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Na the sexlife part I like bcoz I learn something on the area telling a lady u like her want to take her out ND start dating

But I will love make brothers where sabi build friendship with babes. Tell their own true life stories like this one. Make person learn one or two

writeprof:
No matter how developed Nigeria becomes hopefully, Japa cannot stop my brother. It's in man's DNA to move. Men's destinies are different and some can only truly fulfill their destinies outside their home countries based on God's plans for their lives.

There are more good Nigerians than bad ones in every nation you go to. Envy? Yes of course. We're one people that many others hate to like Any society without laws would become chaotic and it's our responsibility to keep the laws of wherever we find ourselves.

These are not enough reasons not to embark on your destiny journey if that's the route for you sir.

Japa to African countries is quite different from that to Europe because you're expected to go into African countries with entrepreneurial skills as getting employment is very scarce except mostly teaching jobs.

OK o. I wish u goodluck

writeprof:
There are many many Nigerians making it big time in African countries who don't announce it on social media sir.

I used to know a Nigerian making about 20k USD profit every month in his business in a country in West Africa before fear made him to shut down the business after he faced some threats from indigenous rivals.

Do you know that there are Nigerians with companies making millions around African countries?

all these japa. The truth is e Don cast. Let us pray ND build Nigeria. Another thing have notice about Japa information they only tell u about hustling never tell u about the laws of that country the behaviour of the pple esp. Nigerians. Nigerians have bad reputation in some of these countries. Plus the issue of envy. Remember japa to another black man country u have to be careful bcoz black country no dey follow laws like oyinbo

SenatorCharles1:
My point on Osama Bin Laden case was that the Pakistani authorities only realized the US Naval Seal had entered their territory after Osama was killed and his body thrown into the sea or stolen away by the US. No need for all the noise making

yes I understand ur point. but have u notice that terrorist group Don change format. they are not operating like Al Qaeda when u have one strong leader. To kill.
After them kill b8n Laden not thing isis

Have you s asked you is sponsoring them.


In Nigeria Matter attack is very good but USA govt exposing ND Sanction OMG the sponsor No that one our northern politicians are scared of

Example if a Nigeria senator is announced by the USA as a sponsor his political career is dead.

SenatorCharles1:
Too much of talk and threats will give enough time for the terrorists to relocate to other locations even to the southern part of Nigeria. They should have invaded by now and start killing the bandits before announcing their intentions. Osama Bin Laden was taken out without much talk.

The sponsors of these terrorists are trying hard to confuse Tinubu under the false guide to allow for more time to re-strategies and move bandits to more hideouts.

This ur last paragraph is the real problem THE sPONSOR .whay are their fear they are afraid that 8f USA bring a sanction list of the sponsor their political career is gone..
For example if 10 northern senator are named in such list they will be remove from d Senate. No that one be their fear so ND a lasting solution to terrorism in nigeria

Kukutente23:
I don't get you
Are you saying Nigerian military are the bandits and terrorists killing Christians that Trump is talking about?

read about the amnesty program of repentant bOko haram Members ND lack of will power of FG to wipe out Boko target in which dss personnel as complain about

SenatorCharles1:
Too much of talk and threats will give enough time for the terrorists to relocate to other locations even to the southern part of Nigeria. They should have invaded by now and start killing the bandits before announcing their intentions. Osama Bin Laden was taken out without much talk.

The sponsors of these terrorists are trying hard to confuse Tinubu under the false guide to allow for more time to re-strategies and move bandits to more hideouts.

Bin Laden case different nowadays terrorist Comes out in different forms. ND tactics
The best way to finish this Fulani terrorist is by fully exposing their sponsor (both the politicians ND those involve in illegal mining Ogas arming them)
The

Zionmdde:
This one is also talking
The death rate in SE is not more than that of SS or SW. Once in a while criminal elements do their thing. Such criminalities can be found everywhere. But you won't see igbos killing and razing a community.

