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kingthreat:
When the search for wisdom makes you foolish.

So, wetin he see mk him blind?

OurTruth24:
Jesus never claimed to be the son of God

Any yet never denied the proclamations calling him son of God.

So, was he son of God?

True, He never asked you to worship him, only God should be worshipped. He himself said so.

However, you seem confused about what you are doing. Or maybe aim to confuse others into your unfortunate path

Creamcrest:
The weed must be very strong.

When you think you've heard it all..

Bluezy13:
Write to the understanding of your audience.

Who told you they didn't understand the msg?

enonche85:
You no well!!....lmao!!!

A good bad question right?

JASONjnr:
Tell me the difference?

No one's gonna tell you.
You're gonna tell yourself by yourself.
After then, come here.
Okay?

Was watching a TV Programme sometimes ago when a woman called in, n we all heard the depth her husband had gone betraying his wife n family.

Yeah, she called in to tell the whole world how so much she pain she passed through. The presenter (female) was shocked at the strength of this v.woman. She stood by him even at his seemingly death bed.

But truth always prevail. These secrets all never happened in the house. But by itself, one day the truth walked into their home. Yet she never gave up. It's her home. She defended what's hers.

She said, with technology available to most of us today, she one by one, invited and monitored these pretty lovelies, to take care of their sugar daddy who could only shed tears of apology cos he couldn't even talk.

Mind you, she continued the funding of these girls oooo. Alert dey entr evn as baba dey bedridden.

She loves him. Who knows if he was her first.

But when he fully recovered ehn, she said he tried everything to apologize n evn swore never to do such.

Vijuchoco:
Kpele, my own sef worse. I introduced someone to my family around May, last year but I later noticed something I didn't like and would not be able to live with, so the relationship ended.. I didn't bother telling them about it because explaining some kind of things gets me annoyed. Since then, they've not stopped asking about him.
Just this evening, I was with my aunt on the phone. The call was already over 45mins, the moment she said "wey Raymond nar", I just told her good night and she started laughing..

In my opinion, I think you should minimize the rate at which you give them audience..

Yeah, it's good to discover yourself my sister. Know what shit to take n what's unnecessary.
How to love sbdy without fear or thoughts of betrayal such that come what may, you're happy n ready to move your life + those around you - kid(s), husband, siblings.. forward

Then, you're ready to get married.

Berrityga:
Please throw away your phone, check yourself into a physiatrist home. You belong with other people that are not mentally stable.

Did you once asked her out n she refused?
Becos..

JASONjnr:
I raised my siblings and sponsored two through university...

Congratulations 🎉
Nairaland founder has a gift for you after this discussion.

JASONjnr:
I know what it takes to raise a kid....

Not yours
So, get my msg right.
When you become a Father, then come back to reply the msg. Okay?

ikeno:
You still very young na,they should stop pestering your life.at this age your still getting to understand your body and explore more..

True Talk

Autobot05:
That means you are qualified to be called an evening newspaper

Oga hold on.
Some are born Eunuchs,
Some are made Eunuchs,
Some made themselves Eunuchs.

Whatever she wants to become, she decides.

Going by what she's written about herself from the intro, I believe at this point she's chosen what to become - a wife, mother or just being a daughter, aunt or sister.

She may end up changing her mind aftr meeting a mate she's chosen, seen, thought of.. and kukuma make plans for next yr.

@OP, You may even wanna ignore until you've fully discovered yourself cos many r into their husband's home without knowing what dey evn want in marriage.

Sit, dey sit
Stand, dey stand. But once Sexy Mummy Twins give advice, she change immediately. Oga start seeing her real face (the female code)

So, madam notYetSearching go in peace
Have fun n seek the almighty's favor in your delight (No go kneeling before one greedy n selfish Daddy/Mummy G.O oooo) Talk to your father in the heavens above and he'd grant you your heart desires according to his will.

Faith without work is useless
So pray n wrk twrds what God wants for you

The pressure is now increasing cos it's the custom. So @OP, you only need to be clear bout your choice n be open minded with whomever you're discussing with at this point.

#StaySafe

JASONjnr:
It is never a complicated issue to raise kids....
I'm Jason.

After you have your first child, come back here to comment, okay?

Until then, kindly always remember to say little even when you know or rather think you know more about some stuffs

JASONjnr:
The problem is this Z-generation of girls...

Mr JASONjnr aka HolySavior
Do you know how so complicated it is this period for parents to raise these kids?

If you know any parent having a girl or boy btw 13 & 23yr still in their care, go get some gifts for them n jst say: "Thank you for watching over this child(ren), may God Almighty bless you"

Ideservebetter:
I'm fed up, I need advice from matured minds please.

Your acc is neutral, your name, msg, request are also neutral.

Are you a Guy, Girl.. L,G,B,T or Q?

Ideservebetter:
I understand that most parents want the best for their children but at the same time, they should understand certain things that are beyond one's control.

My parents, relatives even family friends won't stop troubling me about marriage. I can't have healthy conversations with my people without them bringing up the marriage topic and worse off in a controversial manner. They always accuse me of being too selective and other talks like that, making me feel awful.

I desire to get married someday even though I don't see it as a "do or die" thing. I've been in relationships that didn't work out and I'm being blamed for it or asked why I didn't just manage. My God!

I've been thinking of how to get away from all these talk, maybe leaving home or changing my line. I really don't know what to do.
I'm someone people know as happy and bubbly outside but when I'm with my people, it's the complete opposite, minimal joy because they won't stop stressing me. For now, I've stopped attending family events since they'll be gathered there and I don't want anyone messing with my mental health.

I'm fed up, I need advice from matured minds please.

