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Culture / Thunder Stroke: Killed Nursing Mother by OJtOp2(m): 12:51pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
Saturday evening, It was like a normal rain and thunder storms, but unknown to people of Mopo Isanlu in Kogi State that havoc has occurred to a women who backed her baby to buy 'eko'. on her way home thunder stroke her dead but safely kept the child's life unhurt. As at 10am on Sunday her body was still lieing on the ground, with fear of reprisal attack if necessary appeasing were not done. Are these things still happening everywhere? |
Investment / 50% Salary Cut: Can Prices Of Things Or Salary Be Cut By 50%,? by OJtOp2(m): 3:06pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
It is no longer news that that the President and the Vice have decided to cut their salaries. Can we have salary cut by employees? or prices of commodities reduced by 50%? What are your take Nairalanders. let's discuss |
Religion / 10 Reasons Why The Church Should Not Abandon Politics by OJtOp2(m): 11:04pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
Recent events have raised the issue, Should the pulpit always avoid politics? It depends on what we mean by "politics;" it demeans the pulpit to use it for partisan politics. But here are ten reasons why I don't think politics and religion should (or even can) be completely separate: 1) The Word of God has something to say about all of life, beyond just the spiritual. My long-time pastor, Dr. D. James Kennedy, once noted that the Church of Jesus Christ has always been opposed to abortion---from the very beginning. It still is. In the last generation, abortion has become a "political" issue. Does that mean, asked Dr. Kennedy, we should now ignore it in the pulpit? No, because the Bible is pro-life. 2) The Bible itself addresses the issue of governing in different texts. There are biblical books dealing with political rulers---1 and 2 Samuel, 1 and 2 Kings, Judges. In Genesis and in Daniel, we see godly men serving well in pagan courts, for the good of all. In Romans 13 and 1 Peter 2, we hear that God has established the civil magistrate, and we are to obey the government. In Exodus, we see Moses rebuking Pharaoh for mistreating the Hebrews. 3) The Scriptures also teach that on occasion, there may be a need for civil disobedience. When the apostles were commanded to no longer preach the gospel, Peter said that we must obey God rather than man. If there is an either/or, then civil disobedience can be the right path. Many early Christians died for Christ rather than worship the emperor, clearly a false god. 4) Jesus said, "Render to Caesar the things that are Caesar's, and to God the things that are God's." Nature abhors a vacuum. Someone will be involved in politics. Why should we abandon our role as citizens? According to Jesus, we have a positive duty to render certain obligation to the state. 5) When the Church does not speak out, evil can fill that void. Silence in the face of evil can signal assent. We hold up those Christians who went against Hitler and the Nazis as heroes---not the millions who acquiesced to them. 5) When the Church does not speak out, evil can fill that void. Silence in the face of evil can signal assent. We hold up those Christians who went against Hitler and the Nazis as heroes---not the millions who acquiesced to them 6) The Church is called to be salt and light. Salt preserves and prevents decay. Christians in society should help prevent corruption. As goes the pulpit, so goes the nation. 7) We pray, "Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven." That doesn't mean we should try and force the kingdom of God by use of the sword. When "Christians" did that in times past, we are still apologizing for it, as in the Crusades, the Inquisition, the Salem Witchcraft trials. But it does mean that Christians can apply biblical principles to government that result in good for all of us. And to be sure, someone's morality is always being legislated. It is not a question of "if," but of "what" and of "whose." Christians bless everybody when we properly apply our faith to politics. Our Constitution was an outgrowth of the biblical concept of covenant. University of Houston Professor Dr. Donald S. Lutz, author of The Origins of American Constitutionalism , said that Americans "invented modern Constitutionalism and bequeathed it to the world." And where did we get it? Says Lutz: "The American constitutional tradition derives in much of its form and content from the Judeo-Christian tradition as interpreted by the radical Protestant sects to which belonged so many of the original European settlers in British North America." 9) Politics may be the calling of some in the congregation. Therefore, ministers should encourage political involvement that is motivated by the desire to serve. When the Member of Parliament William Wilberforce was converted in the 1780s, he sought counsel from Rev. John Newton, an ex- slave-trader. Should he leave politics and pursue the ministry? Newton advised him to stay because maybe God could use him where he was. Wilberforce's crusade to free the slaves in the British Empire took him 50 years and was a direct outgrowth of his faith in Christ. I shudder to think if one of today's "no politics" ministers had counseled the young reborn Wilberforce. We might still have legal slavery in the Western world. 10) Religion and morality are "indispensable supports to our political prosperity." So said Washington in his Farewell Address. John Adams said, "Our Constitution was made only for a moral and religious people. It is wholly inadequate to the government of any other." This was in a day when about 99% of the Americans were professing Christians. |
Politics / Re: I Was Betrayed By Tinubu And Buhari - Ex-gov Amechi by OJtOp2(m): 9:57am On Jul 08, 2015 |
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Politics / Re: I Was Betrayed By Tinubu And Buhari - Ex-gov Amechi by OJtOp2(m): 8:22am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Politics / Re: I Was Betrayed By Tinubu And Buhari - Ex-gov Amechi by OJtOp2(m): 8:19am On Jul 08, 2015 |
