Chioma4eva:
It's the sex that is doing you. E go still tire you. Bia OP calm down. It's lust.

You'll be surprised the stupid things a Man can do because of sex

advanceDNA:


U have only dated a lady for 4 months..and u want to start paying school fees......
una no learn anything on nairaland??

Oboy I nor just know why men mumu like this
Maybe na their mothers dey raise them like that to dey live on Disney fairytale.
He even talk say she love am

faithfull18:
OP, rest you won't die if you don't have sex for 3months.

You can't tell a man what to do with his sex life most especially when you are not a man yourself

HarlequinLekex:
You just Posted in the wrong section move this to family section to get good suggestions,these Nlders in this section are very toxic.
Mynd44.
Lalasticlala.
Dominique.

help a brother.

So you prefer Sweet lies to bitter truths?
Lol,women

Lucrativress:

I think I have titties so what am I?

Hard to imagine a woman giving this kind of advice

Lucrativress:
Then @OP if you normally change your DP before, don't change it again
Leave just one of your cool pictures on it and leave it alone,if you normally post on your status, don't post,stop or mute her from viewing and post whatever you like.

What you want to achieve by doing this is to be a mystery.

Don't view her status,view like once in a month and open only the first one
The day you'll text her,open one of her status,only one o
Then go on with your monosyllables
Mess up her head
If it doesn't work, come back and meet me
If she talks about herself, don't give caring comments,be going offline and coming back.
When she's done write
"You'll be fine ,sorry"

Na man or woman you be?

Ayinke93:
This is a very solid thread and the op couldn't have written it better. To add, I'll recommend searching for internships once you are a bit proficient with html, CSS and JavaScript. Internships will open your eyes to what you'll see in a real work environment, something you really can't get straight out of an Udemy course. I left my full time job to intern around July this year as a python dev, wrote my first line of html around August, and my knowledge of React now is a way above beginner level at this stage and I'm considering starting to apply to real dev jobs by January. That's barely 5 months into my web development journey. That's the level of speed and growth internships will afford you. I know it's not easy to get internships, but just keep searching.
Also, practice everyday. code everyday like a mad person. Trust me it'll pay off. And side note, if you are learning react, checkout net ninja on Udemy. I think that's easily the best react course on the internet and trust me, I've tried quite a good number.
Good luck everyone.

Hello have you gotten a job now? And how is your programming so far?

What do you think of it? 8Gb Ram too but Hdd storage

kingar:
I bought my laptop few months back n wanted fk do graphic design but now I’m porting to web development

Where are you now in your journey?

richeeyo:
Since yesterday
You no suppose don buy

I bought and was trying to borrow from the balance that was deducted,i normally do it

Are you using Airtel? Please try and check if you're experiencing the same thing

Hey guys I'm i the only one seeing this message from Airtel whenever i try borrowing Airtime? It's since yesterday morning.

majesticguy:


I know your laptop has a fan that blows out the heat, but trust me, if you'd be gaming on the system it wouldn't be enough.

Just get an external fan to compliment your internal fan, else you want to replace your processor every 3 months. No let wetin do me do you ooo. External fan shouldn't be more than 2k, but a fairly used core i7 processor ( because it's quite impossible getting a new one, else you're buying abroad) is at least 7k, so do the maths.

New original battery 16k. It should last for at least 4 hours plus. But my reasons for not getting a new one is because I don't trust my vendor to give me what I want, and secondly, we do have steady light here, at least 20 hours a day.

By external fan you mean just normal rechargeable fan right? Like not specifically for laptops abi

20 hrs a day omo you dey enjoy o. So changing my processor to a better one is possible?

majesticguy:


Lolz.. You are lucky your battery lasts for at least 3 hours. Mine doesn't go past 1hour 30mins. I think yours came with the original battery, just that it's has worn off over the years. Mine was probably a replacement battery.

And yeah, 8gb ram gives a smooth performance even when gaming on the system. Although I stopped gaming on the system a long time ago, because I had better use of it asides gaming. But if must play games on the system, get an external fan. It's very important, else you want to be changing processor every 3 months.

My laptop has a fan that blows out enough it though. Bro just buy a new battery abeg
How long will a new battery last though?

Edipet:
does it Worth 130k...and would it be okay for web development using visual studio code?

