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EmperorIsaac:
Marrying a 21 year old will be mentally demanding, as she is just a little above childhood.

Just get a girl who isn't retarded, and you're good to go

But... Just that a non retarded girl would be hard to find

EmperorIsaac:
Marriage requires a lot. If you have lived with a woman for even just 1 year, you'd not be talking like this. They are but children in adult bodies. Keeping them is a delicate venture that would require serious maturity on your part.

Oboy I go comot that childish mentality from her head

I nor dey accept that kind nonsense from woman. I will let her know that if she acts like a child, I'll treat her exactly like one. When you give them stern warnings like that, they tend to behave themselves because of the fear of consequences

Scamburster:
I have someone like that but she's just 20 years.

So long as she has everything you want in a woman and she's an Adult, oboy go for it

Youger women with working brains are the best

Marynwachukwu21:
Beauty is wrong,Beauty fades.Some women look beautiful when they marry and have kids they will be able to have time for themselves while some women look beautiful once they have kids they'll not be able to have time for themselves

Madam it is only a lazy woman that allows her beauty to fade.

Would the woman be with the kids all the time? Won't the kids grow up?
Using kids is just an excuse for why many women become fat and lose their beauty

Even if beauty fades, we still want it in the youthful woman we want to be with.

Scamburster:
What about 20 years but very matured in many aspects of life especially ability to reason like an adult?

Omo I'd go for it bro. Na wetin i even want

As long as she's not a retard, bro

But she must be below 25 years of age for me

Emeskhalifa:
Bros u see that your number 1 eh, e go dey hard to see girl wey no dey into coded hook up.

These days, they have apps that one can easily and anonymously order for them. They don't have to necessarily go and stand by the roadside to wait for customers where everyone will see them.

Normally ehnnn, many girls are PROSTITUTES but you can tell from the way they dress, their lifestyles, their mentality, the kind of places they go out to at night and the kind of friends they keep.
Those kind of girls are not that hard to figure out. The thing is that most women have this Prostitution mindset that if you want to sleep with them or date them, then you have to give them money. They don't see it as prostitution. I wonder why

Even the most decent girl still would expect a man to give her money before or after he sleeps with her. They call it "spending on your woman". That's just a way of masking the Prostitution encoded in it


Omo it's easy to know a girl who isn't wayward, but finding a girl who doesn't have that Prostitution mindset encoded in her, you go waka tire

Nor be hookup girl o, na just the mindset of Sex for money, money for sex.

Idrisk19:
It depends in the location you're.
I don't think the phone is still in the market, because they had released Spark 20 and 30 since last year.

I'm talking of a used one. I know say new one don comot market since

You know used one price now? And was it a new one you bought?

Juliearth:
Clearly, my comment is not for your type. Those with common sense figured my point of view. So permit me to delete the reply I gave to your previous mention.

Coward come and answer my question in the bolded na

You're just fighting so hard to defend this woman who doesn't want a man to defend himself from abuse if the abuser is a woman.

So if a man asks you if you'll hit back if a man punches you in the mouth, and you say yes you will, and he tries to emotionally blackmail you of being a man beater, what would be your reaction?

Won't you brain tell you that there's a high likelihood that man might be an abuser one day? Someone who doesn't want their victims to fight back

Use your head. If someone knows they can get away with something if they do it to you, if the opportunity arises, they're definitely going to do it.
The girl was simply asking him to see if he's the kind of idiot who'll stand there and let a woman physically assault him, and he'll just smile and walk away.
Simply put, she wants a man who won't hold her accountable if she becomes violent in the future. Julie, use your head abeg! 🤦

dontai:
exactly bro, is like someone asking a lady if he ràpê her, is she going to report to the police, and she said yes. Imagine the man now started labeling her a snitch' for wanting to report sexual mølêstàtîon done by him to her.
And she's trying to convince us that she ain't biased, but she kept victimizing the victim and shielding the intended abuser that she didn't mean no harm.

That's just a typical woman. Always defending rubbish as long as that rubbish is coming from a fellow woman and directed towards a man.

She cannot understand that the girl is trying to see if the guy would allow her have her way with him. The girl is a potentially abusive person for her to ask that question. She wants to see if the day she gets angry and hits him, if he'll allow her or not.

But this woman cannot see that because she either doesn't have common sense, or she's just a straight up liar and defender of abuse.

Bonjovi13:
Yes I will walk straight to HR and file a complaint. His employment will be terminated.
But if I had slapped him back. It would be considered fighting and both parties will have their employment terminated.

