tomi4life: I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl. We didnt court much during our courtship because of long distance.
I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.
My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance
My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.
Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens. [b] Finance: I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.
I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.
I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.
Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.
I expect my wife will support me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.
Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me.
as for d sex part most pple no go tell u d truth about sex.when a man is d one demanding for sex all d time.his woman is nt enjoying it though divine intervention might be needed spirit hussy fit dey cause am. but if no be spiritual dey behind am then women isnt enjoying it but she no go open up due to fear of d man reactions.D WAY GOD DO SEX EH IS FOR D SATISFACTION OF D WOMEN.WHEN A LADY GAIN ORGASM DT MAN SHE NO GO DENY AM SEX NA SHE GO SOMETIMES DEY INITIATE SEX.LET ME NT GO INTO DETAILS BUT HE GET D WAY LADIES WANT SEX IS DIFFERENT FROM WHAT D MEDIA IS SHOWCASING TO MEN.IN REALITY AS A MAN U HAVE TO THINK ND FOCUS ON HER SATISFACTION THAN URS.
tomi4life: I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl. We didnt court much during our courtship because of long distance.
I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.
My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance
My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.
Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens. [b] Finance: I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.
I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.
I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.
Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.
I expect my wife will support me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.
Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me.
d mistake we men nd ladiez make fue to lack pf knwledge is dt we dnt knw dt is beta to allow God to choose our partners for us to really endure marriage.d prayer point is lord give me a wife or hussy nt d one dt i like but the one dt you desire/want for me. why do this mehn forget all those dt will be saying u didnt see red flags .u can date a lady for 3yrs nd she conceal her true color for u for those yrs.note cpurtship is nonsense most ladies pretend during courtship .finally ypu ever u dating u never knw much about he /she family background most times u be told surfaces of their family.dt why deliverance is necessary for about to engaged lovers.
those ones no go do d real demage until foreign local news chanels eg skynews,itv news report am british pple don knw .if nbc ,fox news report am americians don knw nd their reporting dey raw .na them make our presidiential election go viral.i dey hear sey obidient want use vpn tweet am for americian tweet space nd if it trend for america twitter d matter don wear wrapper
Putindbutt: You're only labouring in vain. This is not a new case neither is it hidden, it was done and dusted years ago and no conviction was found on him. The US Govt has since been in personal engagement with Tinubu through its several diplomats and envoys. The fact remains that the US and her Western alliance have congratulated the President-elect, it was the congratulatory messages that had become a bone in the throat of Shimamanda and her tribesmen. If you stand before a moving train, you get crushed.
you neva undastand d matter nd implication.maybe u dnt knw about pablo escobar story very well.pablo won senatoral or house of rep seat which trigger us govt to hitup pressure on colombia govt on him because us govt fears paulo venture in politics nd might become d president of colombia will turn d nation to a narcos state.now on tinubu mata one d election is glpbally condemned by eu observers ,african observers etc.secondly tinubu has a drug past dt indicates his initial source of wealth before him being a governor.now if usa govt ignore nd joe biden adminstration congratulate tinubu it will send a wrong message to africam leaders nd democracy in africa.which will affect use advocacy on democracy in africa.many africa leaders will be like i can do anyhow to my pple beibg undemocractic nd violent in my country election nd support d west nd n9thing will happen because it happen in naija.REMEMBER WHITE HOUSE HAVENT CONGRATULATE TINUBU IS STATE EMBASSY DT DID ND IT WASNT A CLEAR ONE because THEY AFVISE TWICE FOR D AGGREVED CANDIDATE TO GO TO COURT ND ABSTSIN FROM VIOLENCE PROTEST
LegendHero: This is not about I get am before. He still get am till now.
Usually having a Nobel laureate if one of the greatest honor you can have in your field and Prof. Soyinka is the only Nigerian with that record.
