those kids are gonna be mentally distraught. imagine why so many dysfunctional people moving around right now. dated a lady with a similar experience and intimacy was hell. she still shudders from being touched unjustly. another friend with benefits became an addict after her teenage uncle turned her into a sex slave and she became uncontrollable with her desires. I recall her asking me to bring my friends for a Group Intimacy party on the island. i just look am dey pity am because this her own don pass frustration na meant. but do you really blame them? someone else caused this for them. it is so sad.

Cut the tough girl crap. i see hurt in her eyes. her eyebags are coming out alright already. save yourself stress & reconcile with your husband.

May God do this for me too, Replacing my troubles with comfort greater than my past trauma. Congrats Churchill, your God keeps proving the naysayers wrong. (word of advice, look at that staff member, secretary or subordinate that you work with or are responsible for, he/she might just be your ticket to happiness ) Shalom!

brothers & sisters i am so shcoked to come online & see this news. I trekked past this scene seconds before it happened. I almost boarded a vehicle but they called a very high fare and I decided to trek a lil further. Lo & behold the bus I wanted to enter was the one involved! As sad as it is, I am also shook. Instinct or inner voice or spirit or hunch counts o! listen to your inner voice o, I first thought about my ex living along Ago and 2 other girls I jilted seeing me trek but as omo boy I lock up, match my sneakers for ground dey waka. What if I had listened to the laughter of my exes? Damn!

No mind those Zambian girls na so one for Lusaka wey ee don date fr almost 8 years now end everything with billing after she come dey suspect say this our love don dey reach garden of eden! run oQ dem dey use their brothers set nigerians up for there. wise up!

I only see an egotistical woman. Right after your divorce, you dash to SM. Many people from this age will grow up to be grumpy grandmas and grandpas because the mistakes they have made could have been avoided by merely thinking before acting.

Money rules! This ugly man is banging this beauty in the name of the currency!! Bless my pockets Lord for I shall never be a broke ass mf

bought me a pair of white sneakers and got new ear buds from my secret Santa @ the office. This xmas must and will be lit irrespective.

jeromestarks:
Great family.

The English Royal Family does not marry non virgins into the family because they don't want to breed bastards.
Edward VIII was Forced to abdicate his position as crowned prince because he fell in love with a divorcee (a woman who was fvcked by another man).

This was how princess George, his junior brother, became the King of England. He later gave birth to queen Elizabeth who was the mother of the current King Charles III.

You're a royalty in your family. Do not pay bride price and sponsor wedding ceremony just to have a woman who was fvcked by another man who paid nothing but eggs and indomie. Only a fool would do that. Are you a fool?
Do not give your best to a woman who did not give you her best (virginity).
Never marry a woman above 23. If a woman did not give you her best years ( 18 - 23), you shouldn't give her your best.

Let those who whor3 away their best years retire somewhere else. Not in your house.

There Is a reason why she is not married at 27/30. There is a reason why men don't stay in her life. There is a reason why the men who fvcked her did not stay with her. There is a reason they all left her. Do not be the one to clean up her mess.
Date a woman in her prime (18-23).

As for single mothers, do not even cross path with those ones. Avoid everything they touched if you don't want to regret coming to this life.

Fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman. Only her deserves your love and devotion.

you go just get heart attack one day with this reasoning

I frequently questioned Soludo's method of operation regarding crediting the immediate administration, particularly for the construction of the airport, which of course is a very important form of infrastructure for any geographic location across the globe. I always wondered why Soludo had not accepted the fact that Willie Obiano did extremely well as predecessor. I must agree that Willie performed well in that area. It is for this reason that leaders are advised to undertake more concrete initiatives on behalf of the voters rather than concentrate on robbing the treasury with which they have been entrusted to provide guidance, protection, and custody. Grammar is not killing me. Up Willie, willie!

IMO01:


Please whst does the company lends is it financial if yes what do they need dispatch for?

Documents of course! cheques et al

IMO01:


Does the team lead drive the bike or he just controls multiple nikes

An expert rider at that. Makes majority of the calls and does the bulk of the work even though the individual is an overzealous fellow but yeah, his subs gt paid btw 250k-350. Collections na beans work? Ask anybody in the lending business what recovery is all about. Some companies compensate readily

Better opt for investment banking and leave that boring tax ish alone. You have Client Services, Investment operations and Portfolio Management as departments you can delve into with a minimum wage of N200k. Be wise..

Are you joking, i know a team lead of dispatch riders in a credit company grossing N500k monthly. Take note, gross. Sometimes just because you see it this way does not necessarily mean it is so.

Tiwa Blue film Baby

Looks, sounds rehearsed. I have never believed these corporate draws.

Pls add pride too and very uncouth...the likes of Nkechi Blessing & co

Newborn27:
Op lemme advice you based on my personal experience...... insecurity can cause you harm than good.... to you.... you thought you cared and was checking out on your love not knowing you're diving into a wrong destination.....it will only get worse that even when she's heavily pregnant on nursing a baby you'd want to monitor her movements and you'd graduate into getting annoyed when you can't access her.... you'd start suspecting that she's cheating on you... from there to domestic violence then murder (God forbid)


As the posters above had said.... work on yourself as this act would repeat itself in your new relationship.....I salute the lady's level of maturity.....had I knew this much about iñsecurity...I wouldn't have ended up this way.