Does it have a dedicated graphics card?
4GB ram will not be enough,ask them to increase it to 8

majesticguy:

My bad, sorry for the misinterpretation. How's your laptop, hope it's serving you well so far.

My battery doesn't go past 3 hours on full usage,it sucks!
But at least the Ram gives me a smooth experience.

majesticguy:


Oga that's an old laptop na. No offense, yours is actually the old hag here, and you were even cheated. That laptop shouldn't be more than 110k. Yours is an elitebook 8570p, which was probably upgraded before it was sold to you. I mean it originally comes with a core i5 3rd generation and 4gb ram, but can be further upgraded to a core i7 2nd generation & 16gb ram.

The 1gb dedicated graphics card which you speak highly of is just the old 7000 series, a 7570m which AMD stopped software support way back 2012- 2015. I can unequivocally state that it can't match the Vega series integrated graphics. You see those new integrated Vega graphics for AMD, irrespective of the fact that they are not dedicated, they'd give your elitebook a run for it's money performance wise.

Oga check me and the guy's interaction,i was laughing at the fact that he called mine an old hag,and i actually agreed with him.
The ones i was looking for with 2gb dedicated Graphics and 5th generation up were above 200 so I had no other choice but to settle for the Old hag.

BlaqFaze:
A laptop with a graphics card should cost at least 250k...unless you're going for an old hag

Old hag
I bought mine at 140k
Hp elitebook with 8gb of Ram,Intel i7 2nd gen processor and 1gb dedicated Amd graphics

BlaqFaze:
Ryzen 3 3rd gen is comparable to intel i3 10th gen... it's even a steal

Does the laptop have a graphics card?

UyaiIncomparabl:
Forgive her. To err is human, to forgive is divine. After all, we women have been forgiving men since the days of Noah. So, nothing do you.

If God can forgive us 70×7 times a day, I believe you can do that and more. Forgive, forget and accept her. Watch yourself too. Perhaps, you caused it. Stay blessed, son.

This is why taking Relationship Advice from a woman is a terrible idea, y'all don't think with your brains.

Deicide:
I have not noticed any performance drop. I bet maybe if I was using Windows I'll notice it being that it's just 4GB of Ram. Am planning to upgrade soon sha.

If that Laptop has no dedicated GPU,then you have been cheated of your money.
How can one buy a 4Gb Ram Laptop with 150k?

ImoleNaija:


It's a no-sex relationship.

Till_wedding_night.

Then you're not her boyfriend bruh. Can't you see she's just keeping you Aside hoping she settles for you? She obviously has a guy somewhere she gives sex freely to

EmahBoss:


So the guy should throw her away because she chatted with a guy and flirted? If you know how hard marriage is and how difficult it is to just throw year's of been together away, you won't just ask him to chase her out

You know this is how paternity fraud starts right? you want him to take the risk and forgive a Cheating wife(yes, flirting with the opposite sex while in a relationship is Cheating. Na from clap dance dey start),then she'll get pregnant for the person and pin the baby on Her husband,and he will accept and train that child thinking it's his. You see how wicked and heartless you are now? I hope your sons get to Father other men's children

Ardar:
If you investigate very well you'll find out that the woman has passed through a lot.

This is what happens when Nigerian men carry their misogyny abroad.
You'll find cases where a man will sit back home and leave everything for his wife to shoulder because he "brought her abroad" so he expects the woman to slave away by providing and also doing the domestic chores until she reaches her breaking point and throws him away like the trash he is.

Thousands of Nigerian woman have been sent packing from their homes for less and you'll never hear much noise but when a Nigerian man gets a taste of the treatment women go through, they foam in the mouth out of fear.


We will continue seeing cases like this and will only see the part where the woman acted out of frustration and anger and conclude that the husband is the victim without understanding what actually transpired.

All these nonsense based on a Foolish Assumption

EmahBoss:
Boss you F up big time sending those messages to her pastor. Maybe with her parents but not to. her pastor who will use her to preach every semorn and embarrass your family. Your wife might not have slept with the guy, nevertheless, she is still a cheat and will cheat once.in physical contact with the guy.