I’ve seen some of the Obidient influencers trying to compare Achebe to Wole Soyinka and I’m even sure Achebe died an unfulfilled man because of the jealousy he nurtured consistently for Prof. Soyinka.
I once read a statement where Wole Soyinka mentioned the envy and hatred of Achebe when he got his Nobel Prize.
soyinka mess up .he knew who buhari was but supported him nd attack jpnathan even said unpleasant words about patience jonathan in a cnn interview i think in 2014 or so he didnt expose d reality of d economy policy of buhari adminstration in d 80s something my mom educated us on Is nt ur achievement dt count but ur behaviour ,attitude nd decisions making on matter dt matter alot.oga soyinka shuld rest he kindof think we all fools because he speak queen english.d world has move from honoring only ur achievement only but nt include ur altitude.look for example 2face is a great legend won d first mtv europe award but today charly boy is more respected dan 2face beyond music why was because of d protrst he called for nd chivken out few days to d protest
ycat: Yes they move and piggery is very lucrative. Some farms have wild pigs that you can hunt for free or raise your own. I don't eat it but I know most people especially whites eat pork in the US, they called it white meat and consider it softer and better than beef.
wat of crops.i knw they eat potatoes,which are there staple meal like here na rice,garri,egusi,palm oil .which is usa own
ycat: Chicken(some farms already come with turkey, deer and moutain goats free to hunt)Nigerian goats, cattle(sold in pair of cow&calf and bull of course. Rabbits for its urine of multiple uses. Beehives for honey, real honey is the golden gold. Some farms come with berries or nuts too and of course ponds for fish, some farms come with up to 3 big ponds alredy stocked with fish. Bell peppers, sweet potatoes, veges including ewedu and peppers. Commercial farm have different codes from hobby organic farms. Meats killed in your farm can't be sold to the public in most cased. Processing ponmo alone can get you money, the Ponmo I didn't eat when I was in Nigeria is now more expensive thna cowfeet and it's not good quality. Believe me it's my dream to live in a farm in Nigeria when security is improved. Life is better on the farm.
dt means chicken,turkey ,cow farming dey move market wat about pork (piggery farming is it lucrative over there
advice to parents if ur daughter dey interested in playing football no disvourage am u making a huge mistake.money dey female club football for obodoyinbo nd e no go too dey hard for ur daughter if she good to enter foreign club like d male own .dis lady in diz writeup play for barca fc nd she bluidbeta mansion for her papa. also na another scope to japa because esp from usa ,maybe spain most female club league are still in d developing stage.
AK481: Obi is a role model. You will never see obi in this greedy thieves association.
As president ,he would have set a standard and discourage greed ,but some useless religious and ethnic bigot said emilokan and here we are
Thank God I did the right thing
no mind them they are using tribalism to distract /cover the real issue insecurity,hugh national debt.if u see any of those apc tribal bigot(anti ibo /ipob)support talk rubbish either ignored them or ask them hw will tinubu govt pay off d huge debt of about 60 trillion naira.they will ignore u d tribalism na planwrk
this what obidients want to stop nd apc supporters here will be shouting ipob ,ibo ibo na them cause all this pensions.there high debt in delta state for example but d governor were cause am go still collect pension plus godfatherism fee.nd u dey here dey distract pple were want good governace with ibo this ipob dt
Dear Chimamanda, what beautiful nonsense you just penned!
It was a portrayal of angst by an unrepentant tribal bigot trying assiduously to whip up sentiments by appealing to the American public!
As much as you try to discredit the electoral victory won by Tinubu, you and your co-travellers will not succeed. Lobbying for cancellation of the election or howling jeremiads on the streets of Washington D.C by attempting to be a back-alley abortionist of people's will and currying international support will all amount to an exercise in futility.
You and your ilk have caused so many problems in Nigeria that you should be ashamed of what you just wrote. In 1993, it was one hellish scoundrel called Arthur Nzeribe who quickly formed ABN to brazenly scuttle and torpedo the freest election conducted in Nigeria then. This time around, your are in the fray to do the same, treading the famished, inglorious, perfidious, labyrinthine, serpentine, deathful and dastardly pathways that Arthur Nzeribe once trod with a mission to set Nigeria ablaze again. You will not succeed in your devious enterprise.
