Celebrities › Re: Big Sheff Weight Loss Transformation (Photos) by Ojuri20: 9:58am On May 13, 2020 |
Harbeeorlar: So where did all the big breasts went to? Check it very well, it's still there |
Forum Games › Re: Nairaland Crossword Quiz 2 by Ojuri20: 11:33pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Goalnaldo: I. Ishilove (my personal person) 3. Andy Ruiz 4. Shibaraba 6. Afonjas 13. Explorers 14. Mannabbqgrillz 15. Seventeen ( rule seventeen) 17. Electrolyte 18. Autojosh 20. Moderator 21. FTC. 22. BMC Number 16 is Sarrki |
Romance › Re: My View On Ubunja’s Miseducation Piece: Chosen by Ojuri20: 7:44pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
ubunja: Lording123 anyone can be the Prize if they wait to be chosen. That piece is written from a male point of view and for male empowerment that's why I pushed that men are the Prize.
But clearly either gender can be the Prize as I admitted when I said "The one who loves LESS is the Prize". This can be either gender. If one goes through the writeup itself it's clear women can also use the principles to their own advantage. And one or two women in the comments realized that:
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Men have been raised to believe they must be hunters, much to their injury. Women suffer less in love because waiting to be chosen is just one of a couple of strategies they have up their sleeve.
The other additional strategies being that they have a Plan B man, ALWAYS waiting in the Friendzone for emergency. While men have no Plan B girl.
Yet another strategy being that women distribute their needs among multiple men. While a man relies on his one woman for love, sex, support etc, a woman has many men: one man for support, another for sex, another for love, etc. At the end, losing one man doesn't pain them as much as it pains a man to lose a woman. I have a writeup on that coming up January 2020.
Women are the Masters Of The Game, the Ultimate Players. To learn the Game, study and emulate what women do. But don't ask for their advice directly cause they'll mislead you. Just do what they do. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Women are not too different from men. Although not straightforward, they are also like men in many aspects. Give a man too much love he'll also abuse you. How many times have we marvelled why some guy mistreats his girl when his girl worships the very ground he walks on. And how many times have we wished to be the guy. But we can't cause that guy was simply Chosen. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
I agree with your conclusion. Parents need to raise their kids right, to stop being used. But if everyone knew the Game then the Game will cease to exist. Actually in the future almost everyone will know the game and things will be straightforward once and for all.
Thanks for such a nice analysis of that Chosen Miseducation.
For anyone who wants to read it here's the link: https://www.nairaland.com/5520205/ubunjas-miseducation-chosen
And here's the write up that inspired the Chosen Miseducation: https://www.nairaland.com/5251159/ubunjas-miseducation-choosing-girl
Peace. I do love your posts but it's always too long. Please consider a lazy reader like me na. |
Family › Re: Help, My Husband Is Causing Me Pain by Ojuri20: 2:08pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Damilolacoker: Hello everyone I'm 24 years old and I have been married for three years. last year we had our first baby . Prior to our wedding, I and my husband decided I'll be allowed to work once our baby is old enough to attend day Care. Now our daughter is almost 2 years and he has refused to let me work. We've had countless arguments about this and it always ends with him saying women who work are not always submissive. I cannot be a full house wife , I am educated and cannot sit at home all say.
He recently told my parents I was being rude to him and they're all saying I should do whatever my husband wants. I love him but on this issue, I refuse to agree with him.
The other part here is he doesn't like me correcting our daughter. She's almost 2 and it irritates him whenever I try to potty train her or scold her. He insists I go to check up on Her at school during break hours. I understand that she's quite young but as her mother, I want the best for her.