Soludo must do his best to lick the Black arses of his masters

I tiya with these narrative. Neva heard ibos raged ND killed south south communities or south west communities
But only Fulani bandits atrocities are every where
Have notice that those in nairaland trying so hard to pick this on iPob are jihadist sympathies. That so enrage on iPod but soft in anger when it comes to Fulani bandits ND herdsmen atrocites

Eniitankorede:
Look, I am not saying herdsmen are not a problem. But when it comes to killing Christians, IPOB is the culprit, not herdsmen.

stop this lies ND wrong narrative is not helpful to tinubu administration

Ok have u ever heard any iPod killings in South west, or south south.

IPod na only east dem dey operate

IPod is not tinubu enemy right now but Fulani's bandit/herdmen is.

So u telling me is iPod that killing benue or. Plateau pple. In which is the center of the Christian genocide wahala. Also killing in Kwara state na iPod abi.

Stop all these propaganda is not helping even tinubu himself. Tinubu inherited huge problem cause by Buhari.

Buhari weaken the military effort thru amnesty for repentant Boko Haram by integrating them into the military.

Fulani is the real problem they tried to create a traditional sultan in Edo state twice but failed. Also tried to bring sharia court ND laws into south west in which iPod doesn't do such in other regions

Eniitankorede:
We know very well that an IPOB terrorist is doing the dirty job of throwing Nigeria under the bus in US. We know who is killing Christians in Nigeria. Without doubt it is the IPOB terrorists. You can’t pull a wool over our eyes.

dnt like to reply u na bcoz obvious u guys are paid. IPod is not the problem here
But the Fulani's is the problem here
If USA can label bandits, herdsmen as terrorist group 60percent of our insecurity is solve. Wetin remain for baba na to remove all these repentant Boko Haram from our security outfits. Then decentralized Nigeria.

U na suppose to dey advise tinubu nt all these anti Ibo /ipob/peter obi is not even good for tinubu administration u support.

That why rufai useni was coming out all these em aides they not be professional at all ND aren't adding value to make tinubu succeed he should learn from good luck Jonathan what they did to him in 2015.na part 2 of it he receiving

Tinubu needs wake up and handle the insecurity matter e inherited from Buhari.if nt e hand go burn

sreamsense:
Don't hide under this to insult our able president. He is still the best at moment trying to solve divers problems including the ones ipob/ESN created that resulted into killing many igbos.

The truth is that if obi were to be president by now, every sector will be worse by now even his mushroom container economy tricks will not work. He would have created several more problems than he can solve. So, at moment; Tinubu remains the best man for the job, himself is never a terrorist or interested to be one. So, pray for your best tool (Tinubu) to get the work done

u guys are also part of tinubu problem. Instead of being professional about his efforts.what do ur kind do Peter obi,ipod.in which they are not the problem of tinubu administration
The real Silent enemies are Buhari loyalist dem dem the damage Bulhari did eh.the north esp Fulani's aren't with tiinubu.the problem on ground cause by buhari
1)anmesty programme of repentant Boko Haram into the military. In which is handicapping the military efforts.they are trading intelligence to Boko haram
2)buhari flow every minister ND security agencies with fulanis

That why a Fulani's will kidnap put e real personal account to transfer ransom ND nothing will happen

With the recent rumoured coup shows that he need to be wise.

What can tinubu do to solve theproblem
1)decentealization of our electricity, sea ports ND highways

For the highways the regional Dev ministry ministerial appointment should be given to the governor forum of that geo political region ND have a presidential veto power of sack only on poor performance but no power for the president to appoint


With these governors go come get national Dev responsibilities forget aso Villa no more hiding g under fed govt

Finally made a statement to diffuse this anti Ibo thing. Ibo are nt the enemies of this present administration. Na north esp Buhari Fulani peeps. Be d real problem they want Islamic State Fulani herdsmen ND bandit are in bushes over the nation

Tinubu need to change his aides they making things complicated for him with their media statement

olioxx:
Anonymous9345 first of all based on what you mentioned about liking a female friend and not wanting to spoil your friendship, it might sound intense but you just need to find a way to let her know that you like her. You might not say it, but just keep making actions that indicate that you like her either platonically or romantically.
Ogaonos we are on the same boat, I struggled with this ish for a very long time and even till I am still trying to overcome this fear. But one thing I know is, eye contact and communication is your biggest weapon to get a girl.
If you see a girl physically, just stare at her from time to time, if she likes you she'll stare back.

