chuksonia:



well its alright for the record its true anambra guys are foolish sorry to burst your bubble I'm from abia state and thats not mumu I suppose u haven't felt the four coners of an institution but you are here ranting hates oga go and sit your sorry ass down I don't need your useless advice ,its your papa brain that mucus would fill up with . ewu as if I ever mentioned borrowing for wedding motherfvcker

modafucka dats wat it looks like... u haven't borrowed yet DAT doesn't mean u won't..judging from d way u sound... laughs... sorry to burst ur bubble too...I attended the UNIVERSITY OF
PORT HARCOURT... so u don't expect me to be a Bleep boy...kapish !!!..lest i forget..i meant to say catarrh nd coconut water full ya brain..and abians are not exempted frm Easterners DAT zuzu a lot...

wait o...with wat u HV said u fink u don't deserve rain of abuses...I kuku trust nlanders..comon get out!!!!! first English zero..second ur brain na catarrh and coconut dey inside??...so becos she gv u deadline u wan borrow to 'wed'...so after d 'wedding' wat becomes of d 'marriage'...ngwa nu go and kee yasef na...lover boy..d worst part z u re an easterner... probably from anambra...cos na dem dey mumu dz type of mumu...no easterner from O TOWN can zuzu dz type of zuzu....egbon gv yasef brain...e nu ??

no need crying over spilled milk...jes comot mind.. after all u pay ur bills and she doesn't.. buh first talk her abt it without showing emotions.. if she doesn't change gv urselfs a break..wen d euphoria of havn a phone dat z internet connected z over ?? shey u know wetin ashawo talk ?? e go hungry her again...nd besides wu in dz digital world z carried away with havn a smart phone dat z not an iphone or one of its kind if not an immatured being ...selah ??

Animal..HV u cooked for ur sis(s) b4..u cook for woman..d world shud end abii..I guess u can't Bleep dats y u made dat comment

TheUpsetGirl1:
A guy at 26 or above 26 years and doesn't have a car is that one an human being?? is that laziness or cowardice?


at 26 every guy out there is supposed to be financially stable.. have a car etc

the idiot z even Benin..am not surprised..I pity ur nigga..bastard daughter of a thousand fathers

TheUpsetGirl1:
A guy at 26 or above 26 years and doesn't have a car is that one an human being?? is that laziness or cowardice?


at 26 every guy out there is supposed to be financially stable.. have a car etc

u are a bastard...ur father at age 40..has he dreamt of given birth to u talk more of buying a car..I don't blame u..an orange cannot fall far away from the tree..selah !!

IamAirforce1:
It's funny how my girl spends most of her times on ZEEWORLD .

From KRISHI , Lies of the Heart, to the rest of the other crazy god forsaking soaps .. but I love her so sometimes I'm either in the room reading book or writting stuffs so dear to my heart

How can I stop her obsession with this crazy Tenenovela ?

Or should I stop subscription to make her slow down this crazy obsession ..

ifa hear say u read book or write sumtin reasonable... it z eida u re in anoda girls house sleeping on bum

going on a date by 11pm ?? somebody's papa...and u get sense like dz?? ikwi kwi !!!!

IamEmem:


And you think its not possible for the girl to insult him or his family?
May be you never jam and pray you never jam such women who at little issues will insult the hell out of you and make u look miserable with her wagging tongue.

insult ur family for una wedding plans?? den she z a witch...buh in dz case I don't think she did.. cos if she did den it wud b d families wanting to pacify each oda..dat guy z irresponsible..cos someone must hv warned him against dz attitude but he wudnt listen

IamEmem:


And what about foolish women on rampage.
If it were the other way round we wont hear anything about it
And they guy will be told thus: "u know how this women behave"
The story is one sided, let them tell us what transpired between them
Ladies of nowadays that cannot say simple "I am sorry" even it is clear they are wrong.
Necessary evil.