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Politics / Re: I Was Betrayed By Tinubu And Buhari - Ex-gov Amechi by OJtOp2(m): 11:44pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
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Politics / I Was Betrayed By Tinubu And Buhari - Ex-gov Amechi by OJtOp2(m): 11:31pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
“Let it be known, that I didn’t just join the APC, I was wooed by the legacy parties and four other PDP governors then. Naturally in every bargain, interests must be spelt out. Of course they did promise me the Vice Presidential ticket in the forth coming election with a condition to sell the party and make President Jonathan unpopular. The initial arrangement was to pair me with Hon. Tambuwal (Speaker of House of Representatives) . But when other entrants like Atiku and others entered the party, everything changed. It was Gov. Nyako that opened up to me on the recent changes, and pleaded with me to take the position of the National chairman of party, that it will be zoned to the South-South. And I grudgingly accepted. Now, in every political convention, consensus building is needed to harmonize all interests. So I initiated a platform for the 16 APC governors to talk in Port-Harcourt last week. And in that meeting, the 13 governors and their deputies that were in attendance reassured me that I will be given the national chairmanship slot. But when I asked Gov. Adams to ask Chief Ikimi and John Oyegun to step down for my candidate, Adam’s quietly told me “My brother, I know the bad name they have called you in the South-South and Rivers in particular. Again, I sympathize with you because I know how much you have put-in in APC, this Yoruba and Hausa people can’t be trusted, they said you couldn’t build the APC in Rivers State and that only 95,633 out of the 1.3 million membership you claimed have passport photographs. That everything was doctored by you”. I find it very disappointing, that we no longer have men of trust, and integrity. Men whose words should be their bond in politics. So last night, I made my position clear, that if the other candidates didn’t step down for Dr. Sam Sam Jaja, then there was no point picking the expression of interest form. I feel deeply betrayed” |
Sports / Re: Onazi Ogenyi Praying At TB Joshua's Prayer Mountain by OJtOp2(m): 2:23am On Jul 05, 2015 |
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Politics / President Muhammad Buhari: No More Excuses by OJtOp2(m): 7:02pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
Open Letter to President Muhammadu Buhari Greetings Mr. President, Since you resumed office as President of Nigeria, I have read and listened to many scaring utterances from your aides, political party and most recently from you. Of late, it is all about that you meeting an empty treasury, No money, Jonathan did this, Jonathan did that, be patient with me, no this, no that, bla bla bla bla. Mr. President I want to remind that while you were campaigning, I listened to you on the TV, you said that Nigeria was broke, that Jonathan is destroying Nigeria and you want to rescue it. I read you branding our country, Nigeria as a failed state. Right? So now, that you have finally taken over, why are you complaining that Nigeria is broke, a situation you were much aware even before you started your campaign? You knew that Nigeria was broke before making over 48 promises to Nigerians, right? So Mr President, I just want to remind you…as below… You promised Nigeria CHANGE, you did not promise excuses… You promised the little children one meal per day, you did not promise them excuses…what a shame You promised unemployed Youths N5,000 every month, you did not promise them excuses. Katsina Women queued up early this week for their payment and went home disappointed. You promised Youth corp members one year salary after service, you did not promise excuses… You promised to equate N1.00 to $1.00, not excuses. [Naira was 182 to a Dollar on 29 May, 2015, today it is 224 to a Dollar]. You promised to create three million Jobs per year, not excuses You promised to create and transmit 20,000 MW of electricity, not excuses. You Promised to build 60,000 Houses in a year, not excuse. You promised us Chinese type, Rocket speed train in a year in office, not excuse. You promised permanent peace in the Niger Delta, not excuses. You promised to ban all government officials from seeking medical care abroad, not excuses. You promised to Balance our Budget in your first year in office, not patience. You promised to crushed Boko Haram within a week in office, not calling them your disgruntled brothers. You promised to kill Corruption, but you have freed indicted APC leaders and $600,000,000 squandered from our reserve in less than a week. You promised to stop ostentatious lifestyle of our Politicians, but one of your official car is valued over N500,000,000. The list is long… if you have forgotten them, please ask Femi Adesina and Garba Shehu to Google them out for you Sir. These days Mr.President, you can find everything you said just by googling them and let me remind you Mr president, this stealing started from the North, then it extended to South-West before reaching the South-South, we must fight corruption from its first source and end it at its last bus stop which Mr President claim is South-South. Mr. President, Nigeria want to see you talk about achieving this promises not excuses. We sincerely Trust your ability to achieve all these as promised and wish you success, Good health, Extra energy and better focus. From a concerned Nigerian. Copied To Nigerians, home and Abroad. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Jesus Christ Is Superior by OJtOp2(m): 6:53am On Jun 21, 2015 |
Jesus Christ is greater than my problems, greater than everything! |
Religion / Jesus Christ Is Superior by OJtOp2(m): 5:39am On Jun 21, 2015 |
