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ukaface:
So women can only offer things to street boys?
Wetin your mama offer your papa?

Is that supposed to be the answer to my question?

I said what can you offer the man that isn't a street boy? Answer it so it won't look like you're deflecting

ukaface:
Mtcheeeww

So make we go Dey marry street boys

When you born your daughters tell them to marry street boys, or tell your sisters to marry street boys. Oh….. sorry they ain’t billionaires

My bad my bad

Wetin you wan offer the man wey nor be street boy?

Judd007:
Be a gentleman, give her and move on.

Make ogun visit you this night

Yxxx:
Una no dey Taya?

If you like, nor learn.
Other men go learn from your story tomorrow

dkidd:
Before I dey pray to God say na Igbo girl I must marry and they started coming my way oo till I jam wetin I nor know... now na me dey run 440 once I hear say babe na igbo no matter how I done dey involved

When i small, i dey always say i go marry Igbo girl
But the igbo girls i dey see online now ehnnn, many of them get bomb for head

dkidd:
Come still emphasize the Imo state join. Hahaha maybe na Imo man 😂

Igbo girls fine for face and body, but their character and morals na wetin i nor dey sure of

DoctorShomo:
I used my brain but it's obvious you're using your anus to think.

Go and check his previous comments, he has a habit of making sexist comments

You said you're using your brain o, and you're mistaking Misogyny (hatred of women) for sexism
Uncle, Reality is sexist. Both men and women are sexist. Even God/nature who gave men superior strength over women is sexist too.
It is sexism that allows women to hit men and not get hit back because the man has to be a gentleman.
It is also sexism that allow for women to not be FORCED to military conscription in the case of War. Remember Ukrainian men from 18-60 years of age weren't allowed to leave the country during the early days of the russia/ukraine war. Is that misogyny?
Again, use your brain!

adaperry25:
I've not been lucky in relationships. Now I'm trying to get married and it seems all the ladies I meet have a red flag.

I created a thread on my last relationship
https://www.nairaland.com/8324668/wedding-plans-suspended-advice

My uncle referred one to me and she's subtly billing already. Saying her phone hangs and she doesn't take calls only Whatsapp. I'll call and she won't pick up and she'll say hello on Whatsapp.

I have prayed and fasted.

I just need a 25-28 yo igbo lady preferably imo state that's very reasonable

Am I the problem or is it a general thing for Nigerian women?

Oga must the girl be igbo

Gerrard59:
That is the more reason to know that the wife is behind the urge to japa, not OP. Someone who is supposed to enter first and see how things be go carry woman and children begin dey waka for air.

The wife won't allow him leave her behind

DoctorShomo:
Why are you such a misogynist? Don't you have sisters?

Do you even know what the word means? Where in his post did he imply that he HATES women? Use your brain nigga

I'll be very uncomfortable. This kind thing na for my bedroom, nor be for public place

So make she come do home service

All these their manipulative tactics are always too obvious that i believe a man has to be incredibly stupid to fall for them

Reverseng:
And virgin men should look for virgin women

And only Tall women should look for tall men in return
Only rich women should look for rich men in return

RGRNetwork:
Those saying your wife will leave you are foolish and single people. If your marriage is built on a solid foundation, nothing will crash it.

The people whom their marriage crashed abroad, thought their marriage was built on a solid foundation. The men made the mistake of carrying their wives to a country in the Western world, and payed heavily for it. It doesn't happen everytime of course, but man must take precaution and think things through.

Use your head!

A bad idea to carry an entire family to start from square one in another man's land, especially when said family is making at least 1.2m monthly here in Nigeria.

And another thing to note is that the wife might probably grow wings when she begins getting a lot of options and exposure in that abroad. We've heard cases where the wife kicks the husband out of his own home that he payed for with his money.

Kaycee7:
Yeah, I've seen some of his videos.

I just knew you watch him because i read "the message" in his voice

CoolUsername:
I don't believe that guy even watches most of the movies he reviews

I just knew he watches him because i read "the message" in his voice

I believe he actually watches the movies. Do you watch the videos he does with other reviewers? Critical drinker extra shots

Kaycee7:
Fight them, brother. They want to shove "The Message" down your throat 😌

Bro do you by any chance watch "The critical drinker" on YouTube?

Because of your "The message" comment

Dpsychologist:
Feminists and women who are guilty of the post have started loitering the thread with mockery and off topic comments.

I nor know why dem still dey here bro

1Sharon:
You didn't protect shit, you don't have the capacity too. You can't even protect yourself.

I can protect myself far better than you can protect yourself though

Nazgul:
Hookup isn't even the solution cos if you're spending 20k on hookup per night for 15 nights in a month, that's going to be about 300k per month. What is his net income that he would be willing to cough out such amount on sex?

