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Romance › “stop Posting Your Girlfriend. People Who Sleep With Them Are Laughing At You„ by Odebayo4010(op): 4:02pm On Jul 13, 2024
“Stop Posting Your Girlfriend.
People Who Sleep With Them Are Laughing At You„ ~ Man Warns Fellow Men
Slept with her is not even the problem ooo
People are still sleeping with her. Na them go laugh you pass
At times e dey funny me how many dey trust woman
The day I posted this babe on her birthday with beautiful capture was the regret of my life. My younger cousin who was in the same school with her just finish talk the following day. That was how the fire of the love went off. Till today I never told her the reason behChai..
the way I laughed at one nigga who posted a girl who I dey magrimo ,
The level of love poem this dude uses in the girl's pictures made me pity him , I DM him tried to open his eyes , but bro no even Sabi bro code , 🥱🥱ind our break up.

I swear,, the woman you call the love of your life is another man sex machine. 😆😂🤣.

That's how a friend of mine kept posting a girl till one day I described how her pusssy is and some marks on her bumbum he cried like a babe that day

Trust woman in ur own foolishness. Currently I get babe wey I dey knack and anytime the boyfriend call am while we dey knack and she go lie say she dey sleep 🤣🤣

The only thing that will make me not to ask a woman about her past is , only if is the only way for me to become Rich

Some men with mumu, keep doing love things to women that don't send you

Truth

And when your girlfriend sees that the person who slept with her is laughing, she too will......LAUGH 😂😂

The truth is Especially when you come dey use her dey buga🤣

Romance › �⚠️young Men, Avoid These 9 Types Of Women� by Odebayo4010(op): 8:37pm On Jul 09, 2024
🚦⚠️Young Men, Avoid these 9 types of women🚦

As a man, it’s never your duty to protect your woman from other men coming to toast her, flirt with her, or even sleep with her. It’s 100% your woman’s responsibility to create boundaries against men who want to encroach on her space. The moment your woman begins to entertain these external male figures, your job is not to protect her from them, start questioning her, begging, or trying to stop her. No, absolutely not.

There is nothing you can do about a woman whose eyes are outside. You will only hurt yourself if you try to caution her. As a man, you have failed if you try to talk her into leaving other men just for you. When a woman disrespects you by flirting with another man or giving another man access to her life, like the way that young man’s girlfriend left him only to be used by Omalay on stage, your best reaction is to abandon her and dump her back to the streets where you picked her from.

Women who act like this have no place being a wife to any wise man. She’s for the streets and will forever belong to the streets. The boyfriend should be happy that she revealed her true nature before marrying her. These are the types of women that are 100% destined to cheat on their men. As a man, avoid these types:

Promiscuous Women: These women are constantly seeking attention and validation from different men, making it nearly impossible to maintain a stable, trustworthy relationship. They lack loyalty and will bring nothing but heartache.

Party Girls: Women who prioritize partying and nightlife over a stable relationship are not fit for a serious commitment. Their reckless behavior and poor decision-making lead to turmoil and instability, dragging you down with them.

Materialistic Women: If she values material possessions over meaningful connections, she will never be satisfied with what you provide. Her insatiable desire for luxury and status can lead to financial strain and emotional disconnect. She’s more likely to leave you the moment someone with deeper pockets comes along.

Women with a Bad Past: A history filled with problematic behaviors and poor choices can be a red flag for future issues. These women carry emotional baggage and unresolved issues that will negatively impact your relationship. You don’t need someone else’s drama in your life.

Unsubmissive and Reprobate Women: Women who refuse to be cooperative or show respect will only bring conflict and strife. A harmonious relationship requires mutual respect and understanding, which these women lack. They will constantly challenge your authority and undermine your leadership.

Single Moms: Let’s be blunt—taking on the responsibilities of another man’s child can be complex and challenging. It’s a burden that not all men are prepared for, and it can bring unnecessary complications into your life. Know your limits.

Violent Women/Women with Anger Issues: These women can be unpredictable and potentially dangerous. Their inability to manage their emotions can lead to frequent conflicts and even physical altercations. They are a liability you can’t afford.

