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PoliticsRe: Rochas Okorocha Finally Gets His Certificate Of Return. See Photo by oby4real(m): 8:09pm On Mar 20, 2019
Ibeberism!
PropertiesRe: Many Feared Dead As Another Building Collapse In Lagos by oby4real(m): 4:02pm On Mar 18, 2019
Again?
PoliticsRe: Akwa Ibom: See How Each LGA Voted For Gov Udom Emmanuel by oby4real(m): 11:03pm On Mar 10, 2019
Congratulations Udom.
Akwa Ibom people have decided.
PoliticsRe: Breaking: Seyi Makinde Declared OYO Gov-elect- Breaking by oby4real(m): 11:00pm On Mar 10, 2019
Finally!
PoliticsRe: Foreign Countries Asked Atiku To Refund Payments Made For Nnpc by oby4real(m): 9:30am On Mar 08, 2019
STOP posting fake news on Nairaland.
Moderator, do the needful!
Technology MarketRe: HP Elitebook Intel Corei5 @65k by oby4real(m): 9:53pm On Feb 21, 2019
Location pls?
RomanceRe: Can You Advice Your Sister To Do Prostitution? YES! by oby4real(m): 2:30pm On Dec 26, 2018
God forbids!
RomanceRe: 7 Huge Mistakes Men Make That Scare Women Away by oby4real(m): 7:57pm On Jul 30, 2018
So true
RomanceRe: Being A V1rgin Is Killing Me…who Will Help Me?” — Nigerian Lady Cries Out by oby4real(m): 5:32pm On Oct 13, 2017
oluwafrizzy:
A young lady who is currently treated like a ‘disease’ by her lovers for being a virgin share her story on social media
Read her story below:

Please I would really like for you to post this and keep me anonymous.
I am 22 years old and a virgin and I honestly do not know if it is a blessing or a curse anymore. Over the last two years since I graduated from school, I have liked two guys. The first one was a very sweet guy and everything I wanted in a man.

We decided to have a relationship and hoped it ends in marriage. Everything was going well till I told him I was a virgin and had never had sex before. He completely changed and started looking at me like I had some kind of disease. He didn’t even want to have sex with me again and said he doesn’t do the whole virgin thing. So we broke up.

The second guy was more of an asshole, when I told him I was a virgin he literally told me to go and get bleeped then come back to him that who remains a virgin these days… sigh.

I honestly don’t know what to do about it anymore, am I supposed to sleep with anyone to rid myself of this?? Help!! What is the world turning into these days?

http://www.frizzyhub.com/2017/02/being-v1rgin-is-killing-mewho-will-help.html
My advice... flee fornication and let your husband deflower you. He will appreciate you for life.
RomanceRe: Guys, Lets Talk! Where Is The Strangest Or Weird Place You’ve Ever Had Séx? by oby4real(m): 8:31pm On Aug 26, 2017
There is a way that seemed right unto s man but the end thereof are ways of destruction. The wages of sin is death. Repent or your sins will find you out.
Christianity EtcRe: Pitfalls Every Christian Should Avoid by oby4real(m): 1:12pm On Jul 09, 2017
Adding of scriptural references would lend credence to the topic.
Nice write up!
Christianity EtcRe: Is The Holy Spirit Present In The Life Of Both Believers And Unbelievers? by oby4real(m): 9:15am On Jun 04, 2017
The holy spirit is a seal of identity given to God's children(believers)when they genuinely repent and embrace salvation. It is there to guide,teach,direct,protect,advise and advocate for the believer. However, unbelievers have a counterfeit which we call conscience, the inner voice telling which is evil and what is good. It is not the same thing as the holy spirit. Don't confuse yourself. Be guided.
God bless you..
PoliticsRe: Governors Raise The Alarm Over Killer Rice by oby4real(m): 5:26am On Jun 02, 2017
Can't we stop the blame game and think straight in this country again?
Nairaland GeneralRe: See The Snake And Rodent I Killed Today! by oby4real(m): 11:00pm On May 18, 2017
Beware of lassa fever
Christianity EtcRe: Rccg Sunday School Manual,sunday,14th May,2017 by oby4real(m): 5:18am On May 14, 2017
[quote author=femoint007 post=56491356]RCCG SUNDAY SCHOOL MANUAL
LESSON THIRTY-SEVEN
SUNDAY, 14TH MAY, 2017
TOPIC: CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE
MEMORY VERSE:
‘’And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man." - Genesis 2:23
BIBLE PASSAGE: Genesis 2:21-25
INTRODUCTION:
The marriage institution was ordained by God as part of the essential process of life. It is one of the fundamental and basic sacraments in the Christian church. It is the oldest institution which God Himself established at the beginning of creation. It is the bedrock of the church. We should approach marriage with dignity as a sacred and divine institution (Hebrews 13:4).
LESSON OUTLINES
1. The reason for marriage
2. Marriage is for adults
THE REASON FOR MARRIAGE
There are various reasons people go into marriage relationship. The first principal reason for Christian marriage is for mutual fellowship. Loneliness is not good. It is dangerous. The Lord saw the man needed companionship, hence, the creation of woman (Genesis 2:18-22, 24). There are exceptions according to the Apostle Paul in 1Corinthians 7:32. Secondly, God made us with sexual desires that are good, holy and legitimate but must only be satisfied in marriage. This will also check the sinful life of adultery or fornication (1Corinthians 7:12). Thirdly, to obey the command of God, which is to be fruitful, multiply, propagate the human race and replenish the earth through child bearing/rearing in the fear of God (Genesis 1:28; 9:1; Proverbs 22:6). Fourthly, two are better than one because they have a good reward for their labour (Eccles. 4:9-11). Lastly, it takes two (a man and a woman) to make "one flesh" (Genesis 2:24).
MARRIAGE IS FOR ADULTS
Anyone who wants to marry must be matured physically and should have attained the age of accountability. Financially, the intending couple, especially the man, should be strong enough to provide for a household (1Timothy 5:cool. They should also be mentally and emotionally balanced (Titus 1:cool. Marriage requires a separation from parents (Mark 10:6-9). It carries a lot of responsibilities that childish minded persons cannot bear (1Samuel 25:18-25). A good Christian marriage also requires the consent and blessing of parents of both parties (Genesis 24:50-51, 59-60).
CONCLUSION:
Marriage is a holy institution and God is the author. He has set the ideals in the Bible. Anyone who fails to apply these will surely have problems with their homes. Let us pray for the success of all Christian marriages worldwide.
QUESTIONS
1. Give reasons for marriage?
2. Who is qualified to marry?


