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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Army DSSC and SSC 2014 Aspirants by obiksam(m): 10:37pm On Jun 28, 2014
You are right I just read through the list is for RRI (Trade / non trade men&women)
samobaba4u: This is not for dssc/ssc but RRI
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Army DSSC and SSC 2014 Aspirants by obiksam(m): 4:46pm On Jun 27, 2014
Evening all. Please when will the shortlisted names of 2014 DSSC applicants come out.
PoliticsRe: Fashola Inspecting Roasted Plantain At Sea-food Festival by obiksam(m): 12:26pm On Jun 07, 2013
hehehe me i like boli too
Car TalkRe: Did You Memorise Your Car Plate Number? by obiksam(m): 3:21pm On Oct 13, 2012
My dear even the date i bought it is still in my memories. I can over count moni when im drunk bt cnt 4gt my plate no.
PoliticsRe: Who Would You Prefer For Nigeria's Next President by obiksam(m): 11:26am On Jun 30, 2012
Baba OBJ all the way please he should come back and rule this country till death. He dealth with corrupt governors with Efcc when he was on set to even talk of house of rep who are dey by now lawan, tambuwal, otidola or wat ever, NNPC,Sanusi all of them will be cooling confessing in jail by now. Abeg
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Runs Mad While Praying For Mad Man In Ibadan by obiksam(m): 11:42am On Jun 29, 2012
youngies: Talk about the hunter suddenly becoming the hunted! cheesy
Hunter huntered.
RomanceRe: Would You Do This For Your Woman? by obiksam(m): 8:18pm On Jun 26, 2012
Amaryah: Hey guys, would you do this for the woman in your life or any random lady?
Yes 4 my wife. If that is coke bottle is a very good advert for promo.
RomanceRe: After Romantic Weekends: How Much Should Girls Get? by obiksam(m): 8:20am On Jun 26, 2012
Guys come on stop twisting d issue. CORE u didn't ask ur question well. Romantic wkend! Is it wit ur friend,girl friend,Ex, ur lover or a call club girl. What eva u wish to gv at list let it be 4rom 10k & abov execpt call girl,as 4 ur ex b4 she accept to com 4 wknd grove be prepared bcus she nd ur assistance, friends what eva comes out as of that time unless she ask 4 favor. girl friend / lover monthly package 30 to 40k . Thats how i run my show b4 i marry last yr.I hope dis hv gvn u d answer u want
FamilyRe: Can You Continue With The Marriage? by obiksam(m): 4:58pm On Sep 04, 2011
Sacarstic:
I don`t want to reply your post because you don`t sound like a rational thinker but because today is Sunday and i have a little spare time i will just reply you. This is a public forum and you have the right to post whatever you feel like but i don`t think you have gotten children out of your so-called perfect marriage, otherwise you will understand what it means to call for separation/divorce when you have kids out of the relationship. I will only pray that you don`t go through what i am going through at the moment. And who told you i care about the private activities of my wifehuh? It is one thing that lead to another that i got to see those pics in her mail box.
There is nothing like being a rational thinker here, i only want you to re-consider what you are about to do that is all. Because you are going to leave with it for the rest of your live. (Do you have the mind. Don't 4get once you people are separated the pains will still be their and it will be mutiplying every seconds but if you forgv and take her back in few minutes all past is gone. remember the good times not the bad times. At list for the seek of your children there is nothing like mothers care and up bringing use ur self for an example and also the devil you no is better than that angel you don't no. And for your info my twins are just 9 months old now and i don't mean to disrespect your feelings in any way becus i no that marrage is not as easy as people think.
FamilyRe: Can You Continue With The Marriage? by obiksam(m): 9:36am On Sep 04, 2011
jennykadry:
You have been talking about you and your kids alot ,but the response alot of us wanna get from you is ; How is your wife reacting to this separation? What was her reaction when you asked her to leave for her parents place? What has she said to you?.

Those are the questions people are waiting to be answered. Enough of you already, what is her stand in all of these?
My dear, don't mind the sacerstic guy, is like his is not matured enough to get married and he did not love his wive at the begining he is just conterplating that his wive is still going out with the ex all because she have told him that she was still goin out with the guy before they got married that was why he is stiffing his noise on her wives private activities. He those not trust his wive simple. What about those of us that married nurses like my wive i trust her and she knows that and that is why she feels free to tell me things at work how she operates and handles men and womens private parts etc at work, you all knows doctors and what the can do, but for me? who cares.
FamilyRe: Can You Continue With The Marriage? by obiksam(m): 10:22am On Sep 03, 2011
Yes, To forgive and to forget is the key power of long and happy marrage she have done it is that she have done it so what are you to do for her not to do it agian that suppose to be the question every one have to look for an answer to.
Weather she stays in her parents house for years she is still his wife, marry another wife or not she is still his wife.
For married man like me who is following this topic up we know all prone in marrage so let tell this guy that sending her wife away is not the best way to handle this kind of issue


chaircover:
Did you say that the poster should cry and beg his wife to sever a relationship with another man? who should be the one crying if not the wife and her parents? 18 Photogrphs!!!!!! Is she a model and he is her agenthuh angry

@poster I suggest that you leave her in her parents house for a month or two. Dont go there and dont contact her or her parents.