Women Obsessed with Social Media, Male Attention, and Validation: They crave constant external validation, which can undermine the stability of your relationship. Their need for attention can lead to jealousy, insecurity, and infidelity. They are never satisfied with what you give them.

Women Obsessed with Celebrities: If she idolizes celebrities, she may be living in a fantasy and have unrealistic expectations for your relationship. This obsession creates a disconnect between her expectations and reality, leading to dissatisfaction and conflict. You can never compete with her fantasy world.

Avoid these types of women when it comes to marriage and serious relationships. Be wise and make choices that align with a stable and respectful partnership. Your peace of mind and future happiness depend on it. Stay putinized.

Nairaland General › Please Recommend Any Online App That I Can Be Buying Clothes And Shoes by Odebayo4010(op): 11:32am On Jul 03, 2024
I wanted to be buying clothes and shoes online but I don't know how it works, please I need your ideas
Romance › Friend Of A Rich Man Is Not A Rich Man, But A Friend To A Thief Is A Why? by Odebayo4010(op): 2:24pm On Jun 21, 2024
Friend of a rich man is not a rich man, But a friend to a thief is a thief... Poor man dey really pass through a lot
Romance › This Is For All Single Guys,if You Ignored You Suffer Later by Odebayo4010(op): 2:05pm On Jun 20, 2024
These cars are for driving School!
Don't risk taking them home
After using them to learn how to drive and paying for your driving classes then you leave them at the school. Then go shop for a car of your choice which you'll drive with the experience and skills gained from them.
I don't know if ur getting the point 👉😉

Well; the post it not about car thou if u know u know😂😂

Romance › Re: Only Stupid Girls Date Broke Boys. There Is No Loyalty In Survival. by Odebayo4010(m): 3:27pm On Jun 18, 2024
You just came out from psychiatric hospital 🙄
Sports › Re: Dora Ezinne Responds To Super Eagles Star, Olanrewaju Kayode's Infidelity Claims by Odebayo4010(m): 11:11pm On May 27, 2024
That's the consequences of marry IGBO lady,have set Alarm since 2010 for all Yoruba Men never marry IGBO lady he get reason he get why
Romance › Re: Part2 Of My Experience Working At Hotel Will Make You Fear Dating by Odebayo4010(op): 9:12pm On May 14, 2024
Coolsat:
Guy man resolve say he go marry plenty wives and plenty sidechicks and does that make you any different from the people you are condemning here? So why rant since you are planning to join the que of adultery and fornication? Someone else will write about you when you start your own same way you are doing now, the world is a ⭕
Not someone wife
Romance › Part2 Of My Experience Working At Hotel Will Make You Fear Dating by Odebayo4010(op): 6:02pm On May 14, 2024
I can't forget how i saw my mathematics lectures and secretary in a lodge coming out frm a room.
Sweating
I once saw a married woman with her about 3years old son and another married man came in for short rest smh
Caught a lot of my married neighbors they didn’t know I worked there
There was a night my Bea call me saying sweet word I was just nagging but I couldn't get mind through what I saw. relationship that year to me seems like world of deception the love I have my girlfriend then reduce drastically.
Even staying close to a lodge..makes you feel things like the eve gender are nothing to take serious.
Working at a Lodge is where u get the ultimate challenge of minding your business and also get a lesson of the type of person u want to settle with. I worked at a Lodge in Ogun State when i was at Uni years ago, the thing i saw ehn. Pastors, Prophets, Herbalists,drug dealers,scammers, Married men, Married women.
Your girlfriend can't be faithful to you if she works in a hotel...from experience
Working in a Hotel will make you hate marriage with passion.
I work as a receptionist in a hotel, one very Sunday, one married man wit 5 different girls
As one girl was leaving another girl was coming in, nd u knw u gats Inform d guest of his visitor
Omo it got to a point I got tired of calling d room, wen dey come i ask Dem to call their clients abeg
I once pimped a girl for her boyfriend and it wasn't funny. The guy wan mad. He was like bro. Na my serious babe you control for me so ooo. That Day I run kitikiti.
If I open mouth talk watin my eyes see 3 home go breakas I see of the Aunty after few month with belle I open mouth because me and she know say that belle nobe for her husband..na them dey first greet me for street I go just pass jeje single girl lyk me watin I know..watin dey vex me most na those women way dey feel say them decent pass.
Ashwear.... Na person wey never work for hotel dey carry girl matter for head.
Lol that's how I nearly cast one guy , then I was working in a guest house as a receptionist and he came in with a lady and lodged then the next day he came with a lady but I didn't know it was a different lady so he was like which room is available I now asked him that do you want the same room of yesterday.🤦
I quit hotel work d day one guy carry my gf come lodge…na me still clean the room wey dem use, I was crying while cleaning…na dat day I make up my mind to make it in life.
Any day wey I remember say I go marry I they fear 💔💔one thing is for sure I no see myself marrying one woman, two wives 3 side chick I can't come and kill myself.
as a hotel Receptionist,i don see things.
there’s this particular guy that lodged for 2 months.
He was always bringing in different girls everyday,I don't know maybe he's doing it for ritual purpose

