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“You think your job is stressful? Try unemployment.
We should learn to appreciate the little we have cos millions of people are praying for it or even less than it.
Some of my friends will say Do you understand working in a toxic environment, funniest thing is that he didn't leave the job at toxic environment,

Please don't buy what will kill you oh

@Op When you have like 4babe mama then you will realize that be graduate is not matter in marriage you're not talking about fearly God lady, na graduate you carry for head, just continue with your mind set, you go calm later

Igbo people there's nothing they can't do to get money, people that sell there own children for money so what caused they not to use someone daughter for prostituted

Jennyclay:
Men need to up their game in bed, Biko

Probably, the gospel singer is not good in bed.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t sing for God, but still have time for other physical things God created

I know money answers all things, but there are some additional things men need to do to make his marriage/relationship work.

Money
Sex
True love

If I’m not going enough satisfaction in this 3 things i listed from my man, I will definitely look elsewhere. I’m sorry

Is not possible for Men to have all marriage qualities,

habefe4010@gmail.com

Skooltynz:
How did you come into this conclusion? And since you are concerned about the situation of you country what are you doing in the romance section were sex and romance is being discussed? It's just like pastor Chris going to xvideos site comment section to preach the gospel hypocrites full this country ajeyyy.

Roman 10 v 14 said How can they hear without a preacher, don't said what is he doing in Sex and Romance is discussed, because of you selfish interests someone should not say the truth again abi,is like you don't know what you're doing 🙄

Pukkalolo:
Check my profile... You'll see a Link to it.

It requires payment and am still strongly, please can I get PDF from you?

Pukkalolo:
You ask a very good question, but the only issue is that you phrased it the wrong way.

Here’s what I mean:

It’s not necessarily about what specific "thing" she does for you. It’s more about how much emotional cost or value she places on those things she does for you.

For example:

If Aliko Dangote donates 1M naira to a charity…

And a random broke guy donates his last 50k naira to the same charity…


Who donated more?

Logically, Aliko Dangote donated more.
But emotionally, the broke guy donated more—because it cost him more.

So, I’d rephrase your question as:

“How do I make a woman do things for me in a way that costs her more emotionally—so she feels truly invested?”

I’ll probably create a new thread to answer that question properly...because it’s going to be a long one

Please tag me when you post the matter

A vvoman that puts your preeq inside her mouth is a hoerrible vvoman and is not worthy to be your wife, a responsible vvoman won't put your preeq in her mouth, she won't even think of it not ask for it, how can you consciously marry such a vvoman?

Svcking of preeq is not our thing, it was never part of our culture, it's indecent, improper and disgusting. Now thing of this in another angle, have you ever wondered how she learnt it? How many men she has put their preeq inside her mouth? Remember she swallowed their speerrms, I don't think any responsible man will marry such vvoman unless he is also a detty human being.

Only an irresponsible man will marry a co-ck svcker, imagine kissing the mouth that has svcked 100-1000 preeqs, imagine sharing cup or water with such vvoman, imagine eating food with such vvoman, most of you men that married such vvomen are irresponsible.

Make such mistake of marry a vvoman that gives Mouth Action so good and rides so good on bed you will regret it, Ronaldo trained to be one of the best athletes in the world and she is no different. You should have nothing to do with a deek sucker, a vvoman that puts preeq inside her mouth should never be your wife, her giving you Mouth Action is reason enough to disqualify her.

The gospel has been delivered, learn or perish the choice is yours my brother, there's never going to be happy ending for simps.

squash47:
That's not d same guy

If you like don't listen to elders advice you go later say had I know

Nigeria Government make people situation worse,so people will find means to survive neither genuine or not

This gentleman won 36 million from sports betting. This lady who's a receptionist at the betting centre quit her job instantly and became his girlfriend😂😂

Informant is a person who try to know your source while snitch is a person who knows you giving away information about you to third party

At my place at ilesha 5 litre of red oil is #9000

I was Sad when I read what proprietress utter to you<(How can a Proprietoress who was once a teacher in someone's sch boldly tell her staff that their Future end here in her sch, and that the students are now the future. And that the children will be more successful than the teachers?)
Working under someone is a disaster in Nigeria

A w||man can’t get over her Ex for 4 reasons.

1- You’ve not conquered her mental needs.

2- You’ve not conquered her emotional needs.

3- You’ve not conquered her social needs.

4- You’ve not conquered her sexua! needs.

Note : A w||man is loyal to her emotions and how well she is pleased not your expectations or sacrifices.

A w||man can outgrow an Ex but she lives with their shared experiences until a superior experience is recorded.

For a w||man to place her new man above her Ex, You must conquer, supersede and replace those past experiences.

We all fight these silent battles without realising it.

Her Ex already set a standard in her life before you dropped by, You must tear it down and erect your own.

Her Ex was already in her head before you dropped by, You must get inside her head to flush him out.

Her Ex already lived in her heart before you dropped in, You must win her over to sweep off his foot prints.

