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we all learn everyday .my problem am havi g is you knw some nigerian ladies are hot tempered nd has attitude so hw do u put a woman in her place wen she shows altitude pr nasty behavipur without going physical or gping into rage .i need answer to such problem.because it make me too cool nd overlook such atitude due to fear of bl9wing up in anger nd doing something dt will affect me nd i will greatly regret.
WHY I ASK DIS QUESTION HAVE NOTICE DT PPLE TEND TO TAKE HUMILITY OR. BEING TOO COOL AS WEAKNESS ND TEND TO STEP ON UR NERVES UNTIL U PUT DEM IN THEIR PLACE
so hw do i nt take nonsense from ladies withput doing regretful action like fighting or doing regrettable shameful things

there is a problem i have with we male gender .we ignore d male child.we have this notion that as a boy u need to knw hw to be a man without pratically teaching the boy hw to practically be a man ( friendship ,wise atitude towards women.) but get judge wen u a simping or arrogant/ controlling towards a wpmen.nd when you need help to ur problem u acknwledge u dnt get o good counseling
secondly have notice one thing about we nigerian male gender while growing up which affects alot psychplogically .we have this attitude of always talking nd putting light on d negstives nigerian ladies do which to some extent are totally true but ignore d fact dt as a man u going to get married or have baby mama nd procreate.nd consuming this negative too much without getting a counsel on hw to handle d challenges nigeria ladies.MAKE ONE MISGYNOIC ND HATEFUL TOWARDS WOMEN .

Tycyborg:
Let me give you a free fact and I will need you to dispute me with fact to prove me wrong.
You said south south and south east are suffering or should I say marginalized... But by whom exactly?
You guys never hold your state government, Local government, your representatives, your senators even your councillors and last the lcda which are the landlords... You all never hold them accountable for not doing anything but shout FG... The oil you are talking about, what are your chiefs and Govers and other politicians doing with the money paid by the FG, wike opened lot of secrets aboit how the was being paid to states with oil and what did the cotizen did about it? Nothing but kept shouting marginalized and cheat...
The problem you all easternes will have to fight is holding the right people accountable and let them prove themselves but no you all will never do that but blame FG...
You can't cure thypoid fever by using Panadol and same way you can cook with no salt and complain the food taste bland...
If you can understand this then I will engage Convo with you but if you can't just let's forget about it.

all what u saying is what obidient movement is all about trying to solve.d nigerian youth including niger delta youth has woken up nd has enter d electorate system.because whether is in north or west or east or niger delta or north centrsl we all have no say in our govt either at state level or fed.level.until d obidient movement came on board .EVEN YOU CAN U HOLD UR GOVERNOR ACCOUNTABLE D ANSWER IS NO
coming to ur question on why we niger deltans havent held our governors accounta ble is because d youth in d region havent woke up until recently.PRAY DT OBI GET HIS STOLEN MANDATE MEHN THINGS GO CHANGE U KNOW WHY because E GO MAKE OUR YOUTHS GET MIND EH because IS NT ABOUT PETER OBI NO NO IS because THE NIGERIAN YOUTH because NA YOUTHS FOR TWITTER DRAG OBI TO CONTEST FOR PRESIDENCY .
FOR THOSE WHO DNT KNW HW OBIDIENT MOVEMENT STARTED IT ALL START AFTER D SAD END OF ENDSARS MOVEMENT.ON TWITTER PPLE WERE lIKE WE D YOUTHS NEED TO DO MORE THAN PROTEST BY BE INVOLVE IN D POLITICAL PROCESS /SYSTEM.SOME PPLE ON TWITTER SUGGEST YOUTH POL. PARTY OTHERS DISAGREE DT FEW YOUNG POLITICIANS IN GOVT HAS MESS UP LIKE YAYA BELLO OF KOGI.FAST FORWARD TO 2022 PETER OBI WAS DRAG BY SOME PPLE TO RUN DEN SOME INFLUNCERS JOIN B4 P SQUARE ENTER D MATA .DT D STORY OF OBIDIENT MOVEMENT IS ALL ABOUT NIGERIAN YOUTH..A WIN TO PETER OBI IS NT A WIN TO IBO POPULAR BELIEF ON NAIRALAND BUT A WIN TO NIGERIAN YOUTH.
LASTLY PLS STOP ZONING NIGER DELTA WITH EASTENERS .IS A TWO DIFFERENT REGIONS WITH DIFFERENT TRIBE .SUCH IGNORANT NEED TO STOP.

