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Romance › A Woman Who Cannot Be Trusted. by Odebayo4010(op): 3:00pm On Jan 11
A WOMAN WHO CANNOT BE TRUSTED.

A woman who has not conquered greed cannot be trusted.
A woman who does not make her own money cannot be trusted.
A woman who has no direction for her life cannot be trusted.
An angry and bitter woman is dangerous and cannot be trusted.
A woman who is not loyal to your you or committed to your cause cannot be trusted.
A woman who leans on a man for financial support and assistance cannot be trusted.
A woman who is surrounded by many men cannot be trusted.
A woman who is always travelling cannot be trusted.
A woman who doesn't invest in her man and the relationship cannot be trusted.
A broke woman cannot be trusted.
A woman who is always complaining about what you do for her and is never satisfied cannot be trusted.
A woman who compares her man to other men cannot be trusted.
A woman who does not receive your instructions, correction and direction cannot be trusted.
A woman who disrespects you cannot be trusted and should not be with you.
A woman who is arrogant and condescending, who thinks she's doing you a favour, will betray you and she cannot be trusted.
A woman with a high body count belongs in the streets and cannot be trusted.
A woman who leaves you for another man and wants to return to you is a treacherous b@st@rd and should not be allowed ro return. She cannot be trusted.
#relationships
Politics › Our Judiciary Is Bad by Odebayo4010(op): 6:01pm On Jan 01
THE WOLF NEVER WANTED THE ARGUMENT

A Wolf And A Lamb Meet At A Stream. Not As Enemies. As Neighbors Sharing Water. The Wolf Is Higher Up The Brook. The Water Runs From Him To Her. Still, He Accuses. “You Muddy My Water.”

The Lamb Answers Gently. She Is Correct. Physics Is On Her Side. The Water Cannot Flow Upward.

The Accusation Collapses Instantly.

So The Wolf Replaces It. “I Heard You Spoke Ill Of Me Last Year.”

The Lamb Explains Again. She Is Six Months Old. She Did Not Exist Last Year.

Another Charge Fails.

So The Wolf Stops Pretending To Care About Truth. “If It Was Not You, It Was Your Father.”

And With That, The Argument Ends. The Teeth Appear. The Lamb Is Eaten.

This Story Is Not About Cruelty. It Is About Power.

The Wolf Never Wanted An Explanation. He Wanted A Justification. Each Accusation Was Not A Question But A Stepping Stone Toward An Outcome Already Decided.

This Is The Pattern Predators Follow:
They Accuse First.
Then Adjust The Accusation Until Resistance Looks Like Guilt.

Facts Do Not Matter When The Other Side Controls Consequences.

The Lamb’s Mistake Was Not Weak Speech. It Was Misreading The Situation. She Thought She Was In A Dispute. She Was In A Selection Process.

When Someone Benefits From Your Destruction, Your Innocence Becomes Irrelevant. Your Logic Becomes Decorative.

Predatory Power Uses Morality As Camouflage. It Frames Hunger As Justice. Violence As Principle.

Notice The Escalation:
When Evidence Fails, History Is Invented.
When History Fails, Bloodline Is Blamed.
When Language Fails, Force Is Applied.

This Is Why Reason Does Not Save You From Someone Who Has Already Chosen To Harm You.

The Wolf Did Not Win Because He Was Right. He Won Because He Was Strong In A System Where Strength Writes The Verdict.

The Lesson Is Uncomfortable And Therefore Ignored: Never Argue With Someone Who Does Not Need To Be Right To Hurt You.

Do Not Try To Be Understood By Those Who Are Looking For Permission To Consume You.

In A World Of Wolves, Correctness Is Not Protection.

Power Is.
Courtesy: Modern Machiavelli.
Romance › Single Lady Only by Odebayo4010(op): 10:40am On Dec 28, 2025
Single Lady,

1. First and most importantly, you must understand that unless you are married to him, he is NOT yet your man. He is in 'the public domain.' Any woman can take him away from you at any time.
2.Your goal is to get him committed to YOU alone.
3. Employ your gifts, beauty, intelligence and spirituality to make him yours.
4. It isn't complex, this man likes you for a reason. Discover it and build on it.
5. You don't want money, sex, or a good time. You want marriage.
6. When you get married to him, you will have money, sex and a good time. Stay focused.
7. The sooner you 'wrap things up', the better for you.
8. The wise woman-like Ruth-knows what she wants and makes it happen.
Romance › 7 Types Of Women That Destroyed Man Mentally Emotionally & Financially Q by Odebayo4010(op): 8:50pm On Dec 25, 2025
1.33+ vvomen who’ve hit the wall but still think they deserve the world.