And there’s one married man that do lodge,u will see people’s wives coming to see him everyday
As my gf tell me say she wan start working, and the place she sort out to work was a hotel Omo
I nor fit for emotional cramps
We both went out separate ways oh
Because I know weyin eye done see for hotel worker
Was I so insecure yet I was because they said karma is real.
I witnessed one back then... My perceive innocent looking teacher with another teacher... It's not surprising again
Omo no just loud a m I don see married women wey carry him pikin come collect gbola and the worst be say the pikin still Dey breastfeed.
A friend of mine that is a Bolt driver. Once told me that will never marry because of the things his seeing when picking up client.
Receptionist job at the lodging post is not for the weak.
One married woman came to my Lodge with someone when saw me she tried to run away had to tel her to calm down as the staff of the place, told her am just making my money that you Don need to be Afraid.
I once worked in a hotel.. Thr one that surprised me most was the married women that came down short time before going to work.

Romance › Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Odebayo4010(op): 5:57pm On May 14, 2024
Odebayo4010:
My Experience working in a Hotel as a receptionist Open my eye to unimaginable things. So Many things that will make you scared. Working in a hotel will turn you to something else. Avoid it if you can.

Things dey happen there, Especially married women what they're doing they maval, I done hear different sound track I swear, both from married woman and singles. You will see how dey slàughter people's serious girlfriends.

Working at a lodge will make you fear marriage self.

Chai omo I done day fear women like this, many things day happen ooh, imagine both married women ooh, omo if no be to get children I for no near woman say I won marry
Especially married women with small small boys. One of them like me and wanted me to be her boyfriend and I refuse, she was angry and stop coming to the hotel.. To marry go hard o.

I have once catch my neighbor wife but I forgot to snap her for evidence. Without an evidence, I decided to keep quiet . This man loves this lady dīe. Come see gift he will pack come back while coming for holiday from work

That's is why I always say cheating is not gender based to confirm, just go to any hotel or guest house to relax or watch ball, u will see many married women coming for short time, many even stay over night, have seen a Soo called men and women of God come to hotel to do short time.

Some times is good to go out especially to some places to see dat dere is nothing in this life and u will appreciate the fact that you need to love your self more than any other person.