PeterObi4LP:
Saturday will determine wether Lagosians want to remain enslave or free from bondage.

All of us in Lagos will come out en mass to vote for Gbadebo Rhodes-Vivour the Labour Party candidate from top to bottom. Lagosians are tired of the traffic in Lagos, we are tired of the owomeda Agbero and we are tired of heavy levy on us.

just what to know will lagos youth come out in mass or is jux social media vibe.i want dt lp guy to win nd desmond elliot to loss to lp guy .but whst d real situstion in d mind of lagos youth.i dey fear low turn out .

SmartPolician:
I know that Sanwo-Olu would never have thought that APC could lose an election in Lagos until last Saturday. Apparently, APC has never won any election in Lagos.

It has been the Druggie intimidating voters and rigging everything. If Sanwo-Olu loses his re-election bid, he should go and rest. After all, the Druggie removed Ambode for him to take over.

d question now is will youth come out massively to vote on saturday (referring to lagos )dt d question dt no one has answered here
all i knw for now is delta stste is apc .pdp will lose woefully
rivers state lp go hard d woman no dey pro active maybe reason dey.it might go pdp though wike mesz up fpr election mata but he perform as a governor
he persin fit win is btw wike man vs tonye cole of apc
cross river state person neva knw but pdp fit escape due to ayade decamping to apc if he didnt nd remsin in pdp wahala for dey.
enugu i heard is btw apga nd ypp .pdp no level d same situation in abia state only dt i hear lp fit win .
ebonyi might go apc might.because umahi perform
oyo is pdp makinde dey coms back because he perform
nassarawa anything fit happen .
one thing have observe in this election is that politician dt performed got elected even though d pple in d state may nt like them eg oshomhole .he nt love in most part of edo but love in his estako axis dt why he got senatoral ticket .why performance when he was a governor.

LibertyRep:
People like Joke Da Silva, Seyi Law, Eniola Badmus and other celebrities who didn't succumb to the bullying and intimidation deserve commendation.

Those who could abuse, bully, curse anyone online for their political choice are capable of doing same thing physically if given the chance.

The incidence at Lekki is unfortunate, but why close your eyes to the obvious one at Akwuzu River where bodies were clearly seen?

Lagos government even set up a panel of enquiry into the incidence and all parties represented. Guess what happened somewhere else, someone who should be questioned went to court to prevent being grilled by the panel.


I expect that the same energy deployed in dragging Lagos Govt should be directed to whoever was the Gov at Anambra when the bodies were found at Akwuzu River.

It all reek of double standard, hypocrisy and perhaps a path towards a predetermined agenda.

who was d governor of anambra at dt time 2020 obiano was d governor nt peter obi so wetin b ur point really.
all this tinubu supporter can do simply research before doing a write up

peekspot:
Source and for details: https://punchng.com/how-wike-led-ugwuanyi-ortom-ikpeazu-to-electoral-defeat/

the main reason they lost.is bcps they didnt perform as a governor exvept wike nd makinde.

windofchange:
The talks that Lagos is a no mans Land by igbos has been flying around so he decided to respond.




https://www.instagram.com/p/CpXSlaBsFPU/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

then we need port in rivers nd akwa ibom tp settle dis mata

Realestatevixen:
Hmmm.... Where is the apology? I listened till the end and there's no single tone of remorse or repentance in his plenty story. Its just a ploy and campaign for Sanwo Olu, nothing more nothing less.

