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Romance / Re: Real Experience But Weird by Ojb194616: 11:02am On Feb 07, 2021
Had little experience like that. It was with my perfume. I looked for it everywhere in my room, checked my table , checked everywhere. Lo and behold after some minutes of searching I saw it on the table I checked several times, not placed under something...but on the tip of the table. I took it as something strange but normal anyway. But i know something happened that day.
Romance / Re: Have The Girl You Dis-flower Ever Disappointed You? by Ojb194616: 10:55am On Feb 07, 2021
Uncle93:
Good question.. The one I disvirgined glued with me and was scared of me messing up. Lets hear from others, someone out there might have had a pretty fcked up experience with an angel they turned into a hoe.

My experience was different anyways. She broke up knowing we can't be. Not my fault, but her family. But still call me frequently. I hardly pick anyways
Romance / Have The Girl You Dis-flower Ever Disappointed You? by Ojb194616: 10:47am On Feb 07, 2021
So recently, guys has been on the notion that if you want peace or someone to truly love you genuinely for the rest of your life, you should marry a virgin.
Truly speaking there are lot of benefits attached when u meet a good woman.
So my question is probably for those that married their wifes a virgin or truly loved and believed their virgin girlfriend would be faithful.

I just want to know how the relationship ended with a girl you disvirgined or how its going.
Romance / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 12:56pm On Nov 29, 2020
Lalasticlala 2.

The above is one
Politics / Re: Ajaokuta Is 90 Percent Complete, May Be Functional Early 2023 – Minister by Ojb194616: 7:14pm On Aug 18, 2020
omohayek:
The stubborn insistence on continuing to throw money at white elephants like Ajaokuta and the NNPC refineries is all the proof one needs that most Nigerian leaders have absolutely no understanding of basic economics: some projects are simply not worth spending more effort on, no matter how much time and effort one might already have spent on them, and to continue regardless is to fall victim to the sunk cost fallacy.

Even if Ajaokuta were to be magically completed tomorrow, it will never ever make a profit. The Soviet-era technology in it was already obsolete back in 1983 when Shagari was boasting about its impending completion, and since then Chinese steelmakers have been driving even the biggest and most advanced American and European steelmakers into bankruptcy, even before the COVID-19 crisis killed demand for steel. Under such circumstances, there is more likelihood of a random Nigerian jumping in the air and touching the moon than there is of this ridiculous money-pit ever justifying spending even one more dollar on it. The money would be better spent on improving primary and secondary education, so that more Nigerians would have the requisite knowledge to see announcements like this one for the follies they are.

So u prefer going to school and graduating to do nothing?

What we need now is infrastructure.. That can accommodate graduates..
Fixing the steel plants won't stop the government from improving in education.
Family / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 5:51am On Aug 18, 2020
Ohizman73:
That's funny because edo and Yoruba have the same roots . Am from edo , to the extent that in edo north were am from most of us bare purely Yoruba names and speak Yoruba fluently. What part of edo is she from Esan, Bini, Owan and Etsako or Akoko-Edo.Edos and yorubas intermarry a lot.


Eshan
Family / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 7:37pm On Aug 17, 2020
Exmilitant:
our languages going extinct.

Intertribal or no intertribal.. Our language seem to be fading away.
Every body wants to be in big cities.
Children no longer interested in speaking languages anymore. Some parents even tell children not to speak.
So its not my case that would be the first.

Las Las,

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Family / Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by Ojb194616: 11:00pm On Aug 16, 2020
We wey never see our girlfriend for one year nko?

That man no love u o.

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Romance / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 5:38pm On Aug 16, 2020
davidhobo:


Go and make money. Money stops all nonsense. Na the papa go ddy call u, everyday

Everything is not about money.
I am not broke.
And even if am very rich.. I won't use my money to buy a womans parent.
Romance / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 5:37pm On Aug 16, 2020
OlawaleBammie:


How I wished all tribes in naija are like we the yorubas, naija would b less tribalistic.

Yes o.
Romance / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 5:37pm On Aug 16, 2020
frozen70:


You don't need to stress yourself much as the solution it within you

The only person that will do the job is your woman

Leave it for her, her happiness is of important to her family

By the time they discover that she will rather die than leaving you then, you guys will get approval

Just keep doing good and being good to your woman

But never you fail her incaes you guys gets married, her family will laugh at her



By God's grace I won't
Romance / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 1:50pm On Aug 16, 2020
evil1:


I had a similar view with until I met one here few weeks back and shes so amazing.
If you truly want the issue to be settled, get her pregnant or let her lie to her parents shes pregnant for you and wouldnt want to delay it so the pregnancy doesnt pop out before wedding day. Thank me later

Lol.. OK o
Romance / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 12:43pm On Aug 16, 2020
Oracleforce:



Probably her parents have seen it that you have bad omen. ....

Hmm..
Romance / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 12:42pm On Aug 16, 2020
Oracleforce:



You are begging the issue....a journey of thousands of miles begins with a step. Give her belle and switch off your phone....they will beg you to come and marry by force...but don't rape her oh...