the only valid reason I wud accept z if she insulted him or hz family which z not possible.. cos he won't come begging... if na ur sis u go wan hear d oda side of d story

the funny part z wat even brought the argument in the first place...persons wey wan marry..even to d extent of venting anger publicly.. aunty no marry again..u jes saved urself frm lifetime assaults

hmmm...last last na juju sumtin o...which kind nonsense b dat

BuBuB:
Its so sad that you cannot hold a woman and her emotions down, whether by cajoling or otherwise. You ought to be more emotionally inelligent and matured than she is, whether she's 27 and you're 24 or she's 24 and you're 27. One of the very essential qualities of an alpha male is his ability to put everything in his relationship under control without having to belittle your woman. Anticipate these things even before they come through, the signs are there for you to see, cut them off even before they raise their head, pin her, down (a little painlessly) and talk some sense into her, make her understand that you can handle her and the whole temperament, but that you have chosen to remain silent and observe doesn't mean she should go on and on with the violence, make sure she's calm and then let go. If you cannot control her temperament, then I'm sorry, you cannot live with her as your wife, she would forever disrespect you and your decisions, she would forever see you as a weakling, and the actions of her mindset about you would hurt you so much, you could kill her the day you choose to react (more trouble for you). Cut things off before they get out of hand, do not let such love cloud your judgment. Women love men who can handle them, even when they tend to go excessively wrong. There's a man out there that can handle her without physically hurting her, you should be able to, and if you cannot, just walk away, you're not meant for her.

My 2 cents

ur head dey dia...u get mawt

Taiwofait:
Hello everyone,

This is the 1st time I am posting something like this and it's because I don't seem to know what to think or do anymore and I strongly hope this get posted.

I am sorry, but the epistle is quite long. I just have to try and explain as explicitly as I can.

I am a 27 year old guy, a Bsc holder. I am in a relationship with a 24 year old lady who recently had her masters from my school as well.

We are both in love with each other however we have trust issues.

On my part I used to be a flirt but I immediately dumped that character immediately I met her. She became everything to me. Our 1st few months of our relationship I was very loyal, caring and I was everything I should be, unfortunately along the line I started discovering some irregularities and after some investigations I discovered she wasn't as clean as I thought. She's still decent though but truly it affected me because I had total trust in her.

I didn't exactly go back to my former ways but I did started trying to find an alternative should incase she disappears on me [something I later discovered was a bad move] because she kind of found out and that made her distrust me as well.

Consequently, we didn't trust each other anymore, but every other thing was in place. We loved and cared alot for each other.

Our relationship lasted a year with a whole lot of drama, so many break ups and make ups and very recently something happened and that is the reason I am here to ask for your help.

During one of our misunderstanding periods, I met a lady in traffic and gave her a lift, no bad intentions though, we got talking and became good friends. I told her about my girl and the issues we were having and she empathized with me, gave me some tips that can help us. She was just my friend, nothing else, as at that time.

I couldn't tell my girl about it because I knew she was just gonna assume she's another side chick [remember we had trust issues] unfortunately for me she found out about her and she fought me over it. Eventually she decided she was gonna break up with me again just because of the lady who in the real sense of it was actually my friend and not a side chick. It was painful though because even this time I was innocent.

I got pretty close to this my friend to the extent we more or less started dating. Unfortunately, I discovered this girl was best kept in the friend zone as I discovered some things I can't cope with as a man. Also I couldn't get my mind off my supposedly ex girlfriend. So I called her back up and tried to settle things with her.

I truly love this girl and I don't seem to be able to get away from her. I had quite a number of issues I was dealing with but then, I also understand nobody is perfect. She's someone I would love to spend my whole life with.