Jesus is superior to all. I have tried one or two god’s before I found Jesus and I realized He is the best. He has no competitor. He is the original like one of my friends said recently He is a universal monopolist, a sole producer and many consumers. I came to realize that my life could not have been complete without Him. You too can chose Him today and life will take a new, sweet shape... Who is Jesus Christ to you? 1 Like |
Politics / How Bola Tinubu Came About The Title ‘jagaban’ by OJtOp2(m): 10:30pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
Dantoro said that he had a common interest with the national leader of the All Progressives Congress Tinubu when it came to telling the truth. His words: “I knew Bola Ahmed Tinubu when we were at the National Assembly as senators. He belonged to a different party (SDP) while I was in NRC. But we had a common interest when it came to telling the truth. We said it as it was then. He knew my vision even when the June 12 issue was in the front burner. I could see the injustices and I stood by fairness because I detest injustice. “You can see that I identified myself with the aspiration of Nigerians. At one time he said he wanted me to go and see Late Chuief Moshood Kashimawo Abiola but I told him I never had any need from Abiola. If I went there, that meant I was going there for money. But what we were doing was right and posterity will judge us. So we had a lot of things in common and we had been friends since then. “He saw me as being straightforward, honest and sincere in all my dealings with him. Not for any material gain. In fact, when I began my legal sojourn in the Emirship tussle he also supported me in terms of advice because it was a tough battle for me. It was tough taking on the government and we had to employ the services of a senior advocate of Nigeria in the person of Wole Olanipekun. “When God made me the Emir I said this man was there when I was in dire need of help so why can’t I use my position to make him what I feel will help him in future politically. That was why I honoured him with the title of ‘Jagaban.’ Jagaban means ‘Leader of Warriors.” Jagaban is a title, which has gained prominence, particularly among different followers and political allies. But not many are aware that the chieftaincy title was bestowed on the former senator by His Royal Highness, Alhaji Haliru Dantoro III, the Emir of Borgu (New Bussa, Niger State). The Borgu Emirate is a Nigerian traditional state with its capital in New Bussa. It was formed in 1954 when the Bussa and Kaiama emirates were merged.
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Politics / How Bola Tinubu Came About The Title ‘jagaban’ by OJtOp2(m): 5:31pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
Dantoro said that he had a common interest with the national leader of the All Progressives Congress Tinubu when it came to telling the truth. His words: “I knew Bola Ahmed Tinubu when we were at the National Assembly as senators. He belonged to a different party (SDP) while I was in NRC. But we had a common interest when it came to telling the truth. We said it as it was then. He knew my vision even when the June 12 issue was in the front burner. I could see the injustices and I stood by fairness because I detest injustice. “You can see that I identified myself with the aspiration of Nigerians. At one time he said he wanted me to go and see Late Chief Moshood Kashimawo Abiola but I told him I never had any need from Abiola. If I went there, that meant I was going there for money. But what we were doing was right and posterity will judge us. So we had a lot of things in common and we had been friends since then. “He saw me as being straightforward, honest and sincere in all my dealings with him. Not for any material gain. In fact, when I began my legal sojourn in the Emirship tussle he also supported me in terms of advice because it was a tough battle for me. It was tough taking on the government and we had to employ the services of a senior advocate of Nigeria in the person of Wole Olanipekun. “When God made me the Emir I said this man was there when I was in dire need of help so why can’t I use my position to make him what I feel will help him in future politically. That was why I honoured him with the title of ‘Jagaban.’ Jagaban means ‘Leader of Warriors.” Jagaban is a title, which has gained prominence, particularly among different followers and political allies. But not many are aware that the chieftaincy title was bestowed on the former senator by His Royal Highness, Alhaji Haliru Dantoro III, the Emir of Borgu (New Bussa, Niger State). The Borgu Emirate is a Nigerian traditional state with its capital in New Bussa. It was formed in 1954 when the Bussa and Kaiama emirates were merged. |
Politics / Re: What Saraki Told Obasanjo - Premium Times by OJtOp2(m): 3:26pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
d APC I know is a party of people with common enemy, who is former President Goodluck. now he is not there dy wud fight demselves. and it will b episodes 1 Like |
Politics / Before Our Lawmakers Auction Us by OJtOp2(m): 11:41am On Jun 18, 2015 |
The widespread anger which greeted the reported outrageous allocations for wardrobe allowances for members of the National Assembly earlier this week is quite understandable, and obviously inevitable. From what we heard, as from next week, every member of the House of Representatives, some of who have no idea what they will be doing and will not recover from that ignorance anytime during their four-year term, will have the sum of N1.4m to expend on clothes and accessories with which they will dazzle the taxpayers who pay them monthly. His more fortunate and privileged counterpart in the Senate will have a more handsome sum of 1.7m in the same 30- day period to maintain his wardrobe! That sum, which does not include an assortment of other allowances, will pay the minimum wage of 81 other Nigerians. Only that unlike the legislator who sits three times in a week but hides under all sorts of committee engagements to convince us that he is busy, these 81 people work very hard, five days of the week just to fend for themselves and their families and pay the salaries of men and women who were