But Edo State and Yoruba are more or less the same....probably you come from Ijebu ogun state....Other tribes don't want to marry people that come from the ogun state..ijebu to be precise

Well...shey ogun state people no be human being
Romance / Re: This Kind Of Girl Set Me Free, Make Me Happy. Wallahi by Ojb194616: 12:28pm On Aug 16, 2020
If na Nigeria now.. Them go say she abuse the uniform.
Romance / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 12:17pm On Aug 16, 2020
Bennysam:
Go and marry from your tribe simple

Is that easy?
Na so them they marry?

Well, my heart is with her.

Marrying my tribe might not give me the joy I want.
Romance / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 11:02am On Aug 16, 2020
IbnBattuta1960:

Just give some time like 12 to 24 months.
I guess her parents are overriding her because of age.
Over time, she will either get pissed and snub them or succumb to their pressure and let you move on.
No sacrifice is too much for the one we love.
Just be patient and supportive. But with a clear mandate.

She will be 26 soon.
Family / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 7:20am On Aug 16, 2020
dingbang:
yeah very well. The mother sef. Na she know wetin dey piss am off.

And she's the one fueling the whole thing.
Family / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 9:42pm On Aug 15, 2020
Vyzz:
Edo and Yoruba the hate themselves....





That's like igbos and Ikwerres hating themselves


Bro, u can elope with her

Lol.. Not possible
Romance / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 9:41pm On Aug 15, 2020
GreatResearcher:
and u are not rich either

Lol.. Well life is life.
Am just very OK!
Romance / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 9:41pm On Aug 15, 2020
GreatResearcher:
she must be underage then.
26..parents really stubborn.
Romance / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 9:20pm On Aug 15, 2020
ParpahSeventy:

Maybe you are not ready, you can't negotiate standing far off, how can you convince them! ?

I am.
But I really don't like stress.
Romance / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 9:03pm On Aug 15, 2020
IbnBattuta1960:

It's not your decision to make.
She should make the decision and let progress be made.
Abi, una two ready to stay like this till grey hair begin show?

I just weak.
Just confused.
At some point her phone was taken from her for talking to me.
Romance / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 9:01pm On Aug 15, 2020
ParpahSeventy:

For me whatever you want, go all out to get it, maybe you can use them to pay the parents a visit, nothing is impossible, just be careful while you visit.

Parents that are not even ready to hear my name.?
Ha..i can't visit o.
Family / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 8:57pm On Aug 15, 2020
Righteousness89:
If you 2 can Stay away From Fornicating and Pray about it, I Believe Her Parents will Change their minds and Accept you 2..

Hmm.. Its well
Romance / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 8:56pm On Aug 15, 2020
IbnBattuta1960:
Both of you should organise your court marriage.
Invite your parents.
Nobody can oppose the laws of the land.
From there, things will soften up.
Goodluck.

Lol. Awoo.
She can't.
If the reverse was the case.. I can.
But she's a woman.
Romance / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 8:54pm On Aug 15, 2020
ParpahSeventy:
The situation is tough, she doesn't have siblings that you can use to access the parents?

They have spoken to their parents. Still no hope
Romance / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 8:46pm On Aug 15, 2020
GreatResearcher:
Go and make money. When you are rich, you can marry from any tribe.

Am not broke.

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Family / Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 8:42pm On Aug 15, 2020
Please I really do need matured advice on what to do.
I have been with my girl for over two years now.
So far, I would say its been going really smoothly, she's the best and I really love her.

But the issue now is, her parents are not in support of us. It has really been a thug of war between her and her parents.
The parents are not even ready to set their eyes on me. I really wish they give me a chance to say something.
The most confusing part right now is, my girl has refused to let go. My parents are in support of us. My mum love her much.
But our hands are tired because we can't do anything to change their mind or see them to avoid embarrassment as they insist she must marry her tribal person.

I really don't know what to do at this point.
I really wish I could confidently say I could give up on her.. But truth is, I can't as I really do care about her.
She's Edo and am Yoruba.
Romance / Re: Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 8:40pm On Aug 15, 2020
konkonbilo:
angry just give her belle. All their noise go calm down

Lol. What if complications arise. See its not even an option
Romance / Tribal Difference Trying To Distroy My Relationship. by Ojb194616: 8:36pm On Aug 15, 2020
Please I really do need matured advice on what to do.
I have been with my girl for over two years now.
So far, I would say its been going really smoothly, she's the best and I really love her.

But the issue now is, her parents are not in support of us. It has really been a thug of war between her and her parents.
The parents are not even ready to set their eyes on me. I really wish they give me a chance to say something.
The most confusing part right now is, my girl has refused to let go. My parents are in support of us. My mum love her much.
But our hands are tired because we can't do anything to change their mind or see them to avoid embarrassment as they insist she must marry her tribal person.

I really don't know what to do at this point.
I really wish I could confidently say I could give up on her.. But truth is, I can't as I really do care about her.
She's Edo and am Yoruba.
Romance / Re: A Girl Advice Needed, Is it Possible 4 Her 2 Change Her Mind After Rejecting Me. by Ojb194616: 1:19pm On Jul 23, 2017
Demigods666:


Message me privately, let you show you one simple thing to do and you will get her back.


I would have...but i am not that desperate... Plus ur profile is not encouraging

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