You didn't play your cards why you're in this situation.. If not, you wouldn't come here to yammer
I would have been in a situation if I had given in. The guy is married afterall. I created this thread to share my experience so that people will learn from it.
You are seriously regretting your decision which is why you had to open a thread of lamentations over someone who has obviously moved and doesn't even remember you again.
Truvelisback: That's not the issue. The issue is that, did he marry the lady? If yes, then, the lady didn't messed up her life. Infact, she is even lucky. Note: some men are scared of delay in child bearing or barreness. My uncle once fell for this trap. The wife he married is yet to bear him a child. Although, the wife manoever him with fake pregancy, so that my uncle would marry her. It was after their marriage that my uncle discovered that she had dated/married several men, because she couldn't bear them children, they broke up with her. Nai my simp uncle go marry so. Now, she is yet to bear him a child.
Stop trying to be too clever by half. A responsible man who got married to a true scrupulous woman, virgin or not, who turned out to be infertile won't find it difficult bearing with her, but the same can't be said of a hypocritically disingenuous unscrupulous woman who wears the garb of scrupulousness and whose infertility is as a result of her wayward lifestyle.
Lol. So how do you know a true scrupulous woman. I bet you didn’t comprehend my message before dropping this.
I think I understand your personality. No need wasting my time arguing with you.
Irresponsible - wannabe-woke - people cut across both genders, so don't make it a male issue. In fact, don't blame men who insist on having the non-virgin women in their lives proving the potency of their fertility by getting pregnant before formalizing their relationship - however unpalatable it seems - citing the kind of life most women live.
One is in my house as a guest presently; her fiance, who happens to be the godson of one of my trusted associates, pleaded that I host her in my house and allow her to stay in my guest room because she told them that she's here on an official assignment on behalf of the Nigeria branch of her employer. Her fiance even made me understand beforehand that she's a scrupulous woman, which fortunately or unfortunately she appears to be like in her persona and demeanor, but the reality from what I have observed and seen as her character is that of a typical high-end corporate LovePeddler who is here not just only running high-end hookups, but also fighting a man she's unconsciously told me made her abort severally for him when she was younger. All this is happening without the knowledge of her fiance, who's back home believing that he has the best kind of woman as a fiancee, citing how he boasted to me about her scrupulousness.
Inukwa! So you think that once a woman is a virgin, it automatically makes her fertile. Lol.
See bia.. deep down within you, you wished you accented sooner. You're just here trying to feel better. Don't worry after three more years your eyes go clear.
Wish kor! Wish ni! Would you wish for any of your sisters or daughters to marry this kind of man?
I am surprised why you think he wanting a baby would have destroyed your life.
You said No or wanted to think about it. He took it as a no. He impregnated someone else who is ready to settle down. He is not complaining. neither is the lady he impregnated. He is not also denying responsibility.
RightToReject: The unpronounced reason behind this thread is simply to announce that you are single, available, and looking for a serious relationship that will lead to marriage as soon as possible because of pressure from different quarters for you to marry. There is no need to be ashamed of saying it as you want it because it isn't a crime.
Well, you’re entitled to your opinion. Ladies should beware and watch before accepting any proposal from men to avoid regret. There are a lot of irresponsible guys without conscience out there.
olabrinks: So somebody else has agreed to be his wife under his conditions, and you have moved on, so why are you opening a thread about this? At the end of the day If you’re having sex with a guy before marriage, what is the difference if the guy asks you to get pregnant before he marries you? Let’s not be hypocritical here. A lot of us like to act like we are above certain things, when in reality you are just deceiving yourself. Let’s not act like women dont date 5 men at once before they settle down with one. Move on with your life, you’re not better than the girl he impregnated, you’re both the same, just that there’s proof of fornication in her stomach. Ah beg jare.
I opened this thread for my fellow ladies like you to learn from this experience. Most ladies hop into bed with a guy in a bid to get married without due diligence. The guy is married to a lady that lives in Dubai. He kept that part away from me.
Why do guys always insist that a lady gets pregnant before marriage.
Two months ago, I met a guy through a friend of mine who was looking for a wife. The guy insisted that I must take in before he goes to see my parents.
The guys is doing very well in business (importation). I wasn’t comfortable with that idea so I told him to give me sometime to think about his proposal and revert to him, despite the pressure from my family to settle down.
Just found out last week that a lady is two months pregnant for him. You see how I would have messed up my life and career if I had hopped into bed with him two months ago.
The truth is now nowadays, men prefer going after flashy and fully endowed girls rather than character. The truth is that it’s difficult to see a girl with Virgin Mary character and Nicki Minaj kind of body.
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