You claim to render all financial needs in the home, did you also render all emotional needs of her? Think deep and mend your home. Chasing her away might be the easy thing to do, but forgiveness is gracious for love covers multitude of sin. Forgive that woman and she will worship you

So you truly believe she will worship him if he takes her back for cheating?
So you are telling me you'll respect your husband for taking you back if you cheated on him. Lol women and lies

MrBrownJay1:


bro, there is something called COMMUNICATION, and if a wife doesnt want to get close to her husband during 3 months, then she should have a VALID REASON for it. the husband should simply ask her for an explanation, and if she aint got one then get rid of her.

Why didn't the wife give her reason for not wanting to have sex with the husband? Why must the burden of communication always fall on men?
The only reason a woman would starve her husband of sex CONSISTENTLY is Either she isn't sexually attracted to him and just married him for his money,or she wants to weaponise The sex and make the man answer to her demands.
If she Denies you ONCE and tells you she's on her period or something,and then gives you the next time you asks when she's not on her period,then that is A valid Reason
Key word is CONSISTENTLY.

Carcholce:
This is why it’s good to marry two wives. Both wives cannot be acting like witch at the same time. They will always be at competition to kill you with sex.

I saw your comment on that guy's thread. The guy who was complaining that his lazy wife was denying him sex. I went through the thread and saw women Giving him advice and i shook my head.
He will continue being the good man that he is,and the wife will continue to starve him of sex.

MrBrownJay1:
here is some simple clued why a woman could refuse to have sex with a man she loves clue:
- she is on her period
- she is not feeling well
- she isnt in the mood
- she has some worries/stress etc in her life at that moment
- you aint approaching her right (sexually)
- you stink/smell etc

...but most importantly, why would a man force his loving wife to have sex is she isnt in the mood?!?!? shouldnt you 1st figure out whats going by communicating with your partner?!

When she constantly refuses your advances for months,you will tell me if it's because she's not in the mood or has been in her period for 3 months. My guy, don't listen to the lies women tell,they give those excuses to their husbands because their husbands are "Good men" who will Rather Starve of sex for months than send the wife back to her parents.
And I didn't say men should force sex,if she refused you multiple times in weeks,then you disgust her. Women don't have sex with men who aren't sexually attractive to them(unless he's paying of course)

Helpout12345:
Not in all cases though. In some cases, that might be true. In others, it might not be true.

Another reason can be that the man is not doing a good job on her. Trust me women love good sex. If oga is a 2 minutes man that don't know where to touch at the right time and how to do the work. After sometimes, the wife will not see any enjoyment in the sex with him.

This is another excuse,if a woman likes you, she'll always want to have sex with you. If you aren't good in the game, she'll teach you.
Women break rules for men they like,and Make rules for men they don't like.
Don't let the lies women say get in your head bro

2Radii:
Ahaa

Sometimes no be how the issue be dem dey take talk am out, u said the absolute truth but at least na....try and lace it with some.....

You want me to lie to him and tell him what he wants to hear?

Blessedmercy8:
Not true. A woman can love you and not be in the mood. The problem with you men is that you are so highly insensitive and all you care about is you yourself and you especially when it comes to sex. It's like a woman should not have a say over her own body just to please you.

If a woman is not in the mood and you keep complaining and forcing yourself on her, she'll begin to dislike you. Me I will just hate you. Let me not even mince words here.

Men should learn to exert their energy in more productive things than always whining about sex all the time.

Love has nothing to do with mood. You can love and not be in the mood. Besides, the woman's body is flesh, not iron that you'll be pounding all the time and she won't get tired. Abeg, make una carry that una iron bender body park well. Biko!

Everytime sex sex.

You didn't see where i mentioned CONSISTENT on my post?
If a woman consistently tells you that she isn't in the mood every time you ask,doesn't common sense tell you that the woman isn't sexually attracted to you?
But I expected a reply like this though, women and flimsy excuses
So you'll deny your husband of sex for months because you're not in the mood? How can you not be in the mood even once a month?

And Don't try to shame men for Wanting to have sex with the woman THEY LEGALLY MARRIED AND PROVIDE FOR.
You're being deceptive here like women don't like sex just as much as men. When there are hoes on the streets with hundreds of body counts. When a woman gets married to a man she doesn't like,it means she settled for him,and him she settled for him, he'll disgust her Sexually. So she denies the man sex every damn time and comes up with flimsy excuses like not in the mood,tired,period etc
Bull****! Nothing can excuse denying your husband sex CONSISTENTLY For months.

Before you argue, keyword is CONSISTENTLY.