Goo0dHardDick: Like in the days of Blackberry (BB), why do ladies, especially Nigeria ladies, value or obsessed over iPhone so much? They wouldn't mind giving you their bodies to get it. And if you are a phone seller, these ladies can sleep with you as much as you want just to get an iPhone (only a foolish business man will agree to this).
Imagine a girl instructing her boyfriend to get an iPhone x or XR, or 11, saying she doesn't want her android phone fixed but would rather prefer an iPhone instead meanwhile she didn't contribute a single dime to purchase the iPhone.
Guys hardly show off with their iPhones or expensive gadgets as they do not see it as something worthy to die for, probably because they bought it with their own money.
A girl came over to my house and upon sighting an iPhone on the table, she immediately told me she was using an iPhone 11 but got damaged and someone had to give her the current android phone she was using. I simply told her "ok" and then changed the topic. She again went back to the iPhone topic and kept telling me how she's a huge fan of iPhones and the android phone she's using she's just managing it, bla bla bla..
Why do ladies obsessed over iPhone?
When you don't have any value in the brain, you will resort to material things to give you value
Dogalmighty17: I have no respect for any man who calls himself a gym instructor. They excel in nothing better than sleeping with women who claim they come to the gym to keep fit. Wives, girlfriends irrespective. Na politicians and big men wives them dey lash steady.
The day my wife mentioned that she would like to start going to the gym I told her to die it. I go manage belle like dat. After all, na my children she carry. Make we dey do clash of the tummies dey go. No gym!
If to say you no hold money, she go insist and from there marriage go scatter. Make God dey provide men with money ooo.
Coder2Client: I’m someone who isn’t ashamed of being single.
I’m 36, and I’ll be 37 in December.
The honest truth is that I’m single. I’m not currently dating anyone. It’s not because I don’t ask women out—I do. But I’m not someone who enjoys talking too much, and sometimes the thought of having to constantly communicate, explain myself, and maintain a relationship feels stressful to me. Maybe that is one of the reasons I have remained single for this long.
My lifestyle is also very regimented. I have a routine that is so predictable that someone can almost tell when I’m at home and when I’m not.
Money is another major issue.
I currently earn ₦200,000 a month before tax, and I don’t have a side hustle at the moment. Sometimes I look at my income and wonder how I’m supposed to build the kind of life people expect from someone approaching 40.
I have even lied about being in a relationship when I know I’m not.
I’ve told people I have two children, even though I have never had children. I did it because I wanted people to stop asking questions and putting pressure on me. But ironically, while trying to escape other people’s expectations, I think I have ended up putting even more pressure on myself.
For a long time, I genuinely enjoyed being single.
The peace was beautiful.
No relationship drama. No constant explanations. No arguments. No pressure.
But lately, that peace is beginning to feel like loneliness.
I miss having someone.
And that is difficult for me to admit.
Another thing about me is that I give up easily on relationships. I can enter a relationship today and, a month later, lose interest and walk away without even properly explaining to the woman why I’m leaving.
I know that isn't a good quality.
My life has also been somewhat of a slow journey.
I started school at 11. I finished secondary school at 22. I completed tertiary education at 32. I started my teaching job earning ₦20,000 a month, and today, at 36, I earn ₦200,000.
You would think that increasing my income would make life easier.
But every time my income increases, inflation seems to move the goalpost.
What used to feel like enough no longer feels like enough.
And then there is friendship.
I have always struggled with keeping friends. Even as a child, I realised I didn't really have a flair for friendship. Today, I honestly don't have anyone I can confidently call my close friend.
I even remember a time when I would give people money just so they would play with me.
Looking back, that hurts.
I don't drink. I don't smoke. I don't party. I don't womanise.
At work, I joke around, interact with people and eat good food. From the outside, I probably look like someone who is doing just fine.
But deep down, there is a part of me that genuinely misses being in a relationship.
I can go an entire month without making or receiving a personal phone call. Most of the calls I receive or make are work-related because I’m one of the leaders at my workplace.
Sometimes I wonder how I got here.
I don't think I’m a bad person.
I don't think I’m unattractive.
I don't think I’m incapable of loving someone.
Maybe I just became too comfortable being alone.
Maybe I have built such a structured and independent life that making room for another person now feels difficult.
Or maybe I simply haven't figured out how to balance my personality, finances, career, friendships and relationships.
I don't know.
But lately, being single doesn't feel as peaceful as it used to.
It is starting to feel a little boring.
So I’m genuinely asking:
Are there other men who are like this?
Men in their 30s who don't drink, smoke, party or womanise.
Men who have very few or no close friends.
Men who have become so comfortable being alone that they don't know how to let someone into their lives.
Men who are not necessarily unhappy, but deep down, still miss having someone to come home to.
I’d really like to hear from you.
Don't miss been alone because, you go need am later. However, I think you are living a boring life.