2.Feminists who believe submission is slavery but still want your money.


3.Singo modas looking for an innocent man to clean up another man’s mess.


4.Ashawo hoocupists who have been passed around like a football but still call themselves “queens.”


5.Non-virgins who have given everything away and now want you to pay full price for a used product.


6.vvomen with long relationship CVs — three, four, five exes deep — and they still claim “men are the problem.”


7.Rude, unsubmissive fine girls who mistake disrespect for strength and arrogance for confidence, follow Greatihe and Nwakpataraku.

Sermons over!
Romance › Never Trust Woman by Odebayo4010(op): 9:18pm On Dec 23, 2025
He asked her to sign a prenuptial agreement, she said: "if you loved me you would trust me with all you have." He said: "I trust you with my heart, but I want to protect the wealth I built before I met you." Never trust a broke woman with your wealth.
Romance › How Women Think by Odebayo4010(op): 9:12pm On Dec 23, 2025
HOW WOMEN THINK: Older woman wants younger man= preference. Older man wants younger woman = predator.
Woman wants to be dominant= empowerment.
Man wants submission= misogyny
Romance › Woman Were Manipulative In Nature by Odebayo4010(op): 4:52pm On Dec 23, 2025
Men, do you think a woman tells you everything that happens to her, the men she meets, who flirt with her, who want her? But you tell her everything that happens to you because of 'transparency.' You are an idi@t.
Romance › Woman, Your Beauty Will Fail You by Odebayo4010(op): 10:18pm On Dec 22, 2025
WOMAN, YOUR BEAUTY WILL FAIL YOU.
I shall explain.
You see, because you are physically attractive you use your beauty to get things from men. Instead of developing skillsets you can use to create value in the marketplace and make money, you depend on your pretty face, boobs and yansh.

But there are three problems with this.
1. Not every man will want you for sex because you are nit their type.
2. Those men want value and not sex.
3. Your beauty will fade. More beautiful women will replace you.

If you want to create value until your 60's-70's, you should develop high value skillsets that you can use to deliver value and make money.

“Charm is deceptive, beauty does not last, but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised.”
Proverbs 31:30
Romance › The New Tiktok SCAM Against MEN, BEWARE! by Odebayo4010(op): 2:03pm On Dec 22, 2025
The New Tiktok SCAM against MEN, BEWARE!

STEP ONE (1)

The host will put vvomen they have connection with, those vvomen will pretend to be single and searching, the host will then announce that if there is any man on the live broadcast who is single and he is interested in any of the ladies should send request to be matched with the lady wants. This is where the trap begins!

STEP TWO (2)

One of them men on the live stream will send in a request, the host will bring the man up to be in the box, the host will ask him his occupation, location and the rest of KYC questions, the man will answer, the host will then ask him if he is single and searching, ofcourse he would say yes and the host will ask him which of the ladies he is interested in,

The man will indicate, host will ask him to check her out and ask the lady picked to check the man out, after checking each other out, the host will ask the lady if she is feeling him. Behold, if the guy is broke she will say no she is not feeling him, if he looks rich she'll say she is feeling him, then the host will ask them to talk to each other, after few seconds of chat, the host will tell the man before he will allow him go with his new found babe, he should send money to support the live stream, in some cases the host will ask the two of them to send something to support the livestream.

Here is where the man will fall victim!

STEP THREE (3) the masterstroke and closure!

The lady will ask the host to drop account in comment section with confidence, the host will do so, then the girl will pretend she doesn't have much but she will support with the little she can, on the process she will claim her bank app is not opening requesting to do it in the morning or afternoon but the host will disagree, he will say "unless your new man" will pay for you.

That's a set up!

