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THE MOTIVE BEHIND BUHARI's EMERGENCY ECONOMIC POWER

California is the 6th largest economy in the world. It's economy is larger than that of France or Brazil. The little problem is that California is not a country. It is a State in the United States of America. It has little offshore oil, yet its economy is larger than States in the US that are famous for their oil reserves, like Texas. California generates much of its revenue from non-oil products. It found a way to absorb and domesticate much of the intellectual output from its premier university, Stanford University, into saleable products within its economy.

As a matter of fact, much of California's economy is built around Stanford University. So with this, Silicon valley developed. I'm sure you've heard of Silicon Valley at least once in your life. Now with Silicon Valley came companies like Apple, eBay, Cisco, Lockheed, Hewlett Packard (HP), Google, Netflix, Facebook, Oracle, Tesla...and the list goes on and on ad infinitum.These are multibillion-dollar companies. The yearly budget of any one of these companies might be larger than the entire yearly budget of, say for example, Akwa Ibom State. I'm taking about companies that are richer than countries. They are all in California. But that is just in the technology industry where the technologies and inventions spewing out of Stanford are caught midair and converted to money spinning enterprises.

But there is also the entertainment industry in California. Yes, Hollywood is in California. The US movies industry contributes about $504Billion to USA's GDP. Hollywood, as you know, contributes over 70% of that figure. Most iconic movie studios are in Hollywood. As a matter of fact, the "Big Eight" consisting of 20th Century Fox, Columbia Pictures, MGM (Metro-Goldwyn-Mayer), Paramount Pictures, RKO Radio Pictures, United Artists, Universal Studios and Warner Bros are, or were, all in Hollywood. These again, are multi-billion dollar companies generating revenue for California.

Despite the above, California also thrives on agriculture. As at 2014, California had nothing less than 77,000 farms and ranches raking in about $55Billion in revenue yearly. It produces over 400 agricultural commodities, a large chunk of which it exports. It is the leader in producing exotic fruits in America. Its wine industry is unique. California wine is drunk with relish the world over. I used to drink some too.

This is just one State in America. You see, California actually had a choice of sitting back and striving to get a piece of the revenue generated from Texas' oil. It could have depended solely on Federal allocation to survive so that every month end, it will send its Commissioner of Finance to Washington DC to receive monthly allocation so that it can barely pay salaries of its workers and nothing more. Then San Francisco would resemble Ajegunle in Lagos. And there certainly would not be those beautiful sights and sounds that make California what it is today. But No, not California. Not America. California gives to the center and, because of its wealth, despises the idea of depending on it for survival. The Federal Government actually needs California to survive, not the other way round.

You see, America is structured in such a way that States must look inwards to exploit their wealth for the good of its citizens. There is no free lunch for the lazy States. There certainly is no commonwealth. But there is your wealth, if you can create it. Under American Federalism, you are the captain of your ship. But again, you are also the waves upon which the ship will sail. That is America. The local government, the government closest to the grassroot, is deliberately made the strongest level of government. Items like Variances (adaptation of state law to local conditions,) Public works (yes, public works!!), Contracts for public works, Licensing of public accommodations, Assessable improvements, Basic public services are all left for local county governments to handle. The State handles weightier matters like Property law, Education,Comme
rce laws of ownership and exchange, Banking and credit laws, Labour law and professional licensure, Insurance laws, and Electoral laws, including parties and Civil service laws. Items that the Federal Government, the center, handles affecting the States, are actually very negligible.

Nigeria on the contrary will never do well unless we restructure. We pretend to have a Federal system but we are actually operating a unique form of unitary government, and it is weighing the polity down. Can you imagine a country where the school curriculum is regulated by a national central body and states have no powers to vary or amend their curriculum? So, if the rest of the developed world is light years ahead in what they teach their children from primary schools, and our Minister of Education has absolutely no clue, the States must be burdened with antiquated school curriculum until such a time (if we are lucky, before rapture perhaps!!) that we have an Education Minister who would realise how far behind we are and bring the curriculum up to date. Just take a look at the science curriculum for grade students in advanced countries and you would cry for Nigeria. I recently read of a high school in Japan which has amended its curriculum to include robotics and drones technology. IN HIGH SCHOOL!! But our Professors here don't have a hang on Robotics even! Students are still taught the very prehistoric rudiments of physics and chemistry in our schools. And this is even in the few schools that teachers and students still meet in the classrooms! For the few public schools that are lucky to have labs, all you see are miserable nameless creatures trapped in formalin, to which nobody ever pays attention. These creatures suffer a double jeopardy having suffered the first misfortune of being caught and preserved in formalin in Nigeria, and then thereafter completely ignored, even in death! And because the control of our curriculum is central, there is nothing potentially proactive or progressive-minded States can do about this.

