with. To be honest, i wish i could say some of the silly things some people say get to me but i can't,[/color] [color=#006600]Period, not comma  its[/color] [color=#006600]It's hard for me to accept the amount of bigots we have on here. I guess the way our life pans out speaks for itself.

I do respect the union of marriage[/color]^{two coordinated clauses should be divided by a comma}  and i have never said i did not and i do admire people that [color=#006600]who have gotten to that stage, i I also admire single people who accept themselves and strive for alot[s][/s] a lot of things in life. [color=#990000]either[/color] way is fine for me.

wow i am sooo impressed, you keep calling me Ebonics because in ur twisted mind you know me, well please tell your friends that stalking me on here does not help ok. thanks for taking the time to correct everything i write atleast since you wake up in the morning thinking of me and sleep at night dreaming of what i write i must say KUDO'S TO YOU, you just gave a new name to stalkers! keep callin me ebonics ooo please do, atleast i am glad to know i have a cyber stalker, please join the others, hahahahaha, please correct me, LMFAOOOOO!!!!, please keep on, correcting anything i write, its good, if it helps the air you breathe by all means pls keep on, besides, stop hiding under fstranger I know who you are and believe me i came back because i knew you were going to find me and start stalking me again u re really messed up, for real hahahahahahooohhohohohhehehe,

martinosi:

As i said i tire for ladies like you, *yap *yap *yap,

yes, yapping is good, it gets you really on doesnt it?