Your tribal and fillial appendage with Gregory Peter Obi is well understood as blood will ever be thicker than water, but for you to pen a nonsensical gibberish with the sole aim of overriding the victory of Mr Tinubu, it is too pedestrian, disingenuous, malevolent, irresponsible and condescending. Your overrated candidate came a distant third in that contest and the earlier you realize that, the better for you. Your Obiscopic lenses through which you narrowly, myopically and parochially viewed the election would soon break into minute useless shards with banal hues. If you know so much about politics, why not put your hat into the ring? You just have whittled down whatever miniscule respect some people may have had for you thus far and many would start seeing an inveterate ethnic champion in you, henceforth.
Ever heard of force majeur? Why didn't you read the account of why INEC jettisoned the initial plan of real-time transmission of the results? Why are you more catholic than the Pope? Why are you belittling, insulting, assailing and assaulting our intelligence, sensitivities and sensibilities through your invective-riddled submission to President Biden unconscionably? By trying to pen repetitive allegory and obfuscate the whole process, you are nothing but a dangerous, uncharitable, over-venerated specie giving a tacit support to an unruly chauvinist brigade hellbent on pulling down the country just because one trading fellow with unscholarly English and dirty past did not win. You hobnobbed with like minds given to depravity to concoct lies as gallop polls in the run-up to that exercise so as to browbeat some undiscerning minds into a transparent subterfuge ---believing that your candidate would win.
It was in the public domain that your kith and kin tried all manners of dirty tricks through hacking to rig in your candidate so that you would later shout hurrah, the election result followed the pattern of your doctored gallop polls which you had bored us with ab initio. Online activism does not win elections. Somebody failed woefully to appeal to a huge segment of the population in the entire north and won only within his enclave, and rather than see this as a true reflection of the people's will, you busied yourself throwing incendiary adjectives all over America to carpet everybody in Nigeria so as to throw away the baby with the bath water as if we were still a colony of the West. The earlier you borrow yourself some sense the better.
You and your people want to emasculate everybody and plunge this nation into another blitzkrieg of unimaginable proportion, you will not succeeed this time around. Working in cahoots with some strange bedfellows or with those of same toxic and cacophonous cerebral to, yet again, annul that election is an invitation to anarchy.
ycat: There should be but it all depends on the kind of rural areas and if govt and social services offices are still in or around the areas. There are rural areas where everything you need like schools, hospitals, doctors office, grocery stores, libraries, home improvement stores etc are within 5 - 10 miles radius.
ok last question what crop or animal will u advise anyone who want to invest in agriculture to rear /cultivate due to high demand.secondly what d process to acquire a land for farming
otuomasirichi: Why killing your fellow woman over an ordinary boyfriend you can get another day.
Women of nowadays are becoming something else
no talk like dt.wetin women face from other women in regard to nt being married .because it look like na old bae where yrs dey run out on her.because she mentioned marriage.such women can be very bitter because of gossiping nd humilation fromothe women. esp older women.dt why someimes lust nd matter regarding things of d hrt whether na female or male.persin get use wisdom nd dey prayerful na God dey save person
ycat: Some of them are horrible to show, that's why the media won't show them. There are rural areas that ranchers and homesteaders live where you can get 15 acres of land with barns and houses starting from $5,000. And are there small towns that were once bubbling with activities but since the factories have moved overseas, most of the people too have moved away, these are the ones selling from $1- $2,000 or more, 8t depends on how old or damaged the houses are. Some houses are historic buildings the cities sell for $1. They are not places you want to live though.
but wait no govt or n.g.o social housing for rural dwellers over there.
