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I started believing more in myself, having confidence in myself and telling myself, I can do it.

I set the bar more higher and bro, it's working.

Don't limit yourself, don't be afraid to dream big.

Its not always impossible to achieve anything you set your heart to achieve bro.

In Nigeria the first year of marriage, the man speaks and the woman listens. In the second year, the woman speaks and the man listens. In the third year, they both speak and the neighbors listen.

Bluezy13:
Your own is better, you could even date.

There are many guys that are worse than you, who do not even know what relationship is and I am among them.

The statement is too heavy for me,I can't bear it anymore

zuby4real10:
I am tired of pretending. Pls who is a narcissist person?

someone in love with themselves or self centered person

It is a shame that Balotelli couldn't fulfill his potential in football due to indiscipline. He had the talent, but he couldn’t stay focus on football.

He is indisciplined, disrespectful, cocky, and controversial. He used his hands to ruin his career.

ufotty2001:
Do not marry a religious woman.

What is your thoughts about the statement?

thesicilian:
You guys should add hepatitis C. It is commonly ignored by most people and is also transmitted sexually, like the other 2. She's a smart girl.

Hepatitis disease was a myth,is not exist at all

1. Bro.

Modern women are not worth it bro, they are exhausting as hell, there is absolutely no need chasing and needing them.

These special almost have nothing to offer to you bro, its just a total waste of your precious life.

You will get your life ruined if you place all your hope and happiness on them bro..

They are not worth it.

2. Modern women does not deserve fighting for.

Do not fight any man for your woman, don't tell any man to leave your woman for you.

You will die or get injured all in the process of fighting for her and she will move on to the next guy on track.

You are not important to her, she deosnt care bro.

3. Modern women seeks to dominate you, their intentions is to enslave you to the best of their ability so they can control and manipulate you for their own gain.

They don't fvcking care about you, they care about what they can use you to achieve in their lives, they are willing to pretend to love you only for them to destroy you cheaply latter.

Never ever trust their love bro, its a mirage.

4. Modern women are all in for the game and never to build a lasting and successful relationship or marriage with you.

Their are the least loyal creatures, they are irresponsible and non challant.

They want you to be a traditional man to them without them doing anything their mothers did for their father.

You will be the biggest fool to think most modern woman really wants to build something lasting with you bro.

5. Modern women are easily deceived and influenced..

The woman you think she's different today is actually one friend voice away to become your greatest nightmare on earth bro.

Understand that you can never trust them rather trust your ability to move on Asap from her anytime she disappoint you bro.

Be wise.

Understand that you are not the only man that likes good thing.

The more beautiful she is, the more she's attractive to countless number of men.

Trust me, she will always have high traffic of men toasting her up and down and middle.

You can't stop that bro.

You will try to fight them all to protect her but you can't.

This is a strong disadvantage.

You will always be insecure.

2. It's not difficult for her to cheat on you.

With the amount of men throwing themselves on her, it will be very easy for her to give in to one of those guys cheaply.

The funny thing is that, this men coming for her will be richer than you, successful and have a life of affluence than you.

The chances of the law of hypergamy to play is very very high bro.

You can go ahead and marry her if you are comfortable to share her with other men sir.

It's what it is.

3. Most beautiful women always end up having attitude problems, they are difficult to submit, rude and they are pure gamer.

Due to the number of attention they get and validations from countless men who are willing to do anything for them, they end up allowing that gets into their heads and that is where all their problems begins from.

They have serious character flaws bro, you end up with her, you will suffer.

Its what it is.

Please don't learn in hard way

Na cult related issue

fergie001:
Hahahaha........!
Please don't say this thing outside.
LG funds, as at today despite the SC judgement still goes to the Joint Account controlled solely by the Executive Governors.

Please verify and update.

Maybe others state but in Osun precisely,Local Government Allocation is from Abuja, that's why Osun governor don't have power on local government again because there allocation is not from him, that's tactics APC will use it Osun Governorship Election because APC has most sit in Local Government

fergie001:
But is Oyetola better? That's the problem.
Remember the LG Allocations dey enter Adeleke pockets oooo.

See no Governor is working again, they are all preparing for election... Stacking cash and bribing everything that stands like a human.

You're not current at all who told you Local Government Allocation they enter Governor pocket, Local Government Allocation were now coming direct from Abuja, State government is not in control again,

Natbrowny:
University of Ilesa?
Was there a change of name of a school in Osun state recently - ilesa precisely abi na new University

Yea,it was college before change to University

Ezedgreat:
I can never forgive Nigeria police men for what they did to me when I was coming from burial of my late father in-law with my family, u see as u guys make my wife cry that day for no known offense ,u people will be receiving that cries from ur various individual homes year in year out

Please share the experience 🙏

medropoly:
There is a saying that: "You don't do anything out of peer-presure or environment. But because it suits your original personality"
You womanized becus you want to not becus u want to swap de addiction of betting.
I'm telling u dis becus I was once addicted to betting, believe me, I was a chronic gambler but I stopped.
HOW?
I knw my urge was a fast way to get income datz why I got involved in betting, now I choose an alternate to get income fast rather than betting. I went digital doing online stuff dat generate money and it worth it and de thought of betting never crossed my mind again.

So my guy, U are only destroying yrself by adding multiple addiction to yr predicament

please can you guide me about online business?