If you cant muster up courage and still prefer the virtual route, make sure that you communicate interesting thing to her. What I do is ask question about something and wait for her reply.

What do you think about....? What would you do if you ...?

what u right. What I do is to do role playing cruise chat like papa /daughter, wife jokes. Learn it from bangrule by Charles nnaji if u need it I will give it to u for free.

But here the problem with naija girls they dnt contribute to ur chat, they reply ur chat. If u give them an interesting chat their reply is lol. Other time lol. Or hmm.

Here the problem I female friend told me that most of our ladies are looking for the spending guy that they will bill ND upgrade them out of brokenness. They not interested in friendship
But communication skill is important

what op is writing is true but is theory Info with no practical Info that the problem .
For example to collect a lady number was a big problem. I read theory solution on eye contact, stand tall form dating coach. When u try it practical either ur liver go fail or u go blank. Until I found out the issue.
Here is the issue from a female psychology. ladies are not the same global. The way u approach an American lady might quite be little differ from naija baddies also differ from s. A baddies
For naija baddies is all about defence, status .
When u approach a naija baddies They lift their defence up Or try to scan ND categorize ur financial status(classism) or do both .bad economy/yahoo boys made it worst
So approach. Is to approach a lady in a way to Lower their self defence .i found out this thru a player.
What does he do he approach them for friendship without Love or sex string attached Use that to enter ,make her his friend while observing her. Then quickly start give her female friendly seduction. (he uses cruise, brother care ND concerning plus petting)

Here the problem no dating coach online except from that tried is able to counsel guys on the following

Communication skills with Naija babes
Bcoz many of our sisters reply ur chats ND engage. Ur chat And the issue social topic .

Female friendly seduction
Most of the seduction the media display thru porn ND music are male seduction that isn't applying to ladies. U need to know What is really applying/unbiase to them form a lady perspective.

Nairaland could have solve this problem if it has made is sexuality category female friendly by being very draconian on judgemental comments.
Bcoz e get some thing eh na only ladies u fit Get
that knowledge from.

always247:
all these na wash. bro go get money and look for girls who want money, shike

no need for all these bala blue bulaba

then u later start complaining of entitlement. Or u start patronising high priced hookups and label our sisters as ashawo .money format Don cast.

Am an introvert my problem is chatting with a lady. Both online ND real world
Online I can collect a lady WATS app number do the intro but building up the convo.is a problem

Offline to approach a lady is a problem if I want to approach I sound like generator that it fuel is running out.

Solution have be looking for is how do I have a build chat with a lady that lead to friendship(platonic friendship)

For example I chat a lady today goes well 7 days later I chat is like checking on her
10 or15days later chat is like am saying g the same thing

Opening this thread is for solution from peeps on guy/men chatting tips ND approach. No judging old bcoz the dating market is in crises. And is affecting every single guy in this country.
We guys whether broke or rich are facing it.which is pay for love, attention, sex, affliction.
Areas have observe guys are struggling with is
To start a chat ND to keep up the chat
Have platonic friendships for guys who dey fornication side effect(hiv,belle wahala)

africanman85:
Where is @Harddon o
One girl is playing with my emotion.
I met this girl and invited her to my house though, is my family house and she came with a friend d first day she visited and we talked. The second day, she came unexpected around 9pm in d night with a friend too and i felt she has fallen in love o. So, I called her to come see me another time and she came with somebody again( girl ). She boned and not friendly this time so, i told her that i don't like each time she comes to my house, she most come with somebody and she should stop coming if she should continue like that. She left and i deleted her number. After 1 month of no contact, she called and told me how i have forgotten her. I asked her to come and this time, she came alone and refuse to entered inside my room. We gisted and she left that day. The next day, she came again and came with somebody again this time. Because is Easter, i over looked it and served them food. After eating, i asked her to come into my room lets discuss alone and at first she told me to discuss it there but i refused after sometime, she reluctantly followed me. As we get to my room, i playfully asked her to come and sit on my laps but she refused and distance her sef. I ask her to come and sit close to me but she refused too. After much persuasion she left d room and told her friend to come let them go and dey left. After that day, she saw me again and started coming to me smiling and trying to play with me but i bone her. On many occassion she has tried to come close but i kept on giving her attitude. So yesterday, she blocked me in front of my friend smiling and dont know push away and i was forced to talk to her. We have communicated twice this week and she wants to visit again. I wan knack this gurl. Wat can i do ? Mind u all this while, i have not spent on her and she dosnt demand anything from