Corporate2020: Middle Belt propagandist are idiots. When their son Gowon ruled for 9 years, when IBB and Abdulsalami who are both from Middle Belt ruled for a 10 years, these miscreants didn't say they were not Northerners then. Any idiot that does anyhow will see anyhow
be calming dwn .na fulani herdnen nd banditry cause am.d killings in plateau btw muslim/christian since obj adminstration..fulani herdmen atrocites (raping,killing)in benue.u cant start blaming them.they suffered d most in dis insecurity issue inrecent yrs.i remember 1st term of buhari when benue indigenes cried for security help from d presidency they were largely ignored.what do u want them to do continue in a union dt kills nd rape their women nd nuthing is done because they come from a certain region .
madridguy: What you just said is about APC and PDP. The States you mentioned voted for the candidates of their choice. So this has nothing to do with what you are saying.
my brother all these is happening because of fulani herdmen.nd other atrocites by them.in middle belt.d raping,killings in middle belt is much.
A young lady simply identified as Bella Nwoko has tendered an apology to her male friend identified as Richard Osita, after she threatened to accuse him of rape.
According to Richard, he and Bella grew up together and had always seen her as a kid sister. He mentioned that she first threatened to accuse him of rape in 2021 when he turned down her sexual advances and also threatened to accuse him of rape last week after he asked her to refund the money she owed him.
In a video he posted on his IG page, Bella could be seen tendering an apology to him for attempting to tarnish his image with rape allegation.
dt one negative side have notice about gen z girls.one has to be careful with ladies below 24/25yrs .they can be very immature nd they dnt believe in karma .nd see life thru their phone(social media in which they too gullible to )
ycat: Most of the rural areas are abandoned and dying because the manufacturing jobs have been moved overseas. You can get a whole house there for $2,000 if you want. Most are now drug dens.
u dnt mean it.is like usa media is nt really shwing d real america.but is it like dt in all their rural areas or jux some of them
Dindondin: APC won't capitalize on anti Igbo or interim govt if Igbos had received brains. Iwuanyanwu and fake Eze of Ajao Estate weren't bribed to say jargons. Out of the abundance of their hearts, their mouth speaketh. You guys shot yourselves on the foot. I m here to suggest realistic solutions. LP played into the hands of APC. You can't take in govt in a face me I face you battle. You said I was following ENDSARS on Nairaland. 🤣 That if I followed it on Twitter, it ll be different. Ok Mr, I followed it live. It's better than that of twitter. Don't think you are the only one that knows how to fight for betterment of Nigeria. It's done with wisdom. You said if they kill my sister won't I fight? My sister won't go and protest after the president has addressed the nation on the issue. What led to massacre at Lekki was failure of people to leave the scene. People like us talked that they can suspend the protest and allow the police reforms to materialise. So if it wasn't hijacked, who elongated the protest? Who were the destroyers of properties and those that looted the palace of Oba of Lagos? Did he talk in favour of govt during ENDSARS? Why is he a target if not for the fact that some people had vendetta against him when he supported Sanwoolu's election in 2019. I repeat, ENDSARS was allowed to be wasted! Those that died are now appearing to have died for nothing especially those lost souls at Lekki. There's solution. It's not by gburugburu nzogbu-nzogbu politics. It's by reasoning and demanding what's realistic in a holistic way. Not the politics of Igbos trying to outshine other tribes as if they know politics better cos I expect all south east stated to be like paradise.
