₦airaland Forum

Allioluwasegun:
I think the problem is more of spiritual than physical so it is not ordinary.The man has to arise in prayer and fasting for the wife so that God can deliver her.

duduade:
Why is it only you that have friends who have marital problems like this..?

SAMBARRY:

delishpot:
No communication in this home. The hobby picked a place to relocate his family for reasons best known to him alone? Shey the woman na chair ni? Shouldnt that reason be known to her too? Just move her to the east to" learn about that part of our great nation" she be tourist?
Abeg, make una try learn to love each other through open and honest discusion


And what is the insult if Baba says he will pass his message to the daughter? Were you expecting him to kill her through the phone as soon as you reported her?
I believe this women has surffered in that family o. She kept leaving and returning these many times for the kids sake. I guess this last time she refused but wants access to her kids which you have denied her. She then felt mama was behind it all abd then sent that message. Please if you have nothing to hide post a screen shot of the said SMS lets see. No judging from croped out section of the SMS.

marbee:
This modern world juju house I think you people should let the woman be,if you know so well you are not a witch,why summon her to a juju to kill her

cococandy:
Revise and punctuate pls.

This is kinda hard to read. I couldn't understand it.

EggovinMma:
She reacted to something equally bad.But no, out of respect, she should have desist from calling her a witch. I just don't want to pass the blaame to the woman aalone.She has her own side of the story to tell as well.

Ewuro4:
Don't mean to sound rude sir but I do not believe you your story doesn't sound convincing. A sane woman will not leave her children behind without a reason, someone/thing is definately chasing that woman. But that's by the way.

@calling grandma a witch, does that make your mom a witch? What's with summoning her to ritual grounds , for what? Are you in the right state of mind atall? even when your mom is raging as a result of this, you're supposed to be the tension buffer , no, instead you opted to be irrational and ready to go for the kill when you could've apologized to your mom on her behalf and stop beating the dead horse.

If not for anything, she's still the mother of your children and will forever be in their lives so you gonna have to learn to tolerate her regardles of your differences.

Simmer your brain sir, you have two kids to raise.

Richy4:
For her to call your mother a witch, that means she played a major role in your separation.

What role did she/ didn't she play in your union as man and wife. Why did i even ask this question? When i already know the truth.

The thing is bro, i know where you came from because i came from the same state as you. Some of our parents don't fancy their sons marrying from another state or town. If you can tell yourself the truth, you will discover that she doesn't like her one bit from the beginning and would have preferred you marry local.

And most times it will be written all over their faces. Why didn't she call your dad names? That was because men always understand. And knew what they equally went through before they marry their present wife who is now mother in law.

If you wanna work on your relationship or marriage, keep your mom and siblings out of it. ie if they will agree to stay clear because that part of town are known to be possessive of their sons. And outsiders are meant to stay clear. But if you don't want to, let the girl be to nurse her wound and bruises

Ewuro4:
Maybe it's just me but Something's not right with your story sha. I think you're denying that woman access to her kids hence her rage & uncouthness.

You want to kill her? What is the repercussions of this ritual?
What is hidden to onlookers is open to God. Leave her alone, Let her have access to her children . Let God judge everyone.

cococandy:
There's something you're not saying.
You mean she's been blamed for the man losing his job and the MIL losing her husband?
Seems like a lot of superstitious ish is going on there.

Pls get to the root of the matter as soon as possible for those kids to have peace and some kind of stability in their lives.

EggovinMma:
Was expecting that from nlders anyway.
If the wife is running away from her matrimonial home, despite the stigma she may face as a single mother, there's certainly something that is really that bad going on.If she calls the in law a witch, then she may be.Some are witches!

tearoses:
She is looking for attention
Ignore her

chimkaire:
how do U want me to believe you You aint a witch yet you are taking her to "someplace sinister" emmmmmm...how una take dey know the way to such places, biko? She's suddenly crazed out now she aint with you yet you claim she "abandoned" the kids and right now, you are jittery about Welfare cos they will grant her custody of the kids? What do take peeps on here for Una don win, anything else...? Silence the woman na e remain okwaya?

cococandy:
She's out of line calling your mom a witch.
Regardless.
But that's a symptom of a disease.

What's the disease? That's what you guys need to treat to prevent further occurrence of such in future. Your kids shouldn't grow up disrespecting their grandmother and that's what will happen if she continues like that.

What does she (ex) want from you and your family? If she left willingly, she will be happy to be out of your lives. Not unhappy and raining abuses from your family on the other side. You know what she wants and details that the we don't. But if you don't ,Figure that out and you will probably resolve the matter permanently

Meanwhile who's taking care of the little kids?

delishpot:
Well, if she was treated well then I feel the guys pain But dont tell me that no mater what so ever the mans mom had done even if the mon was wicked abd directly involved in this whole scenerio she should just ignore even when it has lead to the failure if her marriage and the seizure of her kids? If I was a woman and such happens to I will do same.
Anyhow sha. If the guy was a good husband and she decides to be a biatch and leave her kids and marriage, good ridiance to stinking rubish. I just feel sorry for the guy for investing his time and effort into the woman annd also for the kids caught up in her wicked and selfish act.
Like I said, I do not believe in such summon jaz. If the juju is so powerful let it make shecow run mad. Anyone that tries to summon me dey waste time. Better and sure result if you attack me physicaly than summon me walahi! I nor go come and nothing go happen. Thats why I said if she believes in it, and you so much want to make her say sorry. If her sorry will change anything that is; then summon her. If not better go and give her physical hot slap and end it there no time.

Good one

I will not 100% judge the woman now until we hear her iwn side if this story cos I have seen and withnessed a lot of things where marriage is concerned. My eyes don see plenty.

delishpot:
So she did not abandon them kids? You took them from her and dont want her to have them. In your post you said she dumped them and left so she clearly will not want them even if welfare gave her the choice.
But OP to be fair, was the wife treated well? cos I have seven a lot in this world to conclude just anyhoe about people o

hugogerrard:
Summon her. This drama worths an explanation to the elders