₦airaland Forum

Godons1:
Nna, biko hapun aka oo.

Direct descendants of Joe Igbokwe spotted.

wallstreetnews:
Lalasticlala

Where are all those paid urchins trying to make the east look like some war zone? Come and collect snipped for free oo

Godons1:
Buhari is working, we Igbo are proud of him

See Fulani urchin flaunting Igbo moniker.

headSmasher:
security personnels should be on red alert and proper checking because

Snipper na still N500 sir. They even get smaller sizes. So, go ahead, do the needful.

hisexcellency34:
We can't afford to feed a whole Mazi with foods produced from the zoo. Let the UK government bring him food

Then let him go so he can feed himself. What are you people so afraid of?

Ndimkpurummiri:
https://www.thecable.ng/troops-recover-ieds-planted-on-road-in-imo-community/amp?fbclid=IwAR28CcjCAHMJM1iUxVMgtrtRqv92GqL5vwJfpfizsqTPmQfPgsTpAS3m7pw

No be only IED, even WMD. Poor script writers

God1000:
Southeast should start forming alliances and bridges of love, Igbos need the support of other regions to make this a reality

Oga, go to the SE and find out how many igbos support Igbo presidency. They all one thing, and that it a free nation.

adenigga:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/Presidency-Its-too-late-to-kneel-and-beg-Shettima-replies-Ezeife

What is this fool talking about? Who is championing for your stupid presidency? We are done with Nigeria! Is that too much to digest??!

BeeBeeOoh:
https://www.thecable.ng/nfiu-report-that-iswap-moved-n18bn-through-nigerian-banks-is-stale/amp

Note, if they deny it, it is true.

BeeBeeOoh:
https://www.thecable.ng/nfiu-report-that-iswap-moved-n18bn-through-nigerian-banks-is-stale/amp

If they deny it, it is true

Treasure17:
Undiluted truth but things are evolving now. You can't raise kids that way anymore.

Yes and that's the beginning of raising generation of SIMPle men.

Odoogu:
Should women be blamed solely for poor ubringing of children just because they need to make some money too?

80% Of the blame goes to the women, their natural responsibility is to raise the kids, the husband only comes in only when the child is out of control, or things have gone really bad. The job of the 90% of the 20% of the man's responsibility lies in making sure the family is OK financially, and the rest is to provide guidance, life hacks, etc. Cos no matter how you tend to look at it, men are always more experienced in giving life advice, unless he is a SIMPle man.

Mind you, women work to "support" the homefront and not to entirely provide for the home. Of which, if your wife is the sole provider of the home, you have failed as a man. A woman's job is meant to be part time, that will give her more time to look after the home, the children especially.

The mother should have been in a position to know when their are changes in the boy's behaviour, then report to the father. I doubt a mother will be in the best position to deal with cases like this. It is now the duty of the man to apply the masculine approach to find out more.

In all of this, until we understand that men and women are created to serve different duties, the better for all of us.

Odoogu:
But times are changing. Dead beat fathers also in the mix... but How many jobs can a man engange in to make a decent living for himself and family?... A woman is much more than that.
The family is home to both the man and woman.

You see what I mean? Time has not changed, humans have. This is not the first mothers have businesses yet raise wonderful kids. A modern Nigerian woman will prefer to make all the money in the world to the detriment of the household, which is very wrong. But talk about it today and they will accuse you gender segregation.

And you are wrong when you said that women can comfortable handle the task of running a home and building a successful business. On the contrary, a man does it better. Forget the hype from femininists, women are not naturally that energetic to handle such tasks, one must give way for the other. But unfortunately, they have chosen to chase after money whe their home decay, hence, the shortcomings in modern day parenting.

I'm not against women making money or chasing their career, I'm against them biting more they can chew in the name of "times has changed" by prioritizing making money, to the detriment of the home front.

Rtk5:
Every bashing or insult is accepted because of the gravity of my actions.

I went to shop the other day and just at the entrance I saw a wrapped gift fall off a woman's bag while she entered her car to drive off, I picked it then rushed to give her, she thanked me and we exchanged numbers.