Did you own them something if not, behave as if they don't exist,if the threating is much for you, find one policeMan and discuss the issue with him,he will give you some steps to take,no that they can't offer you something good so discharge away from your side,na you they make the matter worse when you're thinking about them

FreeSpirited:
1. Start reading books like your life depend on it to expand your view and improve your diction..
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2. Start going to the gym at least 3 to 5 times a week..... To build ur physique and a have a better feel of ur self.
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3. Don't rush the idea of making gains over night... Be patient with yourself for one or two years while doing what i told you.
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4. Practise dressing well to improve your self esteem.. Low sense of self can hamper ur will to relate with others
4 join social clubs.... U may feel awkward at the start, but as u start reading more books.... Especially Nonfiction and some fiction... U will gain more confident to communicate and ur words will be more articulate
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5. In the club u join... Try to to provide value.. Don't just be a bench warmer. Volunteers in any events or activity they are doing. Join groups that allow u to afford value.. In the process u will be forced to interact.. Over time ur social anxiety will fizzle out...
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6 About relating with women... I can teach u these.. After u master the above assignment in one to two years..

Please I need your help on relating with women

IGBO people with there illegality of making money

One of my Facebook friend shared his relationship experience with me, please read and give your opinion on it

3 nights ago, something told me to go through my girls phone, i went through her phone to realise she's already planing on getting back to her ex whom she left cuz he cheated and got someone else pregnant, and the guy is now talking of marriage, they're already having s3x.
I was so broken, we should be 1yr together next month, when i met her she told me her story on how the guy cheated and she had to leave him, i felt i had to give her the best of me, we where even friends before we dated, so the relationship was very beautiful, she gives me peace, respects and supports me, i fell in love, i knew i wouldn't hurt someone like that.
When i asked her if she cheated she denied, i showed her screenshots, she now told me that she wanted to use the marriage to get back to the guy for what he did to her, her plans was not to show up on the marriage day, is that why you had to sleep with him, and from their chats she was the one asking for his attentions.
I was broken, i kept myself for her, cuz i work at home, am always home, am not an outing kind of person, nobody comes to my house, i stoped talking to girls since she gave me all i wanted.
See if this my girlfriend can cheat on me, i swear to you, don't trust anybody.
Now shes crying up and down begging that she doesn't want to lose me.

Why i am saying this is, imagine i saw the message on her phone and decides i didn't want to tell her, and decide to keep her until i get married to someone else and she's with me, just to get back at her nko??
They'll still see her as the victim.
Life is tough anyone can switch up anytime.

Non of my Daughter of Family members will marry Igbo Man,very heartless human being

1. PERFORMING TO IMPRESS OTHERS
Singing, praying, or dancing just to be noticed by others turns worship into a show.

2. SERVING OUT OF OBLIGATION, NOT LOVE
Doing church activities with a bitter or competitive heart misses the point of worship.

3. USING WORSHIP TIME FOR SOCIALIZING OR SELF-PROMOTION
When church becomes a place to show off fashion or promote your hustle, worship is sidelined.
Please wait after service.

4. BEING PHYSICALLY PRESENT BUT MENTALLY ABSENT
Attending service but spending the time chatting, daydreaming, or on your phone isn’t worship.

5. EMOTIONAL HIGHS WITHOUT HEART CHANGE
Tears, shouts, or falling under power mean little if there’s no inner transformation.

Change from the heart.

6. JUDGING OTHERS WHILE PRETENDING TO BE HOLY
Looking down on others for how they dress or worship while thinking you’re more spiritual is pride, not worship.

7. GIVING FOR RECOGNITION, NOT REVERENCE
Offering money just to be seen or praised, not from a heart of gratitude, isn’t worship, it’s performance.

8. SINGING WITHOUT MEANING THE WORDS
Mouthing the lyrics while your heart is somewhere else is just noise to God.

9. USING GOD AS A MEANS TO AN END
Coming to church only to “get blessed” or “receive breakthrough” turns worship into a transaction, not a relationship.

10. HOLDING UNFORGIVENESS WHILE RAISING HOLY HANDS
Lifting hands in worship while holding grudges in the heart contradicts the worship God desires.

Localemperor:
Its is no longer news that I have been declared insolvent. After all effort to maintain my liquidity level to no avail I decide to let her go.

Just as organization retrenched worker during periods of economic downturn in order to cut cost of operations, I sent her a massage expressing my regret and reasons.


I feed her
I pay money for hair dressing
I buy clothes
I take her out every weekend
I buy shoes
I do everything thinkable

She works and earns but I still wonder why she would want me to do everything for her. I compiled my income statement and statement of financial position for the first quarter and found out that expenditures have exceeded income and debt is on the rise.

So I wholeheartedly declared my self insolvent yesterday and decided to cut cost in order to protect my goodwill.

Who send you,you willing to play Father's or Husband role so what's community business in that🙄, what I know is that there's no happy ending for the simp

habefe4010@gmail.com

TimeManager:
I love this, these guys think they can hide under social media and some election losers that turned to overnight activists to exhibit indiscipline in NYSC. They think Government will bow to pressure and let go of their indiscipline, they were mistaking. We have employers and no employers tolerate indiscipline, that's why you either comply with the rules or you quit.


-Kiss the truth!

So it's a sin to fight for there Right,

There's one Werey call herself Acidbate,na Single Mother she be,she want to transfer her frustration to me

You're a fool,is like na single Mother raised you,you don't have any masculine at all, there's no happi ending for a simp,I don't even know what to say to your issue he dey irritate me wella,

Please I wanted to start up Gas filling business, have saved some tokens, please help me

bea1234567:
My south wa stern brothers are Lily livered cow ards that can think of stopping it only in their dreams 🤣

Na mouth dem get.. nothing concern yoro ba man with fight..

If you disturb am too much.. him go betr at you like juda s.. ask IBB if you think am lying 🤣🤣

You're right,Na Jakande exposed Awolowo to Babangida, since then Babangida dey find Awolowo to kill,Yoruba with there betrayed attitude, that's why we're getting set back everyday