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eyinjuege:


Don't you want him to remarry and start his life again?
I know you're still grieving your mum. But we all have various ways we grieve.
Hopefully, with time you will get over your grief. You are the legacy your mother has left behind. Make it count.
You've not mentioned anything the woman has done wrong to you. You never mentioned she was having an affair with your dad while he was still married to your mum. Other than some hocus pocus about some plantain, which you all ate out of, she hasn't been mean or wicked to you all. She is also the mother of your older siblings, and will always be in the life of your dad whether you like it or not. That should count for something shouldn't it?
Is it until your dad remarries a younger woman who would want her own children, and then reduce the resources available that your eye would clear? Even if your dad remarries another older woman who cant bear children again, nothing would stop him from spending his resources on his new wife's children from another. At least now, if he spends anything, it would still be on his own children.
Life has thrown lemons at your dad dear, he's only trying to make lemonade. He's been married twice so far, and I'm sure he's not happy about that or losing a wife.
He just needs a companion now, and I think you will appreciate her when you are older with your own family. You wont have to worry about your dad being lonely all the time, about his cooking and feeding.
I don't think she means harm for your father who Is also the father of her children.
Try to see the positives, and don't dwell on negative thoughts.
Sorry if I sound harsh, I don't mean to be. I wish you well.

thanks I really appreciate

baby124:
OP, fight for what you can while your dad is alive. Don’t mind what anyone else is saying because if something happens to your dad and you are thrown on the street. No grandma, uncle, aunt or Nairaland will give you a kobo. Before he brings her in, make sure there are strong agreements that secure your future with your school fees covering your 4yrs and other things on ground. Don’t fall for emotional blackmail and other pitiful stuff because no one will pity you when you are on your own. You no get mama agin to fight for you. Fight for yourself in a rational and practical manner. Even your dad will be impressed.

thanks I really appreciate

eyinjuege:


Don't you want him to remarry and start his life again?
I know you're still grieving your mum. But we all have various ways we grieve.
Hopefully, with time you will get over your grief. You are the legacy your mother has left behind. Make it count.
You've not mentioned anything the woman has done wrong to you. You never mentioned she was having an affair with your dad while he was still married to your mum. Other than some hocus pocus about some plantain, which you all ate out of, she hasn't been mean or wicked to you all. She is also the mother of your older siblings, and will always be in the life of your dad whether you like it or not. That should count for something shouldn't it?
Is it until your dad remarries a younger woman who would want her own children, and then reduce the resources available that your eye would clear? Even if your dad remarries another older woman who cant bear children again, nothing would stop him from spending his resources on his new wife's children from another. At least now, if he spends anything, it would still be on his own children.
Life has thrown lemons at your dad dear, he's only trying to make lemonade. He's been married twice so far, and I'm sure he's not happy about that or losing a wife.
He just needs a companion now, and I think you will appreciate her when you are older with your own family. You wont have to worry about your dad being lonely all the time, about his cooking and feeding.
I don't think she means harm for your father who Is also the father of her children.
Try to see the positives, and don't dwell on negative thoughts.
Sorry if I sound harsh, I don't mean to be. I wish you well.

thanks,she and my dad has been calling themselves and seeing each other before my mom's death.

eyinjuege:


No, I don't get it.
That house was for both parents. If the father had died before his wife, his children from another woman would still have an inheritance, at least from their father's share (if they even built it together). Because a relationship didn't work out between them doesn't make the children they have non existent. You dont throw away your children from a previous marriage. That's evil.
Unless their mother built the house, the man's children from a previous marriage have the same rights as OP in that house.
How do you even know If it wasn't the same house the ex-wife lived in before they separated? How do you know the father didn't have his own house before he remarried OPs mother? How do you know if their own mother didn't have her own house(s) and inheritance for her own children before she died?

we just moved to this house and my mom is also buried in this house

eyinjuege:


I hope you know the father also has other children who are older than the OP and her sibling. Why should their father will only the house to OP and her younger one? Do they have 2 heads more than the older children the man has? Are their own futures too not as important as the Op's?

Miss OP- Ogundejasmine, you cannot decide who your father should marry or remarry. The woman in question was there before your mother.
Your father and her have unfinished business together, and want to finish it now.
I would advice you to face your front, and be happy for your dad provided she makes him happy.
Let the old man be, and befriend the mother of his other children. Face your studies, and let your father continue to sponsor your education.
Aim at making your future a bright one, and stop getting distracted with irrelevant matters. Try and make your mother proud in her grave by your success in life, and not by policing a grown man. I'm sure that's what your mum would probably have wanted.
If what split them up the first time is still an issue, they will still split up last last again.

We are hurt by my dad is doing and it is affecting our relationship.

baby124:

Is she an ex-wife or was your dad polygamous? What makes her have full right in the house? Abi you are just playing games here cause your first story and your new development doesn’t make sense.

