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Romantic? yes.
Trust worthy? no

When i and my gf went for medical check up. Text for infection,
all due i was not there but when she came out she told me
that when the doctor ask her to wilding her legs that the doc
man hold stand eract.

My mum comes first.

Buster
In my opinion, nobody needs to teach anyone such things……God created us with all that and the rest is just applying your common sense.

I agree with u.

If she is my love, she has no right to bring such thing out on less she package it as a gift is acceptable.
But for a mutual friend may be we are in the room one thing let to another and she brought out
condom before asking if i have one i will take her as a big slut.

naija_swag:
Ara agbakwa la gi ooo!

No be small one.

Go and apologize to her so that she will withdraw your pix if not you are now a dead man working
and carefuly explian to her why you don't want to continue with the relationship she is a human
and she will understand and don't ever in your life underestimate the power of women hood they are virus.
Wish you luck

You are not seriouse, when you are no body needs to tell you where to go.
Ashawo house no for ur area?

Beating ur gf is wrong, but once in a while one un-expected fling of hand
that will slightly touch her is ok, at list you have send a massage to her.

Abortion is said to be the deliberate termination of a human pregnancy. the natural expulsion of a fetus from the womb before it is able to survive independently, (ie) not yet a human, person etc. While
Murder is the unlawful premeditated killing of one person by another.

In simple words abortion is not the same as murder

What of those who are on birth control drugs is that murder? No.
All the same abortion is a high placed sin in the eye of God.

Thank you all for your replys it have realy helped to relief me the grief about my girl, I am fully recovered from the hart break hoping to fall in love wisely again while giving my self some time before i will start searching for another girl so that i wont make the same mistake again, to my surpriss last week after VAL that good for nothing girl started calling me apologizing, promising me again that she have changed as if this was the first time, that she is very sorry,she was vomiting heaven and earth from her mouth, asking me for a visit. Maturity and understand in this life is very good so i did not provoke nor shout on her not to call my line again instead I was very calm not to let her no that i have passed through a lot to over come her, I simply and quitly told her that she can't come back but still she refuse and kept calling.
I later remembered that i promise her a reasonable amount by this month end before we break up, so I thought to my self that  this could be the reason why she is crying to come back or did she realy mean it this time?
This are my plans,
1. Should I ask her if it is about the money that I promised Her?
2. Should I accept her invitation? or
3. Should i ignore her.
for show i cross my hart to you all that replied, that i no longer have feelings for her any more.
What should i do.

Yes i have cried severaly in private and in front of her,
Just for her to change and love me as i do love her but to no
avial, you all should kindly go to ROMANCE and read
HOW WOULD I NO IF MY GIRL FRIEND IS A LESBIAN
that my story why i cried severaly.
Pls don't 4get to drop ur comments

To love and to be loved

Just focus on your education and don't ever think that he might have meet
another girl if you truly love him and he loves you back believe me your
relationship will still be intack.

Girls can keep secrets and that makes them a liar while
Guys can't keep secrets from thier love ones

The only reason for her not to tell me about it is because she is afraid that i might end the wedding plan, but as long as i love her and i have made up my mind to spend my life with her i won't get mad at her, but at list her people would have told me about it. So in that case the child will remain with her parent or where ever she kept the child,i can only support the child and the child can as well visit her with the knowledge that he/she is not a full member of my household. If she object to my dicision she left me know choice not to make her regret keeping such secrets from me and also she will regret getting married to me.

chidyke77:
She's misbehaving coz she knw u love her much and i wld suggest u show less attention to her to see her nxt reactions.

You are right, i stoped calling her for like one week now and she have not called me back too, but this is not the first time we stoped calling each other, so to show some seriouseness in me this time i send my friend to go and collect my apartment spare key from her yestarday that if she ask why he should tell her that i send some thing that he need to drop and once she hands over the key him he shld hold on with the key till i'm out from work, my friend carried out this act without any problem and still no reactons from her all due my friend said that she have not call for the keys.
Thanks for your advice

smooooooth:
so u are ready to settle for 3-4 times intimacy a month in marriage. when others are in court cos they are not getting it 5times a week. guy u must be silly. better run out of that relationship now that u can see the DANGER signs.

smooooooth:
so u are ready to settle for 3-4 times intimacy a month in marriage. when others are in court cos they are not getting it 5times a week. guy u must be silly. better run out of that relationship now that u can see the DANGER signs.