Tell her that if she needs to see the kids she is to go and see them at their schools.

The outcome of this will give you a clear answer on whether or not she is remorseful or still has one leg out of the marriage.
FamilyRe: Can You Continue With The Marriage? by obiksam(m): 9:16am On Sep 03, 2011
Ok if that is the case. Zero your mind that she is cheating on you,
now i understand you are just predicting that she is still going out with the ex she told you about.

Now listen, to be a happy man again develop trust where your wife is forget about the past now before
you distroy your self and your children. When the mother is against what she did, visit her talk to her that
she should help you talk to your wife that you still love her, keep presurizing the mum to beg her to stop
the net stuff at list after three days go back with your children and beg her to come home and stop
those bad attitudes for the seek of your children if it calls for you to cry in front of every body while begging
do cry it will have impact on her i promise you she will change
FamilyRe: Can You Continue With The Marriage? by obiksam(m): 8:27am On Sep 03, 2011
First, did you confront her showing her the pictures right there?
and what was her reaction when you confronted her. If you didn't
then you made a mistake

Secondly, did you tell her parent at the first time you cut her?
If you didn't then you made a mistake too .

My advice is this go and tell her parent and your parent what is happening definitely they will ask her and she will insult and got mad at you use this opportunity and tell her that you have forgiving her but if you hear nor see any thing concerning that guy, that you will send her parking and no human on earth can make you change your mind. After that ignore her of any bad attitudes and watch out very carefuly and don't be jealous still trust her and don't entefer in her private live. If it repeat it self again send her parking to her parent as for you children send them to your parent if your work is too tight. No that you are the man of the house and your say is final is not by shouting. Send her parking and if any of your friend ask you tell them that you have send her parking simple no explanation of what happened and stop listening to there advice. I pray to God to help you
CelebritiesRe: Sam Loco, Dead Or Alive by obiksam(m): 9:25am On Aug 08, 2011
Sam loco is dead, it was said on NTA news this morning by 7am.
RomanceRe: My Mum Insists That I Must Marry From My Town by obiksam(m): 4:30pm On Sep 18, 2010
Abeg Impregenant the one you love and tell your mum that she is carring your baby
and see what she will do, either she accept her by fate or by force what arrant nons'''''''''s
RomanceRe: d by obiksam(m): 11:20am On Aug 29, 2010
domorehill:
How do we get to see the diary, you can scan and attach.
Thank you my bro. you ask a nice question here.
RomanceRe: Im In Love With My Step- Brother: What Should I Do? by obiksam(m): 11:02am On Aug 29, 2010
You are not only in love you are mad
Both of you need deliverance.
FamilyRe: My Dad Is Having An Affair:Do I Talk To Him Politely? by obiksam(m): 3:55pm On Aug 28, 2010
If you try talking to him he will become more adamant
Trace him and make show that u saw 2 of them red handed
u will see he change because he will become afriad that u
will tell ur mum. Don't tall ur mum nor confront him.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: How To Join The SSS, Customs by obiksam(m): 4:46pm On Jul 30, 2010
According to Brian Ross of ABC News, the U.S. Secret Service has closed its office in Nigeria and relocated to nearby South Africa. Ross reports:
Nigerian officials said the decision has hurt efforts to crack down on criminal rings that produce the counterfeit currency and cheat thousands of Americans with online scams.
The move does not leave Nigerian officials without investigative help from the U.S. government. The FBI continues to maintain an office in Nigeria and takes a lead role in cyber investigations

Despite massive counterfeiting of U.S. currency and checks in Nigeria, the American law enforcement agency with principal jurisdiction, the Secret Service, has closed its office in Lagos, Nigeria.

Nigerian officials said the decision has hurt efforts to crack down on criminal rings that produce the counterfeit currency and cheat thousands of Americans with online scams.

"It's something that I find difficult to understand," said Ibrahim Lamorde, who heads the Lagos office of the country's Economic and Financial Crimes Commission.Lamorde says Nigeria has become a center of high quality counterfeit currency, postal money orders and bank checks.