sent to Abuja, Nigeria’s Federal Capital Territory, to represent the people’s interest. But it gets more pathetic. While millions of people who earn a minimum wage of N18, 000(far less than $100) and hundreds of thousands of others who retired after serving the nation for an average of 35 years are being owed salaries and pensions for periods ranging from between five and 10 months, the princes and princesses that we just elected to talk, or even fight and throw chairs in the chambers for us, must get their indulgences before the legislative houses resume. Nothing depicts the lopsidedness of the Nigerian situation as aptly as this: He who is called to serve is now being serviced. Members of the political class in Nigeria feed so fat on the larger percentage of the people that they have become indolent and uncaring. This is more so for the legislature which fails to be the true representatives of the people by pandering to filthy lucre or the dictates of a patron. Now and again in this column, I have registered my disappointment with the National Assembly, obviously, the largest assemblage of overpaid and underperforming men and women anywhere in the world. In a recent piece entitled, “The failure staring APC in the face,” I ventilated the opinion that the National Assembly is the most important arm of government and that a lot of the inefficiencies including corruption that we see in the polity result from the inaction or collaboration of the legislature. But the National Assembly apparently has the idea that it is best to use its powers to milk Nigeria dry without much consideration for the fact that well over 100 million Nigerians are unable to afford more than one meal in a day. Nigerian are therefore justifiably horrified and outraged by the news of the reckless national expenditure on the humongous salaries and allowances of the members of the National Assembly. An investigative report in Tuesday’s edition of The PUNCH indicated that aside from the speculated wardrobe allowances (which was not part of the paper’s investigation), each representative will get another N14.5m in lieu of accommodation, vehicle and furniture while each senator is entitled to the sum of N16.5m. All of this, in my opinion, amounts to an assault catalysts for the widespread exclamation of poverty and lack of opportunity in the land. While civil servants are unpaid with all its attendant chain effects on people in many of our states, it is scandalous that the perks of office of one legislator are huge enough to feed a small village when all are added together. This will also account for the desperation with which people gun for political offices in Nigeria. Given the considerable remuneration of political office holders, a number of our people now consider politics as a profession and are willing to do anything to attain such ambitions. We will however miss this point to imagine that this extravagance is limited to the National Assembly. The truth is that other categories of public office holders earn enough to compete with entrepreneurs and investors except that the former bring nothing to the table. This is evident in the fact that the excuse of many governors for owing several months of salary arrears to civil servants and gratuities to pensioners is the drop in federal allocation. Sixteen years after return to civil rule, a majority of our states have no creative ideas on how to reposition their economies from their rent-seeking nature to a productive one. Yet, the drop in federal allocation does not stop them from flying private jets and playing Santa Claus all year round. Having said all of this however, one should borrow from the Yoruba expression that even when one is crying, one should see clearly. I should clarify that in spite of the justification of the disgust of Nigerians at the earnings of legislators, which they have hidden from public glare over the years, politicians do not fix their salaries and allowances. The responsibility for this is given to the Revenue Mobilisation Allocation and Fiscal Commission which was created by paragraph 32 of Part I of the Third Schedule to the 1999 Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria. Sections 84 and 125 of the constitution specifically empower the RMAFC to determine the remuneration of political office holders emphasising that neither the National Assembly nor the state Houses of Assembly can go beyond what the commission recommends. While venting our anger on politicians, we will also need to request that the RMAFC presents to Nigerians the parameters it uses in prescribing these humongous allowances especially at this very austere period when the country is manifestly poor, broke and almost bankrupt. When the revenue has continued to dwindle as a result of the single product economy that we have and when hopes for an improvement seem far away. This is not to talk about the $60bn local and external debts and the N2.4trn with which we have serviced those debts in the past four years. How does this commission justify this dangerous and unsustainable benevolence in the face of the lack that the majority faces? President Muhammadu Buhari who, along with the All Progressives Congress (whose members have also benefited from this criminal wage for years) promised that things would change in Nigeria must move fast to end this rape of the people and restore sanity to the country before it explodes. No serious nation, intent on sustainable development, spends the bulk of its public finances to maintain the prodigious taste of the upper echelons in government. Buhari’s anti- corruption and frugal mantra will remain mere ideological expressions without blocking all the leakages which deplete our resources and make politics look like the only business for which living could be pleasant in Nigeria. |
Politics / Re: Why We Endorse Bukola / Fayose Ticket For 2019 by OJtOp2(m): 11:44pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
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Politics / Re: I Will Pay Osun Workers Before 30 June - Aregbesola by OJtOp2(m): 11:13pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