u go friend zone that bae.u need to start making female friends (no sex no love female friends) .it helps inSelf control
See what u do start having female friends help to program ur mind not every bae u knack.
Secondly when that bae sees you with another bae she go get d message
Another reason famale bestie e go help you see Hw ladies view knacking.

Another secret eh ladies like getting to a guy that is have female besties that are prettier than them or fine like them.

but the problem is our online dating coach dnt teach it (platonic friendship

Jewelprince41:
Hi guys
Jus a while in the field experimenting dis stuff
But I have a lil question @ harddon :
Am having issue with the witty n funny lines in creating attraction,
How is a wnf line supposed to be delivered?
For example harddon classic wnf line : "wow!,ur hair is beautiful, but 2morrow u wud take me 2 d place we are going to collect d money u paid with interest on top" lol
How is it suppose to delivered is it like dis:
He: wow,ur hair is beautiful
She: thanks (or whatever she says)
He: but 2morrow u wud take me 2 d place we are going to collect d money u paid with interest on top ". Lol or like dis
He: wow, ur hair is beautiful, but 2morrow u wud take me 2 d place we are going to collect d money u paid with interest on top lol"
She: lol(whatever she says)
Hope u understand me don't mind d long write up did DAT so u cud undastnd me **smile**

ur situation, the answer to it. Is try to learn how to have platonic female besties.u can start with the one u less attracted to. It will teach ND develop ur communication skill
Secondly notice hw guys where sabi woman do it

Dnt be deceived by guys when u use money to approach ladies like entering her dm ND asking for her account. Someone that is a total stranger. No big casting be that. U think u are a high level guy but sadly u are mugu.big maga.such behaviour make ladies entitled Relationship expensive ND hookup lucrative .
Making money and lacking the skills to approach woman na wahala. Some of these big boys patronise hookup alot bcoz when they were broke they didn't build themselves (personal development)

Mikeman123:
I thought with the CNG buses, prices will be reduced.The shuttle buses are charging almost the same prices.The govt should slash the prices, since the buses are not using P.M.S.
Meanwhile, Kudos to the Enugu govt for revolutionising the transport sector in the state

cng nA just alternative. The best is electric solar bus for govt BRT.why is bcoz govt no go dey buy wet in go dey power d bus. Some country like Senegal uses public private partnership for such initiative. Due to fact of maintenance issues of the charger.
I think there a guy doing such in unison I saw on YouTube. In which his specially built buses has solar panel plus charging inlets on the bus like normal electric bus

Barteze:
Oga! Hundeyin is absolutely correct if he doesn't make his stand known now and he loses out in the two critical positions of the coalition and run separating in another party the result will be same as 2023.
PO appears to me as indecisive person Kenneth Okonkwo accused him of same some time ago

he will run independently coalition will push him to VP but 2027 na tinubu election

emkz:
Overstating the importance of Peter Obi was his undoing in 2023.

He wrongfully assumed that the christians in the southwest and ukwara; youth and northern minorities could make him president. Instead of crafting a sensible message, his entire campaign theme was based on abuse, China, Bangladesh and Indonesia. He had no records of achievement to speak on.