She came back and we picked up again, but this time, I determined not to try anyone else even if she's not being straightforward. I decided to put in my all once again, be faithful and loyal to her only. [although it was difficult to convince her about that because I have said that to her a couple of times before, meanwhile, I didn't mean it then, like I do now]

I told her about my friend and she supposedly forgave me. We have been doing fine for a couple of weeks now, no distractions, nothing, coz I cut communication with all other girls including friends. But sometimes she would just act up, insultively and at the end she would say she just remembered some of the things I have done to her in the past. I don't get angry, I always stay calm and I believed it was just a phase and I believed she would come around with time. And then the worse happened.

Today she was going through my gallery and she came across some of my pictures and videos with the lady, nothing erotic, just some playful pictures and videos together. Truly, I actually forgot I had it there. That probably got her really mad and before I knew what was happening, she was hitting me, repeatedly, it ranged from slaps on my face to real punches, she broke me nose, I even bled quite seriously. As I type this epistle I have pains all over my body.

Now, I am not a weak guy, I am quite a strong and muscular guy, I can take her down with just a punch,

But I did nothing, in fact I deliberately allowed her to hit me because I believe that would help her let her anger out. But she proceeded to pick up the pressing iron, she tried to destroy my phone, she even tried to pick up a bottle until my neighbor stopped her. She's been threatening to kill me. Now shes a masters holder, not the oshodi kind of girl so the reaction really baffles me. I knew she had anger issues sort of which is one if the things I have been battling with her.

Now here is my dilemma, with all the drama that has happened between us, I really don't know what to do. I truly love her and I wish I could have her, she's wonderful in many ways but this recent outburst is scary. I want her but at the same time, I have to be happy. We are just dating and we have all these dramas, what would happen when we get married?

As a lady, is it worth it, hitting till I bleed just because pictures reminded her of some girl I supposedly cheat on her with [Even though I already ended everything, weeks before now]??

Would you advise I still continue or should I just put on a bold face and walk away.

Please advise me, I am going crazy here and my nose and head is hurting badly.

Thanks in anticipation.

it takes maturity to let out ur own faults.. buh d ultimate of a relationship z happiness..decide wat u want for urself then examine if she fits in it..evrione has got an iota of anger issues in dem but to dat extent of threatening to kill..bleeding..of not jes anybody but someone u intend sharing ur life with...it z a NO NO...already sef trust is gone..so for me a relationship without dat z DEAD!!!!!

it z actually d sound u mk wen hissing...

robosky02:
14 Feb 2018: Valentine’s Day, Ash Wednesday or soccer where will you be?



This year’s Valentine’s Day coincides with two other events: a riveting match between Spanish giants Real Madrid and Paris Saint Germain in the UEFA Champions League and Ash Wednesday, the beginning of Lent for Catholic faithful.

Which one will people mark?

Will you mark the three events simultaneously?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VWld6r97wJQ



http://www.nan.ng/entertainment/nantv-valentines-day-ash-wednesday-soccer/

it z ma birthday...so church first...come bk..straight to viewing center...Madrid vs PSG ?? not for any tin in dz world after God and family

IamAirforce1:
Ugly stuffs are usually expensive.

I was strolling few days ago, saw this stuff and liked it so I inquired about it and was boldly written 20k , so I fetched my ATM and boom , it's mine .


We good this year .

u nd DAT shirt who fine pass...20k fire!!!...unnecessary hype...no grow up..forget say u go soon b pesin fada...ikwi kwii

me self dey find job I.d for customer executive

if I hear complain from dat yam chopping mouth of urs again ehnn!! u go know...thank god she z pregnant.. at least u go soon know say 'too loaded but can be empty'

seen sumtin like DAT..happens most times u re actively using d phone..let's say making a call nd sumtin goes d top of d phone..dia by blocking transmission..den you c it..or during charging..jes my opinion from experience

has anyone noticed d hair on her head z still d same with d one she came with after everybody has loosened theirs and made another

how z dz our problem guy..with d way u re going..I jes pray DAT child doesn't hv any of ur traits...safe delivery mama..I pray it's a girl

JULIE1925:








I juz want to make sure that his "light" touch will send message straight down to my NUNU saying, "GET READY, HE'S ABOUT TO GET LAID ANY MOMENT.."

