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ifyalways: ^madam, long time no anya na amu?Uju amugo!nwanyi.

@OP, your thread title is quite different from the body. Anyways, I won't blame the woman so much for her act ie not informing everyone about the pregnancy. One thing I've come to accept about life is this; when it comes to people taking their own destinies in their hands, ask no questions, don't probe for reasons or they wear the shoe and know where it "sweets or hurts" more.

If I'm in her shoes, desperate to have a child and all that, I might do worse. You never can tell till it hits you.

Basics007: You wan yab am abi? Maybe a typo error.
@OP. That's classical love at first sight. Never seen one before just been readin about it in mills and boons. Thanks for giving me an eye witness account.

Stargirl36: Dis everin o, a man came to my compand to visit his sister, he nw see me, an says he wnt to marry me, nt even frdship, dat if i agree he will com an see my people dis endin, dat he dnt need sex 4rm me till after marriage, pls help me out is it possible, som 1 i dnt even no b4, am nt even dateting him 4 once being so serious like dis, God abeg o.

mooretes: Please help as Ive been raking my brain for the last 12 hours or more and seem to be loosing sleep over this issue as well. I love helping and advicing people, up to the point that im more or less like an agony aunt, however this seems beyond me. Someone told me this story yesterday and because I know the family, it kind of makes it hard for me to give my own 1cent. So here we go, hoping people would come up with different 'reasons', 'ideas' and probably profer a 'solution' to this issue.

So here we go,
Someone was telling me a story recently about a friend who we'l refer to as H, who has just put to bed a baby... praise God after having gone tru a series of miscarriage and lose of 2 babies. The problem is not as much of losing these babies, but we believe that she always has gestational diabetes and this is a problem if not detected or treated early, anyways, case was when she lost her first child, every one in her family was praying and hoping whenever she gets pregnant n delivers the baby would survive.
Now this is the thing
she got pregnant quite alright, however did not tell one member of the family.... then she had baby, baby dies.... member of family heard the story rallied around her... great... story was she was advised not to tell anyone abt the pregnancy,.... family members, though hurt kept praying that she wld put to bed one that wld eventually stay by his grace.

Fastforward this year.... all family members heard was she had a baby.... did the same thing again, never told family member she was pregnant.
So tell me if you were the one, how would you feel?
is it right to possibly keep smthing of such from members of your family who are praying for you to succeed in life?
ive recently also just heard about how a pastor was telling a friend that her inlaws were planning on chasing her out of her husbands her because she hadnt had a child yet, however, the inlaws love the girl to death and wouldnt hurt her. Luckily the girl told her in laws n they assured her they werent throwing her out.

if you ever find yourself in this situation, would you keep mute or tell?
r we running our lives for one pastor or?
are we living for one alfa?
do we have our own minds? or do we believe or families are really diabolical and dont want the best for us?

GboyegaD: You actually don't need to if you feel there is another contestant better than he is. But your idea of concluding he is a blood thirsty politician is the only thing that baffles me.

Inemeabasimi: Ok, am ready to tell my parent bt she say she will brought d child 2 d house 2 b wit us,when we got marry. Should i agree?

dasparrow: You make me home sick. I saw the nice greenary, the kids playing and skating with their helmets on. Chai, I miss home. Does one not have to be an indigine to purchase land in Enugu?

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Those hailing GEJ in this journey of self-destruct should remember that equity and justice can only sustain the nation.
Sadly, he is failing and failing fast in all ramifications.