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Politics / I Will Pay Osun Workers Before 30 June - Aregbesola by OJtOp2(m): 11:04pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Osun State Governor, Mr. Rauf Aregbesola, has promised to pay workers in the state their salaries before the end of this month. The governor made the promise in a statement issued in Osogbo on Sunday by his media aide, Mr. Semiu Okanlawon. Most workers are being owed seven months’ salaries. But the statement was silent on whether the governor would pay the backlog or he would pay part of the salaries. The statement read in part, “Before the end of June, workers would be paid their salaries.” The governor stated that he had a great dream for the state and that was why he was in a hurry to begin many programmes which had earned him applause even outside the country. He added, “The dream has not gone awry and it is a clear vision that Osun must be on its feet, self-reliant and be a reference point in Nigeria. The race to ensure development within the first term of Aregbesola was informed by the fear of what is happening now. “Aregbesola wanted an Osun State that is self- reliant. That Osun State, almost two decades after its creation, could not boast of tax-paying companies speak volume about the magnitude of the works that awaited the Aregbesola administration. “But he did not shy away from this task of industrialisation. Within his first term, his government had caused investors to bring up companies, such as the Omoluabi Garment Factory, Osogbo and Adulawo/RLG Technology Company in Ilesa. “Just last month, a leading telephone line company, Airtel, came to establish partnership with the Adulawo/RLG Company. These are aside the various agro-allied companies which have benefited from the growth schemes of the Aregbesola administration throughout the state. “The government has also commenced aggressive drive for the development of the solid mineral sector with the signing of a Memorandum of Understanding with an Australian mining firm, Andalusia Mining Industry. “It was in the same vein that the idea of an airport for aircraft maintenance was conceived. “Only a lazy administration would accept the tag of Osun State as a ‘civil servant’ state as excuse for not developing initiatives for industrialisation. “To accept that our state must continue to survive on the meagre inflow through what goes to the civil servants alone is to accept that we would continue to depend on external forces for our survival.”
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Politics / BU: Find The Rhythm by OJtOp2(m): 6:17pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
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Romance / One Phone Call, Two Listeners: Jealous Lovers’ New Craze For Phone Hacking by OJtOp2(m): 4:07pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Thirty-one-year-old Juliet Arinze has noticed an inexplicable coldness from her husband, Victor, for the last two months and made attempts to find out what the trouble was but all she has got is “nothing.” Victor, who works with an oil servicing company in Port Harcourt, Rivers State, is always away from home. “The two weeks on, two weeks off rotational shift system they do is not really the problem. The problem is that lately, anytime he comes home, he is distant,” Juliet told our correspondent. “Money keeps coming, but it is like my husband is slipping away from my hands everyday and I don’t know why.” But Juliet said she did not fold her arms. She resorted to investigating the activities of her husband through his cell phone anytime he was at home. Her findings further confirmed her greatest fear. She said, “There is no doubt my husband is having an affair. The problem is that the last message I read on his phone shows the lady already has a baby for him. “He doesn’t even bother deleting her messages anymore! In the exchanges they had, he was asking about how a baby was doing and the woman replied ‘we both miss you.’ My husband has continued to tell me that there is no problem so, I don’t want to push him away by accusing him without evidence.” Juliet and Victor got married in 2008 and have three children. They have both been given pseudo names in this report. Juliet, who volunteered to tell her story on the condition that her name and that of her husband be concealed, contacted our correspondent later and confirmed that indeed, her husband had a love-child. How did she do it? From a booklet of phone codes which she bought in traffic in Port Harcourt, she learnt she could listen to phone calls made on her husband’s phone. She could not resist the temptation. “From the booklet, I learnt I could monitor his calls through call divert but there is no way he won’t know. A friend later introduced me to an IT expert who installed something on my phone. “Now, anytime his phone rings, mine vibrates and I monitor his calls. I nearly died when I learnt from his calls that he already had a six-month-old baby with this lady in question.” Juliet said she had decided to take her findings to her pastor to resolve the issue. Technology has advanced and while hackers continue to infiltrate systems across the world for money, lovers, husbands and wives on the other hand, are resorting to tapping and hacking mobile devices to catch their unfaithful partners. Like Juliet, Mr. Peter Ekundayo, sought help from technology when he suspected that his wife, Funmi, was having an affair. After a short lesson from an IT expert, Ekundayo activated a call monitoring feature on his wife’s phone and caught her red-handed while discussing a rendezvous plan in a hotel with a neighbour she was having an affair with. Ekundayo, who approached the Customary Court, Ojo, Lagos, for the dissolution of his marriage, told the court that he wanted to take his own life when he heard the discussion his wife had with a neighbour she was allegedly cavorting with at their Iyana- Ishashi home in Ojo area of Lagos. While on the trail of the so-called IT experts who make a living out of assisting people to