Very helpful. Thanks
Christianity EtcRe: Where And How Did You Celebrated You Easter Sunday ? by oby4real(m): 4:19pm On Apr 16, 2017
Please correct your grammatical/syntax error.
...did you celebrate
And not
...did you celebrated
No harm intended please.
Christianity EtcRe: Rccg Sunday School April 16, 2017 by oby4real(m): 5:42am On Apr 16, 2017
I'm blessed. Have a great day ahead.
PoliticsRe: Massive Crowd Welcome PDP House Of Reps Member Into APC Secretariat In Uyo. PICS by oby4real(m): 5:40pm On Mar 04, 2017
Politicians without direction or ideology, prostituting from one party to another to gain relevance.
I weep for Nigeria.
RomanceRe: How Sex Has Ruin The Lives Of So Many Girls(photos) by oby4real(m): 9:37am On Mar 03, 2017
I've gone through the topic and I know the next person under me is in a true position to tell.
Christianity EtcRe: OPEN HEAVEN Devotional(sun. 26/02/2017) by oby4real(m): 5:13am On Feb 26, 2017
Amen.
You didn't include prayer points and hymn?
Thus will indeed be very beneficial to many who rely on the internet.
Thanks and have a blessed worship today.
CareerRe: Professional Courses For Science Graduates by oby4real(m): 8:50pm On Feb 24, 2017
Surveying and Geoinformatics, its a nice course if u want to take it up afresh on direct entry. Good luck
PhonesRe: Has Anyone Gotten This MASSIVE Airtel Bonus Or Experiencing This Issue? by oby4real(m): 11:35pm On Dec 29, 2016
Op, Airtel hasn't made any mistake. They are giving out 6gb for just N1,500 but I think it selects sims. So go ahead and enjoy the festive period. Don't forget to share and gift your data, this is season of love...
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Mathematics Teachers Come In. There's A Job For You by oby4real(m): 4:50pm On Dec 15, 2016
BSc Mathematics
PhonesRe: Wow! Is This A Glo Promo Or Data Awoof That Would Soon End? by oby4real(m): 9:31pm On Oct 02, 2016
thedon18:
Just dial *777", then choose the monthly plan.
Thank u
PhonesRe: Wow! Is This A Glo Promo Or Data Awoof That Would Soon End? by oby4real(m): 9:13pm On Oct 02, 2016
Pls how do I subscribe. Kindly drop the subscription code here.
PoliticsRe: Results Of Benue-South Senatorial Re-run Elections : Live Updates By BenueNews by oby4real(m): 7:18pm On Feb 20, 2016
Great! Kudos to Sen Mark and PDP. This is indeed a battle between light and darkness.
FamilyRe: Under What Conditions Should A Christian (born Again) Divorce? by oby4real(m): 12:46pm On Nov 23, 2014
My brother, there is no going back in marriage. That is why you must first seek the face of God before proceeding with the needful of marriage.
The choice of divorce shouldn't be considered because "in the beginning it was not so" according to His Word.
It is for better for worse...when it is better you don't complain or divorce, why consider the option when it's worse?
However, separation is allowed but both of you must remain unmarried.
God bless you and Happy Sunday.

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