So we know the particular prayer point you need

Isabi4lov:
To me relationship shouldn't be a war zone , I can't even deal with it , having unecessary headaches because I am in a relationship, I cherish my peace of mind .

Although there will be argument here and there but once the relationship is affecting your mental state, abeg I go end am sharperly.

You gotta discover yourselves first before talking about coming together.

No pitying, no bragging, no shits pls.
You're both to enjoy it. Sometimes it'd go one way, esp when the other is dwn (pregnancy, health, job, stress..) but you both gotta give!!

Yeah, give n take n appreciate!!

Kiss, Mk love (not s3x),
Buy gifts for each other (untill you die. And don't complain or compare)
Hold hands (Not until when your partner is sick)
Help each other with jobs, chores, contracts, business projects..(until you die. And don't complain or compare)

Not, take n give n want more
What I'll tell my wife to be

Lalami3232:
Should we tell him??

very soon

I needed to meditate deeply before writing this: "Pls, Calm Down"

Killbillz:
Two things involved. She could be lying against her other boyfriend because she wants u guys to kill urselves over her or it could be true that she was molested but pressing her yansh and breast meant she probably waited or maybe na negotiation gone wrong.

What u will do: Carry ur squad go but put her for front and be in the shadows and observe. Make her to confront them herself since una done know the location. Watch out for any signs like to see if they have something going on. If it's negative chill, positive still chill. Worst case them go beat her up. After 3 days go back there fully masked and strapped. Take their phones away,
Do the thing when u feel say them deserve. But if u know say ur babe Na loose when nor dey stay one place or babe when nor get secret baba just relax or u call police cos she go lead those guys right back to u after all said and done.

Isabi4lov:
It doesn't matter, you will still leave her , the girl is not wise dating someone that beats you tueh , if you guys end up marrying each other nko

as in
D guy boy ehn..

Hatrick01:
just kidding buddy


I am planning to wife her

You need some sense
And sometimes it's better to allow the agric fowl wey no like inside cage, go outside

There r better ways to handle issues with your lady (G.friend, Sister, Wife, Madam.. Feminist) than assaulting.
Yeah, you got pressured, tempted, vexed..
But No real man ever physically assault his loved ones. Okay?

You gotta get that straight up your head FIRST
Maybe we should leave you to go chop some minutes of beating from her suitors (who she sacrificed for you) then you collect sense.

StaySafe

Killbillz:
Two things involved. She could be lying against her other boyfriend because she wants u guys to kill urselves over her or it could be true that she was molested but pressing her yansh and breast meant she probably waited or maybe na negotiation gone wrong.

What u will do: Carry ur squad go but put her for front and be in the shadows and observe. Make her to confront them herself since una done know the location. Watch out for any signs like to see if they have something going on. If it's negative chill, positive still chill. Worst case them go beat her up. After 3 days go back there fully masked and strapped. Take their phones away,
Do the thing when u feel say them deserve. But if u know say ur babe Na loose when nor dey stay one place or babe when nor get secret baba just relax or u call police cos she go lead those guys right back to u after all said and done.

Hmmmm 🤔

Creativity22:
You are a fool for assaulting her. How many men have you fought this year ? If you are tired of her behaviour, just end the relationship.

A bottle of 80% Alcoholic Wine for you!

But No Cash.
Can I write cheque for you?

Hatrick01:
Should i go ahead confront those guys?

Johnny Bravo like your type once accepted that mission (although he had never assaulted any of his girlfriends) and the end was..

Dear Nairaland Acquaintances,
Once again, this is NutFunny
To save this guy is suicidal.
Abort the mission,
I repeat, Abort, ABORT!!

He loves her with the money
She loves him for the money

Unfortunately he had h*RD_On wen she came. Assuming she also had feelings just like him d**k, hoping to do the do.


But it ain't gonna happen.
Its all for the money.
Bro, Game Over.

vybzkartel:
You are in the same working environment and she says you are not approachable

Could that be a sign of love interest from her?

Sincerely this NutFunny
You need to be serious about your work n stop thinking everything is about boy-girl relationship.

Calm Dan

Keep a good smile at clients + fellow staffs.
Hv an open mind, be friendly, create n join nice conversations with things to laugh at when appropriate.

Try not to bring in house stress to office.

kinzation:
Don't say what you don't know bro.

I work with UBA and our ATMs dispense the new notes

Dispensing what?
Today 19 Jan, 2023
Only x1pc inside 100,000NGN
UBA Bank at Iyana-Dopemu, Lagos-Abeoukuta Expressway

JASONjnr:
If she's very busy.... I'll assist her .. But if she's doing nothing... Then she's trying to insult me...


Had a girl who was always very busy.....She will send the list and I will go to the market to get food items... I was working from home, she closes 4pm but gets home very late coz of distance and hold ups....

So, there's nothing there...

May God Almighty bless you

And this is what she - siofra is promoting:

Shameless You

siofra:
Well I don't see anything wrong here.

They are all adults capable of consent.

Feminism, LGBTQ.. is gonna destroy many of Generation Y's future

Dear parents, love & take proper care of your little one(s).

Train up your child(ren) to resist immoral, unruly, unnatural and demonic perv @home, sch, wrk, offline + online

Quite unfortunate we hv so many here with some wives, mothers, daughters, sons, husband's and fathers copying their dirty examples.

Quite Unfortunate

Was dis not the woman siofra was talking about the other day?

eMYou, eMYou
You want to rope him with sexual assault, rape or infidelity abi?


Meanwhile, you're always exposing your skirt, bra or maybe boobs n part of your pants to him.

So he wanna find out if you're sincere bout it or not.
Nonsense and Ingredients