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Done .....
Lagos Enugu Niger Kano....

The man is tired of his aboki (backward) people...

jtwest:
they never even pay the 19800 abi how much on time you are talking 40k, you want half allawee Abi?

No current serving corp member is complaining of lack of payment but almost all of them are clamouring for the increament...
Even government too knows that this money is too meager..

lets be optimistic...
something can be done...
We have more than enough in the country.

Gorvenment should increase the allowee of corps members to 40k and above.
The service to our fatherland shouldnt be done with penury amount under this recessed economic..

Kindly tweet to the ears of the concerned stakeholders..
Let something be done..

#increasecorpmembersallowee

Lala wia is u?
Front page material don land oo
Brb....

Front Page Material....
Onku Lala do the justice....

Quite hilarious experiences...

have had many blind dates but they were all interesting and fun..

never got disappointed in any ...

but wait ooo...

there was this one i had then..
the babe fine and looked tall on 2go DP but to my amazement, when we finally met, she was short than something else..
to the extend that when I saw her, I was still looking around to see maybe her big sister was just playing prank with me..
though the babe is pretty..

The rest na story though..

Cetona:
Hi everyone.
Cetona
University of Ibadan
Archaeology
2017
I really don't have a place in mind, I just hope I will like wherever I will be posted to.

welcome a Fellow Premier Graduate...

vision2050:
3 years ... how far. how your marriage? .....

Chief Reminder...

Nice one

Try to improve your grammatical expression too OP..
'She has' not 'she have'

Rhapsody UI 2016 Ibadan.



Great job guys... #Thumpsup

adegeye38:
nt addicted to social media, i can go for weeks without checking my accs, but i cant go 2 hrs without checking nairaland

Wagbayi...
same here...
Even when busy at work, I still sneak to visit my dearest nairaland.

I'm finally here...
following u like like like...................

I'm
wondering why Hausa
people always call wrong
numbers.

on a lighter mood...

Gather enough money and be your own boss..
Start a new business that u think is profitable in your enviroment. U need to carry out feasibility study before starting ur own biz to ensure viability and longetivity of such investment.
Enterprenurer spirit rocks till eternity..

sincerely yours he is not a real man..
His live has been turned upside down.
He needs quick and true deliverance to get back into a normal being ..

FP Materials.. Onku Lala...... oya gbera...

These people are too backward and primitive for my likeness...
#Northernerswakeup.. #Thisis21stcentury.

Any UIte in the house?.. Proudly one

For better for worst nko? Dumped..
It's all about money money..

OP... which school do you rep..? smh..

SMH is that moment when you have forgotten that you are no longer in UI then your dad breaks a glass cup at home and you shout "APA! ARUNGUN OSHI!....UITES will understand.

Mack not Mark..

GEJ is politically great but leaderly erratic..... My phlegmatic president....

@Wailer

Wia dem dey?

1. From Tafawa Balewa to. 2. Gen. Johnson
Aguiyi-Ironsi to. 3. Gen. Yakubu Gowon to. 4. Gen.
Murtala Mohammed to. 5. Gen. Olusegun Obasanjo
to. 6. President Shehu Shagari to. 7. Maj. Gen.
Buhari to. 8. Gen. Ibrahim Babangida to. 9. Chief
Ernest Shonekan to. 10. Gen. Sani Abacha to. 11.
Gen. Abdulsalami Abubakar to. 12. President
Olusegun Obasanjoto. 13. President Umaru
MusaYar'adua to. 14. President Goodluck
Jonathan. OMG!!!!! I just found out something. The
peoples General (Muhammadu Buhari) is the 7th
president while GEJ is the 14th president. Both are
seeking 2 come back 4 the second time.
Mathematically,If Buhari is the 7th president and
the election is slated for the 14th, it means 14 ÷7=
2. And GEJ is the14th president and the election is
slated for 14th too. It means 14÷14=1. Invariably,
General MUHAMMADU BUHARI will be elected to
rule for the 2nd time while GEJ will lose the
election because he only signed 1single term with
FEBUHARI 14 ÷ 14 =1. SAI BUHARI!!!!!!!