For men dat carry dere wives for head, I love my wife I love my wife, you wife dey hotel to do short time with another man, make everyone get sense and trust nobody.
Continue later, I wanted to rest for now.
I can't forget how i saw my mathematics lectures and secretary in a lodge coming out frm a room.
Sweating
I once saw a married woman with her about 3years old son and another married man came in for short rest smh
Caught a lot of my married neighbors they didn’t know I worked there
There was a night my Bea call me saying sweet word I was just nagging but I couldn't get mind through what I saw. relationship that year to me seems like world of deception the love I have my girlfriend then reduce drastically.
Even staying close to a lodge..makes you feel things like the eve gender are nothing to take serious.
Working at a Lodge is where u get the ultimate challenge of minding your business and also get a lesson of the type of person u want to settle with. I worked at a Lodge in Ogun State when i was at Uni years ago, the thing i saw ehn. Pastors, Prophets, Herbalists,drug dealers,scammers, Married men, Married women.
Your girlfriend can't be faithful to you if she works in a hotel...from experience
Working in a Hotel will make you hate marriage with passion.
I work as a receptionist in a hotel, one very Sunday, one married man wit 5 different girls
As one girl was leaving another girl was coming in, nd u knw u gats Inform d guest of his visitor
Omo it got to a point I got tired of calling d room, wen dey come i ask Dem to call their clients abeg
I once pimped a girl for her boyfriend and it wasn't funny. The guy wan mad. He was like bro. Na my serious babe you control for me so ooo. That Day I run kitikiti.
If I open mouth talk watin my eyes see 3 home go breakas I see of the Aunty after few month with belle I open mouth because me and she know say that belle nobe for her husband..na them dey first greet me for street I go just pass jeje single girl lyk me watin I know..watin dey vex me most na those women way dey feel say them decent pass.
Ashwear.... Na person wey never work for hotel dey carry girl matter for head.
Lol that's how I nearly cast one guy , then I was working in a guest house as a receptionist and he came in with a lady and lodged then the next day he came with a lady but I didn't know it was a different lady so he was like which room is available I now asked him that do you want the same room of yesterday.🤦
I quit hotel work d day one guy carry my gf come lodge…na me still clean the room wey dem use, I was crying while cleaning…na dat day I make up my mind to make it in life.
Any day wey I remember say I go marry I they fear 💔💔one thing is for sure I no see myself marrying one woman, two wives 3 side chick I can't come and kill myself.
as a hotel Receptionist,i don see things.
there’s this particular guy that lodged for 2 months.
He was always bringing in different girls everyday,I don't know maybe he's doing it for ritual purpose

And there’s one married man that do lodge,u will see people’s wives coming to see him everyday
As my gf tell me say she wan start working, and the place she sort out to work was a hotel Omo
I nor fit for emotional cramps
We both went out separate ways oh
Because I know weyin eye done see for hotel worker
Was I so insecure yet I was because they said karma is real.
I witnessed one back then... My perceive innocent looking teacher with another teacher... It's not surprising again
Omo no just loud a m I don see married women wey carry him pikin come collect gbola and the worst be say the pikin still Dey breastfeed.
A friend of mine that is a Bolt driver. Once told me that will never marry because of the things his seeing when picking up client.
Receptionist job at the lodging post is not for the weak.
One married woman came to my Lodge with someone when saw me she tried to run away had to tel her to calm down as the staff of the place, told her am just making my money that you Don need to be Afraid.
I once worked in a hotel.. Thr one that surprised me most was the married women that came down short time before going to work.
Romance › Why Our Old Time Friends Are Now Strangers Due To Change In Financial Status. by Odebayo4010(op): 7:11pm On May 13, 2024
Our old time friends are now strangers due to change in financial status.
Brothers now selecting brothers according to their standards.
Humans cry for the dead and keep malice with the living then envy the successful and avoid the broke.
This is how the life is?
Negativity has taken the order of our generation,But I refuse to be among
We Humans act Holy as if we never Sinned when crucifying and judging other- We travel
long to bury someone who we never checked up on when he/she was alive- We run away from the Poor and Jealous the Rich- yet we desire to be Wealthy.
Money truly charges people
If you dey do transfer u be blood
But once you stop to dey do transfer u be water.

Romance › Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Odebayo4010(op): 10:41am On May 11, 2024
Juoflife1:
The women went to the hotels with single guys abi? Your head is paining you sad
Why frown at me 🙄,was it what you are practicing?
Romance › Re: “No Man Approaches A Lady With Coloured Hair With Serious Intentions” – Doctor by Odebayo4010(m): 10:00am On May 11, 2024
Odebayo4010:
What of if she said na vice versa
You fail to realize that they don't have equal rights 🙄🙄
Romance › Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Odebayo4010(op): 7:22pm On May 10, 2024
richie240:
Na God save you.
Very many of them do it for ritual purposes.
You go think say den like you; den go plaster you with gifts and all, but na lie, na ur sperm/sweat den need.