Guy i'm not silly, having sex with your girl 20 times in a month those not pay unless you don't
love that girl, you have to gave breathing space for her to refresh and look sexy again. Solid 4 times in a month is ok for two reasonable partners if you no wat i mean( ie )staying in doors through out the hole day after she must have prepared your favourite dish and watching movie is the best way to catch the fun, maybe later late in the evening you guys will hang out in one bush bar or club. Try it once you will confess.

Krissykriss:
Maybe she's a water goddess & u'll die any day u put d 'key' in d 'ignition', lol. Demand an xplanation. your reasn doesnt suggest shes lesbo. But believe me dude, she's 4kin wit u.

It is not only sex issue that makes me suspect if she is a lesbian, there is this particular girl that always visit her in my apartment when ever i'm off to work for two weeks and she also sleep in her room when she gose back to school, and i ask her why, she couldn't give me any reasonable answer.
For her been a water goddess i gues so because at times she behave like one.
Angel this month, satan next month.
Thanks

nikkykay:
She is into another guy.probably she wants her kitty to always be tight so that the other guy will not know she is sleeping with another guy.If she can allow fingers why not the rod? She is just using you and also interested in your money while she is reserving herself for the other guy.

I have think about it for long, but i don't kia if she is dating outside or not what i only want from her is to respect our relationship and the love i have for her. I suspected her once when she packed some of my cloths that i no longer wear without my knowlegde, so i accused her of having affair outside us and that when ever i  gave her money that she give it to the unknown guy, after the misunderstanding,I  later found out that she gave those cloths to her younger brother which she as well resgistered him for WAEC.
Thanks for your reply is noted,

Ebonyeyes:
"hugs" I will be honest with you, from what you have written, I can say she doesnt care about you. Just seat down and talk with her and tell her what you have just told us (with tact of course) and take it from there.

Thanks, I have talked and talked at times she will change and start behaving well,
but before you could no it she will start all over again.

Dear nairalanders
I am a bachelor with a very good paid Job, I truly love and intend to marry my Nsukka girl friend,
for long now this relationship have not be easy for me i have tried all possible means
to understand her but the closer i get to no her the more i go blind, all due her family is poor
but their background have never been a burden to me in any way because i love her and i have
help her family un-countable she is an OND holder today all because of me.

Please how would i no if my girl is a lesbian, She likes me to use my finger on her instead of my manliness,
while fingering her she will be shouting (baby suck my unmentionable hard yes yes finger me) and
as soon as she wet she will push me off and worn me not to near nor touch her until i plead to her
that is when she might allow me to penetrate. I no that we don't have to make love every time
but at list twice or three time in a month is ok even at that she always turn her back on me while sleeping,
she have not for once hug or gave me a normal welcome kiss, she have never bought a gift for me, common to replace a dead bulb in our apartment is a war, she calls me when ever she run out of cash.
    Dear house what should I do i have tried my best for two and half years now to know if she will change
but to no avial, i have other femal friends that can be considered to get married to but i'm fond of her. 
if she is seen another man no problem,but for a woman i can't take that.

As a student, gvn ur gf money monthly
is not a bad thing, because u're gvn
her the money out of ur church mind
and she opens her leg for you,but

if it turns out that she is not satisfy
with the amount and she keep demanding for more.
ur friend shld make it clear to her that he cannot
avoid to gave her more than that.
If she can't manage it let her go to hell.

I advice ur friend strongly to safe
his money because after skool his is on
his own, no 15k again and the girl might left
by then

Tu pac is the real rapper, a legend (hit dem up, californian luv, Dear mama) just to mention few.

MandingoII:
who are those people?


Are they Thieves too?

My brother ask them ooOOH.

Na waooOOH. So definitely the world is getn to an end.

Before my girl breaks up with me i normaly call her every four 4 hours

Na wa 4 dis our country, ooOOH

Alanta, Alanta, Alanta

TERRY G for life (The swagger master)

Na who be Timaya (bomberclat)

My advise is to confront the Man with your wife and see his rection
if he insist gave him a sound beating that he will never forget in his life
in that his useless office and still find a mines to report him to his wife
so that when he reach home with the beating his wife will continue from
where u stop.


Do you understand? beat hell out of the stupid man
while beating him make sure that other lecturers and
students gather to witness it gentle man no dey for this one, you hear?

What an arrant nonsence.

For me'ooh the guy does not have any right to dictate on
what the girl should wear and what not to wear just for 2 weeks, he is kiding.
I always encourage my wife to look more than even sexy,
day or night, inside or out side our house.
Abegi i no mean make she dress nud'oooh.

ezennaya:
my bible say's the love for money is the root of all evil,my friend married hausa lady just because he cannot afford the bride price of his girl friend he has date for 4 yrs

My dear this one na real custom made.