You would think this is not a problem until you understand that Nigerians spend over ONE TRILLION NAIRA every year to study abroad, despite there being over 100 tertiary institutions in Nigeria. Not one is deemed good enough. You see, the reason why you have Cambridge, Harvard, Princeton, Yale, Oxford, etc is not only for academic excellence of the citizens of the countries which have these schools. No. They invest in their institutions so that they can earn revenue from foreign students from countries like Nigeria which has destroyed its educational system. Abroad, schools are so important to society that the economy, business and lifestyle of whole cities and even States completely depend on or revolve around schools.

What would the city of cambridge be without Cambridge University. Or Cambridge, Massachusett without Harvard University. These cities depend on these universities to survive. And imagine that Nigeria had invested in its universities and was earning $1billion dollars a year from foreign students seeking to study here, who would be fighting over oil in the Niger Delta? How many car manufacturing companies would we have in Owerri near FUTO where students are constantly doing and selling their research products to burgeoning engineering and manufacturing companies? Recently, three students in Sweden conducted research and came up with a product that could improve wear and tear on tyres. The product became so successful that Volvo had to partner with these students to patent the product. Now when this product hit world stage, can you imagine how much revenue sweden would earn from these product? Do your research, most of the world-class products we buy today off the shelf, at great cost, were invented by university students. As you are reading this, do not forget that without Harvard University, there would not have been facebook, and this our interface would have been impossible.

But our students In Nigeria are not entirely without inventions. We invented the Pyrates Confraternity, the , the Eiye, the Vikings and what not!! Students resume school with guns and bullets, rather than books and scholastic ideas, as though academic institutions were a war college. Lecturers fly colors as do students. And when the turf war begins, people die in droves. But States can do nothing about this because some of these institutions are controlled by the Federal Government. Even for the ones controlled by States, you still can't do much because the security apparatus is controlled by the Federal Government.

The Federal Government will provide or withdraw security from the State, depending on whether it is happy with the sitting Governor. So every year, all sorts of characters are vomited from Nigerian Universities to take their place in Nigerian society. So you have Judges, Lawyers, Engineers, Doctors and so forth whose first and primary allegiance is to their cult group, before the Country. The multiplier effect of this, is a treatise for another day.
But suffice to say that as long as this problem persist, let's forget about Silicon Valley in Nigeria, because there will never be a Stanford University here to provide an infinite supply of ideas and prodigies to feed the invention value-chain!

Nigeria cannot wake up from its slumber today because it cannot lift its head. The entire weight of its existence is concentrated in its head. From the viewpoint of government, the weight is In Abuja. From the viewpoint of revenue source, the weight is in the Niger-Delta. We need to urgently restructure and evenly distribute this pressure points and weights to diffuse tension in Nigeria.

We need to revisit the exclusive legislative list in the constitution and systematically reduce the responsibilities of the Federal Government vis-a-vis the States. Resources have to be handed back to the States that generated them but place an obligation on each States to contribute an agreed percentage to the common federal purse to service obligations of the Federal Government.

There is no reason Education, Policing, Prisons (only people convicted of federal offenses should go to federal prisons!!), Ports, Inland waterways, natural minerals, even marriage (yes, english form of marriage!!) and so many other items should be the concern of the Federal Government.We will never develop with such weight that weigh us down at the center.

Nigeria can never raise its head in the comity of nations because of the sheer weight of the head.
There is more to say, but scarcely any time. But to emphasis the point i've been laboring to make, shall i say again that there is absolutely no reason or need to fight for oil in the Niger-Delta. There are so many things that can bring more revenue to States in Nigeria than oil. South Africa has no oil, but it has Gold, and is richer than Nigeria. Let us fight for a system that will promote both equality and equity. Let us restructure Nigeria.
A worthy example.

Hahahahahahaaha I can't stop laughing oooh. Bro I've had this exactly experience. Mehn so there are actually guys like this enh. I though it was just this my friend alone.

Omo from make I know your house we ended up staying for a whole semester ooh. No be play. Choi.

