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Ur Dj career is not the only thing dying. Ur brains too. Ur stupidity is like Peak milk,its in you.
I like Wande. I love his Music, but I think he got it all wrong.
And u people should stop ranting about this twitter shit.
U'all want him to call wande, mofos.

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Write your partner love poetry, no matter how bad you may think it is.
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Send flowers randomly, even if only digital ones.
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Cover the bed with rose petals (for no apparent reason other than love)
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Make time to spend hours just kissing. Kiss until dawn. Make the sunrise special.
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Make every kiss count. Show your passion and love.6.
Ask your love to tell you about some place that they lived in the past.
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Hold your partner's hand in public.
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Tell your partner that you love them at least once every day.
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Cuddle and hug while you sleep.
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Kiss your partner's forehead11.
Wear clothes that you know your lover likes.
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Take your partner camping– just the two of you. Stay out under the stars.
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Involve yourself in your partner's favorite hobby.
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Show your appreciation for the things your lover does. Remember to say “thank you.”
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When you use a photo of yourself online, use one that has your partner in it as well.16.
Write little love notes and leave them where your love will find them.
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When making love, take it slow. Kiss every inch. Spoil your partner.
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Give your love a massage
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Hug often.
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Get your lover coffee before they wake up.21.
Also, surprising your love with breakfast in bed is an awesome way to say “I love you.”
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Say nice, wonderful and feel-good things about your lover to others where your lover can hear you.
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Smile whenever you are around your lover. Show them how happy they make you.
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Write your partner a real love letter on paper and mail it to them, even if you live at the same address.
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Remember all of the days that are important to your lover (birthdays, valentines' day, anniversaries, first dates, proposal day, etc.)
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Keep a picture of your partner in an area where you spend a lot of time. Find a way for your partner to find out about it (without telling them directly.)
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Get the door, pull chairs out for your lover, etc.
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When things need to be bought (anything from coffee to groceries) have the faster credit card.
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Whenever you see your lover backtrack on what they're going to say or change who they are for you, smile, acknowledge it, and tell them that they don't need to change. You love the person that they already are inside.
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Dance together. If you can't dance, take a class together.31.
Point out your lover's endless awesome traits when others put them down.
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Make an effort to keep your partner smiling and tell them how much you love their smile.
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Take your love out to dinner unexpectedly.
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Kiss the tip of your partner's nose.
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Read something that your partner likes or loves to them.36.
If you're really busy, make time. You can even give it as a silly gift entitling your lover to a day or a week they can spend with you.
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Go out and have nice pictures taken of yourselves together.
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Share a romantic, candle-lit bubble bath.
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Stay loyal. Keep your promises.
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Find a way to announce your love so that everyone around you can hear it.41.
Share elements of your life with your lover that you haven't shared with anyone else.
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Flirt relentlessly.
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If you're already married, play like you're not. Romance your partner and propose again.
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Tell your lover how cute/handsome/gorgeous and/or how much of a god or goddess they are.
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Give your partner a memento (not necessarily a ring, but a bracelet or a necklace or something they can carry around in their pocket) that reminds them of your love for them.46.
Share a meal or a drink with your lover.
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Talk about the future. Muse about ideas, dreams and the things that you will do together.
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Sing to your lover, or sing together somewhere intimate (like the shower.)
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Make an effort to attend (and enjoy) an event or ceremony with your lover that is important to them.
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Leave flowers (single roses work great) in places where your lover will find them (like under the wiper on their car)
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Stand between your lover and danger (or irritation, frustration, etc.)
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Make sacrifices for your partner. Make sure that your lover isn't making too many sacrifices for you.
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Spend time together doing nothing at all.
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Spontaneously take a day off from work or responsibilities to “kidnap” your partner and have a blast together!
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Take the opportunity to say something like “Wow, check out that amazing couple!” when you pass a reflective window or mirror with your lover. Point your reflection out and have a laugh.56.
Make a mix of songs for your lover.
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Use little changes in the standard “I love you” by saying things like “I adore you” or “I am so lucky to be here with you.”
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Always make sure that you have time set aside for just you and your partner.
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Explore your spirituality (or your love of a given subject) with your lover.
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Be your partner's best friend in every situation.61.
Write an article about love in which your partner will recognize elements of your relationship and smile.
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Surprise your lover at work with flowers or chocolate or kisses.
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Perform miracles (like setting up a romantic dinner in ten minutes with no warning.)
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Kiss your lover's eyelids.
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Show your partner that you care by being a sympathetic ear for them.