Dear Lagosians, don't relent in this fight that you have started, a new Lagos is also very achievable. Please come out in your numbers and vote out incompetence and mediocrity if you want to. Let nobody force or coerce you to vote against your conscience.

Nigeria will win at last over selfish interests.

but i fear they might be low turn out due tp fear of violence nd apc might import pplr from outside like osun state . if is possible to do so .dt my fear

sammy329:
Very true !!!!

PO has caused a deep divide across Religious line!!

You now see Christians and Pastors cursing anyhow!!

in what way.is they religious tension ? no.when tinubu the entire country was quiet even d north .so where u getting this from

123papas:
He will be Governor by the Grace of God. Amen

pray against low turn out.

AdaojoTheUrchin:
Any Polling officer that does not transmit the result with BVAS will not have his/her safety guaranteed.

Lagos and Rivers POs and SPOs, especially should take note.

ObiDients, go to the polling units with your phones, Vote LP from top to bottom, as we form our structures and put our Governors and HOA in charge.

Snap the results after count, INSIST THAT THE RESULTS BE TRANSMITTED before the POs leave the PUs and celebrate the dismantling of their evil structures.

We were not promised it was going to be easy to kick out the stem-rooted thieves of our political destinies. Infact if e easy, na set up.

The revolution via the ballot is still on.

but i fear they might be low turn out due to fear of violence nd life.which is what apc nd wike will wants then they will import voters from other states.

floret23:
"When a thief boldly encourages you to go to court, just know that his elder brother is the chief judge" - East African proverb

go to court is d right way but with heavy prayer.this matter na only Baba God fit solve am.protest will nt solve it

Btruth:
Daddy, Happy birthday to you sir. I tapped into your grace of longevity, mercy, blessing and anoiting from God. May the Lord give you more years with good health in Jesus name.

Congratulations Sir.

d church is dying off too many false pastors .nt the time for bday wishes.to top it all d youths dt wake up for a better nigeria thrugh election their mandate has being stolen by muslim muslimdrug baron .father of agbero president .unless some miraculous event happen if nt forget it d youth nd nxt generation might nt be going to church due to lost of confidence in the church.
if tinubu successfully enta as president atheist will mock us ( they be say lol where is ur imaginary God when a deadbeat grandpa became ur president after 8yrs of suffering from another grandpa).youth will lose faith in going to school because what the point going to sch while agbero will now be visiting aso villa shouting twale .
as for yahoo bois go overhigh nd if try want to preach to them unless holy spirit trigger u to.the word dey go tell to shame u.

N3TRAL:
He's been recognized and congratulated by the Prime Minister of Britain.

He's been congratulated by the Government of the United States of America.

He's been recognized and congratulated by the President of Nigeria and past heads of state.

He is our President! Let's work to build a great country for us and our generations unborn.

no japa o.u must stay in nigeria to suffer for anotha 8yrs

Wonderful619:
I stand with you people on this one. I don't know the labor party candidate is but he has to win
From nothing to something.
Nigeria must obey

but mahmud go do other wise.na rigged election for sanwo olu make dem propose d election because most pple has lost confidence in inec chairman .until dey resolve d intl embarassment he cause nd his res8gnation with dt albaje pf a man forget dis governorship election

vannessa7:
Drop your active WhatsApp number for evidence of LP rigging, all those fund raising Peter Obi did all over the world was for what exactly all those igbo billionaire sponsoring him too

drop it here for all to see.abeg which rigging if lp rig na d 90 percent of d country is quiet.south east dt was disenfranchised nd votes suppressed.thank God i voted as a first time vote u see d passion nd patient of d yputh on polling unit even during collection of pvc wen inec was doing anyhw .u see d anger nd passion to collect pvc .when they pvc ypu see pple smiling .even on dt day come nd see cars dt were driving looking for their polling unit.youth corporation .
it was d pdp agent dt was doing vote buying thru bank transfer until her plans failed.the pple she brought no one was youth na all these old village women.she has pvc in her pocket .the luck she has was na few women code her action nd report to security .ypuths didnt knw if nt she for hear am