Fear this guy's

Well said! Well said.

tsilva:
Where do I start from. Looking at it the ladies have a strong point for not dating broke guys but in the real sense, the few guys who are already made are in their 30's who are looking for ladies that are doing well for themselves.And these guys are about10% that is if it has not dropped because of the economic conditions we are at the moment.Guys this same ladies will come running after you when they feel the need to settle down.But that is not an excuse not to work hard cos it is to your own advantage at the end of the day.

Now just imagine I went through exactly what you went through with my ex.

That's how crazy life is.

Fresia01:
I broke up with my bf...I realized my emotions were being taken for granted...I keep pushing d relationship to make it work..he will tell me its over n then I will beg n we will reconcile.. I was d desperate one here...buh I couldn't take it anymore wen he told me to explore other guys cus he couldn't take me along to where he is going...he is a Yoruba guy and I'm Igbo...I witnessed real torture from dat guy buh I wished him well and moved on... my life revolved around him alone buh right now..guess its time to give other people chance

Funny but so true.

I guess I was a fall back lover to her then. Cause just a week after she said she wanted out of a relationship of about 3years plus I met her ex in her room and she was almost naked.

Still recovering from that though.
Girls sha.

[quote author=DesChyko post=48661952]You know many have turned critics because they believe I am justifying murder, but I find it appalling that people are mentally lazy and just fail to read between the lines. When something is wrong in a logic, it is only normal to sniff it out.

I said exactly what you imply that the truth may never surface because one of the two parties is no more.
Some persons on this forum have said they are aware of the guy's generousity towards the family, a common scenario that results in such murders.But this, just like the mother's account is just hearsay. And it is funny that people base their conclusions on such information.

I once asked a girl if she can be with a guy doesn't love for 5years and guess what she said. She said yes.

Can be with him while waiting for the one I will love to come. Remember that if a girl doesn't love you she truly can't stay with you. A man can reciprocate but it doesn't happen with women.

So if a girl is with you and she doesn't love you it's a big issues but the truth is they always know they don't love you but won't leave for reasons best known to them.

That have will really have to tell the whole world what really happened.

Hmmm Nigerian girls.

Well I would say no one deserves death but the truth is that girl should've been alive to explain her own part of the story cause as it is even the mum knows nothing about the relationship.

Or somehow I feel she skipped some information cause I believe when the man called and shouted at her she must have asked the daughter her intention with the man, how long they've been together and if the man has invested so much on the girl.

Truth is girls are even more heartless then men. The only difference is men go physical when they can't handle it but a girl can kill you without lifting her hands.

My question is do you think that guy didn't think of the outcome of what he's about to do and don't you think he already knows where it will definitely land him? What did that girl do to him to make him decide to end his own life that way.

For a man who can even afford to buy a car for a girls birthday to do this is amazing. I don't trust any girl cause when a girl wants to hurt you she doesn't care about anything.

Listen when you break a man emotionally that's what you get. It's equivalent to going physical. Girls should stop playing with men, truth is if you meet a guy, instantly you know if he's your type or not so why deceive him and waste his time, energy, resources only to tell him his not good for you anymore.

Well. I could be wrong about what happened, maybe the guy is just crazy. Which I don't believe.
RIP

keryj:
Bro, I think all u v said above are ur own opinion, not mine. I can help anyone in need be he male or she female as long as there is good reason to do so.

I can do it is not the same thing as I have done it.

BoosBae:
Sorry I can't, your type will be too slow to learn

My type? Anyway, patience is a virtue they say. So you can still try I promise to increase my learning speed.

BoosBae:
Oga Op we know these things already or are you a learner? #stale

Yes come and teach me.

Maybe I am just wasting my time typing all these cause i know they will never listen.
Now the crazy thing is there are some of this decently dressed girls who are pure prostitutes in disguise.

They dress nice to put up a false appearance but sleep around with different married men in hotels all over the country. They can travel distance just to meet up a man you've never met before. What would you say about that.

Most of these girls would tell you I don't date boys and trust me they mean they actually date older married men.

My conclusion now about Nigerian girls is that for me to even consider dating any not to talk of marrying one, she must be a graduate, working or is doing something to support herself first and must have a clear vision of a future she want.

All these Bleep girls are just a serious time wasting and truth is they get sexy cus all they want is sex period and that's why guys keep treating them like piece of old shittttts.

Maybe I am just wasting my time typing all these cause i know they will never listen.
Now the crazy thing is there are some of this decently dressed girls who are pure prostitutes in disguise.

They dress nice to put up a false appearance but sleep around with different married men in hotels all over the country. They can travel distance just to meet up a man you've never met before. What would you say about that.

Most of these girls would tell you I don't date boys and trust me they mean they actually date older married men.