The answer to my poser is meant to illustrate the fact that it is important for people to restrain themselves even in the
face of severe provocation especially if it will result in physicality.

Prisons all over the world has inmates in them who reacted justifiably so but unfortunately played into the ploy of the devil and their reactions caused bodily harm or fatality.


My point in life you will always need to consider what you stand to lose whenever you have a need to react to a situation.

It is a man's world we know, but society will always take sides with a woman who had been assaulted by a man. If a woman slaps a man, she may be forgiven and the world would think she was provoked or she was defending her rights but a man may lose his reputation and be called a woman beater.

See what is happening to Diddy. That woman may have done or said crazy things to him in that hotel room. But the world saw Diddy kicking and hiting her and that was it. He is destroyed.

If your woman has no value in your life, if she hits you leave the relationship. But if she does have value, teach her a lesson that she will never forget that doesn't entail hitting her back.

You stand to lose a lot when you hit a woman. Has nothing to do with weakness. Infact it reveals strength and character. My two cents

Lol you will learn one day that when you give people an edge over you, they tend to take it.

If a woman realizes that she can slap you as many times as you want and get away with it, she definitely will. You're NOT in America or the Uk.
You're in Nigeria where the law doesn't worship women that much. It is fair treatment here.

If a woman carries a Heavy block and smashes your head with it, are you still gonna turn your back to her and walk away, or are you gonna defend your life by throwing a punch? Who will arrest you in Nigeria if you defend yourself in a fight? I ask you again, if you life is in danger from a woman, would you fight back?

Bonjovi13:
LMAO. Your response says alot about the person that you are. That's okay too. Do you!!!

If a man in your workplace punches you in the eye, would you walk away?

DBestDoc:
There is a difference between being bullied and being abused physically.

Every parent owes their child that specific lifesaving skill of self defence. They must learn to be strong and stand up for themselves when no one is there to stand up for them.

Take note!
Retaliation is one thing that scare bullies far away cos they feed on fear and weakness.

That person you're quoting isn't living on planet earth.

People like that raise weak children who can't stand up for themselves. Wicked people would prey so much on those innocent kids who were unfortunate to have been born and raised by foolish parents.

Bonjovi13:
Answer this question honestly. Say you are working at a job you love and you are very well paid. If you have a serious misunderstanding with a colleague( say female, although any sex can do), and that colleague loses her cool and hands you a very dirty and public slap. Would you retailate? I am waiting?

Anybody who doesn't retaliate, is only an idiot. You know why?

If that person sees that they can get away with being violent with you, why won't they do it again another time? But if you put your foot in the ground and give it to them back instantly, they'll think twice before raising their filthy hands at you again.

It's just simple common sense.

Juliearth:
There's a 90 percent probability that she would not. The 10 percent pending is dependent on her temperament

Because you live inside her head? You're just fighting so hard to defend this woman who doesn't want a man to defend himself from abuse if the abuser is a woman.

So if a man asks you if you'll hit back if a man punches you in the mouth, and you say yes you will, and he tries to emotionally blackmail you of being a man beater, what would be your reaction?

Won't you brain tell you that there's a high likelihood that man might be an abuser one day? Someone who doesn't want their victims to fight back

Use your head. If someone knows they can get away with something if they do it to you, if the opportunity arises, they're definitely going to do it.
The girl was simply asking him to see if he's the kind of idiot who'll stand there and let a woman physically assault him, and he'll just smile and walk away.
Simply put, she wants a man who won't hold her accountable if she becomes violent in the future. Julie, use your head abeg! 🤦

Juliearth:
There's a 90 percent probability that she would not. The 10 percent pending is dependent on her temperament

Because you live inside her head? You're just fighting so hard to defend this woman who doesn't want a man to defend himself from abuse if the abuser is a woman.

So if a man asks you if you'll hit back if a man punches you in the mouth, and you say yes you will, and he tries to emotionally blackmail you of being a man beater, what would be your reaction?

Won't you brain tell you that there's a high likelihood that man might be an abuser one day? Someone who doesn't want their victims to fight back

Mandate1:
I agree with you to a very large extent, except for the latter part you teach your kids to retaliate.

Retaliation doesn't make one strong, it only shows our unpredictable temperament. I will always teach my child to avoid trouble, it does no one any good.

There's always an authority to report to when you're bullied. Most times the consequences of retaliation might consume ones life. Avoiding trouble, especially throuvh physical combat is the easiest route to a peaceful life.