vannessa7:
Drop your active WhatsApp number for evidence of LP rigging, all those fund raising Peter Obi did all over the world was for what exactly all those igbo billionaire sponsoring him too

drop it here fpr all to see .which rigging mtsew me dt went to vote on saturdsy am a first time voters .most of d youth on my polling units are first time voters nd obidient .it was d pdp party agent dt was trying to do vote buying .it was my mom dt code d matter report her to securitythis happen in benin city.
some of youths were like they will only vote fpr presidency.wat u am suspecting rigging is d fact dt youths vote all labour party including me vcos we don tiya for pdp nd apc nd want to change nigeria is a movement.secondly person no want make mistske or leave senate nd hpuse of rep blank u like abeg lp all thrugh even my neighbour did d same thing .

vannessa7:
Go and sit down, I have video evidence of serious rigging by both the LP and PDP. There is no saint among them, but the mandata of the majority still stand, imagine south east result delayed till the last minute. Kettle calling pot black, they LP even rigged Lagos state and I have evidence.

show us d evidence of labour party rigging election.party dt is a poor party dnt have enuf funds like pdp nd apc tp hire thugs nd bribe inec officals.lp is a poor party financially dt why oshomhole dump labour party for acn (tinubu sponspirship) which led to lp oblivion before obi emergence.am nt sure knew dt na lp oshomhole emerge candidacy before was seeking for a merge with acn because he was lacking funds to sponspor his campaign nd dt kind party u dey talk sey dem rig election no talk dis kind thing for twitter dem go drag u eh to show evidence .maybe nxt u say lp hire thugs in lagos to rig election.apc supporters lie lie too full u na mouth

derecho:
One thing I know is that PDP will lose in Rivers State.
I don't know who the OBIdient will adopt.
I won't be surprised if Tonye Cole is adopted.

It'd be payback time

until dey resolve d issue of presidential nd inec chairman .forget it.na d highest bidder go win.na who wike go rig for go win dt wat mahmud d inec chairman as turn election into

IyaebeTheGreat:
These are the kind of people instigating trouble in Nigeria. Election is over and instead of us to forge ahead and pray for the incoming government some people are trying to be troublesome. Nigeria will not fall, better days ahead

mtsw buhari enta pple like u said let pray for d govt we prayed nd he finish all of us with hunger,insecurity now another incompetent leader want to leas naija nd u say wetin make we pray for em govt.of thruggery where agbero will b lords.in d land.as for future election forget am under tinubu.d impunity during future election will be mind blowing nd rascally conducted .kai thug like mc olomo kabaka go enta aso rock.no need to go sch again no need na to become a thug b d new money

jeromestarks:
Obidients have laboured in vain. We told them. They refused to listen. Foolish set of people.


If you want a peaceful lasting home, fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, take the pains to find a virgin woman and marry. It's better to suffer to find a virgin woman and have a peaceful lasting home than to marry a woman who has given her Best (virginity) to another man and suffer in your marriage.
Be wise.

A woman you did not disvirgin will always fvck her ex and you will train another man's child with your hard-earned money.
Women are always weak to resist their exs. He will surely fvck her any time you're out for work. While you suffer to feed her so she can have full bresss, he will be fvcking her.


Never date a single mother. Those ones are operating under a different level of curse. There is a reason men who fvcked her didn't stay in her life. Don't use your head to carry curse. Despise a single mother at all cost.

pple around d world are mocking us as a country right now

AbdulMagaji:
Nigeria would never get it right again in any election.


Nigerians where deceived by INEC on BVAS stating that it would transmit the election results to the INEC server from the various poling units.


What did we get..



A manual collation of the results at ward levels, with correction fluid littering all over the result sheets.



Some youths are smiling simply because of tribal affiliation, while some are in a deep state of mourning simply because all hope is lost.