The fuulish man will go ahead to blow away his money, the host will then ask viewers to congratulate them in comments, after that the host will remove their two but mind you, the girl in question will never get serious with the man, it's a game, it's an organised crime.

If you return to that livestream in the next one hour or next day ir next week you will see that same girl in the box claiming to be single and searching, this will go on and on, that is how they use it to make money off unsuspecting men now, vvomen are doing this mostly, some men have joined them to exploit rich simps that lacks what to do with their money, be very careful out there, don't be a victim.

Remember, the younger the better the older the damage, Follow Indiscov on 𝕏 @iamindiscov.

Sermons over!

Romance › Man Stop Giving Women Money by Odebayo4010(op): 11:31am On Dec 22, 2025
Men, giving a woman more money will not make her happy. It will make her dependent on you financially. It is not your duty nor responsibility to make a woman happy. She's not a child you have to give treats to please. She's an adult, responsible for her own happiness.
Romance › Men, Do Not Tell A Woman Your Secrets. by Odebayo4010(op): 12:42pm On Dec 20, 2025
Men, do not tell a woman your secrets.
It doesn't matter how much you love her, don't tell her your secrets.

Samson told Delilah his secrets. She used those secrets to betray him to his enemies and they destroyed him.

Before you trust her with your secrets, test her and make sure she has strong character and can keep her mouth shut where and when it matters most.
Romance › Woman Were Beasts In Nature by Odebayo4010(op): 9:37am On Dec 20, 2025
When a woman does not have her way she gets angry, she wants to destroy and burn everything down. As long as she's in charge she's happy but if she's not, she's sad. You see, for many women it was never about love. It was about control. They want to find a senseless donkey who will do as they please. Don't be that donkey.
Romance › If A Woman Has Ten Enemies, Nine Of Them Will Be Women. by Odebayo4010(op): 4:32pm On Dec 19, 2025
If a woman has ten enemies, nine of them will be women.
Women who envy her beauty, her brilliance, her relationship, her marriage, her career and her success.
Women who feel inferior to her and have made it their life purpose to pull her down.
Christianity Etc › Some Of You Are Christians But In Practice You Are Superstitious by Odebayo4010(op): 2:10pm On Dec 19, 2025
Some of you are Christians but in practice you are superstitious and fatalistic pagans. You believe whatever happens, 'is god's will.'
Don't be an idiot.
You have agency. You have the power to determine your own destiny.
You set causes and outcomes in motion by your choices.

When you ought to speak up for yourself, you wait on god.
When you ought to take action to protect yourself, you wait on god.
When you ought to choose the right leaders in your nation, you wait on god.
Take responsibility.
God won't do what you have power to do for yourself.
Romance › Don't Listen To Single Mothers Excuse by Odebayo4010(op): 10:54pm On Dec 18, 2025
A woman makes poor choices in relationships and ends up damaged. She tells you: "if you love me you will stay with me." No. It is not your responsibility to suffer for the consequences of her stupidity and bad choices.
Romance › The Strange Normals We Call Abnormalities by Odebayo4010(op): 1:48pm On Dec 17, 2025
THE STRANGE NORMALS WE CALL ABNORMALITIES

There are certain things in life that look normal because we have seen them for too long, but when you pause, reflect, and think deeply, you realize they are not normal at all. They are abnormalities that society has dressed up as wisdom, tradition, or “the way things are.” The danger is not in the abnormalities themselves, but in how easily we accept them without questioning. A thinking mind must always ask: Does this truly make sense?

One strange abnormality is our obsession with certificates. In many societies, certificates are presented as the ultimate proof of intelligence and success. Yet, when you look closely, certificates seem to serve the poor more than the wealthy. Hardly can you find a graduate who becomes a billionaire strictly because of his degree. Education is valuable, yes, but when certificates replace thinking, creativity, and courage, they become chains rather than keys. Many people are educated yet helpless, qualified yet dependent, certified yet confused about life.

Another abnormality is the belief that salary earners get wealthy. Most salary earners do not build wealth; they only earn enough to survive. Their income is fixed, their time is sold, and their dreams are postponed till retirement. A salary often pays bills, not visions. This does not mean earning a salary is wrong, but it becomes abnormal when people believe it is the highest financial destination rather than a starting point.