monitor their lovers, our correspondent visited the Computer Village in Ikeja, Lagos, the centre of all things technology in Lagos, to find out that this trend has become even more common than many would think. According to Chuks, one of the young men our correspondent spoke with, who combines phone repair with selling cheat codes at the Computer Village, it is an open secret people are not likely to share willingly. “If you come here and ask for a code that would enable you to listen to someone’s phone calls, it is either we give you the code for call divert or other codes that don’t work. But if you can get someone to trust you and you pay well, then it is no problem, we do it a lot. We have IT boys whom we pay here to do it for us since all of us do not have the expertise,” he said. Chuks volunteered to take our correspondent to one of such experts, a graduate of Economics who said he only learnt about programming when he could not get a job. Of course, he refused to have his name published. “Don’t be deceived by those who tell you about one code or another that could let one listen to another person’s calls. Most of them are frauds, you need experts like us to do the job. I can do it for you if you have someone you want to monitor,” he boasted. The ‘expert,’ however, did not forget to chip in an advice, “My brother, it is not worth it though. If a woman cheats on you, cheat on her in return; tit for tat.” Asked if he knew whether it was possible to hack and read the text messages on someone else’s phone, he said he has not seen such thing before. For his services, this ‘expert’ said he would charge N10,000. But Chuks later told our correspondent he could get it done at a cheaper rate. ‘More harm than good’ The issue of hacking of phone, according to experts, is a symptom of a larger problem – the breakdown of the fabric of trust which is supposed to hold together every form of relationship, whether platonic or romantic. Three things are responsible for this trend; lack of trust, lack of openness and desperation. When lack of trust builds up in a relationship, at a certain stage, it leads to desperation. “There is more distrust than in the past now, simply because technology makes it so easy for people to keep secrets. In the past, you could not speak with a girl without her father knowing. Now, you chat with her through text messaging even beside her father. But we cannot blame technology because it is like a sword, it can help and harm. “I would not think twice about hacking my husband’s phone if I strongly suspect he is lying and cheating on me in a way that could destroy our home,” Opeyemi Aluko told our correspondent, when asked if she would consider such an action. Even though Aluko explained that her husband of four years does not cheat, her opinion was that “you cannot put anything past men. Men would always be men.” Thirty-two-year-old Seyi Adamolekun, a laundromat operator, said she once considered monitoring her husband’s calls in their second year of marriage. “I kept seeing different messages from other women on his phone while he assured me he had nothing to do with them. We started having problems when I complained to his parents and they supported him, saying I was making a mountain out of a molehill. “I was desperate and needed evidence to show that I was not just being paranoid. But a friend advised against it. Looking back now, I’m glad I did not take that step. Maybe we won’t be together today. We are fine now.” A young man, Patrick Nelson explained that even though he could monitor his partner’s calls, he would not do it out of jealousy. “I am not married yet but I know I am not a cheat. If it happens that I have a strong suspicion that my partner is cheating, I would monitor her calls just to get evidence to chase her away. “A cheating woman can poison you. I would do it for my own safety, not because of mere jealousy.” Infidelity and ‘celeb’ marriages Another marriage counsellor, Mrs. Sade Toyin-Kehinde, told our correspondent that trust is flying out of the window in marriages in the society because issues are handled in “wishy-washy manner.” Having expressed also that there is far more mistrust in marriages nowadays than in the past, Toyin-Kehinde said secrets always destroy marriages and relationships. Accusation and counter-accusations of infidelity by celebrity couples and individuals, especially in the entertainment industry in the last five years, highlight the issue of mistrust and accusations of infidelity which are upending many marriages in the country. The reason for the short shelf-life of celebrity marriages in Nigeria seems to revolve around one single theme, infidelity and mistrust. Section 7 of the Cyber Crime Law 2013, states, “Any person, who intentionally and without authorisation or in excess of authority, intercepts by technical means, transmissions of non- public computer data, content data or traffic data, including electromagnetic emissions or signals from a computer, computer system or network carrying or emitting signals, to or from a computer, computer system or connected system or network; commits an offence and liable on conviction to imprisonment for a term of not less than two years or to a fine of not less than N5,000,000.00 or to both fine and imprisonment.” |
Culture / The Supreme Court Affirms Alhaji Ado Ibrahim As The Ohinoyi Of Ebira by OJtOp2(m): 7:47pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