Once again, the choice of the more progressive Nigerian youths have been truncated, squashed and trampled upon using Dollar bills.




Were are the leaders of tomorrow? I ask




Where are the youths?


Our grandparents are obviously robbing the future off this country.


No job after years of university..



No marketable skill because they cost money.


Youth of 40 yrs are scared of picking our girls for marriage simply because our girls have resorted to befriending our political -grandparents for survival.



Single mothers are growing tremendously!



Because of poverty among the youths, many are scared of starting a home.



When you look at an average Nigerian youth, all you see is hunger and anger.




For how long would this continue? I ask, is it till we get to 70 yrs?


POVERTY NO DEY TIRE UNA?


Why do we choose to suffer in the mist of plenty?



Prostitution is now self- employment


Yahooo is on the rise so as to meet up and not lag behind..



Nigerian youth! I would ask again! , When would you become the leaders of tomorrow as promised? If paraventure you survive police brutality.







Nigerian youths please wake up now and take back your country!




Gen. Gowon and Buhari became heads of state in Nigeria before 35! , The later is still in charge of leadership in Nigeria.



Please wake up youths and take over your country!

nigeria youth don wake up Already .

NaijaCowFarm:
I am not happy that Peter Obi did not win. There are clear fundamental factors that were so herculean to overcome the very moment LP/NNPP alliance failed.
Now that Atiku is seemingly out of the way, it is time to galvanise the opposition towards 2027. It is going to be a marathon, so let us start now. There is no point wasting resources on election tribunal. With the capacity shown by Obi, 2027 is possible, but we need to do the following:

1. Not waste time and resources on election tribunal, but need to let Nigerians know of the brazen robbery APC governors and Wike perpetrated. If the PDP wants to challenge the results, let them do so themselves, without involving LP

2. Get real political structure for Labour Party across Nigeria. One reason we loss was because we did not have strong roots in the North.

3. Galvanise all elected officials to form a formidable force to take on APC, which is already reduced in strength from 21 to 12 states.

4. Peter Obi and LP should focus on the March 11, 2023 governorship polls. Obi should begin touring states LP won to boost morale of LP supports in the 22 states win high voters. Not waste resources in states like Katsina, Yobe, Zamfara.

5. LP leadership should begin talks with NNPP, progressive still in PDP and form a formidable party with structure, just like what ACN/CPC did. We need to start now.

very stupid writeup.an election dt was eu/intl observers wrote off as below std.wetin dis op dey talk make e prepare for governorship election dt would be rigged if dey no settle dis presidential election result.
Dt he shuld prepare for 2027 with tinubu no more credile elections na rigging nd ballot snatching we going back to the dats of obj administration.u see another level of impunity because level don change for pol agberos(thugs) in nigeria.ONE THING HAVE OBSERVE IN EDUCATED PPLE IN DIS COUNTRY IS DURING ELECTION YOU KNW WHETHER THEY EDUCATION IS JUX ON SPOKEN ENGLISH ND GRAMMAR OR THEY SMART ND INTELLIGENT.IS DURING ELECRION U SEE A PLUMBER OR CONDUCTOR GO MAKE POLITICAL SENSE THAN MSC HOLDER

NaijaCowFarm:
I am not happy that Peter Obi did not win. There are clear fundamental factors that were so herculean to overcome the very moment LP/NNPP alliance failed.
Now that Atiku is seemingly out of the way, it is time to galvanise the opposition towards 2027. It is going to be a marathon, so let us start now. There is no point wasting resources on election tribunal. With the capacity shown by Obi, 2027 is possible, but we need to do the following:

1. Not waste time and resources on election tribunal, but need to let Nigerians know of the brazen robbery APC governors and Wike perpetrated. If the PDP wants to challenge the results, let them do so themselves, without involving LP

2. Get real political structure for Labour Party across Nigeria. One reason we loss was because we did not have strong roots in the North.

3. Galvanise all elected officials to form a formidable force to take on APC, which is already reduced in strength from 21 to 12 states.