My conclusion now about Nigerian girls is that for me to even consider dating any not to talk of marrying one, she must be a graduate, working or is doing something to support herself first and must have a clear vision of a future she want.

All these Bleep girls are just a serious time wasting and truth is they get sexy cus all they want is sex period.

Dear ladies,
There is one thing I want you to understand about us MEN.
When you post half- naked pictures of yourself on Facebook, doing a
sexy pose, or showing us your boobs or lying seductively on your bed...The only thing you are doing is making us feel lust about you
I know you will feel excited about the 500 Likes, 120 sweet Comments and countless inbox messages you will receive and you will feel so high more so to be on top of the world.

BUT ONE IMPORTANT THING YOU SHOULD KNOW, in reality, none of those guys who will like and comment on your photo or send you messages in your inbox loves you.

They are just lust about using and dumping you. In fact they hate you because none of them would take you to his home to be his wife. Trust me they take you as a LovePeddler looking for cheap popularity on facebook.

Men whether rich or poor admire ladies who dress decently and respect themselves.
Decent clothing that reveals less about your body makes us love and respect you.
It tells us that you are a virtuous woman and a wife material one would take home to be a mother.

It tells us how you were brought up morally and gives us details about your good family background. We don’t really care alot about your excessive make-ups and face paintings??
A good wife material remains no matter what.
Value your Body, Be real and Respect yourself. And a good man who will respect you will find you whatsoever.

Laveda:
Bae snap for 2

To be honest I like you and I would like us to be friends.. Well I guess that doesn't mean anything to a regular Nigerian girl but might mean someone to a regular Nigerian lady.

Even me wey post this thing done kukuma tire for am. Girls will always be defensive when it comes to spending money on their boyfriends but will open their mouth wide to tell you men should spend on their girlfriends.

Tell me how many Nigerian girls you've for once heard sponsored her man through school. Even in their dream sef it doesn't happen.
Olosshos everywhere

keryj:
Op I don't agree with ur no 2. I see nothing bad in it even if u eventually despise the girl, be rest assured that u v imparted in someones live which is a grt investment as a human. Especially if the girl in question makes god use of the opportunity excels well, so what do u think u v to loos in helping someone to become grt?

Nonsense... how many girls have you heard helped train a guy in school before abi una money different from guys money?

chydii:
No. 2 & 4 are wrong joor...

It's wrong meaning you can do that for a guy?

I'm not scared of them.

It’s not news that men will do a lot to please women they are interested in.

Most men act childish when they are really in love and this has cost them a great deal. It is not bad to please a woman but over doing it makes one stupid. As a man, you must be smart enough to read in between the lines to know what’s favorable and what’s not.

We are not saying you shouldn’t be romantic, it is a good thing to be romantic but not to the detriment of yourself and you should know that, just because something might be done in the name of love does not make it the right thing to do and these are the few you should try as much as possible to avoid or never be tempted to do for a woman, regardless.

1. Steal For Her

Obviously, we all know where this will end you and by the time you will be back, someone might have taken your place. Never allow anything to push you to steal in order to please your woman because if she later finds out you actually stole a gift for her, she might drop you, unless of course, you are in it together like Bonny and Clyde.

2. Pay For Her Education

It is not a bad thing to support her education, if you can help but to take full responsibility for everything to your own detriment can be dangerous. We are all humans and we change from time to time, most men actually think funding a girl’s education means they’ll be forever indebted to them, ending up getting married to them but we’ve seen several scenarios where the women will end up finding love elsewhere. This has been suicidal to many men.

3. Buy Her A House When You Don’t Have One

Common sense should tell you, you should build your dreams together but not favor her and think of yours later. Building a house for a woman when you don’t have one yourself can make you is wrong in every way. When she finally jilts you and lives in it with another man. There are many men still biting their fingers over thism.

4. Fight Another Man Because Of Her

Fighting because of her doesn’t prove anything. Two things are likely to happen, either the person beats you to a pulp and end up in the hospital or you will beat the person and end up in jail, either way, you don’t win. Unless it is for self-defense

5. Reject Your Family Because Of Her

A family is everything and no matter what, you can’t reject them because your woman doesn’t like them. It will be very dangerous on your part to reject your family all because of a woman.

6. Change Your Appearance

These days, there are many men doing a lot, taking pills to make changes to their bodies all because they feel that’s what women love. Changing you to please a woman means the moment you stop trying she’ll go, ideally, people you be with should love you for who you are.