Now he's changed towards me, he doesn't care or pamper me like he used to , sometimes he refuses to eat at home and when I try to speak with him, he's always very cold. Please help me, I don't know what to do anymore. Since you're still young I'll advise you not to work for now. Give birth to all the babies you and hubby planned to have before age 30 while doing this be saving up some money by increasing your financial demand in order for you to be able to start business (persuade hubby to assist you withsome too? with by the time you're through with child-bearing. Then you'll be able to spend enough time with your family and be able to train and monitor your kids properly in which your hubby won't have other options than to support you. |
Health › Re: Lump In The Chest- Graphics Pix Attached by Ojuri20: 10:39pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Odination: Surgery is good but not the ultimate removing the tumor, growth or whatsoever is in there doesn't guarantee it won't return again, we have seen cases of tumor, lump, growth coming back after surgery, why not deal with the root of the matter by fighting and activate those dormant cells in the body that accumulates to form tumor, lump etc, which is what stc30 does. Mind u @op wen this matter is not given speedy attention the lump might become cancerous. With jus half the money for surgery u can get more than 2packs of stc30 to tackle this issue once and for all. WhatsApp me : 08068136558 for more info Surgery is the best option for him now. |
Health › Re: Lump In The Chest- Graphics Pix Attached by Ojuri20: 8:05pm On Dec 17, 2019*. Modified: 11:10pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
dobaduro: Please Medical personnel in the house, I will need your help. A friend has this lump in the chest close to the neck, he has gone for different test. He was later asked to do CT scan which he did and they said it is Tumor.
The issue now is the guy is so scared of going for the operation, I want to know first the likely cost of such operations, any side effect, any alternative to the operations. Any suggestion is welcomed.
Pls don't tell me that this is not hospital, we have exhausted our knowledge that's why I'm asking for suggestions from people that might have seen such cases and how it was handled.
Please I need your help on this. There is nothing to be scared of, 500g of tumor was removed from my right breast and I was discharged that same day, went to the hospital after two weeks to remove the bandage. It's simplest surgery one can undergo. Let him budget a maximum of 150k (general hospital). |
Sports › Re: Anthony Joshua Vs Andy Ruiz Jr. II - Rematch (Live Updates) by Ojuri20: 11:18pm On Dec 07, 2019 |
Macsjebs: Seun, oya come and take attendance, like all Nairalanders are present here today... SECONDED |
Politics › Re: DSS: We Didn’t Arrest Sowore In Court — His Supporters Were Only Acting by Ojuri20: 10:18pm On Dec 07, 2019*. Modified: 3:32am On Dec 08, 2019 |
GeoAfrikana: Lalasticlala, other side of the story.
Emotions and sentiments apart;
First, sincerely when I watched the video yesterday I was confused. I didn't see any persona that looked like a DSS officer. I've once had an 'encounter' with DSS officers. They escorted the corpse of a federal icon from Abuja to our village for burial. They arrived early in the night, witnessed the burial, shot guns in the air and drove off.
It was an intimidating experience. They were so organised and gallant. Their men were heavily built and their guns were sophisticated. No one in that video is similar to the typical DSS officer in my imagination.
Secondly, the word REVOLUTION that Sowore used is enough crime against him. I'm almost certain that if someone tried a tenth of such in the US he would be corpse in less than a month. Or at least be undead in Guantanamo.
Note: I'm opened to objective counter-arguments. If you rationally, objectively and politely debate my points then I'll listen to you. I'm willing to engage in intellectual debates.
But if all you have is insults and curses then expect no response from me.
Thanks for reading. Same here, the video is on my phone. I've been watching it over ond over again maybe I can sight any dss personal but none yet. |
Sports › Re: Anthony Joshua Vs Andy Ruiz Jr. II - Rematch (Live Updates) by Ojuri20: 10:14pm On Dec 07, 2019 |
Lordjb: see my signature below for link Seen |
Sports › Re: Anthony Joshua Vs Andy Ruiz Jr. II - Rematch (Live Updates) by Ojuri20: 10:13pm On Dec 07, 2019 |
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The fat Taco is going down. This space is too much na, abeg shift small for me |
Politics › Re: We Attacked Rotimi Amaechi In Spain - IPOB Shares Video by Ojuri20: 9:23pm On Dec 06, 2019 |
sapele914: Can't stop laughing, very funny . When your own moniker ends with the reverse of 419 nko, what do you expect?  |
Celebrities › Re: "I Graduated With A 4.37 CGPA" - Kizz Daniel Reveals by Ojuri20: 8:36pm On Dec 06, 2019 |
ademidedavid: though am not known to you but am proud of whom I am today........ And your entire family can never get to where I am today #grateful heart You would have made a lot of sense assuming you didn't involve his family in your comment. Obviously he viewed your first comment from a negative perceptive which I didn't. Bro just learn to ignore some people/comments here. ademidedavid: my brother, let me know your qualification please Kindly help me too if you can. I'm graduate of one of the federal University in Nigeria, I studied Demography and Social Statistics with 3.98 CGPA. I'm sorry for disturbing you with my mention. |
Sports › Re: DSTV Not Broadcasting Anthony Joshua Vs Andy Ruiz Rematch by Ojuri20: 3:27pm On Dec 06, 2019 |
[quote author= post=84679951]Lordjb[/quote]That moniker cancelling your comments is your monitoring spirit, God has reveal him to you. Lordjb pls help us with the link |
Romance › Re: What Are The Disadvantages Of Dating You? by Ojuri20: 11:32pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
theButterfly: 1. That means you're impatient and intolerant. 2. That means you can rape. 3. That means you can cheat. 4. That means you're vindictive.