I am a typical introvert and I don't have any personal friend but if I decide to hang out, I can drink till thy kingdom come and turn extrovert overnight. In the morning, I go back to my default.
You need women above 30, who already has something going on for them but either need a child or husband. You can start baby mamaring them one by one. Because 200k no go take you anywhere as a responsible man.
You have to be an irresponsible man in order to survive with 200k. Every month, you give baby mamas 100k to add to there business collect opue and disappear.
That way if you need companionship, you visit them or invite them. If you need to be alone, you disappear. I tell you those shop women above 30 can handle pikin without you.
codemaniacs: Lagos is the richest state in Nigeria according to stats..
blame the Lagos government for condoning agberoes and criminals in its streets and not ensuring security all over the state.
A place where only 20% are controlling the wealth is a poor state, richest in Nigeria though. Nigeria is a poor country as a whole not natural though but man made poverty. If you lose guard anywhere in Lagos you will be robbed but go to Japan or wealthy nations, you can forget your phone in a restaurant, come back after one week, you will still find it there.
Jakumo: Hey, well the man felt compelled to pose with his rich man's car in a country where the streets are swarming with hungry people that become enraged when they see signs of great wealth passing in their midst.
The poseur drew attention to the fact that his car is worth more than the lifetime earnings of the entire mob that besieged his car, so he should consider himself lucky that he was not simply kidnapped for ransom and subjected to a series of corrective floggings while in custody.
I was angry before but this your post come make sense small.
Stop showing wealth in a poor environment they no dey hear. If you must show wealth carry police or army. Only intimidation works here
BlackViper: Shittu Ibraheem (APC) represents Saki West State Constituency in the Oyo State House of Assembly (2023-date)
"Support all our Muslim candidates in APC. Any political party with a Christian guber candidate must not be voted for. If such a person is voted in, Islam would suffer” - Oyo State House of Assembly member representing Saki West, Ibrahim Shittu, says. pic.twitter.com/UXc83ugBVQ
NgeneUkwenu: BREAKING: APC Wins Dawakin Kudu Constituency By Election in Kano
APC candidate, Husseini Datti, has been declared the winner of today’s Dawakin Kudu State Constituency by election in Kano State.
The results announced are:
APC: 22,890 votes PRP: 270 votes PDP: 108 votes
A decisive victory for the APC in Dawakin Kudu
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The APC candidate, Husseini Datti, has been declared the winner of the Dawakin Kudu Constituency by-election in Kano State after securing 22,890 votes, while PDP candidate Abdullahi Adamu polled 108 votes. pic.twitter.com/vi6SckOAsQ
Exceed15: The pressure to provide for his family couple constant wahala from unappreciative wife will not allow him to go for medical check ups. Men , be wise.
Women pressure no be here... But handle them like a wayo man. Lie all the lie you can and promise them heaven at last. Everybody go dey ok
[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=140653129]Lady shares shocking letter a teenager wrote to her in church over her dressing
Lady shares shocking letter a teenager wrote to her in church over her dressing A woman has sparked a conversation online after sharing a letter she said was written to her by a teenage girl who criticised her dressing and linked women’s clothing to men’s sexual behaviour.
In a viral video, the woman said the teenager handed her a letter containing several observations about her conduct and appearance.
According to her, one part of the letter accused her of distracting herself and other people, describing it as a sin.
She said another section advised her to “be dressed modestly as possible” and claimed that when a man looks at a woman lustfully, most of the blame should be placed on the woman if she is dressed indecently.
The woman took issue with the criticism, saying she considered her outfit to be modest.
“Look at me. See how I’m dressed,” she said, explaining that she had deliberately maintained a conservative style when attending church.
She said she had not worn anything above her ankles to church for about a year because she preferred dresses that flowed down.
Despite this, she said the teenager described her clothing as indecent and suggested that her appearance could make men lust after her.
The woman said the letter also contained the claim that women were responsible for men’s lust “80% of the time” because of the way they dressed.
She questioned the mindset behind such an argument, particularly because the letter was allegedly written by a girl she estimated to be about 15 or 16 years old.
“This is the mentality. This is the kind of person that tomorrow she will get married,” she said.
She then raised concerns about how such beliefs could affect the way the teenager might respond if her own child were ever sexually assaulted.
She argued that blaming a victim’s clothing could lead to harmful questions about what the victim was wearing rather than focusing responsibility on the perpetrator.
The woman further described the teenager as being “male-centred” at a young age, arguing that such attitudes could persist despite efforts to promote gender equality and feminism.
She concluded by reiterating her disbelief that her outfit had been described as “lustful”, given the effort she said she had made to dress modestly.