A third abnormality appears strongly in religion. Only in religion will a leader with no formal education or professional experience confidently teach and instruct a PhD holder on how to live life. Wisdom is important, but wisdom without learning, exposure, or accountability can easily turn into control. Knowledge should inspire humility, not unquestioned authority.

Closely related is another religious abnormality: someone who has never been married teaching married people how marriage should work. Advice is valuable, but experience matters. You cannot fully explain a road you have never walked. Theory without lived reality often sounds spiritual but lacks practical depth.

Another abnormality is how society glorifies suffering as a badge of honor. People are taught that pain automatically produces greatness. While challenges can build strength, unnecessary suffering is not a virtue. Struggling endlessly without improvement is not destiny; it is often a sign that something needs to change.

There is also the abnormality of age-based wisdom. We assume older people are wiser simply because they are older. Age gives exposure, but wisdom comes from reflection, learning, and correction. Some people grow old without ever growing wise.

Another strange normal is how noise is mistaken for intelligence. The loudest voice in the room is often assumed to be the smartest. Calm thinkers, deep observers, and quiet innovators are overlooked because they do not shout. Yet history shows that transformation often begins in silence.

We also live in a world where busyness is mistaken for productivity. People are always busy, always tired, yet rarely fulfilled. Activity without direction is exhaustion, not progress. Being busy is not the same as being effective.

Another abnormality is how failure is treated as disgrace instead of feedback. People hide mistakes instead of learning from them. Yet every meaningful success story is built on lessons learned from failure. Fear of failure has destroyed more dreams than failure itself.

There is also the abnormality of outsourcing thinking. People allow culture, religion, family, or social media to think for them. They repeat opinions they have never examined and defend beliefs they do not understand. A life not personally examined is a life easily controlled.

Another strange normal is how morality is preached but not practiced. Society celebrates words more than actions. Integrity is admired in speeches but compromised in daily life. Values become slogans instead of standards.

Finally, there is the abnormality of measuring success by appearance rather than substance. Cars, clothes, titles, and followers are used to judge worth, while character, peace of mind, and impact are ignored. A life that looks successful but lacks meaning is one of the saddest contradictions.

These abnormalities persist because they are familiar. They feel safe. But growth begins when we question what everyone else accepts. A healthy society is not one without abnormalities, but one where people are brave enough to think, reflect, and choose truth over comfort.
Romance › 4 Typical Women Men Should Avoid by Odebayo4010(op): 11:19am On Dec 17, 2025
Men, there are 4 women you must avoid if you want peace in your life. 1. A woman who disrespects you. 2. A financial vampire and parasite. 3. An angry and bitter woman. 4. A single mother. Avoid them all.
Romance › Men, Remember This: No Man Can Steal Your Woman by Odebayo4010(op): 11:40pm On Dec 14, 2025
Men, remember this: no man can steal your woman, they can only steal your problems. That woman has been cheating on you. The man who took her from you did you a favour, because he delivered you from a treacherous b@st@rd
Romance › 80% Of Women Enter Marriage Not For Love. by Odebayo4010(op): 12:52pm On Dec 11, 2025
80% of women enter marriage not for love. 80% of women enter marriage for money. They want a senseless donkey who will pay bills and solve financial problems. But men disrupt their evil plans, therefore 80% of divorces are initiated by angry, bitter and disappointed women. Avoid divorcées and single mothers. They'll ruin you.
Romance › About Getting Married by Odebayo4010(op): 11:40am On Dec 11, 2025
About Getting Married.
1. Don't get married because someone told you to do it. Choose your partner and take responsibility for your decision.
2. Don't get married because of money. Your partner can lose everything
3. Don't get married for sex.
4. Don't get married to impress your friends.
5. Don't get married out of pressure from family
6. Don't get married because you are getting old.
7. Don't get married when you have nothing of real value to offer your partner.
8. Don't get married if you have no peace.
9. Don't get married to an angry and bitter person.
10. Don't get married to someone who is heavily in debt or who is financially irresponsible.