7. Give Up On Your Dreams To Satisfy Her

So there are many men out there who gave up on their dreams to help their woman achieve theirs or were discouraged by women. These same women dumped them afterwards. Never do this after reading this.

8. Being Over-Submissive

It is nice to be sweet to your woman but always learn to set the records straight and don’t try to always appear weak to her and succumb to all her wishes in the interest of pleasing her. Truth is, women actually hate weak men and will prefer you’re sweet and sour.

9. Starve Yourself For Her

Never forfeit your food for her, at least you can share but to give all to her and go hungry, that’s not love, that’s stupidity.

10. Kill For Her

Never ever even think about executing such an atrocity for a woman no matter how convincing the situation is, because if you end up in jail, another man will take your position.

11. Die For Her, Literally

So many men have committed suicide because of a woman. What’s the sense in it when you’re finally dead and gone. Live to fight another day

Source: http://omgvoice.com/lifestyle/guys-things-never-do-please-woman/

If all these are lies girls tell in relationships does it mean they're never honest about anything??

Wow. This is amazing

Thanks a lot guys for your advice

colabotu:
Bross take this from an experience brother who had being in your shoes before; you are a side guy. the girl is a runz girl she is just using u to meet her needs. there Is some else she is giving all that attention to. you are not the only one she is dating that is suffering are many if do your ground work very well you will be shock.

this trait is common to girls who behave this way

1. they are always pretty
2. they dress decently often to deceive guys to see them as decent meanwhile they are just decently looking runz girls.
3. you hardly can see them snapping with any guy talkless of using a guys dp as their cover or on social media. the reason is simple they are not loyal to anyone and they dont want anyone to disturb their runz etc

This is exactly what's she does bro. We've been dating for four years now but I can tell you that this girl have not used my pix as dp more than 8times and this is always when I ask her to do so.

We have had issues based on this before. Bro love is a stupid thing and it will never get me again. I see all this shit be won't just let go even if I know it hurts me. I've decided to put an end to it. person no go die inside one relationship abeg.

Rukkydelta:
I be think say na only women sabi nag, Op you're just a nagging boyfriend......I don't understand why some men are this clingy

And what do you think happens when I don't call her or text her, she starts talking and saying am flirting with other girls, that am cheating.

You guys are just so complicated and confused. If you can't give your bf time and care for him who would you do that for.?

without communication in a relationship is the relationship not as good as dead.? If the relationship is dead to you why not speak up and let the other person go instead you pretend to be in the relationship but acting as though you're not.

Obvously she want me around until she finds or falls inlove with someone else before she opens up.

That what I call emotional manipulation and that's wicked. If you do it stop it.

charix:
Try and post your story in national dailies, it would help your situation immensely. Look for your uncle also, finding him might end the search because only he would know where his brother resides.

How do I post it on national dailies

In few months i'll be 29years but am yet to know who my biological father is. I'm a 400level student of university of port harcourt from omoku in rivers state atleast so I was told by my grand parents.

I was told my mum was dating my dad and she got pregnant then they both decided to abort the baby, they went to a native doctor who helped them with native drugs she took severely but the pregnancy could not be aborted. My mum almost died in this process, it was then her dad heard about it and took her to the hospital where she was taken care of.

Well. The baby was born (me). My grand dad called the family of my dad to come claim their child and take up their responsibility. Unfortunately the night to the day they were supposed to come see my grand day, my dad left to lagos and has never returned to this day.

My mum got married and has 4kids now and her family is doing very well. She left me with my grand parent who raised me. I didn't even know she was my mum till I was grown.

She never care about me from day one. I went through hell to go through primary and secondary school cause her dad is very old and wasn't working.

I did a lot of things just to survive cause somehow God was just blessing the works of my hands until I decided to go to the university. My mum and her family is well to do in every essence and we live in the same town almost the same street but not in the same house cause I still live at my grand parents house whenever I return from school.

Now my pain is. How do I find out who my dad is. All my mum knows about him is that his name is Mr Oputa Onita from Omoku community in rivers state. When I confronted her about it she told me he has an elder brother by name Mr Ikechukwu Onita and this man was fully aware of what happened but they don't reside her in omoku town and I can't even reach them.

Am living like a stronger in my town cause almost everyone knows about this story so much that I don't feel comfortable even with my younger ones anytime I go visiting.

I don't know how to go about this but I feel it's time I need to fine out who my real father is because I believe I have the right to know. I have never seen him before, not even a picture of what he looks like.

