Adamsyozil23:

Please correct your statement,it is y do some guys,not y do guys, because with this u are trying to say it all d guys which me am different from

tolaswim:
You are pained because the said guy got another girl pregnant which supposedly would have been you....The guy is doing well you said in your write up. Some of you ladies have eyes but doesn't use it to see... Don't come here inorder to mislead others girls abeg....

Lollittaa:

Nigerian girls LIVING IN NIGERIA, stay AWAY from Nigerian guys living abroad.
He may end up abandoning the pregnant lady sef. I don't know why my fellow females no dey hear word.

jaybee345:


Nwachi22

linearity:


Let’s assume he is married as you later said…..you did not mention that as part of your reasons for declining to marry him.

Your bone of contention was, his demand that you get pregnant first. More so as you stated, his married wife leaves abroad and may even be a foreigner he used to get his papers or that relationship is in a bad shape and either have hit the rock or about to hit the rock, hence he is looking for a solution.

And many ladies won’t mind getting into such relationships, but you appear not to be the type, so just move on. The truth is, men to marry dey scarce and the competition is very tough, so your public service announcement is not going to make ladies of marriage age look back. Ladies are even dating married men these days on purpose with the aim of taking over, hence many married women don’t package and leave their marital home again, when they caught their husbands cheating as that will be fulfilling the cherished dreams of another lady.

As a result of the above many ladies who don’t want to tolerate or play the above games opt to become independent ladies and fashy the marriage thing altogether or wait absent-mindly for God to answer their prayers of a husband as they live single, focus on their careers and grow old.

dominique:
"take in before I marry you" is the why we have a lot of single mothers around. Rather than our hypocritical no boys to be happy that our society will have one less single mother, they're mocking the op for passing over the opportunity to become the latest single mother in town. Is your confusion not confusing you people laidis , why are you so bummed that she refused to be a single mother whom you people love to bash like your existence depends on bashing them?

CaCO3:

U were fortunate and and shrewd.
The shrewd sees danger and conceal himself from it.

bigcasava1:
You said no and another said yes, so you both has done nothing for my own judgement ooo! Time wait for no one aunty. Abi you no trust ursef? And you can't tell me you have not been bleeping for the past two months.

Trustedpronet:
How can you met a guy two months and he started asking you to get belle for him without knowing any of his people ...sure you have started considering it as an option hense you are desperate to marry a prick and not a man.[/s]

If you are saying the truth...God saved you

Loverboy3333:


Some girls are even looking for such opportunities, Regina Daniels married Ned with many wives and kids.
I bet if this man was to be a billionaire na speed you for open legs to deposit sperm put.

mabea:
This thing wey you talk sweet me well well. Lol

Edge1:


Please rest abeg. We've heard these lines before.
You rejected the offer doesn't mean every other woman should reject it. I know many ladies here wouldn't think twice before accepting

Maobichek:


I like your boldness dear, the truth is that she won't send any mail to you. From the thread, she appreciates rich men.

femi4:
Mess up your life,? How? You can be the second wife now ....Kini big deal, your biologist time is saying tik tok

pedrilo:
So?
Which crime him commit?
Every man with his choice.
U made ur choice so Wetin dey mk u cry?
U, d guy and d pregnant gal, make all of una getat

ignis:


[s]You just goofed and messed up the opportunity you have to get married. You should be hiding your face in regret now.[/s]

mbjsuki:
The guy is just going about doing "random sampling". You are just lucky, thank your God.

Oksman:


[s]Nothing will befall anybody. You are so pained that you are not married yet, and someone else acted irresponsibly faster than yourself. Look if anyone has a share in your wish/curse, it's you and your evil friend who connected you to a "married" man to hook you up. It shows the low regards and the actual worth as a person she has for you because she alone knows you and your kind of lifestyle. "Birds of the same feathers flock together" so stop bleating like a goat in a pen! Your true self is not hidden to those who have discernment even if this forum is faceless. When you said a "friend" linked you up to this man, I hope you know the true def of the above quoted word when next you make an expose of yourself in a public forum[/s].

advanceDNA:


Nigga u cruel


Lol

Oksman:


You need not ask who is "This" because you already know before slashing the message, and accepting my goodluck wishes. I followed this thread from the beginning and realised that this was the only post you couldn't swallow. They say that "truth is bitter, but the bitter truth; sets you free"

Oksman:


I am being objective and not cruel, brother.

I see a lot of her type in my circuit and I know who she is, that all.
Have a blissful day.

InTheCloudySky:
Thank God for Dr. Myles Munroe. If you've ever watched any of his videos, you'd know that any man that gives you such a condition (or any condition) doesn't love you.

Oksman:


[s]You didn't dodge any bullet. Forget that rap that made you feel okay as if you are smart. I understand you very well, and the reason why you had to resort to this forum to pour out your heart. The issue here is are you a virgin? Of course not. Have you slept with him? Of course yes. Have you taken in before? Sure yes. Have you done an abortion before? Yes. Age is not on your side that was why he demanded that you get pregnant first. you know you are in your 30s which means it may not be easy for you take in immediately hence your decision to keep him in suspense. Whatever the case you are pained because you feel used and still lost him and not that he has a wife in Dubai which you claimed was your after- discovery. My advice to you is to trust in God so that He will give you a husband, who may not fit into your choice, but would give you a peaceful married life.[/s]
Goodluck

okoroemeka:
I smell pain and jealousy also

numericalguy:



Stop your lamentations and move on as the guy you are lamenting and gnashing teeth over has since moved on.

Truvelisback:
U are very smart then. Has his wife bear him any child?

1Sharon:


And he may be the cause ya know?

Truvelisback:
From people or from him?

Truvelisback:
How did u find out?

Truvelisback:
U should have said so in ur post. I hope u aren't trying to use that to cover up?