Get married to someone who brings you equal exchange of beneficial value.
Romance › Dear Men Know This About Women To Avoid Regrets Later by Odebayo4010(op): 6:24pm On Dec 08, 2025
A well fed street dog living in a rich home is still a street dog. If you try to domesticate it, it will keep running back to the streets because it belongs in the streets.
You can take a dog out of the streets, but you cannot take the streets out of a dog.
Stop trying to rehabilitate streets dogs. Leave them where you found them. They belong in the streets.
No matter how good your intentions, you cannot change people. Leave them where you found them.
Romance › Beware Of Single Mother by Odebayo4010(op): 9:49pm On Dec 06, 2025
Single mothers are very dangerous. They can manipulate a man to pity them and start planning nonsense. That is how one almost made me marry her as a second wife.
Christianity Etc › Religion Is Our Problem In Nigeria by Odebayo4010(op): 10:52pm On Dec 01, 2025
A lot of people argue that religion is not the problem of Africa but politicians.

You say it’s not the responsibility of Churches to fix the roads and electricity.

You say it’s not the responsibility of Islam to build good schools and standard hospitals.

You say religion has no hand in the deplorable state of the African continent.

You exempt yourselves from the blame but you are the real problem.

And I will tell you how.

During elections, your prophets and pastors openly asked you to vote for Christians.

Your Imams asked you to vote for Muslims.

You sat down, disregarded competence, character, and integrity, and fought, defended, and voted the devils of your religion.

And felt good.

Nothing else mattered to you. If they pray where you pray, let’s vote for them.

Even if they are crooks, vote for them.

In your mind, the devils that call on your god are better than the angels that call on another god.

Because of religious affiliation, you vote in rotten leaders, and then you turn around to say religion is not the problem but the leaders.

How many of you Christians can vote for a competent Muslim from the North over an incompetent fellow Christian?

How many of you Muslims can vote for a competent Christian from the South over a known corrupt fellow Muslim?

You turn everything to religious war and struggle for supremacy and when people like me tell you that such sentiments cannot give us good leadership, you call us heathens.

See, the foundation of every society is mental orientation, but what kind of orientation does your religion give you?

First, you will be taught that you will live in heaven and ‘they’ will burn in hell.

You are blessed and ‘they’ are cursed.

You are God’s favorites and ‘they’ are hated by God.

That’s how the hate and segregation are born. They sow seeds of discord among you and politicians take advantage of your herd mentality.

Tell me again that religion is innocent.

Sit down for once and think. Stretch your mind beyond your mere emotional bias.

I salute those who have not allowed their religions to turn them into puppets. If you are awake, please, wake other
Romance › Women Don't Understand Sacrifice. by Odebayo4010(op): 5:54pm On Nov 28, 2025
Women don't understand sacrifice.
Their father sacrificed for them, therefore they think a man should sacrifice to make them comfortable. If that man doesn't make them comfortable, their hypergamy will make them abandon him and look for a man who will.
They will watch a man bleed financially and they will not lift a finger to help him. They think it is a man's responsibility to suffer, sacrifice and even die for them. Don't sacrifice for a woman who brings you no value.
Romance › Love Is A Useless Emotion. by Odebayo4010(op): 5:48pm On Nov 27, 2025
LOVE IS A USELESS EMOTION.

Love is a useless emotion.
Love is a totally worthless emotion.
Of what value is love if it brings you no real value?

Women use the useless emotion of love to control and manipulate stupid men. Women say 'I love you,' but do the very opposite. It is because love is useless. They know character is more powerful than the emotion of love, but they keep pushing the narrative of love to deceive stupid men, while they wrought inconceivable damage on men with their bad character.

Women don't want to change their bad character. They keep talking about love to make you think that their words have value, but their bad character grows worse everyday while they keep saying 'I love you.' Only a fool falls for those meaningless, empty, useless words. Good character is more important and more powerful than the empty 'I love you' of a useless woman.
True love is when a woman brings you value.

Family › Re: I Keep Giving You Away And They Keep Giving You Back: Dad's Comment At A Wedding by Odebayo4010(m): 10:44pm On Nov 24, 2025
Double0h7:
End time father! May we never have or become such a parent. 😭
See your life,no wonder Birds of the same feather flock together,if it's good they wouldn't reject it

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