You v the right to agree or disagree with me. But taking rash decisions also bring bloodied nose. You v seen it happen before!
u jux ranting about ibos(ibophobia) nd forget about d real issue .hw will tinubu pay off d huge debt of nigeria.insecurity (banditry,herdmen)nd d economy .because he was busy dancing during champaign
Dindondin: So what happened to Nigerians above 26. Let's say those btw 27-40. Are they not qualified to be Obidient, or not part of Obidients? Or they are categorized as part of the corrupt ones? Let's know who's who? You mentioned ENDSARS. I recalled in October 2020 before ENDSARS was balablued, hijacked & scattered, the main focus was for police reforms focusing on SARS brutality. Buhari addressed the youths that there ll be reforms. He wasn't believed which I didn't too cos FG has always been insincere with police reforms. But few days to October 20th, they protest shifted from ENDSARS (end police brutality) to end bad governance. Like a protest calling for the removal of sitting govt. The crippling of Lekki Toll Gate's commercial activities amongst others. The FG capitalized on this and it resulted in the Lekki massacre. Lessons: Una foolishly deviated from the initial protest that would v ended police brutality for once and pass message to FG that there can be uprising next time they err. Maybe the youths should v retreated and let the police reforms take place or hold govt accountable again. But the hijacking of the protests, the lootings and destructions after the Lekki killings made the protest to look infamous. FG eben use the youths shine kongo that it was a useless protest. A lesson can be learned there that you retreat a little after fighting to re-strategize. That's what they are doing for Obi now. Ordinary leaked voice note, they are dragging him and almost accusing him of treason. Whereas, there are many Muslims guilty of such crimes too. In fact, if Tinubu or Atiku's calls are traced, they might v said such during campaigns. Wisdom is far from Obidióts. Wisdom is needed to fight bad governance else you all will fall prey. Obi should be careful now.
is obvious u were following endsars here on nairaland nd ait ,channels instead following it on arise nd twitter. you mentioned endsars dt it move away from d main focus of police brutality nd it was hijacked also shw u were being misinformed.which was what was being headlined on nairaland quite different from what twittter was showing with videos. it wasnt hijacked because no opposition politicians were allowed.even suwore who did revolution now protest tried to hijack it but failed. you said buhari address d issue but protesters disobeyed nd stubbornly comtinue.the reason for dt what d then I.G OF POLICE HAS CALL OFF SARS ABOUT FOUR TIMES IN FIVE YRS OR SO so did protesters couldnt trust his stand on calling off sars.they want serious action on calling off sars. you said d destruction after lekki killing made it infamous .dt to you but nt to d nigeria youths it wasnt infact it made ypuths aware dt they need to do more than protest.they were discussion on twitter on pol.parties for d youth pple were bringing different ideas.about d destruction if they kill ur sister dt went to protest fpr their right peacefully nd video shw military came dt night nd where shooting life bullet which d western police dnt do they use rubber bullet.nd evidence showed dt d cctv on toll gate was removed earlier dt day .WILL YOU BE CALM OR ANGRY. you mentioned youths saying there be uprising dt they err.oga where is d uprising at d moment ur apc govt send military truck to lagos,ph,kano lied dt it was for election .but obidient later discovered it was for d aftermate pf d election result it was planned apc govt expected a protest .but obidient were smart nd remain calm nd change strategy but apc as going into propaganda upon propsganda bringing up tribal (anti ibo nonsense)later interim govt now religious war. UR APC GOVT IS TRYING SO HARD TO LOOK FOR EXCUSE TO ARREST OBI BUT TO NO AVAIL apc supporters are dillusional they dnt knw fact but depend their life on lie
Dindondin: As much as Reno is a bad mouth person, he's right.
At Antioch, Christian meant Christ like. Acts of Apostles 11:26. Barnabas was gisting with Paul. The people saw their acts similar to that of Jesus and called them Christ like.
Now what you asked me could have been answered by the most wicked jihadists or the most rude atheist cos the answers are there on Google. The same with any question from the Koran. If you wanna know if I m a Christian, check my old posts. At least you ll see where I v defended the faith. The same with who's a Muslim, Traditionalist or Atheist.