My mum doesn't care about this and she doesn't even care if I exist of not. Someone who can comfortably stay months without calling or hearing from me. Anytime she sees me it's like I make her angry cause she never smiles whenever she see me. Just that sometimes she pretends to smile but we both know we don't have that mother and son connection or relationship which I've in so many ways to bridge the gap but still to no positive output.

All this affects me emotionally but I jut pretend to be okey. This sometimes make me jealous of my younger ones even if I don't desire to be. My immediate younger brother who am older then with about 4years is done with school and is living in a two bedroom apartment, has a car which his dad bought for him while am still struggling to finish school and staying with my grand parent in my one room apartment. No matter how much I try not to feel it sometimes it just gets to me and make me feel bad. But I suck it up cus I can't complain.

Truth is I am not looking for my dad because of any financial benefits. Am almost done with school and the time I would've really needed him is past. I just want to know who my father is and at least call someone the name dad and stop me from having this emotional trauma.

Now she's been trying under pressure to see me through the university after I managed to get admission.

Please good people of Nairaland. I am confused and I need help on how to go about this, I just need to know who my dad is. He's still alive and living with his family in lagos but I don't even no where in lagos and no one would give me any concrete info about him.

Please anyone with any vital information on how I can reach him or how to go about this should pls contact me through this number 08032782297.

I have read threads on how people where able to find help in similar case like this here on nairaland and I believe I would do the same. This is the only reason am doing this.

Please mod help push this to front page so it can get to the right persons please.

Thank you very much and God bless you all.

danduchi:
I hope u can man up and do this (from experience)... Don't call her even if it will last for 2weeks, if she does call make her feel with busy with close pals, if she calls at night tell her you're tired and need sleep... She will definitely think twice about u. She loves you no doubt but she's making u feel insecure so that u won't mess with her. When u do this my guy, she go turn extrovert by force

Yea I can do that and even more. Thanks a lot bro. I'll definitely do what you advised.

Thanks a lot man. This girl is quite confusing I swear. This is a girl I've been dating for the past four years now and have really been faithful to her.

But own level of distrust and insecurity I've never seen before.

I give her lots of attentions but she doesn't even appreciate it. And when I talk she says I'm always complaining.

How can ones girlfriend now text or even call you all in the name of she's busy all the time.

Well. I've heard what you guys said. I can't count number of girls that would do anything to be with me but been ignoring them all cause of this girl. All just to prove to her that their are actually responsible men out there. But see the shit she's doing now. Smh

Thanks guys you've really helped a lot. This has always been on my mind but wasn't sure of what to do. Reading all this comments now am so relieved and I now know exactly what to do.

Thanks again guys.

Please what does it mean when your girl isn't enthusiastic about you, like she ain't fond of you. She can comfortably go weeks without hearing from you and be cool with that.

I understand she's an introvert but I don't think this is normal. I've asked her severly if she doesn't love me anymore she should just say it cause am tired of her so much coldness an nonchalant attitude.

She can't text me or call me. Always with the excuse that she doesn't have airtime, even when I do send her airtime she doesn't even call me sometimes.

I feel she doesn't feel anything for me anymore but she doesn't want to accept it, should I break up with her and move on or just chill. Cause I can no longer feel the relationship even thought I really still love her.

We can't even chat well on whatsapp. The only time she'll spend time to chat with me is probably if I make her jealous or I kinda did something that threatens the relationship. Is this really cool? Does this mean she still loves me?

She's always talking about how she wants to spend the rest of her life with me. She's even kinda always talking about marriage almost all the times and truth is I would love to marry this girl but am just scared and worried of this her attitude.

I feel she's not even emotionally attached to me.

What do you think guys. Please advice me.
Thanks

my surprise to all this happening in my town, LGA and state is that we have a police baracks, Sars squad, JTF camp, mopol Barack and even soldiers are in this LGA. yet they all put together have not been able to do one thing about all this killings.

my community has been under this evil for long and we've lost more than 500 souls to this cultist attacks.

there was once a kidnapping case that happened at one school which took place right before a police check point and they were in operation collecting there normal 100naira.

now what the police are doing is to be stopping cars traveling and ordering the passengers to come and off their shirts to see if you have tattoo so they will arrest the person to get money.

if you report to the police about anything before you know it this will come and behead the person. how do they get all their informations only God knows what's happening in rivers state

what's happening now Is that they will just stop travelers in a car and shoot theme to death on cold blood. they don't need to know you.

we need help in this state else there will be no reasonable youth alive in less then no time.

#Godhelpusinrivers