Okoro so when the trouble find your children, wetin dem go do?
Make dem stand dey collect beating? Abi na as dem dey collect beating, dem go report give authorities?

You'll only end up raising weaklings who can't stand up for themselves. When bullies see your weak children, they'll prey on them and make their lives hell. If you like nor use your head, you think say real life na film

dontai:
no matter what.........? Dey play, until she held your bikolo for ten minutes and comot it for you. Your eyes go clear. Don't you know saying no matter what is like given her blank check, what she will write the amount your generations won't be able to pay.

Some men just too mumu. See as those mumu for up dey pride theirselves say they'll never hit a woman NO MATTER WHAT

So if woman carry knife stab them for shoulder, or Use big stone burst their head, dem nor go still Blow am for mouth because she be woman?

Foolish men.

Juliearth:
The lady didn't tow this path to let her stance known. That can easily be expressed. She manipulated op into knowing his stance on physical assault.

Physical assault as in when he's the victim of assault and the attacker is a woman?

Or when he defends himself by hitting back?

The victim is now the Villain just because he has a penis

Remijuice:
same with me bro,,, i'm looking for a way to use MTN with it.

I regret buying that thing o. the battery is good, but i get solar na...

Why do you regret buying it? And for the battery, i fit dey use power bank abi?

hatozeck:
That 10k can get you about 20 to 30gb a month if I'm correct. If it works for you then get it. I use mtn but I rarely worry about battery because I stay in band A area

Is your Mtn fast and is it the pocket mifi?

odaniel1:
Very useless mifi. Looking to crack mine so I can use MTN. Only upside is battery life!

So you mean the Mtn mifi is better? If so, how?

I'm looking into getting the Airtel 4g pocket mifi. Is it Good?
I heard it has a better battery life than the one Mtn has, but what about the speed?
Airtel and mtn are have both good network speeds in my area.
Would 10k monthly subscription last me? I'm not a heavy user. Just two phones would be connected to it.

EmperorIsaac:
Marrying a 21 year old will be mentally demanding, as she is just a little above childhood.

That's if she's a retard. An average 21 year old guy is already mature in the brain, i don't know why a girl would be any different.

Regardless though, i can still go for a 24 year old instead if I can't find a mature 21 year old.

ruthieo:
Ok thank you

The keywords here are "deserve" and "because you're a woman". The entitlement, because you're a woman, for money you didn't work for, is the problem.

Next time when men are talking about this entitlement and billing issue, don't put mouth because you can never understand where they're coming from. Random people don't just bill you for money, thinking they deserve it because of the genitals they have under their legs.

ruthieo:
For your information
I am not a random girl so I don't even know what you are saying
I have my money ok?
Am not those cheap slots around

Thank you

Madam i don't think you understand what "random" means.
Everybody is a random person to other people. I am a random guy to you, and you're a random girl to me. We don't know each other. We are only talking on a social media platform.

Now if you ask me or any other guy online or even offline for money, whether you know them or not, thinking you deserve it because you have a vagina, then you'll fall into the category of the girls the men on this thread are complaining about.


The keywords here are "deserve" and "because you're a woman". The entitlement, because you're a woman, for money you didn't work for, is the problem.

Chief2410:
serious madness.the last gal I ended things with,I bluntly asked her what extra value she is bringing to me that would make her demand extra. I told her if she wanted more from me,she should be willing to do more for me and that was the end. I no get time to pamper anybody when no dey pamper me.

My main issue na girl wey nor even dey date you, go still dey feel entitled to your money

Omo na wah o

Chief2410:
As in them don spoil things finish for most Nigerian men struggling to make ends meet. My advice for men is stay away from these women for a while and see their brains reset with time.

Yahoo boys and igbo men. Very foolish set of Nigerian men 🤦

Chief2410:
better to be stingy than to be used. You that is not stingy,how many random men have you gifted money?

If she answer this question, make the world end today
They want to reap from where they didn't sow. Bro, imagine another adult human being like yourself who went to school, being entitled to YOUR money. Is that not madness?

ruthieo:
Men are stingy joor😂
Random woman hmmmmm
God abeg
Dey go dey alright

Are women generous?

The way you're responding, i can tell you can't understand how annoying it is for a random woman to be feeling entitled to the money you sweated for, for no other reason na she having a vagina.
When you have sons, and girls start asking them for money left and right, that's when you'll understand.

Idrisk19:
It's the second hand, I bought then at the rate of 95k

When be that abeg? I dey reason to buy am soon
I wan know the current price