His solution is to get a working class girlfriend. Or better still stay single and build his life.

I don't think he'd want to be having sex 15 nights a month with Prostitutes. At least twice a week is Okay

Adebayo238:
Didn’t even notice say na woman until you called my attention to it.

I should’ve noticed that when she started with “you’re a good man”, as in, a good simp.

Thanks abegi

Na so dem just be, bro
It was in this same nairaland i learned never to take relationship advice from women as a man. Because i was comparing the advice men gave and the one women gave. The women's advice wey mostly always in support of the woman. If you give valid concrete reasons why you suspect your wife is cheating on you, they'll tell you to ignore it, trust her, treat her better because it was probably your fault if she's cheating or ask her nicely about certain things

If you tell them your wife has been denying you sex for months now, they'll tell you to communicate with her ( as if you haven't been doing it when it's literally for MONTHS now ). They'll also tell you to start doing house chores and doing everything possible to please and make her happy. Because it's ALWAYS your fault

Oboy women dey dangerous o

pocohantas:
What part of my vomment did you deduce this juvenile assumption from? Bebeto!

You were complaining weren't you?

If you weren't complaining and your original comment was implying that women aren't depending on men in 2025, well oh boy do i have some news for you

Just because women are making money now, doesn't mean they'll stop expecting or demanding money from men. I mean, rich business class women still expect their man to foot the bills and be a provider.

You know the very popular phrase women use right?

My money my money, your money is our money

DrManHattan1:
The best advice i've read so far... Op just try this!!

I really dey interested in their reply

Nazgul:
That is not even the problem.

The problem is that the guy going into this agreement with her is obviously not earning up to a million naira.

So rather than save that 200k and look for a reasonable working class girl to date, he'd rather throw it on a liability.

I'll call it low self esteem. That's what he's suffering from.

Instead of the idiot to just patronize regular hookup girls and pay 15-20k per night

Adebayo238:
I noticed the first one, i told her asap, she said make she go on am before i begin think another thing. Few hours she later off am, i just left her

Last time, she off am, i para for am she on am back and left it, promised never to off am again.

That same morning, a call came in, i heard the tune for a sec and it stopped, i commot from toilet go check the phone, i saw no recent call log.

I asked her, she said she deleted because of she knew i would question her. I was like, since you said you knew i heard the tune, why delete it?

She said its a business call, but other business calls were on her phone, i pressured her until she later opened up and said na person wey dey disturb, she had to call him back and tell him say she get man.

What brought about this post, is the fact that she lied at first that the reason she was offing it was cause of her madam calls, but throughout since she come my house last, her phone has always been and we talk till 2 am.

And i kept asking her, who and who dey call you or fit call you wey dey make you want to off phone, she never gree dey straight with the answer.

Note, we were very close friends for over 4 years, I thought maybe if i go into a relationship with her, e go dey open based on say na old friend turn boyfriend, but nah! Instead she begin hide for me join

My doubts is that, if she no fit stop now on lies, secrets as a pregnant woman wey no want make man leave am commot, guarantee no dey she go stop for future

She gets very uncomfortable when i keep repeating questions related to transparency. Options plenty, i even had to cut from my girlfriend after confirming the pregnancy from this girl.

My thoughts now na say, is it worth it?

Bro the person you're responding to is a woman. She doesn't really give a Bleep. All she wants is for you to take the issue lightly and be nice with the girl, but us guys already know she's mostly definitely cheating or about to.
You shouldn't take relationship advice from women because they'll always tell you to be nice about stuff and give the woman the benefit of the doubt.
All these are to remove your mind off the suspicions and hopefully, eventually let things slide.
Notice how the woman you responded to didn't even mention anything relating to cheating on her post? She knows the truth but she's a woman, so she of course doesn't want to spoil that girl's relationship with you

Adebayo238:
Dumbo, she’s pregnant for me. Hence im hesitating with my decisions

Nigga make sure you do a DNA test!

If she demands/expects money before or after sex with you, then she's effectively a PROSTITUTE
Like that's literally what it means to be a prostitute. If she's not comfortable with having sex with you without expecting payment, then she doesn't like you and you're just a client who thinks he's in a relationship

Show your sister or Female cousin those screenshots make you see wetin dem go talk

Na dating work you dey do with the white woman?

pocohantas:
In 2025?
Toor! 😂😂😂😂

So because it's 2025, men shouldn't tell other men how women think? Make it make sense.

1Sharon:
You mean to say african women in 1642 were saying they don't need men?

African men just lost to the white men. But they definitely protected their women from other African men
The fact that African men lost to white people, doesn't change the fact that African men were protectors overall, you get?