We’re Having A Baby:

One of the most amazing experiences for a loving couple is the birth of a child. But when you’re the one that knows before your partner does, it can be filled with wonderful possibilities to show them how much you love them.
Mary wanted to tell Bob that they were pregnant for the first time in a special way. They had been trying for a child for years, but nothing ever seemed to work for them – all of their medical resources were not panning out.
But when Mary found out she was pregnant – without any help from the doctors – she realized that she hadn’t told Bob just how much she loved him through all of their hard times. He never complained and he was ready to adopt in order to be a parent with Mary.
To help share the news, she wrapped up a small box in wrapping paper and set it out on the counter in their kitchen, where Bob always went when he came home from work.
In that box, she had put a small heart shaped candy with a note that said, “I love you Bob and know that you will be the best father a child could ever have.”
Stunned when he read this, Bob walked back to their bedroom to find Mary beaming with happiness. She had placed a bow on her stomach with a tag that read, “To Mary and Bob. Sorry it took me so long to get here.”
Other ideas include:
Creating a card from the baby to the spouse.
Buying a piece of baby clothing and wrapping it up.
Placing a note where your partner will find it.
Wrapping up the pregnancy text box and placing a note inside that says, “Positive!”

When You’re With Their Family:

Sometimes dealing with different families can be a stressful time for you as a couple, so having a way to show that you love your partner can help to alleviate the pressure you may be feeling.
When Tom and Bonnie go to their prospective in-laws, they generally do several things that show each other that they love the other – without anyone knowing.
Sometimes, keeping these little signs secret makes them all the more special:
They squeeze each other’s hands three times in a row – one squeeze each for I – Love – You.
They try to talk about their partner as often as possible to showcase their special news or abilities.
They try to be close to their partner as much as they can during the evening or outing.
Talk with their family to show that you care about where they come from as well as who they are today.
When you’re with your family, you want to show each other that you’re in it together – even if it’s not the highlight of your week.

Valentine’s Day:

It seems clichéd, but Valentine’s Day is still one of the best days to spread your love. While some people aren’t big fans of this day or the newly popular Sweetest Day, you can still use this as an excuse to show your partner how much you care.
It doesn’t have to be a big or consist of giving jewelry to your partner – all it needs is for you to give from your heart.
Make a list of all the reasons why you love the person that you’re with.
Try to come up with obscure things like the idea that you love the way they brush their teeth or comb their hair. The more specific you are, the more touching it will be.
Create a small book of mementos of things that you’ve done together – movie tickets, receipts, menus, etc.
Give the gift of time – Create a small card that entitles the recipient to a certain amount of time with you.
Do something that makes fun of the holiday – If you’re not big fans of this day; try to do something that’s really ridiculous and the opposite of the day. Maybe you can head out to dinner on another night to celebrate or do something more active like putt putt golf. Just being together is the point – it doesn’t have to include pink or hearts.

Birthdays

Birthdays are a celebration of the time when your partner came into the world and eventually into your life.
There are plenty of ways to celebrate their birth in a loving and joyful way:
Send them a card in the mail with birthday wishes – Everyone likes to get mail. If you can, try to conceal that it’s from you until they open it.
Send them a small token for their birthday at their place of work – You could also send the birthday card here or send flowers. Try to keep it small and discreet if your partner isn’t a big fan of getting a lot of attention.
Make sure to create some sort of plan for the day or close to the day – Whether you decide to go out for dinner or simply stay inside with the phones off, it doesn’t really matter. Setting aside the time to be with your partner on their birthday is what matters. Make sure that you’re showing them that you’re sincerely thankful that they came into the world.
Always remember the day
Create a special birthday cake for them that has their picture on it – and make sure it’s their favorite flavor.
For Justin and Martha, they go to their prospective places of birth near their actual birthdays and then eat at local restaurants and look at where they grew up to see how it’s changed in the past year.

