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Innobee99:
Pls i need a candid advise on how to deal with this situation at my work place.
I got this job August Last year after waiting for years after my NYSC. There is something going on here which is strictly against my believe and practice.
Some senior staff will come with receipts for me to sign. Receipts on goods and services that has not even taken place so that they can forward it to the headquarter for approval. How do i tell them its against my believe cuz i always feel that guilt after signing .
I need advise on how to go about it without offending anyone and without affecting my job.

. Make a slight mistake on your signatory, inform headquarters behind them not to make payment. or officially write to headquarters about it or seek for redeployment to another department, when they ask for your reasons that will be a better opportunity to let the management no

okay. Tell them.j

Eketem:
And you are now a stalker confirmed.

Whining all over Nairaland over somebody who has clearly moved on

Who are you. My friend will soon marry.

Eketem:
And you are now a stalker confirmed.

Whining all over Nairaland over somebody who has clearly moved on

Who are you. Bleep off.

Kaduna.You people marry so many wife's, more than we Igbos. why complaining. My.

notttty:
Smiles. Am from kaduna and she is kogi.

For where.

Eketem:
Your obsession sha. Keeping tabs on her for years

OP: #54 million naira or $54 million dollars crocodile Jacket. If it is naira or dollar whats the big deal. All due he is legend and my fan.

Big blow.thanks but she is now a prostitute. ASHAWO full time

obiksam:
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Neither the hubby or the family where worried about it. The fact is that the guy done blow

LewisO:
[color=#000033]She deserve to be called that, coz she behave like one.

Her manner is irritating. [/color]

Thanks bro.
She is Now a prostitute roaming around Nigeria. Confirmed.

notttty:
Truth is the feelings has always be one sided. I knew very late and till now am just trying to understand her which still seem complex. Yes getting back together is a no no. I was thinking about my son and that's why I opt for a peaceful resolution at first. Not that am stupid or foolish but my son was the reason I wanted her back. I was trying and thinking that maybe I can salvage the marriage. Thanks all. I appreciate

Guy move on brother is late to fight. If you are a strong man take people from your village and bring your son back from that good for nothing woman. After the rigger then you can play the blues. Tradition na man get pi-kin ooh. Lawyers go chop your money leave them. Hear is naija but be strong make investigation brother you will fine out that she is finding mines to be in contact with you after her mistake. Guy grow up. Bleep that prostitute that abort your child you get time. Where are from safe.

Well I believed when she went for dissolution of the said marriage she demand for the custody of your child and even aborted one and you keep quiet because you want to move on. Hear me bro. That is when you would have fight her but you did not. So let her be is late to fight with a lawer now move on with your life. And pray they will them self bring back you child to you. For her trying to come back means that is in trouble but due to her pride she dose not no how to apologize so let her go brother. You can read my post all due people comments say I'm the victim not my friend but all the same what matters most is happiness. God is in control Let her GO please.

Floyed all the way.

Please you owner of this site try to screen out some post. Thank

After the ragger they play the blues. Vanity.

Yes Abacha poisoned him when he was arrested including late Yaradua only Obasanjo escape the misery doctors. Consult Google and read their biography.

Work away now. Don't marry her early the better. She will still cheat.

You are not serious. Keep dreaming. Go and rent house for her if she is truly your fiancee. For me is bad to assurm she is cheating on you but as long as you have a second taught end the relation because you don't trust her eventualy you got married to her you will still suspect her.

Jonney just come JJC.

Odi wu nma. Chukwu eme wu ya. Nma nma diri ya. Ibeku kwenu,Afaraukwu muru mu kwenu, biafara kwezunuuuuuu. Eya eya

He should go to hell.

Correct this is a good one.

PatriotTemidayo:
Chief, consider the opportunity cost before you do anything. But even if you wouldn't break up with her, you have to take a bold step that will put her in check and put her ego down.