Woman reads out the letter a teenage girl wrote to her in church for allegedly dressing indecently pic.twitter.com/MsCQ3vmeCW
stand up make we see the dress first. You carry big nyashh come wear tight shorty and claim you dress well. We know who send una and we no go fall until we come out from church
The woman who mistakenly transfer N1.640,200 into Pastor Jerry Eze church account has come again in less than 24 hours to say that her money has been refunded in full.
Melezenawii: PARTNERSHIP IN ACTION: A U.S. Air Force C-17 delivers equipment to the Nigerian Air Force this weekend. The equipment is part of a foreign military sales agreement that furthers the U.S.-Nigerian partnership and will aid in Nigeria’s efforts to counter terrorism in the region.
DEXTROVERT: If I were a serious presidential candidate... Challenging Tinubu today... My two biggest promises would be to return subsidy to pre-2023 level... and pegging the Naira.... Atiku tried but he is scared of putting out a figure... Sowore and the SDP guys are inconsequential... Even though Tinubu is in pole position... Atiku and Obi have some base.... If I were in their shoes....I will promise taking fuel to N300..... To actualize these ...the Naira must be pegged... I will peg it at N300 to a dollar.... by fiat.... Tinubu has amassed enough reserve to defend the Naira for at least two years... today a litre of fuel is equivalent to a dollar... So I won't be paying subsidy.... but simply defending Naira with Tinubu and cardoso sweat... Leadership is not rocket science... on the day of my swearing in.... I will do opposite of what Tinubu did in Eagle square.... " Subsidy is Back " There would be jubilation across Nigeria... Many would be taking their dead and abandoned generator to repair... In the first one year .... petrol sellers would definitely be selling old stock.... so reducing fuel from N1300 to N300 would take time... I would immediately set up taskforce to crackdown on the shylock marketers... Fuel scarcity would return in full force... " leading is not rocket science"... Nigerians would groan...in queue at NNPCL stations... why black market keep prices at N1500+.. in solidarity....I will join them in fuel queues... After one year... normalcy return... in my 3rd year in office FX reserve is gone.... I no longer have institutions ready to give me dollar.... dollar scarcity returns...... Aboki becomes the king again...
Aboki can exchange their dollar for N2000 ...but official rate is N300.... If you don't see it anywhere for N300 pretend you are seeing it.... Nothing is actually real in life.. Under Tinubu $1billion received from crude sales gives Nigeria N1.3 trillion... But under my govt.... it becomes N300 billion..... So all these shout of govs getting too much money disappear.... so they go back to the rosy era of not paying salaries... govs and their family will be hungry... Imported goods will be very cheap... A bag of foreign rice would be sold for N15k.. Local industries would close shops.. But I would advice their workers to embrace farming..... that's our destiny... Let's leave industrialization for oyibo... of course tax revenue will crash as imports crush all local industries... That is no big deal...as there would be no money for politicians to l00t.... Minimum wage should go back to N20,000.... Labor would resist it.... but.. " Leadership is not rocket science" I promised 4 years term... When CBN dollar dry up... Fuel scarcity returns.... industries dried up.... Salaries stopped.... Construction works stops... protest everywhere..... I will travel abroad for two weeks... Shave my beard.... When I return.... they can call me ghost and Igwe from Congo... After my tenure.... I leave my successor to either clean up the mess I left behind or swim inside the mess. Afterall " leadership is not rocket science" Anyone who thinks leadership is rocket science is the reason why the Urhobos say.... It is better to born a thief than to born a mumu... Proverbs are not for kids...
This is exactly the language Nigerians understand. The citizens like drama so, this is key
Thewrath: This one no Dey even shame,she for ask you first,as her therapist or what? Na because of una advice she first comot for her husband house come see sh nothing Dey outside.
Women dey always think say husband is restricting them or holding them back from reaching there goals until they come outside the marriage see say nothing dey for street. Even the men wowing them will avoid them like plague after some serious nakings
7victor: The truth is that I like women to come for me first. I enjoy it more when it's the woman that chases me. This started few years ago. I also observed that many men around me started having this mindset some years ago. That means there seems to be a universal or near universal shift in the way men think.
Before men believe they must chase, now men are beginning to believe women must seek them because they (the men) are the prize.
Exactly, am starting to believe am way ahead of my time. I thought about this 15yrs ago
nnamdi640: The more you chase the more she looses interest, just leave her let her fly as high she can go, when she gets tired, she will fly low to the point that she can't even meet up to your standard
Even before I married 10yrs ago I was tired of chasing women. I asked myself, how can I be chasing something that will take money from me. I bash random girls with nothing attached so whats special about the one am chasing. Na my wife put more interest and effort so I say at least your mind dey am. Don't waste your time chasing women they no worth am. Na only if you have any specific interest on how she will add something to your life, then you can go for the hunting.
Crime › Re: FCT CP Narrates How Man Died In Hotel With Married Woman,Staff Dump Body On Road by occfx: 2:45pm On Sep 27