"They need an office here," said Lamorde, who praised the FBI which continues to maintain an office in Lagos.
Nigerian investigators say they were told the Secret Service agents found the living conditions in the impoverished city of Lagos too difficult.

"The decision on any of our overseas staffing is based on operational demands and investigative priorities," a spokesman at Secret Service headquarters in Washington said. With their agents now stationed in Pretoria, South Africa, a short flight away, the spokesman maintained, "We are comfortable with our efforts in that part of the world."

But Nigerian officials said the decision makes no sense if the Secret Service wants to maximize opportunities to stop the counterfeit scams.

"There is no way you can talk about issues of counterfeiting and financial crimes without being in Nigeria," said Lamorde. "I think they need to have a rethink," he said.


So please there all who are interested in joining sss in nigeria should be aware of scammers.For the near by country in which they have relocated is what i don't no but hope to find out soon. Our politicians that you see guys with clean suits are not sss they are either EX militry men, thugs or outside sss or militias. I wishh u all luck
RomanceRe: For Guys Only, Real Guys. Ladies And Gay Back Off. by obiksam(m): 4:10pm On Jul 25, 2010
papa190:
^^
Thanks for your advice
But ive gat tons of peeps u are happily married before age 29 and i have strong
plans to get married before age 28 immediately after gettin a Solid Job,
Ok. I wish you luck my bro.
RomanceRe: What Is The Right Age To Get Married? by obiksam(m): 3:53pm On Jul 25, 2010
The best age to get married is 31,32,33
so that you can marry a gul of 26,27,28
But for me to marry a gul btwn 20 to 25
God forbid i don't want to die young
their head is still hurt they are not ready
to settle down yet.
RomanceRe: For Guys Only, Real Guys. Ladies And Gay Back Off. by obiksam(m): 3:47pm On Jul 25, 2010
Age is not the problem in marrage.
But at list 3 to 4yrs gap is ok.
Come'''Oooh you said u want to get married before 28yrs?
My brother you are joking, don't you ever make such mistake to marry
a gul between 20 to 25yrs because this period is the time they sleep
manliness & tom just to satisfy their selfish interest,they don't no any thing about
married, wait up to 31, 32 so that u will get some one around the age of 27 , 28
who is tired and ready to settle with one man if not u are digging your own grave.
Tk kia
RomanceRe: Should I Tell My Friend His Girlfriend Doesn't Love Him? by obiksam(m): 3:28pm On Jul 25, 2010
If you like your friend please kindly tell him, but one thing for sure is that he will foolishly ask the girl because he is in love and the girl will deny it. So the best thing for you to do is this. Call the girl tell her that you want to have a word with her when she comes put ur phone on voice recorder and start asking her why she didn't love ur friend that ur friend love her so such, that since she told you her mind toward ur friend that u no longer feel comfortable. My guy trust me her reaction will change and she will start yabing ur friend, but before you show ur guy this record first explain to him what makes you go too far for it.
Advise for ur friend.
Your friend should quit the relationship fast before she do.
Your friend should pretend that nothing happen and keep fucking her without given her any thing.
Your friend should invite another girl in his house when she is around.
Wish u luck
RomanceRe: Whiich Of These Girls by obiksam(m): 4:50pm On Jun 09, 2010
My guy as long as you are not ready to marry keep the three girls because our girls now adays those not have only one guy and they are not to be loved nor trust.
EducationRe: JAMB UTME 2010 Cut-Off? by obiksam(m): 11:12am On Apr 26, 2010
lagbe:
polytechnic cut off is 150-200
Hello do you know Uni and College cut off-mark?
RomanceRe: Asuming Is U, What Will U Do ? by obiksam(m): 4:25pm On Apr 03, 2010
Why do you want to dump your bf becuse of a guy you meet on net?
I will advice you to stick with your boy friend and remain a good
girl that is all. Wish you luck.
RomanceRe: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by obiksam(m): 3:15pm On Mar 25, 2010
My dear still stick with him, the guy love and wants to
spend his life time with you, imagine for five yrs and
with 2 kids? Haba. Don't let this touble ur life the right time
will come, so just take it easy but keep reminding him that
it is necessary at list for the seek of his children.
Music/RadioRe: What's The Best Nigerian Rap Song Of The Decade?? by obiksam(m): 8:58am On Mar 25, 2010
Oh is like you people have not heared about MO-HIT crew
D'banj
Ikechukwu
Wande cool
etc
Guys this crew is hiting it high in Naija
RomanceRe: Whats Wrong In Double Dating by obiksam(m): 3:34pm On Mar 01, 2010
Double dating is wrong my dear.

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