Tell your father to secure your future first before thinking with his emotions. What if he’s not here tomorrow and you are orphans. Who will fight for you people? Play the angle that your mother is no longer here anymore and even he is not an orphan, so he doesn’t understand how you feel. Try and get what you can from him. Don’t fall for emotional blackmail because once she moves in, you people may not have it easy. And because your father is desperate, he may end up behaving like a mumu to keep the peace. You people will now become strangers in your own home. That your mother was good and trusting does not mean this woman will be. You don’t know what her intentions are so don’t take chances. She will not always be coming and going. Once you accept option 2, she will move in fully.

she is an ex-wife to my daddy. My mom wasn't the cause of their separation and she has never seen my dad's first wife before.

I thank everyone for your advice. A new development has happened, my dad called us to choose 1 out of 3 options. 1.he should marry another wife that doesn't know him at all. 2.let his first wife come regularly since she has full right in the house and she knows everything about him. 3.he should be alone and he should die untimely (according to him). My younger one has already chose option 2 but I told him to do whatever pleases him. This will be the first time my dad said that he would get very angry with us if we behave anyhow anytime the woman comes in. I don't know what to do

baby124:
Go secretly to your grandma and tell her what is going on. Tell her not to say anything. On one of the days that the woman comes to sleep in the house, invite grandma over for impromptu visit. Let her claim she wanted to surprise her son so that kassala fit burst. Get your troublesome Aunty to join in the trip too. I am sure this woman did something terrible for the sibling in the know to react like that.

In all sha, your dad probably feels lonely and needs companionship. It also seems like he was the one that chased after her. It’s easier I guess to settle for a woman that has your kids when you become widowed. It’s also an answered prayer for the step kids.

Just make sure your dad makes a promise to take care of you and your sister and not bring in the world into your home where you all had peace. Ensure your father keeps to his obligations and tax him well to cover 4yrs of education in savings just in case they get greedy and off him. Only to throw you guys out later. It happens, so prepare for the worst and for when your dad is no longer around. Also make sure that house is under your name or one of your names as assurance from your dad on what he is doing. Just in case something happens to him.

Make sure he makes all amendments and you hold on to the original documents in a safe place. It’s time to move fast and work fast to secure your own future. In all this, don’t disrespect her. Just play along to get all you need.

My grandma stays in a far place and she doesn't know anywhere apart from my state. Thanks

blaise26abj:
Sorry to ask this. Why was your mum asked to ask her ex husband and your step mom for forgiveness? Was she the root cause of the collapse of their marriage? Try to find out things that they might not be telling you.

According to what my mom told me, the first wife was the one who packed her loads and her children from the house. The first wife recently gave a reason why she did that, she said it was because of the battles in my daddy's family which my dad sheepishly agreed

Thank you all for your replies. First of all, I and my younger sister are students, so we can't leave house yet. I have explained to my older step sister(mom's daughter) she asked us to keep enduring till we resume back to school. My dad doesn't have any close friends, the friends he has are already aware of this woman because she normally visit my dad and they have seen her all the time. My dad is the first born so there is limit to what his siblings said to him. The one we can report to is at loggerheads with him because of this case. She was even the one who reported him to his younger brother about the incessant calls

Prognose:
Do you have any elder person in your family that you're close to and can confide in ? Any uncle or auntie from your father or late mother's side? You need a mature person to step into this matter.

he said that we shouldn't tell anybody. One of his younger brother knows about it. The woman said she would visit my grandma soon. We don't know how they will take it because they really love my dad and he is the first born. Thanks

Good day nairalanders, I am new on this platform. I want your advice on the issue I want to narrate. I am sorry if it is long. My parents were both divorcees before they got married, although they both had kids from their previous marriages and their ex-spouses are still alive. My step brothers do come to stay with us for sometime and we lived together. In 2012,my step brother came to our house and he gave my mom 3 ripe plantain and washing soaps, he said his mom asked him to give it to her. My mom being trusting fried the plantain that morning and we all ate it, she even thanked the woman. Since then, my mum started having health issues to the extent that she couldn't see again, she was in this condition for 5 years before she passed on last year. We went to different places (hospitals, churches, alfas,herbalist),all they said was that she ate something. Doctors said there was nothing wrong with her health wise. In one of the churches we went to, she was asked to beg for forgiveness from her ex-husband and my dad's first wife, we did that but nothing happened. Before her death, she normally dream of this woman but she didn't know she was the one because she has never seen her before. Few months after my mom's death, I noticed that there is closeness between my dad and his first wife to the extent that his younger brother got to know of it and it almost became fight betweenthem.Now,this woman has started coming to our house, when she came the first time, my daddy's excuse was she wanted to see us and he need to close to her so that our step brothers will be closer to us. The second time she came, she slept in our house and my dad's bed, the excuse they gave was that there was traffic congestion and she couldn't go home that day. When my dad came back the next day, we discussed about it and we told him that we don't want her to come to our house and he said okay. He told us not to tell about all this. The third time she came, she spent a week, she even brought her luggage, we complained to our dad then he said he needs someone to talk to and someone to take care of him, he started telling us stories. Now, this woman is in our house and we don't know when she is leaving. She leaves with my dad in the morning and they come home together at night. My dad don't really care about us again and it is breaking the relationship between us. We are heartbroken, should we tell my dad's family members about what is happening because she told me that this is her house and she will live with us forever, she also said we are making our dad unhappy but she is there to make him happy. I am sorry it is very long