Back to the issue, Christians need proper planning from the closet. Not the lousy ones you ll do that your opponents has seen where you ll land. This is what Obi was guilty of. But since some Obidióts can't cope with identifying Obi's faults, we ll be neutral and wait for them to call when they are ready to play politics of no vendetta and tribalism. Cos all that's done in LP is like they really turned the party to Igbo version. Anyone with counter statement should come and dispute it. The earlier the better Igbos see Yorubas as their partner in progress and not opponents the better. Obi should not make the mistakes of Azikiwe how he antagonized Awolowo. Igbos too should stop blaming Yorubas for their woes as if it's Yorubas that told Nzeogwu to start first coup, told Ojukwu to declare Biafra war or responsible for herdsmen killings etc. Or the ones to tell them to start acting as if they owned Lagos, make mouth, planned vendetta votes against Sanwoolu etc. All where noticed and taken to records books. If Igbos want presidency, it's so easy. They should align in truth with the Yorubas. Any signal of betrayal ll be detected and severed for life.
Those that disagree are free to disagree. The end justifies the means.
apc supporters they accused obidient of being dillusional but they are d ones dt are dillusional. for information obidients arent obi supporters really but nigerian youths emerging from aftermath of endsars movement/lekki massacre which gave nigerian youth a wake up call to effect change in our political space. nigeria youths choose obi on twitter drag him to contest .formed obidients on twitter even obi dey fear obidients if u dnt knw. is nt an igbo movement but a nigerian youth movement .d real rugged obidients are gen z (below 26yrs)
Flier: It could have been worse for Channels tv if they tried that in usa or a developed world Do you know that Fox news has been sued by domino's voting machine and several organisations and will probably pay billions in fine for paroting Trump was rigged out ?
did america break his own constitution in dt election no.capitol break into their parliament is it being investigated yes.while nigeria is mc olumo arrested nd persecuted no is nairaland fined for allowing tribal bigotry no .but datti exposing failure in meeting requirement of winning an election they shouting inciting ansachy nd interim govt e.because if tinubu is swear in it means to d world nigeria is breaking it own democractic constitutional law it doesnt speak well of nigeria as a power house of africa dempcracy
ganisucks: Datti was on Arise TV, a day before appearing on Channels. It was there, he first made the speech pertaining to the unconstitutional nature of the president elect. Why was Arise not fined as well?!
my brother forget what datti ahmed was saying is based on area of their pettition .is in d naija constitution you have to win 25percent in 35 ststrs nd fct .tinubu didnt win 25percent in fct in their rig election result. apc knw d truth cant reply ahmed in a democratic way by saying is in d court let leave it that but choose to use dss to lie on interim govt .who has d power for interim govt is d military nd datti has no military link his a full time civilian d world is watching d judiciary of nigeria apc knw this .dt why they doing all these .because is shameful dt d coma giant of africa is breaking its own constitutional laws
Nsogbu001: I'm from Ebonyi state and it has been from hand to mouth. No long stories. This picture shows how God transformed my life
congrats .but it will be good to narrate ur journey.from what u were doing in naija ,hw u japa nd d hustling journey for obodoyinbo.ur advice on what to avoid nd steps to take for abroad country.it will be more helpful because too many pple are jux follpwing japa trends without having plans.nd later get stuck over there.e.g is someone dt will sell his landed properties ,mansion japa nd end up washing old oyinbo pple yansh nd get stucked with tax,rent bill with little to no savings
Omicronvaccine: Obidient Tsunami In The Land, I Am Going Back To My Original Hustle - Chimaroke Nnamani (Photo)
Senator representing Enugu East and former governor of Enugu State, Chimaroke Nnamani, said he will be going back to his former hustle after he was defeated by Labour Party's candidate in the 2023 Senatorial election, IGBERETV reports.
Jessyjeff: What they are doing in Lagos is like allowing the mafia run government agencies.
The masses will have brutal stories to tell . Unfortunately, those Agberos have no atom of sympathy in their blood! They are like vampires.
all drivers of different tribes are affected by dis agbero.they no segregate ibo from yorubas drivers .wen wesay tribalism doesnt favour anyone esp politicians .see wetin dey happen.dis are the things obidients wanted to end thru GRV .
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