Except if there's something terrible you did to her in the past, you dont deserve this kind of heartlessness.

I mentioned opportunity cost earlier. Can you handle for kids? Or do you want to leave the kids with such woman? If you do, in two years time, those kids will never want to hear your name again. She'll poison their minds, and for the rest of your life, you'll be struggling to re-establish connection with your kids to no avail.

However, you have to put her in her place by doing either of the three things:

1. LOCK HER OUT: During one of the holiday seasons, take your kids away from town, lock your doors (Make sure she has no access) and never answer her calls until after two weeks. Deprive her of what she's taken for granted and see if she'll be humble.

2. Send a letter of notification for divorce to any of her living family. Clearly state how long you've endured in silence and why you cannot endure a day more.

3. Show her so much love, make provisions for her and sit her down when she's happy and tell her if she want a divorce. See her reaction and if she says YES, be the first to send the letter of notification for divorce to both of your families and make sure you USE SCARCITY TO CREATE EFFECT. Do not answer anyone's call for at least 4 days. Let the heat be on her for those days and let her lie and set credibility trap for herself. By the time you speak up to whomever, all her lies and line of defense will crumble and you'll make her humble.

4. Stop bothering her. Leave her alone. Watch her do all her craze and don't be moved. I dont this is not easy, but it is very effective. When you ignore a busy body, they want to kill themselves. It is your attention and apt concerns that has embolden het thus far. Before you start ignoring her, call her and tell her "FROM THIS MOMENT, YOU CAN DO EVERYTHING YOU WANT. GO EVERYWHERE YOU WANT AND YOU'RE ON YOUR OWN". After few days of successfully ignoring her, you'll start noticing a rather remorse face.

Other people can add to this list, it is inexhaustible.

But I wish you luck.

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First, She is cheating on you. Second, sue her for denying you sex and being crul to your children before she sues you first if not you will lose them. After that then bring in woman ie your girl friend into your house or arrange and pay a babe tell her the story and ask her to beat her up very well for being crul to you and ur children if she interupt your pleasure moment with her in your home. If she did not repent then serve her the divorce suit. The married is over as for her. Be wise bro .

My dear confront fears that the only way to be victorious, tell your parents and friends. My wife left me with my 2 kids for 3yrs now i felt the same way too but im over it. If he has left you please can we hook up. Thanks hope to hear from you.

Dreamscometrue:
..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me...

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

decatalyst:
A typical Nollywood movie script.


Can we move on to the next one, please?

First take your company as the CEO that is the most important thing. Force him to sale his shares to you and leave him with only 5% or 10%. Let him work under your brother who happened to be MD so that he will keep a close eye on him. Change the well to children. If he accept this terms forgive him and forget. Love him and bring him back to life please. Remember the good times. And also force him to expose those that prompted him to such action if not. Sue him for defrauding,obtain by tricks and make sure he spent his rest of his life in prison. Ungrateful man.

Good one that serves her right. Very soon my ex will end up like her.

Don't devious her. Confront her sisters in presents of there husband surprise visitation to them all and play the record. Guy be a man after then leave the house for her. As they want to spoil ur home there husband will not be happy them. Thanks.

obiksam:
My brother you seen it all. Forward the record to ur phone. Visit her sister play it in front of there husband and warn them and also play it to there dad and mum pack you few things and leave the house. They will come begging u what kongaga kwangaga arrant nonsense

My brother you seen it all. Forward the record to ur phone. Visit her sister play it in front of there husband and warn them and also play it to there dad and mum pack you few things and leave the house. They will come begging u what kongaga kwangaga arrant nonsense

Absolutely truth. I love this man.

KevinDein:
Whether the stubborn women on this thread want to believe it or not, stories like this happen all the time.

Supported.

My dear OP thanks for this post pls kindly send me your thro this line 08167489846 for me to send to you my friends wife number to talk to her before she make such mistake as urs.

Very very possible

Op whole did the court grant the custody of their children