4. Peter Obi and LP should focus on the March 11, 2023 governorship polls. Obi should begin touring states LP won to boost morale of LP supports in the 22 states win high voters. Not waste resources in states like Katsina, Yobe, Zamfara.

5. LP leadership should begin talks with NNPP, progressive still in PDP and form a formidable party with structure, just like what ACN/CPC did. We need to start now.

very stupid writeup.an election dt was eu observers

toyflare:
If you read the article you will know the OP cannot read and comprehend.

He explained that while the collation of results would “essentially” be done manually, where there was a dispute regarding a collated result or the result from any polling unit, the collation or returning officer would use the original of the disputed collated result, accreditation data from the BVAS device and the results transmitted directly from the polling unit to determine the correctness of the result.

Results can be collected manually but the BVAS data must be uploaded directly from the polling units and available to Nigerians to see in real time, meaning people can see the results on INECs portal immediately voting is completed. This is where they failed, results were not uploaded at the polling units but were taken to where ever they wanted and manipulated before being uploaded. Some are not yet uploaded even till now.

The electoral act states that such results be cancelled.

I don’t think they actually read it before signing it into law

my own be say in d future when they are counting d votes in polling unit each party agents nd maybe voters go video d process like they do in d primaries.if is necessary shuld be streamed online make every see each polling unit in ur state.

Zico5:
These Obi supporters are the most foolish on earth. They said Lagos votes is rigged but Enugu is authentic. It's not their fault o. My Yoruba people caused it. We will right all the wrongs during governorship election. Mark my words the difference will be clear

lol lp go give apc wotowoto for governorship na yputh dem dey deal with

siraj1402:
Tinubu is coming, Obi is only out to ruins Atiku chances and yet lose.
E lo fokan bale.

before was no struture only win few states in south east now u na own baba strong hold lagos he lost .imaging after all d lies of he build lagos

Antoeni:
Peter Obi Effect!

New sets of leaders are emerging:

✓ Labour Party has won 2 Senate seats (Anambra)

✓ Labour Party has won 1 Senate seat (Enugu)

✓ Labour Party has won 7 House of Reps Seats (Enugu)

✓ Labour Party has won 1 House of Reps seat (Kaduna)

✓ Labour Party has won 1 House of Reps seat (Lagos)

✓ Labour Party has won 1 House of Reps seat (Abia)

✓ Labour Party has won 1 Senate seat (Abuja)

More upsets coming...

Mr. Peter Obi , kudos to you!

they also vote a seat in edo south senate nd rep seats

Officialgarri:
Only states where APC won are accused of rigging. Please can someone share me what standards are used ..

But Baba has spoken, he said they can continue rigging in the South East, but we should be calm because the will of the people is the will of God

batified aka apc urchins are humbled.lol

Tycyborg:
See I will tell you one truth, it's not magical .. most south south don't like igbo people... Maybe it's jealous or some beef since civil war cos of some stories I hear... They only do dog and cat friends but not true friends... When I went to big tree last year the town hall there once had obi banner, they said they should remove it with immediate effect... If you see some places where there are lot of LP vote just know igbo people are much in that area... Rivers will rather vote pdp but I think this wike fight with atiku influence they to vote apc

kai stop dt lie .wike is sending thugs to rig elections in polling units u need talking what u dnt knw.are u residing in south south sef.south south ypuths are with obi.south south sympathy with ibo politically why because of marginalisation of niger delta region dt led to mend d niger delta militant group dt was fighting fed govt on oil sharing formula nd oil spiilage etc we suffer d same thing with south east .ur claim is totally wrong
this election was brought north centrsl ,south south nd east together

oyin44:



The northerners are the true Nigerians.


Morever, they are good people and also good friends..

dt why wen their being killed by bandits i dnt really show concern.na soso religions ignorant dey worry them.b8hari shuld cpntest for 3rd term they will still vote for him.nd come to d south nd be pushibg cart entering dustbin dey look for iron scrap