Oga, please remain single. Seconded |
Family › Re: Type Your Christmas Wish Here, You Might Get Lucky. by Ojuri20: 10:58pm On Dec 05, 2019*. Modified: 11:28pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
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Health › Re: Caring For Yourself And Baby As a First Time Mum by Ojuri20: 7:32pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
Zizza: I really needed this right now. Can't wait to meet my bundle of joy  Wow, same here. Congratulations to us in advance. |
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TV/Movies › Re: Bbnaija: See How Nigerians Voted Their Favorite Housemates (photos) by Ojuri20: 10:07pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
My Seyi and my poor Mike, I'm happy for you guys |
Celebrities › Re: Lil Kesh Kisses Priscilla Ajoke Ojo, Iyabo Ojo's Daughter, Sparks Dating Rumors by Ojuri20: 9:13pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
They're siblings |
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Romance › Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by Ojuri20: 8:34am On Jul 13, 2019*. Modified: 11:29pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
konkonbilo: yes You are not on WhatsApp. I've checked your Instagram page. |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Shell Nigeria (SPDC) Graduate Trainee Recruitment, 2019 by Ojuri20: 9:02am On Jul 12, 2019 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Shell Nigeria (SPDC) Graduate Trainee Recruitment, 2019 by Ojuri20: 9:08pm On Jul 11, 2019 |
Chukwu94: your access code is your email account and password Can't access it, the response is access code error |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Shell Nigeria (SPDC) Graduate Trainee Recruitment, 2019 by Ojuri20: 4:41pm On Jul 11, 2019 |
Chukwu94: thank you bro Hello, pls how can I get my access code |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Shell Nigeria (SPDC) Graduate Trainee Recruitment, 2019 by Ojuri20: 12:25pm On Jul 11, 2019 |
Enireqx20: Really? And you feel the questions will be the same for everyone? Hi, pls how can I get the access code? |
Celebrities › Re: Judge Throws Out Ubi Franklin & Lilian Esoro's Divorce Suit - SDK by Ojuri20: 11:59am On Jul 09, 2019 |
Lols |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija: Seyi Awolowo Advertised For MTN (Photo) by Ojuri20: 10:51am On Jul 08, 2019*. Modified: 3:15am On Sep 24, 2019 |
[quote author=Godoverevery post=80051470]the show is only meant for retards.......I stop watching way back Kelvin set .....when it was still BBA back then.....I even went as far as having Kelvin style of hair cut .....but one day while watching my uncle then ask me what the show was all about and I explained......he gave me this stupid look after my explanation......he asked what have I personally gained ever since I have been watching.....that question was the turning point for me because I couldn't point out one single thing. I don't have any issues with anyone watching ......but for me it was a total waste of time back then. |
Crime › Re: Nafeezat Abdul Suicide, 200 Level Student Of ABU Commits Suicide (Photos) by Ojuri20: 12:01pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
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Crime › Re: Nafeezat Abdul Suicide, 200 Level Student Of ABU Commits Suicide (Photos) by Ojuri20: 11:57am On Jul 07, 2019 |
Olorunnim: Why the fvck Would you have to commit suicide!! All the good things in life outweighs the bad by a Wide margin, If you have suicidal thoughts Just Talk to someone or listen to music your Favourite music. 'just talk to someone' easier said than done. Bro no one has a listening ear, I've been experiencing it for weeks now that alone is enough to give up on life. |
TV/Movies › Re: Biography: Avala Saidat Balogun & Daughter. The Single Mother In BBNaija House by Ojuri20: 12:16pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
I love her already |