We got chatting that same day and she told me she is married with 3 kids which was obvious right from when I saw her. She even sent me some of their family pix and boom i discovered that her husband was someone whom we grew together in the same street those years but we were never friends because of age diffrrence as he was like My senior with 10-12 years age difference. Our chat with her got so intensed that we agreed to hangout together but we needed a secret place due to our marital status, so the only place we could go for was a hotel.

Yesterday Sunday we went there and before i knew it we had sex. Since yesterday till this till now my conscience has been disturbing me, infact I couldn't sleep throughout the night till now. I've done what is evil.

How do I get this guilt off me?

Wakah!!

karnap:
As more story coming out from the investigation about the death of Sylvester Oromoni, many user's storms this woman Instagram account, the woman who is said to be a costumers service officer at Zenith bank,
With lots of curse raining on the woman's comments section, she can't stand it,she has deleted her account.

In another different video trending recently this evening, the accused boy was seen in a video given some punches on his fellows student. Which even make peoples to feel even more bitterness.

See earlier thread https://www.nairaland.com/6881235/sylvester-omoroni-joy-edordu-parent#108220414

The problem started when we starting seeing the ways of our ancestors as archaic, primitive. The sole job of a woman starts and ends in the home front. Any other time like job, etc is and should remain secondary. But nop, everyone wants equal right cos dem don see small education.
Look at Lagos for example, e sure me to say that 70% of young people there are cultists. That's the evidence of a failed family system. Until we come to terms with our traditional values, things like this will continue to happen.

Odoogu:
When Nigerians vex... I dey always fear, everything for that way must feel am.

But we know say, some parents diligently give home training, na the children dey intentionally reject am. If the woman did that I wouldn't know. But there is a possibility she did.

Guy forget, the problem started when we starting seeing the ways of our ancestors as archaic, primitive. The sole job of a woman starts and ends in the home front. Any other time like job, etc is and should remain secondary. But nop, everyone wants equal right cos dem don see small education.
Look at Lagos for example, e sure me to say that 70% of young people there are cultists. That's the evidence of a failed family system. Until we come to terms with our traditional values, things like this will continue to happen. This is Africa, not all western culture can work here.

Samfloxin:
Obiano tried but I pray Soludo will concentrate more on road construction because Obiano no try at all on road construction.

Tried ma ass

einsteine:
Stop glorifying suffering. This is sufferhead mentality that you have.

Suit yourself

1Sharon:
Why is a teacher teasing a student ?


If students were teasing each other, will teachers allow that?

Ah! Are you seriously saying these? This hilarious

hartoyebi38:
Bullying is real and a lot of children are traumatised. One of my children came home complaining about how he was being bullied at school.

They kept on taunting him. Do you have washing machine at home? Do you have dish washer? Bla bla bla.

He was branded as inferior. I told him to fight back. We don’t have and there is no shame about it. We were then living in an environment where the light could go for two weeks without PHCN caring if there are human beings there.

So, where do we get light to run washing machine and other gadgets? More importantly, I am from Ekiti where we use ‘laulau’ and ‘kanrinkan’ to wash plates. In Ekiti, we are used to ‘olo ata’ (grinding stone) because grinding machine erodes the taste.

My grandma used ‘ogiri’ to replace maggi without apology. ‘Omi cocoa’ was our juice. The gift of my mother-in-law to my family when we got married was ‘odo’ to pounded yam on banana leàves with bush meat and vegetable to match, before the eateries hijacked it from us.

So, the secondary school mates should not goad my son into all these modern tools.

As God would have it one day, one of the bullies, a girl, came to buy frozen fish in a shop beside my house along Matogun NO ROAD, Oke-Aro (Politicians have been using the road as part of their campaign promises before democracy started in America).

Anyway, immediately the girl sighted my son, she asked “Is this your house?’ And he replied ‘Yes’. Then, she said sarcastically “Eh, so your house has no fence”. My son cried inside, that the following day, he would be ridiculed at school because his daddy’s house has no fence.