Once they are able to get yiur sperm, work don finish be dt. Even if u use condom, e nor matter, so long as u penetrate her, she go wipe the sweat around that 'region' and everything don set be that.

No free food, not even in freetown.
cool
Am well experience Man,I can't do such thing
Romance › Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Odebayo4010(op): 7:18pm On May 10, 2024
altteemy:
@Odebayo4010, it would be prudent to remove your picture. You wouldn't want an issue of someone who knows you following up on all you typed.
I didn't mention Name so am free like crippled leg
Romance › Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Odebayo4010(op): 6:56pm On May 10, 2024
humberjade:
No mind am, wetin him dey find, him go soon see
Dey play
Romance › Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Odebayo4010(op): 6:45pm On May 10, 2024
Nice2023:
Instead of u to say,fear men u are here telling us to fear women.

When it is obvious that those men are married men too.
You fail to realize that Men were Polygamous in nature
Romance › Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Odebayo4010(op): 2:29pm On May 10, 2024
My Experience working in a Hotel as a receptionist Open my eye to unimaginable things. So Many things that will make you scared. Working in a hotel will turn you to something else. Avoid it if you can.

Things dey happen there, Especially married women what they're doing they maval, I done hear different sound track I swear, both from married woman and singles. You will see how dey slàughter people's serious girlfriends.

Working at a lodge will make you fear marriage self.

Chai omo I done day fear women like this, many things day happen ooh, imagine both married women ooh, omo if no be to get children I for no near woman say I won marry
Especially married women with small small boys. One of them like me and wanted me to be her boyfriend and I refuse, she was angry and stop coming to the hotel.. To marry go hard o.

I have once catch my neighbor wife but I forgot to snap her for evidence. Without an evidence, I decided to keep quiet . This man loves this lady dīe. Come see gift he will pack come back while coming for holiday from work

That's is why I always say cheating is not gender based to confirm, just go to any hotel or guest house to relax or watch ball, u will see many married women coming for short time, many even stay over night, have seen a Soo called men and women of God come to hotel to do short time.

Some times is good to go out especially to some places to see dat dere is nothing in this life and u will appreciate the fact that you need to love your self more than any other person.

For men dat carry dere wives for head, I love my wife I love my wife, you wife dey hotel to do short time with another man, make everyone get sense and trust nobody.
Continue later, I wanted to rest for now.
Romance › Re: What Do You Do To Earn In Dollars Online? by Odebayo4010(m): 8:21pm On Apr 19, 2024
Suicideboy:
Grindr
Please reach me work
Career › Re: Ways You Can Avoid Being Used By Selfish Nigerian Employers by Odebayo4010(m): 8:26pm On Apr 03, 2024
Moyinoluwa35:
Military work is the best
Military work in second hand is a slavery
Romance › Re: Why I Cut Off Contacts From My Family After Marrying My Nigerian Man- White Lady by Odebayo4010(m): 8:06pm On Mar 30, 2024
officialwdhtv:
Did u even watch the video to hear what she said?
Yea, you're right he didn't watch the video
Politics › Re: Women Queue And Kneel For Foodstuffs And Money From Woman Sitting Majestically by Odebayo4010(m): 8:28pm On Mar 27, 2024
That's attitude of IGBO WOMAN
Romance › Meet The Guy Who Won $50 000usd From Soccer Betting In Masvingo Leaving The MWOS by Odebayo4010(op): 6:01pm On Mar 27, 2024
Meet the guy who won $50 000usd from soccer Betting in Masvingo leaving the MWOS.