As for 2027, Obi is confused. He knows there can't be coalition with the likes of El Rufai, Atiku, and Amaechi to support him as frontrunner. At best, he'd play second fiddle to Atiku, which would end his political career. Instead of saying Peter Obi's indecision would be a stumbling block to Tinubu, it is actually a stumbling block to Peter Obi himself and Atiku. With the crises in LP, PDP, SDP and inability to get a functional party, coalition will not gain ground.

e go hard for obi bcoz e no sabi speak Hausa ND can't reform the Lp.

Bluntemperor:
If the Federal Govt can do this, this can be a GAME CHANGER-e.g by Employing High Caliber of Manufacturing Entrepreneurs - from China ,India and Vietnam,etc.
- they have and know the - Know- How.
- they know the Equipments to Manufacture Clothes,e.g the Cotton Production,how we can use the over 200Millions to Clothes the Nigerians and EXPORTS - the Best of Design.
• this is the Real Sector Economy.
If the Federal Govt Can Be Serious - Not LIP-SERVICE 💋,the Nigeria will Move Forward ⏩.
Great Ideas by the Govt- for the First time in Decades -1020,30yrs,etc .
President Tinubu Should Break the Ice 🍨 and let our Youths Feel Belongs.

have an issue with d garment processing the other two initiative are OK so far the cassava own no go make garri price go up

Back to the garment issue. Since 1999 it has always being export of garment.which is good but e b like the fashion industry practioners are died in reality. I think what we need also is a sewing factory to sew Nigeria made brands for the local markets.for every class in our society bcoz aba problem as always be piracy or counterfeit cloth. Like has we had with Alaba years back

[quote author=motymop post=135399699]This is the dumbest stuff I have ever read in a while.

It is obvious you have no idea about minimum wage or the concept of money

otipoju:
That Davido boy did more for the promotion of Afrobeats in the western world than anybody.

Davido was buying the latest iPhone for air. club DJ's and Radio DJ's nationwide to play his songs in clubs and on air. As more people heard, the music spread.

He really put in the underground leg work.

Wizkid was already an international superstar when Akon had a deal with him.

The internet, online music streaming platforms and available funds for a lot of young guys to buy recording equipment to make music instead of relying on Kennis Music abd a very few others are what made the music popular.

Akon jumped on a moving train, he did not start the train. The likes of Junior and pretty, Remedies,Alex O Alex Zitto wete the early pioneers of this Afrobeats.

Juju, Highlife,Fuji, Apala and Felas original Afrobeats were the mainstream.music genres available

for global stage is more likely Kanye West. Signing of dbanj /don jazzy.
We know the story of dbanj met up with Kanye West ND showing his works ND according to dbanj when kanye west saw him dbanj feature Snoop Dogg video (Mr endowed remix) which was the first official intl feature video. That motivated Kanye West which a statement that is him that will bring them to America instead. That signing was the beginning of the global stage journey. Wizkid,was local champions then.


Why am saying this is that after the breakup of Don jazzy ND dbanj Mohits
The entertainment media has underrated even painting dbanj negatively at a certain time. Later maybe genz in the media space pushing this wrong narrative that it was Davido ND Wizkid paved way for global stage. They only continued the journey from where drank Don jazzy stopped. Let start educate the gen z

GistMedia0:
Winneba, Ghana – A devastating incident has rocked the University of Education, Winneba (UEW), where a Level 100 student allegedly took his own life on Wednesday, April 16, 2025, after discovering his girlfriend's infidelity. The young man, whose identity has not been disclosed, reportedly committed suicide by hanging, following a deeply distressing encounter.

According to the reports, the young man collapsed after witnessing his girlfriend in an intimate situation with another individual at the Ghana Universities Staff Superannuation Scheme (GUSSS) Hall One. The emotional devastation from this betrayal is believed to have driven him to take his own life. In a chilling detail, it was reported that the student FaceTimed his best friend during the act, broadcasting the tragic moment live to the horror and shock of his friend, who was powerless to intervene.