I told him, ‘There is need to cry. Where do you expect me, a journalist to get money to fence a house? When you get to the school tomorrow, call the other bullies and give the first jab, saying, “Come o, I saw this girl yesterday at their family ‘s Shoprite’. Stress it very well and once it hits the bully, she would keep quite.

Never tolerate bullies, young or old. Develop a fighting spirit. May the LORD give us all inner strength.

*Ayodele Ale is a journalist, lawyer and public affairs analyst

Source: https://thenewsnigeria.com.ng/2021/12/04/bullying-i-taught-my-son-to-fight-back/

Simple. The best way to go. Not some over protective ajibo parents going to school to harass teachers. Arm your child with knowledge to protect themselves.

AnanseK:
Blood thirsty criminal tribe. Claiming independence when they are actually lawless and primitive. Taking a human life extrajudicially and they claim to be civilized. Law and order defines human civilization.

My friend see mouth close!! Since when has a life in the east become your problem? The same people you hailed the terror impostor for threatening to wipe them out. What do you care? BH is closing up on your ancestral home, your kinsmen are now paying tasks to BH, and all you care about is how Igbos solve their internal matters?

The event was an accident, you read it there yourself. Igbos are fighting their demons, the same demons your northern goons have deployed to destroy the igbo youths. Deal with your demons!!

And mind you, this is the most civilised and lawful way of dealing with issues like this, the young man was just unfortunate. Igbos are not like you bloodsucking regards that live chopping off people's heads for fun. The theme remains if you are seen with Meth ice, you will be flogged to stupor, and it remains so!! Deal with it!!

Coldie:
Foolishness is when u know where the drugs are sold, do nothing about it and start attacking o buying it.

Y not cut off the source?

We only read what the report says. It is never possible that the seller or the deport will be spared.

chrizzyace:
My question is why do they have to beat the living day light of them before they feel well? I don’t know if a better solution but there should definitely be a better way to go about fixing or rehabilitating them.

Although it is very wrong to brst him to death, but trust me, there are no better effective remedy than 5-7 mins of mass beating. All those rehabilitation shii na just grammar, this is Africa, our system works differently. The young man is just so unfortunate.

Asgard73:
Guess he’s a dealer and already known before his unfortunate dead.. I believe also that they youth have warned him several times .. but the drug don block his ears and he feels superhuman .. and maybe again the effect of the drugs on the community is becoming serious..

If that’s what it takes to return that drugs back to Lagos state.. is very welcome ..

No to jungle Justice.. but some are welcomed .

Igbos must fight this ICE and resist with every means possible..

Mkpurummiri must be returned back to Lagos ..

It was originally from the North actually.

omenkaLives:
Getting to a time when we start sending relief materials to AfghanEastern. Very terrible things happening there.

My thoughts and prayers are with humans there.

Foolish goat doing the bids of his pay master. Oga...the most remote area in the east is far more developed than your entire village put together. Take the relief materials to your kinsmen in the North, I hear they are now rating grasses in IDP camps. Ode!

Tingotoe:
It's wrong to kill a drug addict instead you should try and help him. It's the dealer I've got no concern for

It was an accident

JooEeL:
Since when Kanu has been saying when ESN pursues Fulani militia and kidnappers, they go to hide in barracks... did you people forget?

Oh so you don't know they work hand in hand?

You see so-called Fulani bandits kidnapping a whole bus with passengers, kidnapping and marching 50, 100 people from schools, villages, hospitals etc... with so much people, yet police cannot trace them.

But you, a single man doing G in your tiny lodge, police and EFCC will trace you and burst your space...

...And you can't put 1 and 1 together?...

You are very correct. Some Fulani terrorist camp was seen sighted behind Army check point, exactly like this one somewhere in Enugu that year. Boys busted the area dah year.

Seikiri1:
Jeremiah Omoto Foundation donates N40, 000,000.00 Million Naira Cash to 200 wives of Nigeria fallen heroes ( Defence and Police), through it's Socio-Economic Development and Empowerment training.

