Kekereekun123: Jide is mad. But this Anita salary get as he be. She has to be a top manager to earn such . I have seen a madam earning 3m net a month in an oil company. And she had 17 years experience o. Means anita is not even evening newspaper but suya newspaper. Jide is still mad anyways.
arcdone: On the serious note, the woman� should be the one to relocate to meet her husband if she truly loves him, no matter how much she earn as income, Man should always be glimpsed as man, her lady should respect him for that cause. one of my pastors used to share his part of his story about his wife, she works in an oil company in PortHarcourt, as a minister, travel took him to another place, in which his wife abandoned her high paying job to move with his man. If her wife can't respect her for now for who he his I don't think that there marriage can exist...
So the husband cannot relocate to Lagos and find a better paying job? One that may even earn him more than wifey's?
Snaagg: I saw a thread here not long ago about "children are not a retirement plan" or something like that .. And folks on that thread agreed with the topic, speaking ill of parents and calling them "entitled" etc..
Would those same individuals keep the same energy here? Or would they would hypocritically argue that children must inherit thier parents' wealth..
*Following..
I think I stumbled across that thread too and I am wholly in support of parents that regard their offspring as a "retirement plan"
Today we are young and agile and that would not be the case when we get to the extremes of age. There would be a lot of things you would want to do, but for age. This is where your retirement plan kicks in.
My advise is to use it with caution. Know the limits of your children's abilities and do not push them away by making outrageous demands.
goodman41: I met her when she came for her IT at my place of work. One day I collected her number but I didn't call her till she finished her IT and went back to school.
One day I called to inform her that I will like us to go into a relationship which she accepted. I told her that l'm not looking for a girlfriend but a wife. I asked her if she has a boyfriend but she said yes but she will never marry the guy because there are some things she will consider in terms of marriage.
I called her to visit me but she was doing promise and fail. I told her that I'm not inviting her for sex that sex is nothing for me. She said okay, that I should send transport money, I tried using my phone to transfer 2k for her but it was not going, so I told her that it was not going she said I should go and use ATM but I told her that I don't have that time that she should borrow from her roommate and come or she should forget about coming until when I will be able to use my phone to do the transfer. So that evening she called that she will come the next day being Sunday that she borrowed money from her roommate.
When she came on Sunday I put movie for her and kept my self busy with my laptop, she started feeling sleepy which I told her to go and sleep on the bed which she went, after I was through with my laptop I asked her if I can join her she said yes, I now joined her in the bed before we knew it we started kissing and romancing each other and we had sex.
After the sex she said that but you told me you don't like sex I told her I like sex but I don't take it serious. She said okay I understand. I now took her out spent like 3k, the following morning I gave her 4k for her transport and she was happy.
After one week she called that I should send her airtime I told her that am not sending she said okay without being angry, when she visited for the second time she asked why did I refuse to send her card I told her that I don't like sending card to people she said okay. So am seeing her as people, i told her don't worry any time I feel like I will send to her, but she said if i send it that she will send it back to me.
I asked her about her boyfriend she said that she has ended the friendship but my mind is telling she is lying, she cleaned my house and cooked for me before going back to school that she doesn't want me to be eating outside, she asked me to give her money to do hair which I gave her 3k for both her transport and the hair, she said the money is small but she Will add her own so she collected it without any issue.
Am not the type that use to call every day but she asked me to be calling her every day to make our relationship grow stronger, she was telling me the other day that she will visit me one day without telling me to see if I have another girl.
Please is this girl really serious with this relationship or she just wants to use me?