Her Ex already gave her back shots before you dropped by, You must create a more satisfying experience.

You cannot do this without her help. She must be willing to make conscious-targeted effort to detach herself from past experiences. (especially those that involves trauma or ecstasy)

The more Exes she’s got, the more the past experiences you must move to conquer, supercede and replace.

To put this into perspective, 2 Exes means 2 past experiences to conquer and 10 Exes means 10.

W||men tend to outgrow or get over Exes when superior experiences replace former relationship dynamics.

It is much easier to do this with a w||man with zero or low body count than to go through it with a dragon queen.

Class dismissed…

Don’t forget to sharpen your axe

Once upon a time, a very strong woodcutter asked for a job in a timber merchant and he got it. The pay was really good and so was the work condition. For those reasons, the woodcutter was determined to do his best.

His boss gave him an axe and showed him the area where he supposed to work.

The first day, the woodcutter brought 18 trees.

“Congratulations,” the boss said. “Go on that way!”

Very motivated by the boss words, the woodcutter tried harder the next day, but he could only bring 15 trees. The third day he tried even harder, but he could only bring 10 trees. Day after day he was bringing less and less trees.

“I must be losing my strength”, the woodcutter thought. He went to the boss and apologized, saying that he could not understand what was going on.

“When was the last time you sharpened your axe?” the boss asked.

“Sharpen? I had no time to sharpen my axe. I have been very busy trying to cut trees…”

Reflection:

Our lives are like that. We sometimes get so busy that we don’t take time to sharpen the “axe”. In today’s world, it seems that everyone is busier than ever, but less happy than ever.

Why is that? Could it be that we have forgotten how to stay “sharp”? There’s nothing wrong with activity and hard work. But we should not get so busy that we neglect the truly important things in life, like our personal life, taking time to get close to our Creator, giving more time for our family, taking time to read etc.

We all need time to relax, to think and meditate, to learn and grow. If we don’t take the time to sharpen the “axe”, we will become dull and lose our effectiveness.

Don’t forget to sharpen your axe

Once upon a time, a very strong woodcutter asked for a job in a timber merchant and he got it. The pay was really good and so was the work condition. For those reasons, the woodcutter was determined to do his best.

His boss gave him an axe and showed him the area where he supposed to work.

The first day, the woodcutter brought 18 trees.

“Congratulations,” the boss said. “Go on that way!”

Very motivated by the boss words, the woodcutter tried harder the next day, but he could only bring 15 trees. The third day he tried even harder, but he could only bring 10 trees. Day after day he was bringing less and less trees.

“I must be losing my strength”, the woodcutter thought. He went to the boss and apologized, saying that he could not understand what was going on.

“When was the last time you sharpened your axe?” the boss asked.

“Sharpen? I had no time to sharpen my axe. I have been very busy trying to cut trees…”

Reflection:

Our lives are like that. We sometimes get so busy that we don’t take time to sharpen the “axe”. In today’s world, it seems that everyone is busier than ever, but less happy than ever.

Why is that? Could it be that we have forgotten how to stay “sharp”? There’s nothing wrong with activity and hard work. But we should not get so busy that we neglect the truly important things in life, like our personal life, taking time to get close to our Creator, giving more time for our family, taking time to read etc.

We all need time to relax, to think and meditate, to learn and grow. If we don’t take the time to sharpen the “axe”, we will become dull and lose our effectiveness.

Young men.

Avoid dating women older than you, don't even marry women who are older than you.

Leave the old dragon alone.

The reason why she's coming for you is because you are young and naive, she wants to use you as her retirement plan after wasting her best days with older men who damaged her kitten and traumatized her beyond repair.

Forget that maturity you are seeing now, forget that good character you are seeing now, forget that submission you are seeing now, she's just an old snake that recently shade off her old skin just to achieve a purpose.

There is a strong reason why you met her at her 30s, you are not wiser than the men who jumped and pass, who piped and swipe, who hit and run... they saw something you couldn't see now because she's now wiser and pretentious unlike before when she's still fresh in the dating pool.

Don't marry your grandmother, you can not be wiser than her.

Be wise.

Stay putinized.

hacktycoon:
Amazon Kdp is very lucrative. And I am willing to teach it for free


Already gotten the 10 guys to coach. No more dms

Bro please tag me to it,I need help too

xavuv:
That 5gig per week will go a long way for him. He can learn a lot on YouTube.

Note that if he's not a man that is computer inclined, then there is no point in learning anything online. Learning a trade will be best.

I learned web design (front end) and a little back end on youtube alone.

Please drop the link or the title,

Starz825:
Na men be women weakness...

You only can trust few women ..same way you can only trust few men

The fact still remains that we are all humans...

Weak as fucck ..but watch and protect your own

Can Man protect Women,how come?🙄

You are the only man for me babe.. It’s just you babe believe me🙄

thesicilian:
All this story because you're now looking for a husband

Is like you don smoke your colos abi,sheeh you saw female under my profile?🙄

If she meets a time waster on her path to finding true love, then there's a chance that she will reach or exceed that age before meeting her life partner.