From A Woman To A Man

Showing a guy that you love him isn’t always a difficult thing to do. Many guys like simple things and to just spend time together with you, but if you want to do something really special, you will want to think outside of the ‘normal’ things and start thinking about what makes your relationship something that you treasure.
Susie wanted to tell her new boyfriend that she loved him, but she didn’t want to make it a big deal because Craig was a pretty laid back and casual guy. So, she did the following things:
Made a list of the dates they’d been on – where they’d been and anything special that might have happened.
She then asked Craig out for an evening that started in the middle of the afternoon with a trip to the place where they had their first date.
Then they went to the next date place, and so on.
By the end of the ‘tour’ of their past dates, she took him somewhere new that he’d always wanted to go to – and then she told him that she loved him – no mater how many more places they went to.

From A Man To A Woman

While love is love, there are certainly a number of ways to show it to someone. When you’re a man that wants to say, “I love you” to a woman, you might want to remember that women enjoy the romantic side of love; the timeless nature of love.
In knowing this, you should consider trying to be as romantic as you can in order to show her and tell her that you love her.
Here are some creatively unique ideas:
Find out the song that she considers ‘yours’ and play it the next time you are together.
Create a whole day in which she gets to plan what you’ll do together – no matter what she chooses, be happy and supportive of the choices.
Take her dancing – line dancing, square dancing, etc. Any kind of dancing that she likes, take her out for a class or a night of that kind of dancing.
Create a gift basket of things that she might like – if she’s a traveling salesperson, for example, show her that you love her by giving her things she can use on her long flights – i.e. audio books
By taking the time to come up with something that really shows her that you love her, she’ll be able to think back on that special memory whenever she needs an extra boost.

When You’re Dating:

Realizing that you love someone is a big step in any relationship. What you might not realize is that it doesn’t always happen over a certain period of time – some people know they love each other in days, while others take months and years.
However, this is a special moment that you want to really get right in order to make it a memorable time for both of you.
Create a special time when you can both be together and be uninterrupted. If you tell your partner that you have something important to talk to them about, that will keep them excited for what is about to happen.
Look them in the eyes when you say it.
Say it whenever it feels right. Sometimes, saying, “I love you” without planning it or waiting for the ‘right’ time is better than something more complicated.
Don’t expect them to say it back to you – in fact, let them know that they don’t have to repeat it. When you let someone know that you just simply love them and can’t bear to keep it to yourself any longer, but you don’t expect anything in return, it can be the sweetest moment of your relationship.

When You’re Moving:

If you’re a couple that’s moving in together, you will have hundreds of other things on your mind besides your partner. And since the same can be said of your partner too, maybe you can fit in a few special ‘I love you’ moments that they will cherish in this task-filled time.
In boxes that you know your partner will open, place large signs that say ‘I love you’ on them.
Write a love note to your partner and place it in the visor of their car so they can find it before they drive to the new home.
Create a welcome home banner for your new place – and put it there before your partner arrives.
When Jenna and Richard moved, they were nervous about whether they were going to survive as a couple. But all of Richard’s doubts vanished, when he found a note from Jenna in his wallet the day that they moved.
It said, “Welcome to our new home and life baby. I can’t wait to spend the next day waking up next to you.”

Wishing you all a stress-free day. Happy sunday!!!

banega: Rubbish. Hungry gurl. People who don't love your people can never love yuh.. I guess this is the new trend for yoruba men now.. To marry igbo women.. They just hate der own women.. Lol. If this goes on i just wonda who will marry the yoruba women they are leaving behind.. Smh!

Keep quiet my friend. Ona akogheri

Nancyamakaeze: Flavour na father

Whose father?...Urs?

MARRIED OR NOT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ...


“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.

Flavour tho....Iyanya will jst b winding waist wit muscle. if he channels dat energy 2 PHCN, 9ja will hav stable electricity

Drowning man. Seeking for escape route. U surely 've something...but not the PEOPLE my Friend. Yes! somebody stole from somepeople, and that person is obviously you. The road from Eleme to imo river is the only unconstructed road in rivers state ryt?..because people hate u with passion. You digust them...Buhari nd Tinubu will use u till u become useless. Keep talking bullshit!

aManFromMars: Yeah, he remains dead, that's why he tarries. He can't come back. He's dead.

Nobody should insult this guy. Like I said earlier, we will keep praying for u. Don't die just yet

aManFromMars: Funny thing is the Jewish rebel that was hung on a cross never bore the name JESUS.. there's no power in that name..

We will keep praying for you!!! #bless

I dont know how true the story is tho, but let's hit the fact.
You can't pay Genevive Nnaji less than #10mil for any Movie. She was paid #30mil When she was starred in one movie called Ije. Same with Omotola.