Sports › Re: Nigeria-Ghana Jollof War: See Troost-Ekong's Reaction To Super Eagles' Victory by Odebayo4010(m): 8:58pm On Mar 22, 2024
Arobaga:
Fvck dey hungry me




All these jollof rice war no concern me
Brother visit brothels now and free your self
Romance › Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by Odebayo4010(op): 8:55pm On Mar 22, 2024
blackpanthar:
you can have children and grand children without marriage.

I do not ask this for myself, I earlier explained that in the first post.

If a young man comes to you and asks you the benefit of marriage to men... SEEING ALL THAT IS GOING ON NOW IN THE WORLD....

what would you answer.

DANGOTE is not married...

many at the top are divorced.

so pls be practical... the rise of single men not wanting marriage is increasing, without STRONG LOGICAL REASON THAT CAN'T BE ARGUED, many will no longer desire it.

many who are married if they could go back to the past would rather remain unmarried because of the stress and many hidden issues we face.

So how will you sell it to the younger generation
I think you're entiest,if not you wouldn't said such thing, biblical didn't not support unmarried
Romance › Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by Odebayo4010(op): 9:49pm On Mar 21, 2024
blackpanthar:
All great people who are unmarried have all these.

these are things you can get without marriage. Asides sex....

Family is not an opportunity it is stress and bills UNLESS YOU ARE SUPER WEALTHY.

shared responsibility? NO, there is no burden of responsibility in the first place if you are not married. So what exactly should a person be happy for about shared responsibility. it is women who may enjoy that.

POTENTIAL? for growth? haba, that is for singles. ONCE YOU MARRY, YOU DON'T GROW, you manage where you have grown to and focus on growing others(wife and kids)
Before marriage GROWTH increases your income, AFTER MARRIAGE what you call growth divides your income.
Don't fool yourself,old Age will tell you that marriage is important,you can not just happy only, you need someone to create it for you such as your wife children grandchildren
Romance › Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by Odebayo4010(op): 7:26pm On Mar 21, 2024
blackpanthar:
Please can anyone answer(I will appreciate details)
WHAT ARE THE MAJOR BENEFITS OF MARRIAGE TO A MAN?

because HEALTH WISE, it seems not to benefit
financially in today's nigeria, it is a bad decision
companionship/intimacy/friendship/etc not guaranteed
benefits of men in marriage are,emotional support, companionship, shared responsibilities, the potential for personal growth, and the opportunity to build a family
Romance › Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by Odebayo4010(op): 2:10pm On Mar 21, 2024
If you choose a working woman, you have to accept that she can't handle the house full time.
If you choose a housewife who can take care of you and manage the home completely, you need to accept that she doesn't make money.
If you choose a submissive woman, you must accept that she depends on you.
If you choose to be with a brave woman, you must accept that she is tough and has thoughts of her own.
If you choose a beautiful woman, you have to
accept expenses too.
If you choose to be with a great woman, you must accept that she is tough and firm.

No one is perfect.
A woman has her own ′′ good thing ′′ that defines who she is and makes her unique.
Crime › Re: 2 Killed, Property Burnt As Niger Communities Clash Over Woman by Odebayo4010(m): 4:09pm On Mar 14, 2024
Caspry5:
The woman wer dy cause this wahala now fit nor even fine grin
You don't have sense at all, imagine someone try to kiss Bride on her wedding day,so your dead IQ can only think of (The woman wer dy cause this wahala now fit nor even fine),i think you must be Aboki for Sabo
Romance › Re: I've Washed My Hands From Anything Nigerian Girls. by Odebayo4010(m): 9:21pm On Mar 12, 2024
(But for the guy I'll deal with him)
👆 For this your statement you're nuisance because of a lady you haven't married to,you should be thanking God that she do it around you assuming she did it far distance and you later marry her that means you're dead Man walking
Education › Re: 4 Kwara State University Students Beat Colleague To Death For Filming Them by Odebayo4010(m): 9:02pm On Mar 08, 2024
VeryWickedMan:
I support the beaters.
Why film me without my consent and change the narrative to accuse me falsely?
Hope you saw the consequences now,you too continue beating someone you gona learn in hard way

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