This is 2018, ladies should EAT that mighty meaty as if it will be her last meal

u see ur life

mi biggest regret z DAT we developed a strong chemistry when we were abt passing out of service(Nysc)

so I read d story(halfway).. dats d most stupid write up I HV eva read/seen

i will click it..ngwa mk una die!!!

rapcy:
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This lady shared her love journey with her hubby to be. According to her, he used to stalk her, he shows up at her PPA and every single spot she loved hanging out during her
NYSC days. She and her friends used to laugh at him.
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Now the story has changed as she's set to marry him next month. Read her story below:
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"TBT
Met this Corp member that stalked the life outta me, he appeared in my PPA and my favorite spots like a ghost or like he had a tracker on me.oh well my friends called him my stalker and as usual we all will obviously laugh at him ���but today he is the love of my life. My husband my partner for the journey to forever.Thank you for never giving up on me, were would I have found another you in this whole world.i love you my opiom,forever will ❤️❤️❤️❤️#MrC#fav#bestie#lover#myeverydaymagic#myeverything#����
2016 vs 2013"

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Source:
http://www.dizboy.com/2018/01/i-and-my-friends-used-to-laugh-at-him.html?m=1

obviously Aunty Neva made it a case wen he was stalking her...now bros don dey well.. suddenly he z ur opiom...wat happened to first impression matters..??

oyin2343567:
so becuase he bought me an itel phone it's free lunch?

jes saying...a word z enuf for the...............??

ennyhola:
Share yours

e no fit pass nyash and breast for ur status..simple!!!

[quote author=Shugavee post=64239513]Now this is an issue that i think i really need to share!! 4 u all information, yeah puci is not 4 sale!! But puci has value!!!! Unlike u guys cassava thats 4 the public ,,,, since u all hv claimed cheating as ur a way of life

So there was this guy asking my friend out, very ugly looking, broke guy, very broke, uneducated n so on!! She said No!! She no gree!!
So uncle went to ghana n came back with money, "Good 4 him" so me n my friends were gisting abt the issue n someone said maybe she would hv accepted the guy!!! N am like 4 what naw!! Guy wey never chop belle full nai my friend go open leg give all in the name of puci is not 4 sale n suffer with boy!!! One ode came up saying she wasnt there wen he was broke blah blah blah!!! Weyti concern her!! Broke get stage o abeg!!!
Ur boyfriend should be able to do the following, thats if he is a managing guy o(broke)!!:
1, a lady makes her hair twice a month, atleast he should give u 3 to 5k every two weeks 4 ur hajr

2, everymonth ur Boy friend should atleast take u to a beauty store to get ur soap, cream n toiletries!

3, every festive season ur boyfriend should atleast buy u one top n trouser or gown.

4, wen ever u are with him u are not obligated to spend ur money except by freewill, meaning u should be comfortable when with him, well feed

5, lastly he should hv a place, big or small!!!

If ur Boy friend doesnt do all these 4 you my dear ur are very much single!!!! Over single dey worry u self!!!! N if ur doing this will the allusion "things go better" then my sister i pity u!!! All the average n poor couple u see around, thats the same way they told the woman "i go blow i go blow make u manage", anuty is still managing till today!!! How are u sure he wont dump u after e blow?? Funny part is they will be cheating on top n looking 4 loyality!! U try!!
Guys get a source of income b4 u start looking 4 girl friend!!! Dont come out with ur empty pocket n be looking 4 girl that will "suffer with you" who like suffer? Puci is not 4 sale neither is it 4 free!! Love, sex n money goes together!!!
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d only females allowed to 'eat' my money are my sisters and mum...any oda person must show value for such spending..some broke ass chick without reasonable means of livelihood be wanting luxury..ur fada don spend dat much for ur head!!!..when u re valuable it z a huge turn on for guys..#selah