Please let her go and work on your own self....if she's yours.... she'd definitely be back into your life..... when she do.... kindly tell her to change all her password to avoid you from gaining too much access to her and also control your level of iñsecurity.



Shalom bro.

You are right about it not being good to have insecurities as a man but from the story, there is a pattern of constantly being checked upon by both parties so how come this one let the cat out the bag? think about it. It must have been because there was something fishy, if not why should calling her boss be an issue? Did the boss relieve her of her position. Is it the first time she is knowing that they both have access to each other's personal space? Let us be rational when dealing with women. It is what keeps us ahead of them. When it happened to me, I told my ex my hunch said she was cheating, and as insecure as I sounded, it was true! ex-bf hit me up later to narrate the whole ordeal because he was my cousin too. it doesn't take much to read women, just keep your widas about you and who will be genuine will stay. If she really wanted it to work out, why has she not made the effort? Why would she use this one as an excuse if she does not have ulterior intentions? I advise the OP to let her be. I assure him she will regret her actions later by then, OP would have found someone better. Death to any cheating spouse or partner out there is all I am saying for all the sacrifices of faithful partners'worth

LilMissFavvy:
I was about asking why you didn't marry her, since you loved her that much and her absence made You feel insecure. A beautiful woman with a good job, is what most men are looking for.

Continue to send her apology messages, but don't call too often. With time she will return. Pray.

Anyone you have to beg for this long for attention & forgiveness does not deserve you. May we never fall into the wrong hands. Manipulations of mankind to each other will forever be one of the craziest things the heavenly beings above despise about us humans

Fiscus105:



If ur story is true, that lady is not type you should worry about and she doesn't love you shishi, she is the type who would carry job on top of head and careless about marriage, husband and kids. Infact, she can Bleep outside marriage for job security and carrier progression.

For those that are blaming op for calling her boss, it's either you are teens or myopic in reasoning.
Any boss who is angry that they called him to know whereabout of his employees, it's either he is satanist or his having amorous relationship with the employee.

...... imagine if you think she is in danger by not picking your calls and try to reach out with anyone who can have her number,at least to know her whereabouts......

Meanwhile, which job is she doing that her loved ones won't be able to call her colleagues or boss for her safety?

Spot on! Anyone against the way he calls and checks up after her is myopic in reasoning. From the story, you can tell both parties have been comfortable with the pattern.
I had a similar experience and OP if you are reading this I can assure you something fishy went down that night. You nearly caught wind of it, and she has gotten upset because she is not keeping it 100 with you. My ex did this but I can assure you that the greatest regret I have is grovelling and begging.
Never beg who was not for you oh, this life we are all made up of our own selfish interests. The moment one does not see a gain in endeavours, a lack of interest will follow. It is left for you to disengage from that kind of connection for your safety & sanity.
Our stories are so alike only mine went to meet an ex-lover and she was having to be confused over money or the love we shared. I guess it is not hard to tell who wins these days in the scheme of things. Love yourself by discontinuing any form of reconnection and flee! Posterity will judge you if you ignore this red flag and ignite a reunion. I pray I too will continue to cut off from my dangerous ex (I say so because they start out as they love you more, only to be indifferent later) and every other relshp that may hamper my existence as a person. Good to remain sexual partners or 'distant' friends but never give the opportunity for closure. Some might tell you that there was a level of uncertainty hence her attitude and that maturity should let you both come back, but I assure you, sir. It will end in pain. Best dine with this type with a long spoon...
Better an ex than a bad partner.

Again folks, never be carried away by looks. The cover of our souls will never match the soul itself. Good looks can never equate good mind. Beware!

May Beauty never cover your eyes as a man. There is more to long life & peace of mind than looks. Beware!

I knew that the energy drink he endorsed would land him in trouble.

half-caste women are fine sha....but why now that his father is a governor that you bring this up?
Guys, know the type of women to leave in the streets and the type to bring home. Lengthens life

Her kpekus & her Egusi soup. I ate both simultaneously sometimes and could never get over the ecstatic feeling. RIP to our love tho! She belonged to the streets!

The sustainability of the SMEs & MSMEs would balance in a short while. Everyone would adjust just as we always have. I am positive it is the higher class of society that will feel the brunt more because of the limitations on purchasing power.

Wordsfrombimpe:
A woman of value who work hard for her money

Also need to know the man she want to spend the rest of her life with is not a stingy man

Women give 80% Percent am talking of women of substance

So you guys should read to understand simple!

Your gender should remove money which other value do they add aside prick even in relationship , sex conversation up and down

Send nudes or video call
Tell your gender the truth be decent and kind

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Why shouldn't the women be kind too? What other contributions do women make besides having sex? In order to achieve equality, both genders must face the facts and cooperate. The opposite gender's justification for not upholding responsibilities is all this sectionalist behaviour that favours one gender over the other.

how can you take away even taps and electric bulbs installed in the building when you were in office. All our politicians need to die in their sleep!

just imagine this woman's understanding of her role as a lawmaker

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