Prophet Jeremiah Omoto Fufeyin is known for his generous and philanthropic act of giving to the less privilege and also standing as a spiritual backup to the oppressed in the society.
This great man of God is not just preaching the Word of God by mouth alone, he is also demonstrating it as it was done in the days of our Lord Jesus Christ when our Father and our Lord Jesus was healing the people and as well doing good to the people.

This is indeed commendable and worthy of emulation for moving the kingdom of God forward.

One thing i love soo much about this man is his humility, love for humanity, does not care about your religion or belief as long as you come to him you are welcomed with open heart.

Source: https://www.facebook.com/100047508306508/posts/444217833838490/?app=fbl

You mean to say he donated to the Sacrificial lambs? Good one, RiP to the dead. But just know that your country killed you.

NobleRace:
I think it depends on how you were brought up. Yes, the child was hurt, that's why he reported to her father. The teacher knew what she was doing, that's why she denied; telling the father she says so to all her students.

There are parents who reprimand their kids with words such as "are you crazy?", "You're mad", "Why are you so dumb?", etc. To such kids, a word such as big head wouldn't matter. You can't say that to my children, they'll take offence immediately because we never use vulgar languages in reprimanding them.

The best way to reprimand a child is to spank him when he needs to be spanked. Advice him when he needs to be advised. Threaten him when he needs to be threatened. And raise a Stern voice against him when his offences call for it. Calling a child names is a very unhealthy practice for bringing up wholesome kids.

And if you would tease a child, do so in a friendly atmosphere with generally acceptable words.

You made a good point there. But I can recognise abusive words when I hear them, and BIG HEAD is never one of them. And yes, I agree with you when you said it depends on how we were raised. And I will boldly tell you that no amount of harsh, derogatory words can weight us down.

I'm even the softest in term of teasing people, my sisters will tease you to depression if you dare go toll that path, and it has been like that since then we were kids. That's how you train emotionally strong kids, not some bread and butter emotionally volatile humans that always run to papa every time they feel hurt, a male for that matter!

I won't tolerate such wimpy attitude in my bloodline especially from a male child. It's a sign of weakness. And God forbid I breed weak 'men' from my loins.

1Sharon:
Why is a teacher calling a student big head?

Is that professional?

If a teacher caught a student calling each other names will they tolerate it ?!

Have you head of the word "Teasing"? That someone is reading you doesn't mean they hate you. Please teach your kids that, it's part of emotional training.

Have you seen seen politicians engage in a debate before? Don't worry, I pray that boy will end up contesting for an election in the future, when his opponent tease him, he will then run back to daddy to cry. And lemme guess, daddy will then to the opponent to shout at him, abi?

You guys are just too funny to be taken seriously...honestly

1Sharon:
Why is a teacher calling a student big head?

Is that professional?

If a teacher caught a student calling each other names will they tolerate it ?!

Have you head of the word "Teasing"? That someone is reading you doesn't mean they hate you. Please teach your kids that, it's part of emotional training.

Have you seen seen politicians debate? Don't worry, I pray that boy will end up contesting for an election in the future, when his opponent tease him, he will then run back to daddy to cry. And lemme guess, daddy will then to the opponent to shout at him, abi?

You guys are just too funny to be taken seriously...honestly

Born2winKingOG:
OGa quiet your mouth, you nor know wetin you dey talk.

born pickin make you dey call am olodo
big head.
kobo leg
big teeth
lazy boy.


but not try am call another person pickin so.

Once again quiet your mouth

You must be mad in complexion!! I can see you are not only daft, you also have problems understanding what you read. How can you go about calling someone's child all these things you have mentioned?! The op said the teacher calls him "head head", this is something we all called each other back in the days and laugh it loud.

If you think someone cannot tease your child, or you can't teach the child how to resist some sarcastic emotional input, then go ahead and open your own school. Or better still...home-school him.

So...that's how the op will be going round town harassing anybody that calls the child big head?! That boy will still grow, he will face worse things, it is only rational for him to start teaching him how to deal with these things starting from the least, which from the look of things, BIG HEAD seem to be a good place to start.

Go ahead and continue raising generation of weak, emotionally fragile men. Good luck.