The incident has deeply shaken the UEW community, with students and faculty struggling to process the loss. Social media posts reflect the somber mood. The Winneba police have taken custody of the body and are conducting a thorough investigation to uncover the full circumstances of the tragedy. No official statement has been released by the university or authorities at this time.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXVTfSBV9HY

My advice to every male youth pls dnt have serious relationship with undergraduate ladies bcoz they are emotionally immature. Relationship is for mature pple
Dnt b deceived by what feminist or romance movies tell u is all lies. Dnt be deceived by what these slogan of guys are cheat ND scum by youth girls online most of them are hypocrites.serious relatnship is like a prison to campus girl or girl btw 18-23.they want youthful exploration bcoz they free from parental control at that moment.
If you want to date a young girl pls note the following
1)dnt invest in the relationship
2)dnt have public relationship ,date her low key
3) note one fact that school love has no future it end at d school gate only very few that lead to marriage

Trinitycian:
South Easterners, please not everyone from Northern Nigeria is Fulani. We're also suffering in the North. Stop compounding our problems

u guys should start voicing out anonymously about what is really going on in the north. Educate ur southerners brothers

PremiumTech:
Let's get this straight! Those Hausa hunters suffered for the constant sins of Fulani herdsmen and kidnappers.

Nigerian should learn to differentiate between Hausas and Fulanis. They are not the same people.

Hausas are predominantly farmers, hunters, fishermen, blacksmiths traders. They engage less in cow rearing unlike the Fulanis.

Truth is, even the Hausas are tired too. Just like every other Nigerian, the Hausas are at the receiving end of the same kidnapping and killing by the Fulanis.

The Uromi youths were so stvpid that instead of handing the hunters over to the police, they took the laws into their own hands and killed those hunters. It is a condemnable act.

I think it is high time every state government built ranches controlled by the state government in strategic local governments in their respective states. All herders should move their cows to the ranches. After that, any Fulani found in the bushes should be shot on sight.

Everybody should rent houses and not just move into people's bushes without permission and build huts or settlements there.

Hausas and other Nigerians are tired.

ranch may not b the solution for this situation why. Bcoz Bulgari adminstratn suggested colonel kind of bigger than ranch it was regetted.why is cos the south fear is a strategy to islamize Nigeria movement where they start flooding their pple in the location of the ranch then they take over the community then set up an emirate. They tried to do this in Edo twice with emir thing

breeze23:
ote author=Ogaonos post=134791167]The solution to herdsmen wahala simple, too easy. But has one problem Nigerians go fit cooperate do am. What the solution a movement to stop eating cow meat, ponmo,shaki ND other cow parts .for 6 to 8 months. Once cow meat no dey move market. Herdsmen go begin beg. But can Nigerians fit do am bcoz fish, goat as alternative might go up.
They are the ones that will still be buying and eating the cows

that the problem. Northerners don see us southerners finish. the most shameful part is way our sw peeps dey azz lick them.

The solution to herdsmen wahala simple, too easy. But has one problem Nigerians go fit cooperate do am. What the solution a movement to stop eating cow meat, ponmo,shaki ND other cow parts .for 6 to 8 months. Once cow meat no dey move market. Herdsmen go begin beg. But can Nigerians fit do am bcoz fish, goat as alternative might go up.

Teeulu:
.."As at today, we have 6 senators, about 30 Reps members and numerous House of Assembly members.

They use Peter Obi grace to win seats and not labor party grace. They're not owing Abure any money

most Nigerians dnt undastand pol.party.hw does party get funded .thru it party members They broken into two
1)non elected party members
2)elected Party Members

Elected party members donation dey bigger. Eg a governor in which state is state dey collect 350billion Naira budget annually. Governor fit decide dry give me party 10- 30 Billion annually. Shey u see wetin dey happen for rivers state Na the funding to opposition coalition apc wan cut against 2027.If u dnt know,now u know .IS POLITICS.
President donation To fund party huge
here my problem with Peter obi is he is not educating obidient Enuf About Pol party .so that the real obedient which is the Nigeria youth can reform whateva party obi dey.
Peter obi integrity need to be transmitted to be party he is. How
By party transparancy WIth their funds
Transparency with party excos salaries
Hw much party members donates
OUR POLITICANS HIDE THESE AREA FROM D MEDIA ND PUBLIC. TO CONTINUE TO RULE US INSTEAD OF SERVE US