Olu Jacobs is another top notch. All these actors earn BIG!...

Na person go tell u how much u go sell ur goods?

No one takes good things serious. Its a normal thing.

Secondly, it depends heavily on what u call "good"

Hoes are also good. I can't take them serious tho

dryakson: Thanks

You're welcome

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Stop thinking so logically it only gets in your way
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Change social pain to social pleasure by feeling good while being social
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Visualize your success
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Squash negative thoughts immediately
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Think in confident ways
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Always mentally congratulate yourself for taking any action
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Create confident habits
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Analyze and learn from your shyness
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Interrupt shy thinking patterns
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Get therapy to overcome past traumas
Drop your negative social beliefs
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Drop any limiting beliefs you have about yourself
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Like yourself, focus only on what's great about you
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Stop judging yourself
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Realize no one is watching you16.
Accept your fears, there's nothing wrong with you
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Breathe deeply to relax yourself
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Understand where your fear comes from
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Understand its often from our evolution
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Realize there is no such thing as failure as long as you try21.
Clear your mind of all thoughts
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Live completely in the present moment
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Reprogram your subconscious until you are convinced you are confident
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Meditate
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Learn building confidence is like training a muscle26.
Write a list of all your fears
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Take baby steps in conquering your small fears
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Or… Tackle your biggest fears head on
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Set goals in writing
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Work towards them relentlessly31.
Accept no excuses
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Respect yourself
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Stand up for yourself
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Create mental anchors of confidence
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Gain knowledge about your fears36.
Gain experience in dealing with them
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Use overwhelming force to destroy them
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Take SOME action every time you feel ANY fear
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Feel the fear but do it anyway
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Strengthen your voice41.
Speak with confidence
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Stand taller (don't look at the ground)
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Use your eyes to communicate
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Move slowly and deliberately
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Relax your shoulders46.
Learn how to tell a good story
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Really listen to others when they speak
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Be cheerful
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Get out of your head and into the moment
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Smile often

Person dey celebrate something with the cloth him buy, u dey hate...habba!..wetin dey do us?..if u no lyk sumfin,don't do it,nd leave the ppl wey dey do am alone...

Jealousy they kill pass aids o

Tonto Dike is a well-known Philantropist...its no longer news that she's a real giver!

Desdola: This is trash cos he would be compensated 100 fold of what he spent in building the house.

That's his right!..no injustice there..Its legal Sir

Whether its politrisk or foul play..They did the right thing. Isn't this what u guys want. Being the law doesn't place u above the law...Applaud the act, forget about the motive..u guys bleep GEJ 'cus he is not active...if we start looking at motives, then I guess we've to Give up for Mr.President.

: KNOW WHAT YOU WANT!

Kekekenny: space bookedp



















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waiting for my mtn 10mb.

Keep quite my friend

What caused the fire outbreak na...Sorry sir...the next thing now hungry smellos go tell me he deserved it 'cus he is a politician

No doubt...Arsenal will win this match

See dive

Rexxie: ....wudbcool....

Lolz

[quote author=k.style]i talk am....na draw dis match go end....i must b a prophet....*oya mak i go open chrch nw nw[/quote]Not yet

We no need draw o...Make them kukuma score o...Any team at all

I see Mikel scoring a late winner for chel today....that's if he's gonna play

maninmood: Gene ngbeke, go get yourself schooled. You reek of illiteracy in your dressing. Just cuz you see a Hollywood star pull this off shouldn't make you do it likewise. Na wa o

I pity your life...Her 17yrs old daughter is ur 30yrs Old sister's role model...and this came from a Jambite o

Baybe: And to think this dress costs more than 20k.

Keep quite joor...the dress looks nice...QUALITY!!

The song is DOPE...Nice song...U just 've to give it up for this dude...He is not finished yet...Jaiye Jaiye Video dropping soon...Emi ni Wizzy...Nwatakiria nwere ya

Few weeks ago, people were blaming GEJ for failing to give a detailed information on when the strike will be called off.
Today,someone gave an estimated period of the time it'd last,u, Guys r still hating.

WE don't actually know what we want!

eduson33: this country is bamudaly triangulated into the osillosis of some aquatic individual.

solving the equation using first law of motion:

few months can be perpendicularly proportional to = 11 months

all hope is not lust sha.

kai,niaja my cuntt-ry

Keep quite joor!

That's why its called "PRESIDENTIAL FLEET"