The Supreme Court on Friday affirmed Alhaji Ado Ibrahim as the Ohinoyi of Ebiraland of Kogi State. Ibrahim was appointed the paramount ruler of Ebrialand by the then Military Administrator of Kogi State, Col. Bzigu Afakirya, on June 2, 1997, but a suit challenging his appointment was instituted before the Kogi State High Court on March 6, 1998. Ibrahim appealed to the Supreme Court after he was ordered to be deposed by the concurrent judgments of both the Kogi State High Court where the matter started and subsequently the Jos Division of the Court of Appeal. But the Justice Ibrahim Muhammad-led five man panel of the Supreme Court on Friday struck out the suit on the grounds that the Kogi State High Court lacked the jurisdiction to entertain the suit because it (the suit) was caught by “statute of limitation.” Justice John Okoro who delivered the lead judgment of the apex court held that the Kogi State High Court lacked jurisdiction to entertain the suit since the plaintiffs, some of whom are now dead, failed to institute it within three months of Ibrahim’s appointment. Justice Okoro held, “Having appointed the appellant (Ibrahim) on June 2, 1997 and the 1st to 4th respondents becoming aggrieved of the said appointment, their cause of action arose with effect from June 2, 1997. “Section 2(a) of the Public Officers Protection Act states that such an action, prosecution or proceeding ‘shall not lie or be instituted unless it is commenced within three months after the act, neglect or default complained of …’ “The effect of the Public Officers Protection Act like any other statutes of limitation is to deprive the court of jurisdiction to entertain an action filed outside the time prescribed in the statute. “The first to fourth respondents did not file their suit until March 6, 1998, clearly about nine months after their cause of action arose. “That action, in my estimation, ought to have been filed not later than 2nd September, 1997. “Let me state again for the umpteenth time that where a law prescribes a period for instituting an action, proceedings cannot be instituted after that period.” The apex court ruled that the Kogi State High Court, having been robbed of the jurisdiction to entertain the suit, “in the same vein, the lower court (Court of Appeal) had no jurisdiction to hear and determine the appeal arising from a judgment generated from the High Court which had no jurisdiction to entertain same.” Justice Okoro then held, “Accordingly, both the judgment of the High Court of Kogi State delivered on April 3, 2006 and that of the court below (Court of Appeal) delivered on January 12, 2009, are hereby set aside.” Respondents in the appeal are, Alhaji Maigida Lawal, Alhaji Isa Omolori, Mr. Idris Seriki, Mr. Nwaha Sanni, Military Administrator of Kogi State and the Attorney-General Federation. |
Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs Brazil (2 - 4) U-20 World Cup On June 1st 2015 by OJtOp2(m): 2:43am On Jun 01, 2015 |
Watch on GTV, if you have Free to Air! |
Politics / Re: President Buhari's Speech Criticised! by OJtOp2(m): 10:05pm On May 29, 2015 |
Tocheagle:The truth be told, his speech should have been more specific and motivating than statement or speech of promises without specific frame of ACTIONs. We owe him every second of his administration to criticise his speeches and actions, decisions and policies. |
Politics / President Buhari's Speech Criticised! by OJtOp2(m): 9:26pm On May 29, 2015 |
As Nigerians look forward to a new dawn in the administration of their newly sworn President, Muhammadu Buhari, a lawyer has picked holes in the first speech delivered by Mr. President. He wrote on Sahara Reporters. Article Highlights – The President has not addressed the real issues affecting our lives in Nigeria – It would seem that the President is still on the soap box, whereby promises and promises and intentions, are the order – Buhari would have outlined his main policy direction. But alas, that has not happened today. Read below: “I have read the Inaugural Speech of the President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, Major-General Muhammadu Buhari (Rtd.), delivered immediately after his swearing in. It is gratifying that General Buhari has vowed to tackle the rot in the power sector, even though he did not give any direction on how to do that. By and large, it is my view that the President has not addressed the real issues affecting our lives in Nigeria. It would seem that the President is still on the soap box, whereby promises and promises and intentions, are the order. He is the President of Nigeria now and my expectation was that since March 28, 2015, when he won the election, when he received the certificate of return from INEC, when he got assurances from Dr. Goodluck Jonathan, that his election would not be contested, General Buhari would have outlined his main policy direction. But alas, that has not happened today. For instance, the President did not say anything on his foreign policy directive, on issues relating to global warming and climate change, the violence in the Middle East and the general global economic downturn. Also, the President was silent on the mode of tackling corruption, which indeed has been the main thrust of his electioneering campaigns; he was silent on the collapsing aviation sector, he kept mute on the unpaid salaries of millions of workers across the land, the huge debts that the Jonathan administration has bequeathed to him and indeed the main means of generating revenue, to run his government, apart from oil. General Buhari gave no hint on the mode of reform of the judicial system and the administration of justice generally, the expected policy statement on NNPC did not come, and even the Boko Haram insurgency, to which the President devoted most of his speech, ended up in a policy disaster, of cause after effect; in that the President will only know the cause, origin and perspectives of the criminal organization, only after he has succeeded in killing them all. In all, the Inaugural Speech became another campaign promise, a general rendition of statements of intention, without action. It was too vague and illusory, like a speech being delivered by a novice in power. This is the President who has ruled this country as a Head of State, through a coup detat in 1983, and one that has sought to rule this nation since 2003, so he had all the time in the world, to have mapped out his cause of action and strategies. This is surely not the speech expected from our GMB. In the coming days however, we expect more concrete reforms and ACTION”. God bless Nigeria. EBUN-OLU ADEGBORUWA, ESQ. |
Politics / Re: How Would You Rate President Goodluck Jonathan? by OJtOp2(m): 9:20pm On May 28, 2015 |
Let's mention area of rating and the rating.