Be brave and ask your spouse the below
questions.
You don't have to ask them all at once or in any
particular order. Be discerning about good
opportunities to foster this kind of conversation.
And certainly don't ask from a defensive position,
but rather with a heart genuinely bent toward
nurtured intimacy with your lover.
10 Best Sex Questions to Ask Your Spouse
1. Have I ever hurt you in how I have treated sex
in our marriage?
Sometimes we have caused pain to the person we
love the most, and we don't even know it. This
question can open some incredibly raw emotions.
Resist the urge to defend yourself. Listen instead.
Listen to your spouse's heart.
2. Do you ever struggle with sexual temptation?
I'll admit, this can be a scary one to ask.
But it can shed light into an otherwise abysmally
dark area where your spouse may feel isolated
and alone.
If your spouse is struggling with sexual
temptation, much is to be gained by you creating
a safe environment in which they can confide in
you. There then is an opportunity to heal, usually
by first understanding the root pain that makes
the temptation so alluring.
If your spouse has acted upon sexual temptation,
obviously this is deeply wounding. I don't in any
way want to minimize how hard it would be to
hear such revelations.
However, there are many marriages that heal
beyond infidelity, pornography addiction and other
sexual betrayals. But healing can't begin if the
truth isn't revealed and both of you aren't
committed toward restoration.
3. After we have sex, how do you feel about our
relationship?
It may surprise many of you wives, but for most
husbands, sex is not just about the physical
release. It's about feeling deeply connected with
the wife they love
.
4. What do you really like during pre-intimacy?
Nothing benefits a couple more sexually than
being teachable and willing to teach.
Build an environment where you both have the
freedom to share what you like during pre-intimacy,
whether that is pre-intimacy hours before sex with
your clothes on or pre-intimacy right before you make
love.
5. What do I do during sex that you really enjoy?
Fingernails on his back? The sound of his name?
The way you pull him close?
What is it that really turns your spouse on when
the two of you make love? As I've already said,
be teachable and willing to teach.
6. What does it mean to you when I climax?
I'm not sure there is any scientific study on this,
but I'm going to take an educated guess here and
say that the vast majority of husbands are
completely enamored and excited to see and feel
their wife climax.
Ask him how he feels when you have an orgasm.
7. Is there anything specific you want us to try
sexually?
Certainly you don't want to compromise biblical
principles or invite third parties into your sexual
intimacy. Within healthy God-honoring
boundaries, though, the Lord has given you
tremendous freedom in your marriage bed.
Are there things sexually that you've never tried
that would be arousing for your spouse?
Different positions? MouthAction? Use of your hands?
Different room of the house? Different way of
initiating? Sexual play in the shower?
You get the idea.
8. Do you think we are setting a good sexual
foundation for our kids?
Your kids don't see you having sex, but they
definitely can sense the sexual tone in your
marriage.
If you glance down the road to when your kids
grow up and fall in love with the person they want
to marry, will you have set an example of
nurtured sexual intimacy?
Will they know that sex is vitally important to a
marriage?
Ask your spouse what they think about this.
9. How can I show you I am sexually attracted to
you?
I know it seems like the obvious answer to this is,
" Have more sex with me!" But I think most
husbands and wives know that it's more than
that.
A husband has a lot of influence in helping his
wife feel beautiful, whether it is in the way he
verbally expresses love to her, shows her
affection outside the bedroom, and compliments
her both in private and in front of others.
And a wife has tremendous impact on her
husband's masculinity. A husband wants to know
that he is still the "one" for his wife... that she
desires him, respects him, speaks well of him in
front of others.
Only you and your spouse can discover what
uniquely builds sexual attraction between the two
of you. Your marriage is worth this type of
discovery.
10. What could we do to improve our sexual
intimacy?
This is a broad question, but the answers that
come from it can be quite revealing. Those
answers may reveal a need for greater frequency
or a desire to be more sexually playful.
You may discover that a weekend away once or
twice a year is worth building into the budget.
You may find that getting more rest and more sex
is better for your marriage than a super clean
house or a well-manicured lawn or watching
Jimmy Kimmel Live every night.
Hey, I think Jimmy Kimmel is kind of funny too,
but if you're regularly sacrificing your sexual
intimacy on the altar of "let's watch late night
TV," well, you have to start to wonder if the cost
to your relationship is too high of a price to pay.

These questions only take about 45 minutes to
discuss—and they almost always make two
people feel better about each other and want to
see each other again, according to social
psychology researcher Arthur Aron of the
Interpersonal Relationships Lab at Stony Brook
University in New York, who published his results
in "The Experimental Generation of Interpersonal
Closeness" in Personality and Social Psychology
Bulletin (1997).
You can try these questions with a date, but
they're not necessarily only applicable to
fostering romance. You can also try them with
people you already know well—friends, family
members, even long-term partners—to deepen
your ties.
Each of you should take a turn answering each
question.

Here they are, in order:
1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom
would you want as a dinner guest?
2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
3. Before making a phone call, do you ever
rehearse what you're going to say? Why?
4. What would constitute a perfect day for you?
5. When did you last sing to yourself? To
someone else?
6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and
retain either the mind or body of a 30-year old for
the last 60 years of your life, which would you
choose?
7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will
die?
8. Name three things you and your partner appear
to have in common.
9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful ?
10. If you could change anything about the way
you were raised, what would it be?
11. Take four minutes and tell you partner your
life story in as much detail as possible.
12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained
one quality or ability, what would it be?
13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about
yourself, your life, the future or anything else,
what would you want to know?
14. Is there something that you've dreamt of
doing for a long time? Why haven't you done it?
15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your
life?
16. What do you value most in a friendship ?
17. What is your most treasured memory?
18. What is your most terrible memory?
19. If you knew that in one year you would die
suddenly, would you change anything about the
way you are now living? Why?
20. What does friendship mean to you?
21. What roles do love and affection play in your
life?
22. Alternate sharing something you consider a
positive characteristic of your partner. Share a
total of five items.
23. How close and warm is your family? Do you
feel your childhood was happier than most other
people's?
24. How do you feel about your relationship with
your mother?
25. Make three true "we" statements each. For
instance, "we are both in this room feeling..."
26. Complete this sentence "I wish I had someone
with whom I could share..."
27. If you were going to become a close friend
with your partner, please share what would be
important for him or her to know.
28. Tell your partner what you like about them: be
honest this time, saying things that you might not
say to someone you've just met.
29. Share with your partner an embarrassing
moment in your life.
30. When did you last cry in front of another
person? By yourself?
31. Tell your partner something that you like
about them already.
32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked
about?
33. If you were to die this evening with no
opportunity to communicate with anyone, what
would you most regret not having told someone?
Why haven't you told them yet?
34. Your house, containing everything you own,
catches fire. After saving your loved ones and
pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to
save any one item. What would it be? Why?
35. Of all the people in your family, whose death
would you find most disturbing? Why?
36. Share a personal problem and ask your
partner's advice on how he or she might handle
it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you
how you seem to be feeling about the problem
you have chosen.
... and a few variations:
If you could choose the sex and physical
appearance of your soon-to-be-born child,
would you do it?
Would you be willing to have horrible
nightmares for a year if you would be rewarded
with extraordinary wealth?
While on a trip to another city, your spouse/
lover meets and spends a night with an
exciting stranger. Given that they will never
meet again, and could never otherwise learn of
the incident, would you want your partner to
tell you about it?