Some men do contribute to this. Leading a woman on and later dump her for someone else Some guys will waste a woman's time and she will end up reaching 30 with no husband.. You want to tell me such woman is not marriable? Ta gbafuo there.
In addition, as the economy is, alot of good single ladies will reach 30 no husband because guys that supposed to marry them aren't financially ready for marriage.

Do u know most ppl unmarried at 30 actually had a long term relationship that lasted for about 6 to 7yrs hoping for it to turn out well but it didn't??

Never say never until u hear some stories.
Why aren't you a billionaire yet? Despite all your hustles.

Why haven't you made it to the top richest man in African, or does dangote and the rest hustle more than you do?

The earlier we understand that certain things in life doesn't come by effort but destiny and sometimes individual luck. We limit the way we pressure ourselves and others.

If all the married women are that good and perfect? Why is the case of divorce on the increase, or does it mean that men are all at fault?

You've forgotten that some people are not just lucky when it comes to relationship. Some have invested everything they've gat, only to be jilted again and again. Some are victims of one sided love, and before they realize it, it's late as their mental and emotional health had been ruined.

If your name haven't made it to forbe record despite your hard work. You have no right to mock ladies who are unmarried at 30.
Marriage at early or late age doesn't define the person's character.
Everyone has personal reasons to choose either to marry early or late. The only thing that matters is making the right choice.

Is a journey when entered, is hard to retrieve from.

May God bless and protect whoever is about to start this journey and also pave way for new and old couples

So many good women out there who are scared of being with a demon call a man...

I pray they find a good man that will give them peace of mind 🙏

If she meets a time waster on her path to finding true love, then there's a chance that she will reach or exceed that age before meeting her life partner.

Some men do contribute to this. Leading a woman on and later dump her for someone else.

You can still marry the bad ones at their 20s and get divorced or separated after a week or months.

Good character isn’t by age,even still those in their 30s are the submissive ones, because they’ve experienced and understood what relationships and life entails and are equipped for marriage..

This is one of the reasons why we have plenty weddings today but very few marriages.

The society has succeeded marriage of women between '18 to 25 yrs' and so any lady above these ages and haven't married, you see them being desperate and go into any man they see and so regret at the end.

There are many reasons why a woman will be single at age 30years or above;

She might be focusing on career and education.

She might want to be financially independent before getting married

She might have set goals she wants to achieve before getting married

She may have standards for her partner and haven't found someone who meets them.

She may have fears of committing to marriage or one particular person for rest of her life

She might have health issues to

Nonexisting1:
The one that was shot at, I hope he sued the useless husband. How can your shoot at a man simply because you caught him fuccking your wife. Was his wife a minor or was he raping her? Some men don't have sense. Mtchew

The Man is right by shot him, that's rubbery cese,he came to rub him,even if he killed him he will never go to jail, ask any police Man concerning what I said here they will tell you something

GOFRONT:


Penis dey land Reverend Fathers inside trouble. Who come be ordinary me.......Go and ask some Lecturers how their penis don ruin their career and families.

For days now, I have been struggling to tame my penis cos of one lady serving with Chicken Republic

You quote remind me that of my Cathedral church Bishop at Ijebu ijesha his side chicks post his nude videos to internet na so dey demoted him oh,the will forever run from anything call woman

This Is My Opinion Concerning 👆 This, You're Free To Add Your Own

We need to be careful about some gifts 🎁.
Some will offer you something and takeaway something that will cost you a lot.

This is the reality of life and, that is how it is when you accept help from anyone.

Na watin bulaba 😂 day do Nigerians.

Huuunm this is telling us when you are still managing with your condition some people would try to help you, but when they know u can't manage anymore they will leave you with your condition.

Message from Tinubu:Minimum wage, unless you want me to increase fuel pump.

While they give you support, they ensure that you cannot move with ease.

Good picture for those who help others and after some time they tel every body.

Government of Nigeria and her labour.

The picture illustrated that:There is no free things.

People will pretend by helping you without knowing they are destroying you more so be keen.

Give 10 and collect 100, politicans of Nigeria.

This signified our leaders and the common man,, they decieved you with two sachets of indomie and #2000,, and ruled you with hardship for good 8 years.

why must people help someone and make sure that they get there your own share in return.

Any kindness that collect something from you is a business.

This drawing is heart touching, it defines wickedness of the highest order camouflaged as a show of love.

Those who thinks they are helping the poor but rather stold them.

This is exactly what the devil is doing with Soo many people in our society,he takes away destiny and life and give you small change.

To All Single Mothers:The person that is helping you is the one killing you.

To All Single Mothers:Looks face before you accept gifts.

To All Yahoo Guys:That is how the devil gives money and take it to your life that is how it is

To All Yahoo Guys:This simply means that when devil 😈 offers you a cap,
He'll take your heard.

Getting assistant from the wrong source can cause you everything

Increase minimum wage and remove subcidy