In Agriculture I give him 8/10.
In Security I give 2/10.
In Education I give 4/10.
In Transportation I give 6/10.
In Power (Electricity) I give 4/10. |
Politics / How Would You Rate President Goodluck Jonathan? by OJtOp2(m): 8:57pm On May 28, 2015 |
President Goodluck tenure or administration ends today! How would you rate him? Between 1-10! In Health, Power, Agriculture, Job creation, Policies, Education, International relation, Transportation/Aviation, Investment/Business, Economy, e.t.c |
Sports / Re: Carlo Ancelloti Has Been Sacked by OJtOp2(m): 8:29pm On May 25, 2015 |
Carlo Ancelotti has been sacked as manager of Real Madrid after two seasons in charge of the Spanish club. The Italian, 55, led Real to victory in the Spanish Cup before claiming the club's 10th European Cup last season. But this year they were knocked out by Juventus in the Champions League semi-finals, while Barcelona won La Liga. Ancelotti's side finished second in Spain's top flight, two points behind Barca, who have reached the Spanish Cup and Champions League finals. Club president Florentino Perez told a news conference it had "not been an easy decision" before thanking Ancelotti and adding that a new manager would be appointed "in the coming week". Napoli boss Rafael Benitez has emerged as a contender for the role, while German newspaper Bild claims Jurgen Klopp, who will step down as Borussia Dortmund manager at the end of the season, will take a six-month break from football. Real beat city rivals Atletico Madrid 4-1 after extra time in the Champions League final in June 2014 to claim 'La Decima' - their 10th victory in Europe's most prestigious club competition. It was Ancelotti's third Champions League title as a manager - he also won it twice with AC Milan, in 2003 and 2007 - but he leaves Madrid having failed to claim the Spanish title since joining from Paris St-Germain in July 2013. The former Chelsea boss, whose contract was due to run until the end of next season, also won the Club World Cup in December before Real were knocked out of the Copa del Rey by Atletico in January. In an interview with Italian newspaper Il Giornale published on Monday morning, before his departure was announced, Ancelotti said he would take a year off and have back surgery if he left Real. "I must have a back operation because of spinal stenosis that for some time creates a tingle in my hands," he said. "I don't know how long the period of recovery will be," he added. "I can assure you that I've had plenty of offers from Italy, England, Germany. I'm sure they will not be lacking from here until next year." An inevitable but unpopular decision? Spanish football expert Andy West: "In one sense, Ancelotti's departure was inevitable because all-powerful Real president Florentino Perez appears to have taken the decision a while ago. "Even in mid-March, Perez would only assert that Ancelotti would be in charge for the next few 'days and weeks', and from that moment it seemed certain the Italian's fate rested on his team's ability to win either the Champions League or La Liga. "With both those trophies escaping Real's grasp, Monday's news is no surprise. But the stubborn Perez has been forced to withstand an unexpectedly strong degree of public and private pressure because Ancelotti remained highly popular to the end. "His last pre-game news conference on Friday ended with the media giving him a standing ovation, which was subsequently repeated by fans before Saturday's game against Getafe at the Bernabeu. "Then several players voiced their support for the coach, most notably Cristiano Ronaldo and James Rodriguez. "But Perez ignored all of them, and now faces a tough task in placating those within and outside his organisation who wanted to keep Ancelotti by appointing a suitable replacement. And the early signs are that Rafa Benitez would receive little more than a lukewarm reception."
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Sports / Carlo Ancelloti Has Been Sacked by OJtOp2(m): 6:57pm On May 25, 2015 |
Former Chelsea coach was sacked moments ago. He led Real Madrid to Champions League victory last season but could go pass Semis this season. |
Religion / Is That Why You're Going Early To Church Today? by OJtOp2(m): 1:38am On May 24, 2015 |
Someone has to go to church early today in order to seat beside the socket before someone else does. Is that why you're going early too? |
Religion / What Are Your Favourite Bible Promises? by OJtOp2(m): 6:58am On May 17, 2015 |
What are your favourite Bible promises? The Bible is greatly loaded with promises, some Christians hold some more important than others, probably the Doctrine of the Church they worship. So, what are your favourite Bible promises? Reply with your answer! #Bible Mine are - Ps 16:6 and it reads; The lines are fallen on to me on pleasant places; yea, I have a goodly heritage. John 8:29, reads; And he that sent me is with me: the Father hath not left me alone; for I do always those things that please him. |
Romance / Can You Marry Your Late Friend's Spouse? by OJtOp2(m): 11:01pm On Apr 25, 2015 |
The loss of a friend who just got married could be very painful, to say the least. But sometimes, death, the ultimate price everyone pays in life, could come at a time when no one expects it. If they were not yet married when their best friends died, I am asking Nairalanders whether they could marry their late pals’ spouse? |
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